What happens during a gay orgy?

[lightsmith32]

8 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Unfortunately most people learnt the hard way, moments of fun in exchange for lifetime of regrets, not worth it

Opened my eyes to the fact that even when i was responsible to practice safe sex, others still may go raw and the STDs will still get arnd and etc ... hard to control la ... so i gave it up ... but i actually love the setting and the thrill ...

[Guest Facepalm]

On 8/16/2020 at 9:54 PM, Fox92 said:

 

If you'd like, we can start another thread or take this via PM because we are hijacking this thread and basically going around in circles.

No thanks, you think i so free?

 

It’s your own choice to go unprotected and bear the consequences, not my issue.

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 1:09 PM, Kimochi said:

After that? Potential sex disease leh... 

 

After that we take off and fuck raw lor. 

 

You talk until so wise, go give health talks in school lor. 

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 1:52 PM, clifford99 said:

Ooooo. Must be challenging to take in that coxk.  Shiok too? Hehe 

 

I got wet reading all your comments. Hahaha. 

 

OFC lah. You go stick a 7 inch cucumber up your you-know-what? 
 

You already getting wet reading. 

Can you imagine DOING IT? 🙂

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 2:26 PM, LickinGood said:

Got any invitation to be a watcher ?

Pay money and you can watch until eyes pop out. 

 

But cannot playback lah. 

Live porn mah. 

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 4:23 PM, clifford99 said:

The 4some took place previously while he was in NS and he is presumably in uni now. Hence I'm sure n trust he is okay and safe.. so let's not harp too much on this aspect, guys n also given this is not the topic of this thread. Of course i fully agree safe sex / fun is very important and should be considered n fully appreciated, but let's also appreciate unispeedoboy's generous sharing n take that he n the group are all well.. thanks.. 

 

Last checked before Covid-19. 

 

All clear. 

Clean as a whistle. 

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 8:25 PM, practease said:

 

19 yo? Underage? Isn't it a crime?

 

HUH!?

 

Then you go report polis lor. 

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 7:18 PM, lightsmith32 said:

Main issues with Orgies is safety and cleanliness ... i used to be into it ... but stopped few years ago after a friend kanna STD ..

 

The thing is that orgies with strangers are very very very hard to organise. 

 

Most successful orgies are mostly organic de. Meaning that you know at least one other person in the group. 

So there's already a trust factor there (social proof). 

[Kimochi]

7 minutes ago, UniSpeedoBoy said:

 

After that we take off and fuck raw lor. 

 

You talk until so wise, go give health talks in school lor. 

Thats actually not wise, its part and parcel of life. Please don't be defensive. Its not easy I know. Sometime I also envy and feel like being in your shoes. Everybody is not perfect. Life is tough and it will be tougher up ahead. Just move you life's chess pieces properly. 

 

Sometimes I also feel like giving up.  

[UniSpeedoBoy]

Just now, Kimochi said:

Thats actually not wise, its part and parcel of life. Please don't be defensive. Its not easy I know. Sometime I also envy and feel like being in your shoes. Everybody is not perfect. Life is tough and it will be tougher up ahead. Just move you life's chess pieces properly. 

 

Sometimes I also feel like giving up.  

Ok.

[UniSpeedoBoy]

8 hours ago, fab said:

Prevention is better than cure.

 

Unfortunately, logic usually doesn't prevail during sex. 

[wenkai]

there's a saying ' dun see coffin, dun drop tears'

hopefully won't happen to you. 😆

 

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 4:23 PM, clifford99 said:

The 4some took place previously while he was in NS and he is presumably in uni now. Hence I'm sure n trust he is okay and safe.. so let's not harp too much on this aspect, guys n also given this is not the topic of this thread. Of course i fully agree safe sex / fun is very important and should be considered n fully appreciated, but let's also appreciate unispeedoboy's generous sharing n take that he n the group are all well.. thanks.. 

 

Well, we all agreed to take it off since we were alternating between fucking and sucking. 

 

If anyone of us was uncomfortable with the arrangement, we would have kept it on out of respect and consideration.

[UniSpeedoBoy]

2 minutes ago, wenkai said:

there's a saying ' dun see coffin, dun drop tears'

hopefully won't happen to you. 😆

 

 

Ok.

[Guest Guest Curious]

Wow I came reading to your story sia.

 

What was the most sexciting part about your orgy?

