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I started as a casual smoker during uni days. the first few cigarettes did nothing for me and i was just smoking for fun. but once in awhile, i lighted up during stressful or moody periods and felt that they help me to relax and i got high temporarily. when im into my first career, i started to smoke on a regular basis and became a full time smoker. before long, i got addicted and was smoking several sticks a day. all along i know that smoking is harmful, but i give in to addiction. i decided to cut down when i began to experience effects like running slower and having worse skin conditions. now im already three weeks without a single puff and psychologically i feel better and hope that i will have the discipline to quit. when and why did you start smoking? are you a ex-smoker or are thinking of quitting like me now? share your stories.

Calendar Guys (Singapore Series) ! A Singapore Blog dedicated to the entire production process of our calendar series - from the birth of the idea / concept, to the casting, photoshoot, actual production to the final Calendar ! and of course, not forgetting our hardworking guys behind the scene and the actual Models ! We will capture the joys and laughter, as well as the pains we have to go through (hopefully at the bare minimum) in order to get the completed calendar right into your loving hands ! And did I mention snapshots throughout the entire process too xoxo ? Our team comprises the following : * NoFrillsFactoryOutlet.com - Fuss free online blogshop for quality international men's wear at affordable prices * Style House - Established local model and talent management company * Aiden Yeoh, 225 Hectare Studio - Our renowned local photographer for the entire shoot * InnoTech Communications - Our top-notch quality and reliable printer NoFrillsFactoryOutlet.com and Style House will also be responsible for the solicitation of sponsorships, marketing as well as the distribution of the first calendar for 2012. Stay tuned as we plan ahead for our very first calendar from our Singapore series ! Have a great week ahead ! For more info, do check out our Calendar Guys Blog !

You may have the looks the build the body, or you may invest time and money improving your looks, and that will guarantee you numerous proposals and flings, but you will go home empty handed and lonely. The longer you are in the gay scene, the more guarded(jaded) you are, especially if you allow yourself to be affected by your past, the stories and experiences of others, and when you have suffered the change of heart, by someone you loved, gradually or the worse, suddenly But the true is that, whether you like it or not, life still has to go on. The wrong person can come at the right time The right person can come in at the wrong time. The right person may be just in front of you, but you just didn't value the person. When that person is gone one day, you still are looking for your LTR, without realising you have lost what you didn't value, or conditioned yourself thinking that there is no such things as love, especially in the gay scene. Looking for Love is not a catalouge window shopping ( And to hell with Sex and the City, it was a fxxking stupid series to begin with ) If you have your expectations, social or personal conditions before you can give what you think love is, coming from you, you will then be receiving from the other party, what you project and give out in the first place. If you still live in your fearful past, you too can miss out the beauty of the PRESENT what Life could have offered you. Actually the beauty of Life is that, it is very fair. You have being given many opportunities to experience many good things that wanted you see the lighter side of things. If can't force you it to experience it when you bottled up yourself with all your negative past and pain. Your own beliefs and your own self doubts, will only repel whatever goodness you could have experienced and gain. Life actually is very fair to all. Just because you are HIV postive, you are already 50plus, or a chub, it doesn't mean you deserve less to be loved. It is through you own self convictions that lead you to people and places that you never could dream of. This is the basic law of attraction. Meeting the next boyfriend or LTR, can be arranged by Life is a very strange way, in the most least expected obscure places. It can be a night visit to a sauna,in the chatroom, a cruishing ground, a visit to the museumn, or a night's jog, in somewhere some parts of this little island. You have to let go of the wordly rules, your fears, your past hurt, your anger,your distrust, and stop dwelling in your own self created vicious cycle you choose to live in. Its when all these have being slowly released- bit by bit for some people- then will new opprotunities come knocking at your door. The laws of the heart has it own language and laws that its is not understood by logic nor by the highest intellucts. Its beyond the mind, but felt, as the world of feelings and instinct is not unexplainable. It is a connection you make with the right person at the right time. Although the connection maybe weak at first, given time to heal and self acceptance, instead of being so hard about things, it will get stronger and stronger eventually. Thus everything is inline with the laws of synchronocity. Everythings has a timing, for things to ripen, mature and happen. There are two lines in my mind right now. In Shen Diao, the notoriously ruthless Li MoChou did saiy this famous line "Tian Xia Man Huang Jing, Nan De You Zhen Qing Lang" meaning - the whole world may be filled with Gold, but True Love, is even harder to find than Gold. And from the book/movie the Bridges of Madison County " Such certainities, exist once in a Life Time, in this Ambiguous Universe" Love does exist. It has being, all along, your choice, of how you could have realized it, and valued it. Love has no judgement. It is about patience, and thus therefore waits.

