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I met my husband through okcupid. It's quite popular in the US. Maybe not in Sg, but we do use match.com, tinder. I think Grindr, Jackd and hornet are more for hookups.. Then again I met my ex bf from Jackd too. Dating is hard, it requires 2 willing party at the right time to make it work. I'd say don't sweat the part in yearning to belong to someone. Sweat in the part of making yourself happy and content leading the life you wanna lead and eventually it will inspire someone like minded who want to share that lifestyle with you. Cheers!

There are plenty of couples who can accept eating out as long as the partner comes back home after wiping their mouth clean. As long as it was purely physical needs; like how you jack off using someone instead of your own hands. The deal breaker however is when they split their hearts and gave a part to more than one party

Well there's friends who know gay friends or just go out for social events. I'm sure you have a better chance if you put yourself out there. There's definitely groups of people who meet not for sex and I think you just need to spend some time finding them!

Chemistry doesn't happen by just chatting on an app. Meet and talk to him in person, if time just flies around his company, vice versay his to yours, then the spark is there. Sometimes, it's not rocket science, and if the feeling is right, it is not that complicated. If he becomes less receptive, then those are probably cues he is not that interested.

Holla people haha, I will reply to your pm's and replies within these few days. Have been really occupied with work related matters and some other minute detail which will probably be highlighted or mentioned in book 5. Thank you as always for the wait even though the update is not frequent but I appreciate each and everyone of my reader's patience. There will be 3 more chapters after this before things moved onto a whole new level with Vic Henry. Chapter 28 will be out next weekend followed by maybe a two weeks break or less cause le bag (name given by ThePineapple for me) is celebrating his hatch day Chapter 27 A hand placed around my shoulder jolted me back to reality. The hand slowly grabbed the glass of gin away from my hand and placed it on the table. At that moment, he knew all I needed was someone to comfort my broken heart once again. Zubair grabbed me by my shoulder and placed my head on his chest. “Now cry all you want, I heard what happened from Andrew and he told me to come and ‘rescue’ you. How many glasses has it been since you were here?” he asked. In between sobbing uncontrollably and trying to answer his question, I showed four fingers to him. Zubair let out a tsk and asked once again if it was on the rocks; I could only let out a faint yes. “So by drinking it will mend that broken heart? It will null away the disappointment that you are experiencing in your heart right now? Yes? No? Come on Aaron, you of all people know that drinking is never an excuse when you are in such a state. Moreover drinking alone in a foreign land, who is going to answer to your parents if anything happens to you?” I did not answer Zubair, instead I just sob my sorry self away not caring what was going on around me. It was not till minutes later when I had enough, Zubair propped me up and ordered ‘sky juice’ for me. He told me to calm myself down and wanted to share with me something that might cheer me up. “I don’t know if you are gonna get angry at me or mad at me but I must honour my words and promises made to him before we flew here. If there was anything that transcended beyond the norm, I would have to call and inform him right away. So when Andrew told me what happened earlier, I called him up and he is taking the next available flight in. I do apologies if this is not what you wanted but Vic Henry has gone overboard. If I were you, I would have walked away.” I kept quiet and tried to process what Zubair has just mentioned. There is some truth and justification to what he has said. I told myself that in any relationship if it got physical either way, one has to walk away. Although you see, I am human too end day; I possess this thing we called emotions. And more than often the human side of me takes over and I am vulnerable to that one thing; love. Even today, as the experience grew over the years and changes takes place, I still am a sucker when it comes to love. I still can never have the guts to walk away from a sinking ship nor have the willpower to walk out the door when I am being hurt. As the saying goes “People always love those who hurt them but ignore those who truly loves them” I am a simple person to be with, all I need is for you to love me and be there when I needed you. And above all that, the world shall be placed on a gold platter serve to you in bed. I sat there remaining quiet and somewhere deep down, I wanted to end my relationship there and then but something else held me back firmly. Maybe perhaps I am the type of individual when he is committed to a relationship no matter how shitty the situation gets, I still held on it. Yes I have my flaws no doubt (other than my fetishes aside) but that is what makes an indivdual human. No one is perfect, if you are deemed perfect in someone’s eyes, it means that person has been blinded by love, lust or infactuation. Everything is perfect during the honeymoon period, but try asking the same question a year later. If it remains as a year before, kudos to them but if there is event a slight resentment, then that person is human. I use to tell my staff this story each time I conduct a sales training about people and changes. Goes something like this; “Mary and John met during their university days and was very much in love with each other. Except that Mary was the nerd while John was the jock of the cohort. A typical