[UniSpeedoBoy]

1 minute ago, Guest Guest Curious said:

Wow I came reading to your story sia.

 

What was the most sexciting part about your orgy?

 

Getting surprise butt-fucked when I was sucking off the 19 y.o NSF 😂

[UniSpeedoBoy]

On 8/16/2020 at 1:01 PM, clifford99 said:

It's okay, cos what mattered is you are one of the participants in the hot orgy and u did what u need to do to contribute to the success of the orgy, ie fuck n get fuxked and had an intense orgasm, I believed.  Hehe

 

Very tiring!

[tomcat]

personally, it is very hard to focus, and also to manage your pleasure at the same time whoever is bodily attached to you at the time.

 

i am not a selfish lover, so i try to reciprocate my partner(s) attention, this is very hard to do in group fun/orgies.

 

it goes without saying too much that orgies are not really enjoyable for those who remain sober and clean. read in between the lines. 

[fab]

15 hours ago, UniSpeedoBoy said:

 

Unfortunately, logic usually doesn't prevail during sex. 

 

Until regrets come in.

[lightsmith32]

16 hours ago, UniSpeedoBoy said:

 

The thing is that orgies with strangers are very very very hard to organise. 

 

Most successful orgies are mostly organic de. Meaning that you know at least one other person in the group. 

So there's already a trust factor there (social proof). 

 

Agree totally, when its contained to known members who follow house rules its pretty ok. But the thrill and shiokness not the same. Ever do controlled orgy but simply not fun. In the end wear mask la this la still not as fun.

 

But now thinking ahead, a small circle maybe meeting every 6months may not be a bad idea actually .. hehe

[fab]

17 hours ago, UniSpeedoBoy said:

 

The thing is that orgies with strangers are very very very hard to organise. 

 

Most successful orgies are mostly organic de. Meaning that you know at least one other person in the group. 

So there's already a trust factor there (social proof). 

 

Spouse is already difficult to trust, let alone acquaintance and stranger.

[UniSpeedoBoy]

3 hours ago, fab said:

 

Until regrets come in.

Yes boy.

[Fox92]

Anyway, the misinformed prudes on safe sex aside, here's my experience in one.

Idk whether this one counts as an orgy because the host sometimes can be a little OCD and directing macam porn director lol.

 

Had one when I was in Auckland with three other Asians (two chinese and one indian-italian) and two pakehas (all aged between 22-25). Four of them knew each other save for me and another asian. The host (asian) and another white guy are the pure tops and the rest are vers save for me. Started off by pairing up and having a round robin of bjs before each pair do their own thing and sometimes we will experiment by changing partners and trying to involve all of us. (STD testing is cheap in NZ only $25 for non-citizens and PrEP and PEP are super cheap so a lot of people do it raw by showing their latest screening. But I'm a stranger in their circle and I wasn't on PrEP at that time, though i did suck them off without condoms).

 

I only realised the amount of condoms used was a lot after the session ends. During the session it was kinda mah fan having to wait for them to put on condoms but its ok when you can have a dick or nipple to play with while the tops puts it on. Thank god none of the btms shat themselves. And the tops were very considerate to ensure they put on a condom befire inserting their cocks.

 

One of the positions we did was us forming a fuck train as I sucked the host's dick. Another position is me and another person doing 69, with the two vers guys fucking us, and the two pure tops fucking them. It was my first time getting my dick sucked and I'm ashamed to say that I came pretty quickly for this position because I didn't know the sensation of getting sucked was so shiok.

 

It was a pleasant experience because everyone's so nice. Makes me wanna try topping but i don't want my virgin experience to be in an orgy and fuck things up lol.

 

The most painful dick was the indian italian because it was so thick and long. The best is the host whose dick never fails to hit my gspot and he kept licking my ear and neck because according to him, he loves hearing me moan and gasp in his ear with every thrust.

 

Met up with the host again on another day so he can fuck me 1-on-1 hehe.

[doncoin]

5 hours ago, Fox92 said:

I only realised the amount of condoms used was a lot after the session ends. During the session it was kinda mah fan having to wait for them to put on condoms but its ok when you can have a dick or nipple to play with while the tops puts it on. Thank god none of the btms shat themselves. And the tops were very considerate to ensure they put on a condom befire inserting their cocks.

 

Yup. I used to stop by my doctor's office and grab two boxes (they are free) before heading out to the beach house in the summer. If you have an orgy party, yes, you need to tell your guests to contribute to the condoms and lube. However with so many gays I know on Prep, lube is pretty much the thing that is going fast these days. 

