Ancestor praying, paper burning and karmic debt clearance

[Guest Karma]

I came across this lady from media social (talk/radioshow) that she can talk to entities from other realms including our ancestors and boddhisattva. Her profession is to help ppl settling affairs with our ancestors and souls. 

 

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us. Because eventually they will be reincarnated back to the same family trees. She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together. If you noticed your left shoulder pain even after visiting many docs still couldnt find the cause, most likely someone from other realm trying to get attention fro you. 

 

There are alot of interesting stories from her dealing with her client problems. And for eg if your ancestor was doing drug trafficking in the past, his descendants need to clear the debt for them. 

 

In another stories, someone from the Fu family was burying herself under coffin of another family surname. Is like a curse. But somehow these 2 ppl from these particular surname will get married but will not end up in good. Always quarrel.

 

And in another stories, a very high ranking ancestor was reincarnated as a female descendants. And she wont ever get married (will be alot of hindrance) unless she settled the family problems (the reason she was reincarnated)

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

[Guest Assumptions]

-lady not fraud or suffering from some mental conditions.

-Voices she 'voices' are actually spirits. can be aliens or demons and such.

-Voices/spirits dont lie and are always truthful.

-Some kind of overseer or system that dictate karma.

-existence persist after death.

-homosexuality is some kind of punishment...

-gays cannot have offsprings...

-etc etc

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, Guest Karma said:

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

 

... who says gay cannot have children? It's just that surrogacy is not allowed in Singapore. 

[fab]

2 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

I came across this lady from media social (talk/radioshow) that she can talk to entities from other realms including our ancestors and boddhisattva.

 

When the time is ripe, we will be able to talk to entities from other realms, usually via dreams.

 

All we need to know, Gautama had told us.

 

2 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

Her profession is to help ppl settling affairs with our ancestors and souls. 

 

Help? Does she charge, if so, how much?

 

Ashes to ashes, dusts to dusts, I don't see anything to settle with our ancestors.  

 

2 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us. Because eventually they will be reincarnated back to the same family trees. She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together. If you noticed your left shoulder pain even after visiting many docs still couldnt find the cause, most likely someone from other realm trying to get attention fro you. 

 

There’s no such thing as protection,  basically we reap what we sow.

 

But there's such thing as group karma though where one will benefit from  the good karma of their loved ones.

 

2 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

 

And in another stories, a very high ranking ancestor was reincarnated as a female descendants. And she wont ever get married (will be alot of hindrance) unless she settled the family problems (the reason she was reincarnated)

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

 

Life is suffering. Being single or even gay is actually a blessing.  Gautama actually condemned vaginal intercourse. 

 

Excerpt from Wikipedia, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism_and_sexuality

 

 

"'Worthless man, it would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a poisonous snake than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a black viper than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into a pit of burning embers, blazing and glowing, than into a woman's vagina. Why is that? For that reason you would undergo death or death-like suffering, but you would not on that account, at the break-up of the body, after death, fall into deprivation, the bad destination, the abyss, hell..."

 

Seriously if you ask me, she sounds more like a con woman. 

 

 

[Guest Try and see]

3 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

I came across this lady from media social (talk/radioshow) that she can talk to entities from other realms including our ancestors and boddhisattva. Her profession is to help ppl settling affairs with our ancestors and souls. 

 

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us. Because eventually they will be reincarnated back to the same family trees. She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together. If you noticed your left shoulder pain even after visiting many docs still couldnt find the cause, most likely someone from other realm trying to get attention fro you. 

 

There are alot of interesting stories from her dealing with her client problems. And for eg if your ancestor was doing drug trafficking in the past, his descendants need to clear the debt for them. 

 

In another stories, someone from the Fu family was burying herself under coffin of another family surname. Is like a curse. But somehow these 2 ppl from these particular surname will get married but will not end up in good. Always quarrel.

 

And in another stories, a very high ranking ancestor was reincarnated as a female descendants. And she wont ever get married (will be alot of hindrance) unless she settled the family problems (the reason she was reincarnated)

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

 

Can you show us the link to the video?

