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Recently into cycling alone at night and feel like the world slows down just enough for you to feel everything more clearly. Can be enjoyable and peaceful at the same time.

Interesting Signage… Top: Hey my hands are full. Can you push open the door for me? Bottom: ………

Got a guy to come in by himself in the morning and wake me up by rimming me. Love using this one time passcode thing. Feels so dangerous but kinky.

When u accidentally walk into the steam room and 2 cuties are giving head and they panicked and covered up. U said sorry and backed out of the steam room. And then u realized, wait a minute... U shld have said it's ok and enjoyed the free show. Next time I shld think my cock head ूाीू ! Dammit!!!

After some soul searching (masturbating) I have found out that everything will be ok.

A friend on this forum once shared that when he likes someone, it’s all about sex—every day, nonstop—because that’s what makes him happy. It made me wonder if I’m the odd one out… When I like someone, sex is the last thing on my mind. What I really want is to make that person feel happy, safe, and protected. I guess lust has never been a strong part of who I am. And this bother me…

Sex and pure unadulterated fun is cool and all but nothing beats the electricity of chemistry and the butterflies of true intimacy.

As I reflect about my work in Singapore and the years of toiling in a field that I seriously lack knowledge about, a lot of my work has been years of analysis through observation rather than academic research. The little success stories I had should not stop me from gaining more knowledge. I look forward to my trip to experience life on a whole new level, even though my heart is mixed with different emotions leaving Singapore.

Learnt that there are 2 types of shyness… One is due to social anxiety or discomfort from being seen as an object of fun. But the other one, not rooted in fear or discomfort, but rather in deep emotional connection—love, admiration, and joy.

How is it that there are people on apps that cannot comprehend or accept that no matter how horny, no one is obligated to have sex with them, especially when they have completely empty profiles with a chat history of not much more than "hi, fun?"

Just me and another gen x dude at late nite gym. Finished abt the same time and he gave a full frontal at the shower and signaled to give him a handjob. Like dude. U r not bad looking for gen x, but didn't yr mama teach u to giveth before taketh 😤😤😤

Just one smile… and I was bewitched again 🫠

im so horny in the office now.... so dangerous😭

No person with at least an ounce of self respect would ever meet a complete stranger with no face pic/no details on the app. The safety concerns are very obvious. If anyone tries to convince you otherwise, run.

有时候觉得自己长得丑, 但有时候又觉得自己长得不错, 尤其是刚冲凉照镜子的时候。那么我就是那种长得又丑又很不错的那种人😅

Why fall in love when you can fall asleep?

I've kissed many guys throughout my lifetime, but only two have ever made me feel safe and desired. You were the second in 16 years to make me feel that way. Thank you for making me feel young. I still reminisce that night I sat on your lap and made out with you, without a single thought, hardly ever opening my eyes to look around. Just lotsa kissing, my hands cupping your face, and your hands around my waist.

Sometimes you should tell people different stories about your life, so that when they gossip about you, they argue.

When you see great posts but run out of reaction quota for the day 🫠

Just created my profile here yesterday and already received a warning for posting my d**k. Didn't know it wasn't allowed. Gotta be careful 🧐 Anyhoo, greetings. Hope to make some friends here and maybe a little more. YL

Birthday tomorrow and I already know the gift I have for myself. It's in changed behavior, I gotta stick up for myself more.

Thanks for approaching me earlier. You reminded me of my past as a budding insurance agent at Prudential. It was tough, but I was relentless in approaching people during roadshows. I wasn’t aware of your presence until you approached me. Half of me was overwhelmed by memories of the work you do today, as I had been working in the same company as you. On the other hand, I was focused on the social media content I was posting. I couldn’t process that a really cute and handsome guy was reaching out to me. Although it was for work, I felt it was a missed opportunity to get to know you. Additionally, my mind was occupied with the fact that I am flying out of Singapore. I understand that your survey has the ultimate intention of qualifying me as a prospective client, which I am not. I thought you would be better off speaking with someone else who has more potential than I do. Therefore, I chose not to participate in the survey. However, I genuinely wish you the best in finding your prospects and clients. Hopefully, someone who needs to purchase an insurance investment or plan will read this and seek you out tomorrow at Dhoby Ghaut MRT station. That’s the least I could do for a beautiful stranger I met briefly, who stole glances at me as I turned back to check you out one last time before I went down the escalator to the train. However, I don’t think you’re gay. You will probably never read this message, but I wish you all the best in your career and during this roadshow. This is the least I could do—something I wish someone would have done for me when I was an agent kickstarting my business. A helping hand when in need. Kindness makes this world a better place, and it starts with little acts of kindness that cost nothing.