Oh god, please send that uncle to me. I haven't felt anyone whom once i do it i will keep wanting it. And I love old man, sad most of them cannot function very well at where it matters most! I would have jump right in.. or should I say let him jump right in..

haha ... u stay near him wah. he is my didi and I am sure he will be a very responsible chap when it comes to business. I am entrusting him with reselling my calendar amongst the setting up of a new blogshop As a friend, you should give him ur support Al

Hi everyone ! Juz got home We had a great day today (Sunday). Me, stylishvicky, brenddy, Someguyinsg, OMG and our dear DoingMoar (who was late) went for the PC show. Met our dear Gachi at the PC Show too I ended up buying a Seagate GoFlex 1.5TB USB 3.0 HDD. After that, we walked around Marina Sq before heading on to our hi tea at Merchant Court. There, we were joined by Charlie, luvshorts, alexbtm and daiEra The hi tea turned out to be fine I guess, though I must also agree that food quality has gone down but the group was fun And yeah I gave out the new PLUguide plus chocolate flavoured ESPs After that, we decided to go singing ! - me, Doingmoar, luvshorts, charlie, daiEra, brenddy - We went to 10 Dollar Club which turned out to be cheap and we sang from 7pm to 11.45pm ! After that, me, DoingMoar and daiEra went for supper and back home. Fun and tiring day Hope to arrange another outing soon xoxo (16 June to Ad Tech, 18 June casting, 20 June to JB)

yea, at queenstown baby pool~~~ so shiok!!!

ORD LO! :X

from what I gather after reading, 1. You are very superficial. Cos you feel that you are goodlooking and good bod.. So you assume that people will be into u 2. When u got rejected, you feel indignant and went on to harress him cos you feel that you are irresistable. 3. So what if he is from PRC ? When he has turned u down, u went on to harress him a few times, anyone else would have screamed. For me, I would ahve rudely shouted and said "Do you mind ?" 4. Obviously when u were fxxking wif him, he did not like it and juz decided to stop and walk out. Maybe you should reflect over what u did in the room ? lol I would be horrified myself if I were in his shoes. So think about how he felt when he got harressed by someone who stalked him thru and tickled him everywhere he went.

Hong Kang has changed owner. The new owner has taken up more space in the building and is renovating them now. Quite noisy during day time, but when they finish, it should be a more pleasant place with new facilities. Water Spa will be added. It seems the place will be renamed Jin (as in Gold) Hong Kang. Seems that more than 30 masseur/masseuse has left, some joining the manager who also left when management changed. However, luckily it seems all my favourite masseurs are still around (phew!! ). Tried a new masseur recently. He joined about 1.5 months ago. He asked to be addressed as Ah Jie (number 883). Cute stocky chub 24, 170, 80+. The foot massage I thought felt like a beginner, and the body massage was very strong. It was however, just strength and I think the technique needs polishing. He is straight and while tried to tease (probably for the tips), he does not actually touch the private part nor allow me to touch his private part directly (only through his pants - it felt big and was hard).