 

 

[FattChoy]

11 hours ago, UniSpeedoBoy said:

Yes boy.

Love your replies to all these effing naggers. Wise beyond your age. 

Edited August 18, 2020 by FattChoy

[Fox92]

18 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

Yup. I used to stop by my doctor's office and grab two boxes (they are free) before heading out to the beach house in the summer. If you have an orgy party, yes, you need to tell your guests to contribute to the condoms and lube. However with so many gays I know on Prep, lube is pretty much the thing that is going fast these days. 

 

 

Hahaha i try to discreetly take a few at a time at the clinic. But gay clubs i usually just take a whole bunch lol

[Guest Armpits]

12 hours ago, Fox92 said:

Hahaha i try to discreetly take a few at a time at the clinic. But gay clubs i usually just take a whole bunch lol

Yes, but don't take too much lor... I usually grab about 30

[Guest guest]

how to get prep?

[whitetiger]

Co-host a orgy session before.. some time back in 2 decades ago hahha

No of ppl.. hmm initially was 17 pax.. but some exhausted and left.. replace by new batch.. so the crazy group just goes on thru out the night

Lucky then the place was big enough.. those tired will move over to the living room to chi chat.. those hungry ones carry on their sex-ecrise..

 

Tops were super tiring then.. need to serve vers & btm.. but they get to enjoy all type of holes.. LOL

[acidtongue]

On 8/16/2020 at 12:14 PM, Guest Boring said:

Most group fun in Singapore is quite boring. Too often it takes hours to roll off. There is steady interruption from late comers. Mostly the bottoms turn out having fantasies of being fucked but are inexperienced or too shy to open their legs or take any initiative. Tops start getting pissed off or leave early. 
Plenty confuse such events with a coffee n cake chit chat. Worst are those sitting in a corner fully dressed making silly remarks.

Many attendants expect the host having only provided Asian Bel Ami gym toned hunks but they never having taken a look at their own shape n looks.

 

Be prepared for having wasted your time...

 

I attended a group some years back which also had a rather passive crowd. When I got to the place, 6 to 7 guys were just sitting around, some trying to make small talk. But having gone all the way there late at night, I wasn't planning on leaving with my cock twitching for action and balls full. I zeroed in on one of the cuter pure btms, stripped both him and myself, and got him down to work on my bod n cock. That changed the mood of the room immediately, and the other guys soon paired up and when about on their business, keeping a close watch on us as we soon got into full on blow job.

 

We however got everyone's full attention when I got the btm into missionary position and ate his ass for a bit to get him prepped for full action. The guys gathered around us and gawked when I rolled on my rubber and pushed my 7 incher into his hole as he winced in pain. But it soon transitioned into the typical btm delirious moan/cry as I ploughed his pleasure hole. The other guys, including the supposed tops, watched in awe, like they have not seen an ass truly filled up before. The btm unfortunately didnt last long and came in about 10 mins.

 

As I hadn't cum at that point, one of the flex btm asked to get fucked by me. The group was well warmed up by now, but still more focused on getting me back into action. The guys took turns to worship my cock n bod before the next penetration. They well less reserved during the fucking too, as they reached out to touch and feel the connection between my cock and his ass. Commentary from my audience ranged from disbelief when I upped the ante on my fuck speed, to lewd comments to the btm like "you like getting fucked like a slut?" Before I even came, I received another fuck request, this time from the host who claimed to be flex top. Curious to try it out himself, he asked me to withhold myself from cumming, as they tried to get the flex btm to cum by sucking him while I'm still in him.

 

By the time the flex btm came, my cock was a little sore from the sucking and fucking, though balls were heavy with juice. The flex top got transformed into a wailing slut once he took my cock, to the point that I wonder if he was really top. I eventually finished the night as the only top to have fucked in the session. Sometimes it's really up to you to make the best out of a boring session!

[begleitung]

On 8/16/2020 at 11:13 AM, UniSpeedoBoy said:

 

At the end of it all, my friend's ass was dripping with the semen of 3 different guys. 

 

What do you think? 

Depends. Were u part of the action or did u just watch?  Wht a nice fren

[begleitung]

On 8/19/2020 at 12:08 AM, Fox92 said:

Anyway, the misinformed prudes on safe sex aside, here's my experience in one.

