How to become more Dominant?

[Forbidden Vulpes]

Been very timid in life, and have never dared to inflict any sort of force on anyone.. been unable to satisfy many bottom due to this problem.
How can I overcome this?

How can I learn to lead?

Edited July 19, 2020 by Forbidden Vulpes

[Steve5380]

Your goal to become more dominant is not a good one.

 

What you want to do is to increase your dominion over yourself.  Timidity in life is caused by fear,  fear to not to measure up to others.  Up to what others are, or what others expect you to be.  Do you really need to lead?  Be your own boss, and you will surely be able to lead when leading must be done, if necessary.

 

You can increase your dominion over your fears little by little, one triumph at a time.  Remember these triumphs, when you did overcome some fear and realized that the fear was not justified.  Overcoming your fears means that you are becoming courageous.

 

If your fear is physical and you feel weak,  look into practicing a martial art,  my recommendation for this is Aikido.

 

If your fear comes from a perceived superiority of others,  remember that we are all EQUALLY miserable creatures that walk around for some years before coming to rest forever.  That "important" person is a victim like we are all of this inevitable cycle of death after life,  and you can even try to feel a little sorry for the "important" one because he will have to die.

 

Ah, and don't forget to get used to look other people in the eye.  And a smile will help you to be at ease.

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Edited July 19, 2020 by Steve5380

[Guest Reverse Training]

Just now, Forbidden Vulpes said:

Been very timid in life, and have never dared to inflict any sort of force on anyone.. been unable to satisfy many bottom due to this problem.
How can I overcome this?

How can I learn to lead?

Become a Bottom yourself, and receive practical learning experience from the Top.

[hairyboycunt]

Or you could lean into your timidity and be a sub or service top. They are quite the rarity and power bottoms would love you. 

[repressednerd]

On 7/20/2020 at 5:42 AM, Forbidden Vulpes said:

Been very timid in life, and have never dared to inflict any sort of force on anyone.. been unable to satisfy many bottom due to this problem.
How can I overcome this?

How can I learn to lead?

 

Find out what triggers you to be aggressive. 

 

Timid tops can be quite hot too. Like the kind that discreetly ravish you while you are sleeping. 

[LeanMature]

On 7/20/2020 at 5:42 AM, Forbidden Vulpes said:

Been very timid in life, and have never dared to inflict any sort of force on anyone.. been unable to satisfy many bottom due to this problem.
How can I overcome this?

How can I learn to lead?

 

Dominant bottoms like submissive tops and vice versa.  Probably, most of the bottoms you met are submissive and hence you cannot satisfied them.   

[fab]

Bad boys are born, not made.