As above title, it's my first time encounter with people who is so direct in starting a sexual conversation to a total stranger whom both just met at public places. Maybe some guys here had met many such cases, but to me, it's really the first and shocking encounter. Incident goes like this, today evening, I was at this place whereby there is temple celebration going on, with a getai show which is about to be started. My main purpose of going there is just to watch the getai. I reach early and waited for a solid 2 hrs for the show. So thinking that I had already found a good spot to sit down, which is somehow quite far back at the corner with not much "fans" who are already hogging on all the good seats, I finally found a place to settle down to enjoy the show. This strange uncle who was sitting right in fornt of me was dozing off when I came, but later when he woke up and saw me, he started a friendly conversation, like am I alone, do i live nearby and do I enjoy watching getai sort of normal topics. So out of politeness, I reply all of his question with a friendly respond too. Then he start to move his chair next to me saying that the enviroment is too noisy making us can't chat properly. At tat moment, I just thought tat he is just a lonely uncle who is also waiting for the show to be started, hence finding someone to talk with, to past time. But his topics start to go out of normal. He first started telling me tat he got 4 wives, don know how many here in sg and how many at other country, which I can't listen properly at tat time due to the noise by the wayang show which is also starting at the other end. Then he continue saying tat he took some kind of medicine which makes his c..k very strong, big and the head red. Disprite his age now which is about 60++, he could still be solid hard. At this moment, I felt puzzled. why is he telling me all these??? Is he trying to sell those so called super medicine to me??? Is he a con man ??? And since he got so many wives, he should not be gay right? then the purpose of him telling me all these are ... ...??? All these question start popping in out my head at tat moment. Till later part, finally he say out something which I felt shocking. He told me that: "no doubths it is fun to have s.x with gals, but guys should do with guys also, so tat could prevent the male yang "qi" been absorbe by the female body, especially guys my age should not feel shy in such things, and must often have fun with another guy to keep oneself healthy till old age. Since we are fated to met, We could be close friends from now on and talk about such things, and will enlighten me if I'm feeling confused at times on such issue, all boys who are trained by him will get addicted and will sure return back to look for him for more." All of his above words, got my feeling into a fix... ... who is he... ... and what actually does he wants ? Know what, almost all those thing tat he mentioned, actually I did had some fatasy in my mind before during jo times. That I would met a mature guy who will say all these things to me and train me to be his slave... ... but of cos after cooling down, I do not want to be anyone slaves. it is just a fatasy to spice up my jo session. So upon hearing all these, somemore at such temple function, I feel so confused. Am I in a dream, or is it for real. Is it tat I had think too much of such things and now the gods had sent someone to come and punish me for such thoughts... ... or maybe, gods really send him to me to fulfill my desire... ... all these question are in my head while he's talking, and I just let him carry on. which lead to most of the things tat he say at later part, to be frank, I did not pay attention to it at all. He gave me his mobile number and ask me to arrange for a meet up next weekend, so tat he could prove to me of what he said is true. and I could even stay over at his place whereby his family would not question him much. I really do not know how to stop him, maybe I should at this point when taking down his number, so tat he would not paster me further. But I did not, one of the reason is, after listening to what he say, its arouse my dirty thoughts, telling me not to stop him, instead should engage together with him to enjoy the session. another reason is, I really do not know how to reject someone direct. No matter what I do or face in life, tat's just my character, I will not reject someone directly, but will waste time tring to hint, hint and hint. if the other party still can't get wat I mean, then will think of something to get myself out of the mess. Also at tat point of time, I was also worried if I were to reject him direct, what if, he really happens to be someone insane, and kick up a big fuss in public, how am I going to settle the whole issue. So I act patiently by listening to him, repearting over and over again on all those things that he had already said eariler. I try to shoew dis-interest at later part