chick flic I say but listen on. You guys know about Meritus Club Lounge? Well one day the love birds went there for their dinner to celebrate their anniversary. It was a special occasion and both were very excited about the day. So mary had ordered some prawns which requires her to use her hands (because she does not have the skills to peel it using fork and spoon because I know someone somewhere will ask me why she couldn’t just use her cutleries) “John dear, could you peel these for me?” “Sure sweetheart, anything for my darling,” he said. And the dinner was one would expect to be wonderful. At the basement of the carpark, John had asked Mary if she had taken the keys from the conceirge; “Oh dear, John I am so sorry love. I totally forgot about that” John smiled and held Mary’s chin and kiss her, “It’s ok princess, I will run up and get it. You wait here for me ok?” Moving forward a decade later, they returned to the same place for dinner on their anniversary. Mary once again tried to peel the prawns but this time round using the utensils. A little incident occurred and somehow part of the prawn flew and landed on John. “Dafuq are you doing Mary? You know how expensive these are?” pointing to his watch. Mary looked emabrassed because the whole restaurant sorta went silent and looked at their table. “I am sorry dear, it was my mistake” “Hurry up and finish your food. I am running late for my appointment!” And once again they were at the carpark and Mary has forgotten to take John’s key. “Women! Can’t you do one thing right? Why are you so absent minded and stupid these days?” was the words John used on Mary. The car ride home was a sombre one, Mary had wondered what changes did John went through after a decade. Deep down, she wished that everyday was the first time they had met and everything is pleasant. Similar to John, things change and people change. Most of us, not all, is often walking in the shoe’s of Mary. We often have this fantasy deep down that everything could be a fairytale. But fairytale only exist beyond our imagination, if we wanted a fairytale fantasy, we would live in far far away land. These days when you kiss a prince, you often run the risk of turning him into a frog. But do not let the ogres in shining armor get you down. There is no need for distress. You do not want to be anyone's damsel end day. Simply remind yourself that you are busy racking up those 'frequent failure points' that will eventually pay for an all expenses trip to “Mr Right”. Either you are in love with someone or you are not because fear is complicated, not love. “You wanna move into my room? There’s Daryl and myself and if you don’t mind to squeeze in between us or something,” he laughed. Daryl was the ‘rapist’ of our squad. He loves squeezing our squadmates butt or simply get a few of us to hold one person down and he would either bite or pinch their nips damn hard. And my hard I mean literally it could come off anytime if we do not tell him to stop. “Nay bai, am good. Most probably Martin would have a room. I don’t wish to disturb you both or risked getting my nipples bitten or pinched!” I laughed. After bout an hour talking, I told Zubair that my stomach was rumbling and I needed to get some food. Besides, why are we sitting here and talking bout matters of the heart. We can do that back home when we are in Singapore. Five days in the land of smiles is not gonna be wasted this way. I was pretty reluctant to head back to my room. At one point, I just did not wish to see Vic Henry but on the other hand, I just cannot bear to leave him alone and him being worried where I have been and all. I opened the door to our room and he was on his laptop by the sofa typing away. “Where did you go to? was the first sentence that came out his mouth. Deep inside, i said to myself that the least he could do was to apologies and ask how I was. I shrugged that stupid thought aside and answered him. “Upstairs…” “With who?” he asked. “Bai..” short and simple because I really could not muster more than a sentence to this person whom I love so much yet he choose to hurt me. “Bai who?” his toned increasing as the conversation went on. I focused my attention to him and let out a sigh; “Bai as in Zubair who else. Cannot be some cibai right? Can you the least be nice and stop acting like a male chauvinistic pig!” I held back for a second and wondered if that was me who had just spoken. “So just telling you this out of courtesy, Martin is flying in…” Bad call I say, at one point I would wish to inform him in case he thinks I am having suprises for him but on the other hand, I did not expect what to come next. Vic Henry place his laptop on the sofa and came towards me. I was sitting on the edge of the bed while conversing with him and he came to sit beside me. “Look at me!” he demanded. I shook my head and continued playing with my phone. “Look at me!” once again Vic Henry demanded. Again with the same response I gave him earlier. The third time I totally ignored him and he pulled me by the hair to turn and face him. “So now you think your prince charming is flying over, you are acting all high and mighty and ignoring your boyfriend? Hello boy, remember what I said earlier ok? Without me around you would not have all these luxury that you can dream of. There is no one out there who can love an asshole like you whole heartedly but ME!” Vic Henry was having trouble grabbing me by the hair because my hair is always kept short. Eventually he used both hands and held onto my cheeks, “Look at me aaron, fucking look at me! You know how much I love you right? You know I would not do anything to hurt you. You know I would do everything and anything to make sure that you are comfortable and having the best time of your life with me. You do realised how much I have to go through to make this happen. You know how much courage