Idk whether this one counts as an orgy because the host sometimes can be a little OCD and directing macam porn director lol.

 

Had one when I was in Auckland with three other Asians (two chinese and one indian-italian) and two pakehas (all aged between 22-25). Four of them knew each other save for me and another asian. The host (asian) and another white guy are the pure tops and the rest are vers save for me. Started off by pairing up and having a round robin of bjs before each pair do their own thing and sometimes we will experiment by changing partners and trying to involve all of us. (STD testing is cheap in NZ only $25 for non-citizens and PrEP and PEP are super cheap so a lot of people do it raw by showing their latest screening. But I'm a stranger in their circle and I wasn't on PrEP at that time, though i did suck them off without condoms).

 

I only realised the amount of condoms used was a lot after the session ends. During the session it was kinda mah fan having to wait for them to put on condoms but its ok when you can have a dick or nipple to play with while the tops puts it on. Thank god none of the btms shat themselves. And the tops were very considerate to ensure they put on a condom befire inserting their cocks.

 

One of the positions we did was us forming a fuck train as I sucked the host's dick. Another position is me and another person doing 69, with the two vers guys fucking us, and the two pure tops fucking them. It was my first time getting my dick sucked and I'm ashamed to say that I came pretty quickly for this position because I didn't know the sensation of getting sucked was so shiok.

 

It was a pleasant experience because everyone's so nice. Makes me wanna try topping but i don't want my virgin experience to be in an orgy and fuck things up lol.

 

The most painful dick was the indian italian because it was so thick and long. The best is the host whose dick never fails to hit my gspot and he kept licking my ear and neck because according to him, he loves hearing me moan and gasp in his ear with every thrust.

 

Met up with the host again on another day so he can fuck me 1-on-1 hehe.

Dat sounds much more exciting than the local ones. Plus somewhat saferr with the test etc. 
 

i suppose they r more experienced, less uptight n open. 

[Fox92]

50 minutes ago, begleitung said:

Dat sounds much more exciting than the local ones. Plus somewhat saferr with the test etc. 
 

i suppose they r more experienced, less uptight n open. 

I don't bother with local ones coz Singaporeans are lame, and from some of the experiences shared here, seems that my assumptions are likely true. But this is also why we should decriminalise being queer and have better sex education; some people are too scared to get checked in case they appear on govt records that will affect their future employment, expensive to get prep and STD checks (even though its subsidised but not enough), and oblivious to how STD works (because of the heavy focus on abstinence in sex ed)

[begleitung]

42 minutes ago, Fox92 said:

I don't bother with local ones coz Singaporeans are lame, and from some of the experiences shared here, seems that my assumptions are likely true. But this is also why we should decriminalise being queer and have better sex education; some people are too scared to get checked in case they appear on govt records that will affect their future employment, expensive to get prep and STD checks (even though its subsidised but not enough), and oblivious to how STD works (because of the heavy focus on abstinence in sex ed)

I think u r rite. Some find themselves 2 sexy 2 b touched or whatever. I suppose everyone is free 2 do whatever they want or dont want, but i thinkk most just r 2 prudee or 2 uptight 2 do nething. Nobody is askin u 2 get married. 
 

 

[begleitung]

2 hours ago, Fox92 said:

I don't bother with local ones coz Singaporeans are lame, and from some of the experiences shared here, seems that my assumptions are likely true. But this is also why we should decriminalise being queer and have better sex education; some people are too scared to get checked in case they appear on govt records that will affect their future employment, expensive to get prep and STD checks (even though its subsidised but not enough), and oblivious to how STD works (because of the heavy focus on abstinence in sex ed)

Were the pakehas hott? Lol. 

[Guest Peaw]

2 hours ago, Fox92 said:

I don't bother with local ones coz Singaporeans are lame, and from some of the experiences shared here, seems that my assumptions are likely true. But this is also why we should decriminalise being queer and have better sex education; some people are too scared to get checked in case they appear on govt records that will affect their future employment, expensive to get prep and STD checks (even though its subsidised but not enough), and oblivious to how STD works (because of the heavy focus on abstinence in sex ed)

They watched too much prawn.

Some still thinking they're the star of the orgy. 

Some thinking they just watch passively like watching prawn.

Some expect others to be high standard as prawn stars.

Some want to be used, some want to be abused like prawn but expecting others to read their minds.

Most are afraid what others think of them since locals like to gossip like in this forum.

So mostly it's waste of time.