[gabbyisbot]

3 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us

祖先不会因为扫墓而来保护其后代子孙。当一个人往生的时候，会因个人的业力感召，而陷入六道轮回之中。多恶少善，乃会在六道之中；极善及严守戒律之人，可升天、超出天界或带业往生、即身成佛；不善不恶，则可能会流返在人间，这就有机会成为后代子孙的守护灵。

 

3 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together

通常土葬是因为地气的关系，祖先安葬在风水宝地确实可以旺后代子孙，可升官发财。

 

3 hours ago, Guest Karma said:

your ancestor was doing drug trafficking in the past, his descendants need to clear the debt for them. 

一人造的业，没有人可以替代。地藏经已说明，即使是亲人一起在地狱，都不可互相替代已造的业，果是自己承担。但如果阳居后人为先人造种种福德，阳居者获六分，先人获一分的功德（以七分为比例）。

[fab]

8 minutes ago, gabbyisbot said:

 

通常土葬是因为地气的关系，祖先安葬在风水宝地确实可以旺后代子孙，可升官发财。

 

 

 

https://www.prestigeonline.com/hk/people-events/buddhism-feng-shui-related/

 

Fengshui may bring good health but definitely not good luck or protection.

[Guest Guest]

1 hour ago, fab said:

But there's such thing as group karma though where one will benefit from  the good karma of their loved ones.

 

If one goes around slut shaming other people, will that type of karma also affect their departed loved ones, like making them broke, cold or hungry? 

[Guest Karma]

3 hours ago, fab said:

 

When the time is ripe, we will be able to talk to entities from other realms, usually via dreams.

 

All we need to know, Gautama had told us.

 

 

Help? Does she charge, if so, how much?

 

Ashes to ashes, dusts to dusts, I don't see anything to settle with our ancestors.  

 

 

There’s no such thing as protection,  basically we reap what we sow.

 

But there's such thing as group karma though where one will benefit from  the good karma of their loved ones.

 

 

Life is suffering. Being single or even gay is actually a blessing.  Gautama actually condemned vaginal intercourse. 

 

Excerpt from Wikipedia, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism_and_sexuality

 

 

"'Worthless man, it would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a poisonous snake than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a black viper than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into a pit of burning embers, blazing and glowing, than into a woman's vagina. Why is that? For that reason you would undergo death or death-like suffering, but you would not on that account, at the break-up of the body, after death, fall into deprivation, the bad destination, the abyss, hell..."

 

Seriously if you ask me, she sounds more like a con woman. 

 

 

She's from HK. I stop short of contacting thru fb. I received msg in chinese to whatapps her. My chinese not good not sure if she speaks in eng also. Doesnt look like con woman cause i listen to alot of her stories from the talkshow n it seems very convincing. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

 

If one goes around slut shaming other people, will that type of karma also affect their departed loved ones, like making them broke, cold or hungry? 

 

No. They are responsible for their own karma. They reap what they sow.

 

Gotcha.

[Guest Guest]

 

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[Dan 28]

Why bother to summon ghost spirits by praying ? Dumb and dumber ...it will cause more harm ..... 

[yag123123]

On 9/1/2019 at 2:11 PM, Guest Karma said:

I came across this lady from media social (talk/radioshow) that she can talk to entities from other realms including our ancestors and boddhisattva. Her profession is to help ppl settling affairs with our ancestors and souls. 

 

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us. Because eventually they will be reincarnated back to the same family trees. She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together. If you noticed your left shoulder pain even after visiting many docs still couldnt find the cause, most likely someone from other realm trying to get attention fro you. 

 

There are alot of interesting stories from her dealing with her client problems. And for eg if your ancestor was doing drug trafficking in the past, his descendants need to clear the debt for them. 

 

In another stories, someone from the Fu family was burying herself under coffin of another family surname. Is like a curse. But somehow these 2 ppl from these particular surname will get married but will not end up in good. Always quarrel.

