Is anal sex a major part of a healthy relationship?

[Guest GuestCabbage]

Me & bf been together for almost a year now. We had plenty of sucking & jerking whenever we able to spent the night together but we only did top/bottom once(enjoyed it). A big part of that not happening often is because we both live with someone els so privacy is not on our side always. He’s been cool about it so far but do complain from time to time he wants it (him being the bottom) but i just dun feel like it. Is this normal? 

[kys0n]

Since you both enjoy fucking and he wants it, then you should just give it to him. If location is truly an issue, go for staycations. Anal sex is definitely a major part of a healthy relationship unless both guys are impotent...

Edited December 10, 2020 by kys0n

[Guest Cabbage]

1 hour ago, kys0n said:

Since you both enjoy fucking and he wants it, then you should just give it to him. If location is truly an issue, go for staycations. Anal sex is definitely a major part of a healthy relationship unless both guys are impotent...

thanks for the input

[Guest Cringy]

For me yes. Especially I like my BF fucking me in the morning once he wakes up

[Steve5380]

On 12/10/2020 at 4:49 AM, Guest GuestCabbage said:

Me & bf been together for almost a year now. We had plenty of sucking & jerking whenever we able to spent the night together but we only did top/bottom once(enjoyed it). A big part of that not happening often is because we both live with someone els so privacy is not on our side always. He’s been cool about it so far but do complain from time to time he wants it (him being the bottom) but i just dun feel like it. Is this normal? 

 

I don't find anal sex a major part of anything.  It is not natural, and the pleasure of being fucked only comes after having experienced it several times successfully.  This is my personal opinion, and I don't expect others to agree with me.  I never felt a particular desire to stick my cock into anything, but I enjoy all the other things that make me orgasm.  So I don't miss being a 'top'.

 

Other sources of pleasure are not natural either.  Like smoking tobacco, marihuana. Like getting injected with hard drugs. Like enjoying the thrill of danger. We can go an entire life without experiencing these pleasures and without missing them at all.

 

So...  should we enjoy just that wat comes natural for us to enjoy,  or should we live "the fullest life"  trying to find and explore all the possible sources of pleasure, no matter what the consequences are?  This is up to each of us.

 

After all these years,  I am satisfied to have chosen to live a good life that should last as long as I can,  instead of living "the fullest life" I could.  

[Guest Serious?]

On 4/4/2022 at 3:06 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

I don't find anal sex a major part of anything.  It is not natural, and the pleasure of being fucked only comes after having experienced it several times successfully.  This is my personal opinion, and I don't expect others to agree with me.  

You are absolutely right ................... ............................................................

I DO NOT AGREE WITH YOu.

[Steve5380]

On 4/3/2022 at 6:20 PM, Guest Serious? said:

You are absolutely right ................... ............................................................

I DO NOT AGREE WITH YOu.

 

Serious?  I don't consider this topic serious,  because it is a personal choice and you are entitled to like what you like.  Your disagreement is fine with me.

[Guest Bland]

On 4/4/2022 at 3:06 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

I don't find anal sex a major part of anything.  It is not natural, and the pleasure of being fucked only comes after having experienced it several times successfully.  This is my personal opinion, and I don't expect others to agree with me.  I never felt a particular desire to stick my cock into anything, but I enjoy all the other things that make me orgasm.  So I don't miss being a 'top'.

 

Gay sex without anal is like eating Hamburger without ham. 

[Steve5380]

On 4/3/2022 at 7:30 PM, Guest Bland said:

Gay sex without anal is like eating Hamburger without ham. 

 

I never eat a hamburger with ham.  Instead, it should have plenty of good ground beef.

[Guest You wouldn't understand]

On 4/4/2022 at 3:06 AM, Steve5380 said:

I never felt a particular desire to stick my cock into anything, but I enjoy all the other things that make me orgasm.  So I don't miss being a 'top'.

 

 I get lighted up with joys when people plug their cock inside my hole.  My bedroom suddently became very bright, like a switch being turned on. 

[Steve5380]

On 4/3/2022 at 7:44 PM, Guest You wouldn't understand said:

 I get lighted up with joys when people plug their cock inside my hole.  My bedroom suddently became very bright, like a switch being turned on. 

 

This is interesting.  When you bottom, your bedroom lights up without need for electricity.  Maybe there is an unknown type of energy that could resolve the issue of how to abandon fossil fuels.

[fab]

On 12/10/2020 at 6:49 PM, Guest GuestCabbage said:

Me & bf been together for almost a year now. We had plenty of sucking & jerking whenever we able to spent the night together but we only did top/bottom once(enjoyed it). A big part of that not happening often is because we both live with someone els so privacy is not on our side always. He’s been cool about it so far but do complain from time to time he wants it (him being the bottom) but i just dun feel like it. Is this normal? 

 

I m sure your housemates will be cool about it as long as u both are not too loud.

[Guest FireFly]

 

On 4/4/2022 at 9:30 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

This is interesting.  When you bottom, your bedroom lights up without need for electricity.  Maybe there is an unknown type of energy that could resolve the issue of how to abandon fossil fuels.

You think it is impossible.  Am I right?