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大陸新聞中心╱綜合報導 一首《廁所女神》讓出道6年的創作女歌手植村花菜爆紅，除了登上日本NHK紅白歌唱大賽，這首歌也已紅出日本，在大陸的微博和網路上瘋傳。大陸網友將其封為「2010年年度最感人歌曲」，因為歌曲中所表達的濃濃情感，讓許多80、90後的網友想到童年，也想到離鄉背井的心酸。 其實，植村花菜已默默在日本演藝圈中奮鬥6年，一曲自創、紀念奶奶的《廁所女神》，才讓她嚐到走紅滋味。這首長達10分鐘的歌曲中，述說的是她和奶奶一起生活的感人故事，包括奶奶為了哄她打掃廁所，就告訴她只要天天打掃，就可以像「廁所女神」一樣美麗。 不過，植村花菜就像其他的年輕人一樣，進入青春期後開始頂撞奶奶，也不再相信「廁所女神」，甚至拋下了奶奶去了大城市發展；最後，即使返鄉探視病重的奶奶，也是匆匆離去，沒有見到奶奶的最後一面。植村花菜發行專輯後，不僅征服日本人的耳朵，就連大陸網友都為之融化。 看著中文字幕，聽著植村花菜哽咽獻唱，就不難了解這首歌為何被稱作「每聽必哭」的原因。 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKkN-WrZwRc 這首歌曲傳上大陸微博和網站後，引發網友瘋狂點擊和轉載，並將它譽為2010年年度最感人歌曲。「人為什麼總要去傷害別人？總要錯失最重要的東西？」曲中濃厚的懊悔之情，讓不少80、90後的網友深受感動。有人說，自小也聽過大人說過不少類似「廁所女神」的善意謊言；也有人回想到自己離鄉背井的心酸，感嘆很想回家抱抱家人。

I am sorry that happened to you. You should not feel humiliated bcoz you did nothing wrong. Their upbringing/education had failed. They probably had done it to others. They are in fact feeling inferior and are trying to mask it by making others feel lesser. A happy, loving and confident individual would not do that. He/she would treat others with respect and kindness. Walking away is a smart thing at that moment. I had several experience of being abused verbally by strangers/members/staffs in a gym, retail outlet or by secondary students in public transportation. I would be very quiet. I would observe and take note of their physical appearance/height/weight/name tag (if any),the words/slur they used plus the time before I leave. Then I would call/email the respective authority(such as their school principal, MOE, Head Office, HR Dept) to report such cases. If it involves life threatening remarks, the police. My intention for doing this is because I respect the law and hope it would not happen to others. I also believe in karma. As in your case, you could contact the security of the mall and email the customer relation/pr depty or the center manager. They could look into it thru the CCTV. Based on their body language/behaviour, those guys could belong to a gang and CID would be very keen to look into that. When you are outnumbered, outsmart them.

Saw this from the internet. For me, all checked except No 5. hahahaha Forget asking your boyfriend how he feels about your future together — that conversation just freaks guys out! Instead, learn to read the signals. If you've noticed any of these telling behaviors, it's official — the guy thinks you're wifey material. 1. He wants to spend the holidays with you — wherever that takes him. If he's willing to forgo his childhood traditions and chill at your parents' place — or skip family time altogether and take a trip with you — that means he's been thinking about creating new traditions and memories with you. 2. He invites you to his best friend's wedding (or another special family or friend's occasion) — without being pushed. Watching a close buddy walk down the aisle is a momentous occasion. And he wouldn't want to share that with just any girl, especially since there are bound to be plenty of "So, are you two next?" comments. If your man invited you (and he seems psyched to have you there), chances are he foresees the possibility of you two walking down the aisle in the future. 3. He drops the phrase "our kids". (To gay couples, may change "our kids" to "our Home" etc.) Not to man-bash, but most guys have a hard time even thinking about starting a family until they meet the right girl. Saying something as seemingly minor as, "We wouldn't let our kids be that rude" means he's not only imagining it, he's expecting it to happen. And the thought doesn't send him running off to his man cave. 4. He's cried in front of you. Whether he’s shed tears while watching The Notebook or because his dog died, he feels like he can be vulnerable around you. Taking off his macho nothing-can-hurt-me armor shows that he’s not afraid of being himself. If he doesn't try to hide it or act embarrassed, that could mean he’s envisioning going through a lot of ups and downs with you by his side. And he wants to be sure you’re cool with seeing his not-so-manly moments. 5. He's suddenly very responsible about finances. Men tend to feel like they should be in a good place, money-wise before settling down with a woman. (Sure, it sounds old school, but it's true.) So if he seems more concerned with getting that promotion, contributing to his savings account, and opening a 401k, that's a sign he wants to be able to support someone in the near future (ahem, you).

my bf have all the above. :thumb: