I am sorry, I seems to cause so much resent. I am sorry I would like to clarify that, as much as I would like to be attached, but I dun think I was ever really accepted as being attached by my love one and that is not because I flirt, but that i am married. We still love each other though. My dear has been very good to me except that the only regrets is that I am married. I think we both work very hard to maintain the relationship. I admit sometimes frustrations set in and I lose my head. We both knows what is going on but eventually I know there will be not happy ending due to our difference. I just want to put a stop to people who remarks "Why u looking for someone when u have one already?" and not practice what they preach. I think its how we live our lives and if we can accept each other as we are that is sufficiently good. Obviously there are a lot out there who dares to do but dare not own up. I apologise if I have wrong anybody, no need to get so work up over my posting, just treat it as rubbish if it offended you. And to my dear, I am sorry I haven't been good enough. If things dun work out in the end, then maybe next life and lifes after I will still want to be with u. Make the best of wat we have now. Love.....