Is there anyone in LTR who did not have sex when you first met your bf?

[Guest LTR]

The norm is met their bf always had sex first, so anyone who did not?

[Guest no sex]

Yes, me.

We went for a dinner and talk first. Only about 2- 3 weeks later we have fun. It was my intention to take it slow to see if the guy is serious on me and not just my dick.

We are still together after 20 years (with normal ups and downs of a relationship, 3 near to break ups and plenty of reconciliations).

[Guest no sex]

Just now, Guest no sex said:

Yes, me.

We went for a dinner and talk first. Only about 2- 3 weeks later we have fun. It was my intention to take it slow to see if the guy is serious on me and not just my dick.

We are still together after 20 years (with normal ups and downs of a relationship, 3 near to break ups and plenty of reconciliations).

 

Forgot, we still fight over petty things like a straight couple. Removing plates not done after dinner, chips on the floor after watching tv, not refilling the iron with water, taking the wrong sponge for pots and pans. ha ha. But we find other things to make us happy and are planing a longer holiday trip.

[Guest So sweet]

Wolau eh... U telling lies lah. Where got fight over such small things like you described..  We fight over things like whether he screams loud enough when fucking me, whether I poked him fast enough and long enough, when he complains about my teeth getting the  way when sucking him, nit tell g him when I cum in his mouth.  Where got fight over small daily routine like you two, 

[camper]

Me. We went out 3 months before we had our first. 

[Guest Blank]

Isn't it normal not to sex on first date? 

 

I always believe those who did that are not worthy and too easy 

[Guest no sex]

It's the truth. I haven't been telling anything. Maybe you don't know anything about relationships. I sense very much on what you describe and you probably never had a long lasting relationship.

[Guest U thing I wat?]

Depend lah. If either party click on the first date and it so happen that they have their own house, than sex is an instant thing. No need to wait even for a second to past before jumping into bed. You thing I dunno u guys issit?

[Leelee1988]

No leh me n bf not met via sex...

 

[Guest Gary]

20 hours ago, Guest no sex said:

Yes, me.

We went for a dinner and talk first. Only about 2- 3 weeks later we have fun. It was my intention to take it slow to see if the guy is serious on me and not just my dick.

We are still together after 20 years (with normal ups and downs of a relationship, 3 near to break ups and plenty of reconciliations).

 

thats nice!

[Guest Player]

sex? No way. We played each other’s organ.

 

 

[Guest Scye]

Dated for 3 months before we jumped into bed. Been together since.

[Ben Ben Ben]

Nowadays the sequence is sex —> sex —> sex —> break off 

[Guest Guest]

25 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Nowadays the sequence is sex —> sex —> sex —> break off 

LOL..... But I tot is normal in gay circle or tis is e culture in us gay circle...haha! 

[Guest Manya]

Of course there are.

 

Some gay guys respect themselves and others.

[Guest btmguy]

On 8/27/2019 at 10:40 AM, Guest LTR said:

The norm is met their bf always had sex first, so anyone who did not?

Yeah I did not

[feedersmiracle]

Sex first time we met but after that during chit chatting then found out like had common goals and able to put aside differences. Before that maybe chat on Grindr and WhatsApp for about a week or so. Met him during NS...

[Guest Guest]

On 8/27/2019 at 11:44 AM, Guest no sex said:

 

Forgot, we still fight over petty things like a straight couple. Removing plates not done after dinner, chips on the floor after watching tv, not refilling the iron with water, taking the wrong sponge for pots and pans. ha ha. But we find other things to make us happy and are planing a longer holiday trip.

Same here

[Guest rawsex-addict]

my previous relationships all started with sex on the first meetup.