I have to dig deep within myself to actually move on from Leonard and love you. You know … “ before he could finish his sentences, a single tear slid down from my warm cheek, followed by another one, and another one, until soon a steady stream of salty tears flowed its way down my cheeks realeasing the sadness and sorrow inside of me all this while yet not making a sound. Crying is how I understand myself best. Whenever I cry, I know who I really am. I cry at the slightest trigger of emotions like happy endings in a movie or a sad one. It is my strength but also at the same time my weakness. Strong because it brings understanding and weak because who wants the listener to be weeping when what one is looking for is a shoulder to cry on. At times I wish there was an off button to switch off my tears but I am human afterall. These emotions exist to remind me of my human existence and to remind me that in this world, getting hurt is inevitable. My emotions, they swirl like the ocean currents, deep yet strong. “Can you for once stop crying? You cry at everything don’t you?” no comfort at all from Vic Henry. Sometimes I wonder does he have a heart sitting right inside of him or was it just void of emptiness. At this point where I am typing this, I had to take a break. Recalling what happened and reading what I had written down in my diary, the flashbacks and reminiscene was too much for this fragile heart to take. I was supposed to put this up bout a week ago but let me apologies for perhaps this heart that once love Vic Henry is true and never had a tinge of unfaithfulness that made me have this sudden heartache. “If you do not let your past die, your past won’t let you live. One day Vic, one day, you would wake up and realised you have tried but not hard enough. Most of the times we create heartbreaks through expectations. I do not hate you, I never hated anyone but what will make me hate you is the disappoinment I am having becaused you turned into everything you said you never be. Make your move before I am gone because people change and hearts move on. We have to hurt in order to know, fall in order to grow, lose in order to gain, because all of life’s lesson are taught via pain. You know something Vic Henry, being with you is not loyalty, it is stupidity. I can’t even fathom after all the physical abuse yet am still here talking to you as if nothing had occurred. Falling in love with you Vic Henry is similar to holding a candle. At first you brighten the world around me, but then it starts to melt and eventually hurting me. Everything seems so dark after and end day what I end up with? A burned hand and a broken heart. I know Leonard was physical to you in the past. I know many times he came home intoxicated and you would be his punching bag to his woos and sorrows. But look at me Vic Henry, what have I ever done to you that I deserve all of this? When you told me to move away from my ex, I did that although it was very painful, I moved on. You told me to delete and never contact Byrant because you were worried I might have a change of heart, I did that without questioning you. So what you have experienced or went through with your ex should not be brought into this relationship. If you want such a physical relationship, then go back to Leonard or find a partner who is into punching and getting physical.” I should not even have questioned him of his actions. A tight slap to my cheek came next and there was blood flowing by the side of my lips. His metal watch had brushed against the corner of my lips when he landed that slap. It was the blood that made him jolted from his demonic self and he started panicking. I remained calm and sat on the edge of the bed trying to comprehend what just happened. No, I did not feel any pain from it and the blood was the least of my worry. I went to the laundry rack and grab a small towel; grab my phone and the room key before leaving the room. Vic Henry did not follow, he just sat there looking at the blood he had on his hand. I knocked on Zubair’s room and when he opened the door, he shook his head. “Again!” was the first word he said. He invited me in and the moment we were seated, I hugged onto him and cried. The pain from the cut begin to creep onto me and soon it was hurting both physically and emotionally. The tighter Zubair hugged me, the worst it made me. I close my eyes at his intimate touch. It is a slow movement, not one meant to seduce. It is one to show how much Zubair loves me as a friend and I flatten my lips, while fighting the urge to cry. Zubair nudges me toward him and if it wasn’t for his hold, I would drop like a house of cards. I fall into him and Zubair wraps me in his arms. “It’s okay, Aaron. You are okay.” I cling tighter to him, because it doesn’t feel okay at all. For the past months, life was good and everything I dreamed it could be. Despite my determinations, the muscles at the corner of my mouth tremble. I wanted to be through with tears and with whispered comments thrown in my direction like knives and with this overwhelming sense that I am less and that I will never belong.” “Hush hush, enough dear officer aaron. You would not want Martin to see you in this state right? He should be arriving in about two hours. Come let me attend to your wound.” I swear the moment he held onto my chin to take a look at my lips, I just wanted to grab him there and then. I won’t deny that once, when we were having a late night talk, I did tell him that if one day if he ever finally admits to me that he is gay, I would so go after him. Even just few days back when I met him at Suntec City to settle my banking needs for a client, I look at him with that same look I have in Bangkok when he was tending to my wounds. “It is still that same look in your eyes Aaron. How is Tazzy getting along?” as he pinched my nose while laughing cheekily.