of the conversation when the getai show started, and try to look away from him, pretend to enjoy the songs, but he keep talking talking and talking, and keep asking me not to forget to call him. and ask for my number. This time, I rejected firmly to him. because I already felt distubed at tat moment. I told him NO! Cos I do not have the habit of giving someone my number whom I just met. Lucky he did not pester further. but if he really does, then I would have no choice but to give him a fake one. The getai show just got started, after waiting for hrs, But I already decided to bid farewell to it after hearing just 3 songs been sung, cause I could not take it anymore. I need to get out of tat place, get him off my back. So find an excuess saying that I'm going to the toilet. But, he tag along, saying he need to go too, and suggested to go to the MRT station toilet, I know what he wants there. If I'm not wrong, he will show his c..k to me inside the toilet and make me sink deeper into his cruising plot. But I simply told him that there is those mobile metal toilet by the side, and I insisted to use it. he followed behind, luckly those mobile toilet which was used for tentage could only allow 1 person to used per time. So no way he could unzip and display his "big" c..k to me. I quickly quenue in front of him. cause I already got my planning by then. The moment I step out, he would go in, then I would have the chance to fled. So I act according to my plan, and finally, manage to get rid of him. I dashed to the nearest bus-stop, deep in my heart, feeling very sad , cos I can't enjoy the getai anymore. but lucky the bus I wanted came just in time and I hop on to it and left all these strange encounter far far behind me. One thing I felt uncomfortable upon hearing is, he told me that we are fated to met, and could be happily together. once I tried one time with him, will sure get addicted cos he would shot right into my g-spot making me high, and the urge will stay inside me, making me want more of him, just like those guys who had done with him before. And he ensure to me tat he is clean, as he goes for medical checkup often and he do not sleep around. We will respect each other, no quarrels, when we are together, till old till he pass away, If I still alive but already old by then and not working, he would instruct his children to take care of me. ??? question marks all over my head uneasy feeling all over my body after hearing all these. Is it possible, I think... ... is he normal ? or ... .... Now back at home, thinking about what happened, maybe its my fault, cos if I do not show friendlness to him in the first place, then maybe such things would not had happened. I may had givan him the wrong impression tat I like him. to be honest, he is not my type. But tats the way I treat people. Whoever is nice and friendly to me, I would respond back the same way too. never thought tat this could lead to a misunderstanding... ... well, treat it a leasson learnt. On the other hand, dirty thoughts also gets people into trouble. be it st8, gay or Bi. Male or female. casue the other reason which I did not stop him from going further is due to this dirty thoughts I had in my mind. can't stop it from telling me not to stop him, keep wanting me to play along with him and enjoy the whole dirty talking session... .. outcome is, I give my getai show a miss, leaving a old man back there ... ... wonder who will be his next fated target.

Doing it with a PRC is already a big question mark, their hygiene standards are suspect. A PRC who's a psycho, now that takes the cake. Don't worry la. Many other guys out there.

Why did you dirty the baby pool? Please do it in the privacy of your bedroom!

Dear readers, I am going to share a shocking experience I had at Keybox.....dated 8 June 2011 evening. I was in the dark room and a guy claimed to be from Chong Qing of China, requested to go to the door room for "fun"...the process was like an experience and exposure of his sexuality. A weirdo whom love making was not responsive and trying/ pretend to like it. I am a presentable looking and have good build guy. I regetted for being unselective to have agreed to "bed" with this guy. He looked like in his mid-twenties and have a pair of dark eye-ring. He requested to stop the making and went out half way through the process. I was irritated by his sudden request thus purposely followed him and tickle him in the dark room area, hoping that we can befriend each other. I know he was irritated by my mischievous action. When we met at the jacuzzi area, I thought I could tickle him again, unexpectedly, he angrily reach his arm to 'strengle' my neck. I was horrified by his "violent" reaction and he yelled 'vugalrity' to me. That scence created an impression as if I was trying to 'rape' him since he yelled,"dunt touch me!" Dear readers, would you behave like 'him', when you are being pastered in Key Box??? Open for discussion.