 

Even joining the Telegraph groups and you'll notice they're mostly passive waiting for someone to start the actions rolling first. 100s of members and sometimes not even one message for a day. Then many leave and join another group and rinse and repeat. Even those specially invited only group still the same.

Only those forums like BW that allow anonymous postings or anonymous multi accounts, then they start talking shit or bitching.

[Fox92]

2 hours ago, begleitung said:

Were the pakehas hott? Lol.

Objectively, I suppose so. The jock is the pure top but too muscular for me; looks like one of those surfer boys. The other is an otter. Cute, but I prefer twinks haha.

[Fox92]

1 hour ago, Guest Peaw said:

They watched too much prawn.

Some still thinking they're the star of the orgy. 

Some thinking they just watch passively like watching prawn.

Some expect others to be high standard as prawn stars.

Some want to be used, some want to be abused like prawn but expecting others to read their minds.

Most are afraid what others think of them since locals like to gossip like in this forum.

So mostly it's waste of time.

 

Even joining the Telegraph groups and you'll notice they're mostly passive waiting for someone to start the actions rolling first. 100s of members and sometimes not even one message for a day. Then many leave and join another group and rinse and repeat. Even those specially invited only group still the same.

Only those forums like BW that allow anonymous postings or anonymous multi accounts, then they start talking shit or bitching.

Oh yeah joined a few but so boring, even the non-sex ones. Either crickets or deprived men getting turned on by the slightest photo of genital reveals lol

[begleitung]

50 minutes ago, Fox92 said:

Objectively, I suppose so. The jock is the pure top but too muscular for me; looks like one of those surfer boys. The other is an otter. Cute, but I prefer twinks haha.

What is an otter?  Lol.

 

both sounded hot, especially surfer guy

[Guest googlist]

27 minutes ago, begleitung said:

What is an otter?  Lol.

 

both sounded hot, especially surfer guy

 Before you need someone to join you, maybe just google the word otter.

 

or look up "urban slang" and search the word.

[begleitung]

30 minutes ago, Guest googlist said:

 Before you need someone to join you, maybe just google the word otter.

 

or look up "urban slang" and search the word.

No thks, i dont need ne1 2 join me. 

[Guest googlist]

1 minute ago, begleitung said:

No thks, i dont need ne1 2 join me. 

 sure. I was "sensationalising" your nick name or teasing you on it.

 

 

[begleitung]

30 minutes ago, Guest googlist said:

 sure. I was "sensationalising" your nick name or teasing you on it.

 

 

Lol, thks. U know wht it mean

[Guest googlist]

6 minutes ago, begleitung said:

Lol, thks. U know wht it mean

would I tease you with it if I don't know the translation?

 

by the way it would be a bit old fashioned in the original language to use it in the context you probably meant to use it.

 

Maybe a companion to join you to an orgy.... LOL

[begleitung]

31 minutes ago, Guest googlist said:

would I tease you with it if I don't know the translation?

 

by the way it would be a bit old fashioned in the original language to use it in the context you probably meant to use it.

 

Maybe a companion to join you to an orgy.... LOL

That is true 

 

neway it cld mean many things depending on context

[tomcat]

8 hours ago, Fox92 said:

I don't bother with local ones coz Singaporeans are lame...

Same here, plus the saying "don't shit where you eat" carries more weight here in Singapore.

 

Past group fun I attended, when there was substances abound, people were recording and people were being recorded.

 

Singapore is not a big country, and even with doxxing laws, i don't think it is worth the risk really.

 

Anyway, for group fun, with a tinge of exhibitionism, I always enjoy bangkok saunas' group event night.

 

No phones, nudity is mandatory, the right level of dimness, and even some big starter cocks are supplied by the host to get everyone loosened up. 

 

Pops, lube, condoms all on hand, sometimes you can even have a willing participant put it on / apply for you. 

 

Even if you are just there to watch, there is enough action to go around - no pressure.

 

 

[Kimochi]

4 hours ago, begleitung said:

Lol, thks. U know wht it mean

Cantonese? 

[whitefuck]

Damn right on that, Yup, those been to R3 during its orgy theme, you gonna be surprised with the huge crowd and abundant of ass and cocks.

[begleitung]

52 minutes ago, Kimochi said:

Cantonese? 

I thinkk he meantt my handle

[Kimochi]

14 minutes ago, begleitung said:

I thinkk he meantt my handle

Your nickname leh ? What does it mean?