 

And in another stories, a very high ranking ancestor was reincarnated as a female descendants. And she wont ever get married (will be alot of hindrance) unless she settled the family problems (the reason she was reincarnated)

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

Some people believe fate is destined and cant be changed

 

Some people believe fate is created by an individual

 

But i believe that fate is both destined and created by an individual

 

 

Destined because i cant  choose when to die (and no suicide is not fated)

 

Created by an individual is because if i want to be with someone...i initiate...maybe not via talking but by text or email...

 

I tried ...whether the person saw or ignore my advances it is up to them...i cant force them to love me

 

And i initiated again...to another person...and i am now happily attached...again

 

Relantionships will not last for a lifetime...

 

But love...last forever...

 

Even though i am happily attached..i still think of that person...praying for him...hoping he is doing well..even though we no longer on speaking terms  ...i still think of him..

Hoping the best for him even though i cant do anything but to pray..

 

And each time...i wipe away those tears..brave myself..and believe that heaven will be kind and listen to my prayers for that person..the person that dont need me in his life anymore..

Edited October 24, 2019 by yag123123

[fab]

On 9/1/2019 at 2:11 PM, Guest Karma said:

 

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

 

Why is not having offspring a curse?

[Guest Karma]

1 hour ago, fab said:

 

Why is not having offspring a curse?

Because we cannot carry our surname's line. Cantonese it is calls "juet zhi juet suin". Is a big curse. Homosexual can adopt children but is of different bloodline. 

[fab]

 

 

56 minutes ago, Guest Karma said:

Because we cannot carry our surname's line. Cantonese it is calls "juet zhi juet suin". Is a big curse. Homosexual can adopt children but is of different bloodline. 

 

Y is inability to carry our surnames line a curse?

 

So all women, singles, childless couples are a curse?

 

 

[Steve5380]

On 9/1/2019 at 1:11 AM, Guest Karma said:

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

 

There is not such a curse.  We gays have cock, balls, semen, the whole equipment to make offspring.  All it takes is a willing woman.

 

On 9/1/2019 at 4:19 AM, fab said:

 

There’s no such thing as protection,  basically we reap what we sow.

But there's such thing as group karma though where one will benefit from  the good karma of their loved ones.

 

 

This is pure contradiction

 

On 9/1/2019 at 4:19 AM, fab said:

 

"'Worthless man, it would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a poisonous snake than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into the mouth of a black viper than into a woman's vagina. It would be better that your penis be stuck into a pit of burning embers, blazing and glowing, than into a woman's vagina. Why is that? For that reason you would undergo death or death-like suffering, but you would not on that account, at the break-up of the body, after death, fall into deprivation, the bad destination, the abyss, hell..."

 

 

Gautama didn't come from a penis being stuck into his mother's vagina?

When other religions praise vaginal intercourse,  why would the Buddha condemn it?

[fab]

25 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

 

This is pure contradiction

 

 

 

 

Eg, your bad karma sibling may benefit from you with good karma as you will somehow take or help them out.

 

28 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

 

Gautama didn't come from a penis being stuck into his mother's vagina?

When other religions praise vaginal intercourse,  why would the Buddha condemn it?

 

gautama came to this worldto deliver the dharma to the unenlightened beings which otherwise would not be available. 

But Based on the doctrine of the dharma,  do u think that gautama will want others to  come to this world?

 

Gautama is an enlightened being. His insight is different from other religious leaders. 

 

[yag123123]

5 hours ago, fab said:

 

 

 

Y is inability to carry our surnames line a curse?

 

So all women, singles, childless couples are a curse?

 

 

No that is not cursed

 

Being cursed is more  like

You think that your str8...got married..and after your first child you starts to develop sextual tendacies towards liking cocks

 

But you maintain your cool..afterall family comes first..but then...

 

Your child ,all grown up and married..

 

Then your wife found out of your tendacies from catching you jerking off to gay porn...