男人都是视觉的动物。。先看外表才看内涵

Past few months have been such a strange experience. Been strongly reflective and going deep into videos of life advice and reflection. Video after video, advice after advice and before I knew it, I've been trying so hard to integrate so many advices into my daily life but nothing have seem to resonate or work well with me. Been trying so hard to get back a nice routine and genuine enjoyment for things I did which came naturally pre-covid (yea its old news by now). Now I've been trying timeboxing, planning my days in details which admittedly worked for awhile but fell apart so easily and made everything so structured and "checklisty" that I lost joy in some of the stuff I do. Never did I stop to think of slowing down my pace and slowly reintroduce things that I genuinely want to do naturally without forcing it into a list or calendar like how my routines formed previously. Now re-evaluating things I'm doing that I did because someone else said it is essential or important but serve little meaning to myself other than keeping me on edge because I missed out on doing it or I just didn't feel like doing it. Spent too long being everything other than myself. Taking a step back to give myself a little space for now.

Almost all the people with the name of Marcus that I came across = Xiasuay.

Rough calculation: I may have spent 1160 hours of my life on gay apps so far, if divided by 5 hours of effective waking days, it's 232 days of my life, or 7 months and 3 weeks. That's my precious youth from teens to 20s. Holy cow. No more shit. I think I'm unlikely wasting time on those shit. The last time I used Grindr was when? I think it was April 2025, I only installed back briefly then deleted again. I'm already 30 years old. I don't have much more youth to burn anymore.

I usually don’t fancy people outside of Asians, but damn after walking through Portugal, the guys here are quite hot.

Another day has ended. It never fail to fascinate me why would guys ask for extras, or manhood when “enquiring” about sports massage. They loose the art of becoming an attractive person.

Oh to have a close friend (not stranger) that can chill naked together. One can only dream.

Trying to make sense of people who post to hookup but then sign out. Eg : “*Location XX* now, anyone keen to meet up?” And then they logout. Er, then how to meet up leh??

Good Morning, Guys - ''A little kindness wouldn’t make us poor. Share some joy while we are still breathing.''

Some of y’all accounts are set to private but your privates are set to public

In a packed bus. A hot guy standing beside me and facing front of the bus. I’m facing the window. Suddenly his back touching and pressing against my right shoulder on and off. Is he doing on purpose? How to test water? 🤭

wank wank wank…

Do everything with a good heart and expect nothing in return, and you will never be disappointed.

Is it normal wanting to get fucked but a bit scared at the same time? Haha. I've been using grindr to meet people for fun on and off but so far it has only been non-anal fun. I feel that I am a bottom and love older men haha, daddy issues? I need some advice on this

Just a Question: anyone has fetish of their house chores done by someone while being naked ? 🙂

Trying out something new...ooofff ❤️

Sometimes you meet someone and you know from the first moment that you want to spend your whole life without them.

The opening line from Yelena kinda struck me… “There's something... wrong with me. An emptiness.” I think this admission is something many people can relate to but are often afraid to say aloud.

Good Morning, Guys - ''Try to be the person you needed when you were in need to someone in need.''

What's meant to be will always find its way.

Ridiculously difficult to get into a relationship, rather envious of those who could. Frustrated, Irritated and annoyed.

When you were admiring that cute guy from afar in the gym and didn’t realize actually he was staring back at you through reflection.. 🙈

running into my sec school crush and my hookup guy as staffs at the polling station was the cherry on top of my morning lmao!

no longer a teen but still getting wet dreams how ah... such a hassle to clean up lolzz

Good Morning, Guys - ''If you can’t be a pencil to write anyone’s happiness, then try to be an eraser to remove someone’s sadness.''

Good Morning, Guys - ''When the message is right but approach is not pleasant, the message is lost. Diplomacy. Empathy. Both necessary.''