I'm a size queen - muscles are a plus but not a must.. lol And sometimes you also must consider a scenario where you have a skinny guy (they don't necessarily need to be chubs) with big dick, and they really do surprise you..

For the sake of formalities, 22yo, chn, 170, 50, slim fit. I'm drawn to intelligence, so surprise me.

just curious any guys into humping? =x

I know this topic has been discussed many times but it's always relevant as countless guys are in need of more avenues to find love. Each thread also discusses slightly different aspects of the same question. I have been using Jack'd for some time but I'm sick of it already. I had talked to many people and met up a few guys; it's very tedious. But if I quit the app, where else can I find other gay guys? Are there avenues other than gay apps? I know people have suggested clubbing but there are so many of us who don't club and don't want to club. Some also suggested having more gay friends so that they will introduce you to other guys, which brings us back to square one. Some say go to the gym, but I can't see it as a fruitful avenue. Despite the number of online avenues available, meeting people is not getting easier for a multitude of reasons (imposters, tedious chatting before meeting, etc). Those people whose mouths are permanently sore and foul, who are always waiting to lash out at others for some reason or another, who are always seeking ways to feel superior to others and those who cannot put themselves in the shoes of others (by far the most), please refrain from commenting. Thank you.

Seek manly above 30yo

Was swimming at katong pool today and turned off by 2 persistent cruisers. 1 fat chub on the bench in his underwear using his hp perpetually all the time and following ppl around. 1 dark guy hiding in the shower room perpetually showering all the time (saw him showering when i came in to swim, still showering when i left). Seriously, get a life! Please be of a decent standard before you start cruising...

Omg! Lots of eye candy at gspa today! There's an angmoh whose totally soft dick I swear is already longer and thicker than your best erection. We're talking 7inches long and probably close to 6in around. Shaved too, so maybe, haha! He was really flaunting.it too 2 young angmoh twinks, but not naked, too bad. One good looking chinese hunk, cock above average and thick, though can't compare to the angmoh guy. Guessing soft size maybe 4 inch long and really girthy....

i'll buy it off of u after u use it on me...

Especially when people is using their tongue to rim your ass and licks ur nipples... > <

Infidelity

wish there was someone to suck me off :>

The tipping point was when the US supreme court legalized gay marriage nation wide. Last year it happened on the 26 june, whereas pinkdot was two weeks earlier on 13 june. So naturally this year all the sponsoring support poured in. Lee hsien loong was formally invited to pinkdot last year but didn't turn up. Before that he said even the US was divided on the gay marriage issue, and then it was legalized nation wide shortly after his remark. He should totally be invited again this year to create another tipping point.

Precisely. When event became big, the number of sponsors will correspondingly increase. Those commercial institutions that sat on the fence will pour in to support. Aware and acceptance will become part of parcel of this society. The pressure in on the govt and fundamentalist to accept the changing modern world. We want LGBT to exceed beyond boundary. We are really behind time as compared to many opened society. Too tame will not bring us anywhere and prone to further anti-gay bashing. We need to be bold!

May taga yishun ba dito?

got a car tonight. any btms maybe for meetups?

