To me, love or be love is something wonderful.But if there is no trust,care, understanding and forgiving...then there will not be love between one another. I don't believe in loving someone and the other party don't love you as much. It must be equal. I also don't believe in open relationship, what does this phrase mean.It mean that although both people are attached,they can still go find someone else for sex or even have sex together.This kind of relationship don't make sense at all,if you love someone and want to be with him for the rest of your life,then both parties have to love each other and no third parties.