btw, I hope everyone realize that at the end of the day everyone will lose their "handsome-ness", will get illnesses, diseases etc. When we all lose that "greatness" of physical appeal etc, that's the real test for our partner whether he loves us for whatever we are or because of our appearance. If he only love the appearance, some day he will leave us because the thing he's looking for is already disappeared. Everytime I remember this, I become less judgemental to person based on only his appearance.