Leaderboard

This is a video our church has made - *hugs

You have multiple questions and you are obviously confused with your life direction. I am not 40 and I shall not pretend to understand your concerns. Here's my response to your questions and I really do not intend to trivialise your worries. How come life like that? Why must I be gay of all things in life? - Life is filled with uncertainty, unfairness and if you like, "misfortunes". But it is how you make sense of your situation that makes you feel better, or worse. Gays have no future. - I dunno why you say that gays have no future. I am quite certain I have a future and I am actually glad that I need not be tied down with some of the life issues that a typical heterosexual man has to deal with. Ask any of our 40yo plus volunteers and they will tell you how life can be equally exciting and hopeful. Just wait to die from AIDs one day. - Unless you are practicing unprotected sex and your sex partner is HIV positive, there is no way you will be infected with HIV. Even if you are HIV positive, you can actually live a very long life. I have met guys in their 60s and they are HIV positive and leading a balanced life. In any case, you have a choice to remain HIV negative if you want to. I thought finding true love from the opposite sex is bad enough. Same sex even worst and more challenging. - It is more challenging but it is not worse. Ask any straight couples who are going through divorce and they will give you a different view. A relationship depends on how much you are prepared to invest in, have faith in and work hard on. All relationships need hard work. Hear too many stories about gay relationships. Men are born to stray and so are gays. - Straight people strayed too. You need to meet some of the gay couples who count their relationships in decades. They are like old couples, sometimes full of nonsense but they know they have learnt to live their lives together. How should I prepare myself for the next 20 odd years before I leave this world? - You have a good 20 years. And I am glad that you have actually used the word "Prepared". That means you are willing to work on something so you are not seeing things in all negativity. I wish I could share with you the mature men guide that we are preparing now but it is not ready for release yet. But you can join our program for Mature Men Project and you will get to meet people who are in their 40s, some well adjusted, some still learning and some opened up for the first time. Talk to some of them, and you will realise you are born gay because you given a chance to live a slightly different life.

Rough Cuts - Candidate Number 7 : Parker Lam Up first on our Rough Cuts random candidate footage, we have Candidate Number 7 : Parker Lam. We were lucky enough to be able to invite him for the audition when he returned to our sunny shores during term break. Casting day raw footage of him in casual wear : Forever looking good in swimwear. His well tanned skin tone from his rigorous training regime in USA could be seen on his well defined swimmer's bod : Profile : A graduate from Raffles Junior College and a national swimmer, the very single hunk was born in Hawaii to a Chinese father and Samoan-German mother. Incidentally, Parker was also the Winner of CLEO's 50 Most Eligible Bachelor 2010. He is also currently studying at the prestigious Stanford University in USA. His Best Feature : Lips Favourite Sports : Swimming His Vitals : * Age : 22 * Chest : 41" * Waist : 32" * Hip : 38" * Height : 1.85 m * Weight : 84 kg * Shoe Size : 11 (UK) * Eyes : Brown * Hair : Dark Brown * Race : Pan Asian * Shirt Size : Large * Collar : 16.5" Here's another artistic shot of Parker Lam : So did he make it to the final cut as one of the calendar models ? Stay tuned for more updates at the end of our Rough Cuts segment ! FOLLOW US ON OUR FANPAGE !

Audition Raw Footage : Part III The youngest candidate to ever come for audition at only 17 this year. Fine, stylish and lean young chap with a mix parentage. Interesting character with a teenage appeal. Will definitely keep him in view for modelling opportunities ! That's Jay Lo for you, deep in thought over the scores to give to candidates ! There was this interesting young candidate with nice freckles, a cheeky attitude and an overly quick response to questions which left quite an impression on me. When finally asked to put on casual wear to access his appeal in attire, he was too quick to respond with "Why, you shy ah ?" .... I was totally taken aback by his unabashed demeanour, but certainly someone worth looking out for lol. Me and Wee Ee having an animated discussion over the scores and preferences of who should appear on the calendar ! Stay tuned for Part IV and some raw snippets of our hunky candidates !

aiyo aiyo. u've been in the scene for so long liao, still dunno what he wants meh? Or u pretend pretend come here how lian only? LOL. He just wants you to fcuk his bergin arse hard. Treat it as charity loh. Can get good karma leh. 日行一善 you know?