Any suckee? I can host

i can do the honours haha!

anyone in serdang ? am 24 i need someone my age or younger than me

No difference in the sleepy feeling felt thereafter

Checking out each other's cock at ave k

Anyone here now. 3rd level toilet

Mine was about a month but the last time I tried to completely abstain from all things sexual, I ended up getting a wet dream after just a week and failed.

for prevent the foreskin to cover ur bird head

getting sponsorers are part and parcel of life right? We cannot be expecting people like you to donate right? Puppy fart While I m nt fr Christian, I felt alright w this video We cannot be having the same concept/storyboard all the time A small step is better than zero step....let them lash on us then......... In sg, every little thing will invite backlash , no matter how hard we try All the best to this event! Isnt she closely attached to the main character/heroine?

What is this?

Have any update above Nic

i were there last Sat, the crowd are great most young and fitter guys. Lot of candy eyes. Of coz u can't avoid some old/fat guys but these only taking up 15-20% of the crowd. If you dun believe, can always go there... tomorrow Sat again between 6.30pm -9.30pm it happening!!

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Speaking from experience, I was 182cm, 60kg, started working out, gyming, managed to bulk up to 182cm 80kg in about 10 years time. It's true now I turn more heads and get dates much more easier for the past few years since I bulked up but my last relationship was 10-12 years ago when I was still skinny. Only since recently did I manage to meet someone I like and got attached. In short, your body size and build does make it easier to impress people, but it doesn't make it easier for you to find someone you like who likes you back.

Ts u ve a happy problem. Stop whinning.

Hi I have place in the north and can massage, message me

So much new boys, all so young :/

On the contrary, keybox ran out of lockers yesterday.....and there was a long queue......10 over getting into KB

How about organizing a group jo fun? I wonder how it feels to have a number of married men cumming on my body.

Wow...this is like writing a thesis for PHD! I really admire people who can write long fucking stories! Lol

Because the locals are too cheapskate, hence they went to public gyms and public toilets.

But the so-called free entry is only for non-event days, probably one day in the whole week with only one month validity.

27 Chn here drives lorry looking for sucker around yishun, Any1 up? Pm me your intro

Car bj fun at west ? Mature chi suck here

Anyone tried raffles city level 4? The floor tiles looks very reflective thou

Many people have been asking this. But I realised no one bothered answering. So I will. Would be useful for first time visitors such as myself the last time. I came from the bus depot. Then I crossed the road and went to the first part of the park. If you looked at Google maps, cbp is essentially shaped like a big T. The bus interchange is on the left of the first arm. When you walk into the first arm towards the centre, you'll see a gazebo, a bench and a fitness corner. The last I went, I only saw one guy sleeping at the gazebo taking care of his bike. Don't think he's cruising. But I did stuff with my jogger at the fitness corner. We stopped cause that corner is highly public. But this arm is dark. The lights are not on. Then when you cross the road, you'll reach the body of the T. In the middle is a lake with a bridge spanning it. There's a huge shelter there with cement flooring which is where ppl allegedly have threesome all. It's rather dark, but I suppose it's far in the middle enough to do stuff. Walk around the the main body of the park and accustom yrself to the area first. I had to find a dark spot to have fun with my runner, so we ended up under the road bridge. Haha. The place is quiet although surrounded by roads and it's quite bright. But the roads are deserted. Some people visiting will drive there and park by the shoulder. There's.more mosquitoes at cbp than there are at ecopark, surprisingly. So arm yrself with spray on repellant especially for the feet if you're wearing slippers. That's it! I hope this guide helps. I wished someone had explained it like this the first time I went. Then I wouldn't be nervous as fuck not knowing where everything is.

hey Aaron. Spent my whole day reading your story all the way back from 2012 till now. I don't really read long stories but yours really got my attention especially with regards to teenage boys haha. Life has definitely been tough for you and you are really brave to be able to withstand everything even with those heartache and pains. I definitely hope that you are happy now and are enjoying your life. Your life is definitely an interesting one which makes me very curious wanting to know more about your life all these years hahah. Cheers, Frazer.

can i just hv an ave bod, ave cock and ave face. i won't ask for much...

I had a confession. I fucked my pillow when my hormones started as a teenage boy. Am I the only one doing that?

Because....everyone here jerks off in public right..