 

Divourced and alone

You reached andropause where your male hormones are lesser by now

 

Your 60 years old by then...and dont know that grindr or other media exists..

 

So your at the public toilet with a beer can, reeking of alcohol...cruising

 

Hoping to hit off with a dude...to have fun and hoping that both of you eventually be attached.

 

Found a charming young dude...he pounded you, it is your first, you cried due to the pain and the pleasure...not knowing that the guy, midway,removed the condom and only realised it after it all finished..

 

You tried to contact that person but to no avail..

 

You tried to have sex with girls but it was no longer the same...you keep thinking of that special night with that dude

 

Realised later on ..you contacted hiv from your first..guy

 

Fell into depression ..

 

And finally

 

Suicide to end the pain and hoping that you will be recarnated to a better life ..

 

As you generally are a good hearted person

 

Everything blanks out

 

You open your eyes...and saw...the 1st man you fall in love...

 

Out of joy, you start running towards him...and the guy screamed...it was until then

You realise that you have been recarnated into a cockroach and that guy picks up a roll of newspaper ..

 

You dont run ...with cockroach tears in your eyes you look at him...one last time..as that guy swing a roll of newspaper on you

 

Splat*

 

Everything blacks out...and the last thing you heard is the guy saying..

 

"Noob cockroach dont know how to run away"

Edited October 24, 2019 by yag123123

[Guest Robinhood27]

 

I came across this lady from media social (talk/radioshow) that she can talk to entities from other realms including our ancestors and boddhisattva. Her profession is to help ppl settling affairs with our ancestors and souls. 

 

One of the interesting facts from her talk is that if we maintain a good relationship with our ancestor by setting up altar, brooming tombstones n paper burning, they will protect us. Because eventually they will be reincarnated back to the same family trees. She said those rich man usually have a very good n strong 'chi tong', a place where all the ancestors altar are housed together. If you noticed your left shoulder pain even after visiting many docs still couldnt find the cause, most likely someone from other realm trying to get attention fro you. 

 

There are alot of interesting stories from her dealing with her client problems. And for eg if your ancestor was doing drug trafficking in the past, his descendants need to clear the debt for them. 

 

In another stories, someone from the Fu family was burying herself under coffin of another family surname. Is like a curse. But somehow these 2 ppl from these particular surname will get married but will not end up in good. Always quarrel.

 

And in another stories, a very high ranking ancestor was reincarnated as a female descendants. And she wont ever get married (will be alot of hindrance) unless she settled the family problems (the reason she was reincarnated)

 

I was curious about homosexual ppl. Is that a curse to prevent us from having offsprings? 

You'll see more of them nowadays but all that they are doing doesn't matter anymore. Once a person died, they can't come back. Those who appears to come are really not the samw person but demons

[doncoin]

We are a carbon-based life form, so after we are dead, we basically return to what we are, quarks. While I like to think there is some glamourous afterlife, the truth is, we just become part of the universe which I think is a wonder in itself. 

 

Our bodies also contain other elements like hydrogen, oxygen, nitrogen, and many others. Upon death, these elements don't just disappear; they undergo transformations. Decomposition, for instance, is a process where organic substances are broken down into simpler forms of matter, eventually returning to the environment. This recycling of elements is vital for the Earth's ecosystem. Today's breath could have once been a part of a dinosaur, a tree, or a distant Neanderthal.

 

From a cosmological viewpoint, the earth is but a speck in the vast expanse of space. Yet, every atom in our bodies was once forged in the heart of stars, making us literally stardust. This connection to the cosmos underscores the idea that we are not just in the universe, but the universe is in us.

 

I am not sure how ancestors once gone can be communicated but if the lady is as "powerful" as she claims to be, I bet she has a busy phoneline. I cannot imagine her telling the entities, ancestors, and boddhisattvas that she is busy at the moment as she is only a human compared to them, and can only take one call at a time and the rest of them have to be on hold. 

[Guest Gay Child]

Any gay son here still visit temple to pray for their ancestor this time of the year?