Popular Post BlinkOnce Posted June 18, 2021 Popular Post Report Share Posted June 18, 2021 Hi guys, I took up the task of being a BW Moderator with a very poetic desire to provide help and safe space for the rising population of younger (and highly possibly confused and worried) gay/bi guys coming to Blowing Wind to explore and find themselves and try to navigate life as men who have sex with men. (And of course I would be happy to offer advice to anyone of any ages, provided you want to receive it) After careful consideration, I have decided to run a small Confessions/HTHT/Help Corner programme/initiative. A safe space for you to ask your questions, share your worries and seek advice to overcome the tough yet rewarding journey of exploring yourself, your sexuality and relationships with surrounding people as men who have sex with men (a.k.a. gay, bi men) 1) You can send confessions totally anonymously. Your confessions will be checked every Friday. 2) I will post them on Blowing Wind Member's Lounge so only members can give their own advice and points of view (and you still can read their replies anonymously). I will exercise censorship on troll and judgmental replies as I deem fit, to prevent hurting the "confessants". 3) I'm currently working on a tracking mechanism so confessants can keep track and read new replies easily. Will update once I figure it out. 4) Click HERE to confess/ask question/share your worries. fragile being, Zealouslogue, flowereat and 13 others 8 1 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BlinkOnce Posted June 18, 2021 Author Popular Post Report Share Posted June 18, 2021 Hi guys, I took up the task of being a BW Moderator with a very poetic desire to provide help and safe space for the rising population of younger (and highly possibly confused and worried) gay/bi guys coming to Blowing Wind to explore and find themselves and try to navigate life as men who have sex with men. (And of course I would be happy to offer advice to anyone of any ages, provided you want to receive it) After careful consideration, I have decided to run a small Confessions/HTHT/Help Corner programme/initiative. A safe space for you to ask your questions, share your worries and seek advice to overcome the tough yet rewarding journey of exploring yourself, your sexuality and relationships with surrounding people as men who have sex with men (a.k.a. gay, bi men) 1) You can send confessions totally anonymously. Your confessions will be checked every Friday. 2) I will post them on Blowing Wind Member's Lounge so only members can give their own advice and points of view (and you still can read their replies anonymously). I will exercise censorship on troll and judgmental replies as I deem fit, to prevent hurting the "confessants". 3) I'm currently working on a tracking mechanism so confessants can keep track and read new replies easily. Will update once I figure it out. 4) Click HERE to confess/ask question/share your worries. Zealouslogue, IkuTube, Bern and 5 others 3 1 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted June 18, 2021 Report Share Posted June 18, 2021 Wow like! Thanks for hard work boss! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 19, 2021 Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 22 hours ago, BlinkOnce said: (And of course I would be happy to offer advice to anyone of any ages, provided you want to receive it) You offer advice ..... ? You .... ? Errrrrrr ........ For all your good intentions, please 卖嗨囊. Advise comes in all forms and shapes. If people wants to censor and sugarcoat the advise from the "trolls" to the "confessant, then you can jolly well go seek nicey-dicey advise from the church and pay the professionals to listen only to the good stuff. This is real life advise given to the "confessants" from the public school of hard knocks. If you don't even know that, then I wonder what type of "Advice" you can give. But in any case, I'm just here to troll for fun. So you can also take this as a "free" tough-cookie advice I am giving from a troll. Hahahaha Byeeeeeeee ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cheers Posted June 19, 2021 Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 By and large, putting things in perspective, the advices from members will have a high degree of bias. Judge and analyse for yourself when you receive them. Do bear in mind, our community of guys here are not a majority in our society, we are in fact a very small minority when taken in relativity. Therefore, do not conclude that the advices here represent the majority of “the school of hard knocks”, our voice just represent one of many voices. cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlinkOnce Posted June 19, 2021 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: You offer advice ..... ? You .... ? Errrrrrr ........ For all your good intentions, please 卖嗨囊. Advise comes in all forms and shapes. If people wants to censor and sugarcoat the advise from the "trolls" to the "confessant, then you can jolly well go seek nicey-dicey advise from the church and pay the professionals to listen only to the good stuff. This is real life advise given to the "confessants" from the public school of hard knocks. If you don't even know that, then I wonder what type of "Advice" you can give. But in any case, I'm just here to troll for fun. So you can also take this as a "free" tough-cookie advice I am giving from a troll. Hahahaha Byeeeeeeee ..... 1) Troll comments can be harmful to the ones on the receiving end, especially if they are already in a vulnerable state of minds. You would think being a troll on the internet is cool and stuff, but you're just a toxic and miserable being. Attack my censorship all you want, I am not here to please you anyway. 2) Troll comments are not hard-knocks. Don't try to twist it to propagate your toxicity Crusier197, firefight and yuquidam 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlinkOnce Posted June 19, 2021 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 26 minutes ago, Guest Cheers said: By and large, putting things in perspective, the advices from members will have a high degree of bias. Judge and analyse for yourself when you receive them. Do bear in mind, our community of guys here are not a majority in our society, we are in fact a very small minority when taken in relativity. Therefore, do not conclude that the advices here represent the majority of “the school of hard knocks”, our voice just represent one of many voices. cheers To a certain extent, you're not wrong. Thank you for pointing this out. However, advice will always be biased, not just from the members here. And one should always judge and analyze the advice given to him, regardless of where the advice comes from. I will try my best to make sure the pieces of advice are of good-will, how the confessants process them are their own decisions. P.S. I don't believe that the opinions of the majority are necessarily always the helpful ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 19, 2021 Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 I still remember how a moderator wanted to start something like an "All Gays Come OUT" movement here on BW. He was also making some false claims about having some kind of a support network coming soon here on BW, and that was more than a year ago. Imagine if some in-the-closet gays followed his movement during that time and then gets thrown under the bus soon after that. They'd still be bleeding there today. That's cringeworthy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlinkOnce Posted June 19, 2021 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2021 7 hours ago, Guest Guest said: I still remember how a moderator wanted to start something like an "All Gays Come OUT" movement here on BW. He was also making some false claims about having some kind of a support network coming soon here on BW, and that was more than a year ago. Imagine if some in-the-closet gays followed his movement during that time and then gets thrown under the bus soon after that. They'd still be bleeding there today. That's cringeworthy. Nice way of putting words in my mouth. Exactly what you do best Keep it up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gleamingsparks Posted July 14, 2021 Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 Hi! Idk if this movement has died, but I hope that people could have been less critical. It is nice of @BlinkOnce to attempt to do something for community-building, regardless of whether people consider the effort naive or ineffective. @BlinkOnce idk you or if you have any preexisting reputation, but hope you keep up your efforts! forbiindiantop 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlinkOnce Posted July 14, 2021 Author Report Share Posted July 14, 2021 4 minutes ago, gleamingsparks said: Hi! Idk if this movement has died, but I hope that people could have been less critical. It is nice of @BlinkOnce to attempt to do something for community-building, regardless of whether people consider the effort naive or ineffective. @BlinkOnce idk you or if you have any preexisting reputation, but hope you keep up your efforts! Thanks for the kind words! No, the "people" were not critical. They are just smelly trolls who get offended by any traces of positivity online and within the community. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeryk Posted July 24, 2021 Report Share Posted July 24, 2021 Bravo, hope our young (and young at heart) find the support you guys are providing. Well done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted August 3, 2021 Report Share Posted August 3, 2021 firstly, THANKS @BlinkOnce for volunteering ur time & sweat=) 2ndly, the 2 URL i posted below is to show u: Why people in the Catholic Faith go to a CONFESSIONS booth to pour out their heart & soul. i am not Catholic, & i have never stepped into a Confessions Booth in a Cathedral, but i have def benefitted from the advice of my Mentors when i "Confessed to them" my struggles, so similarly, pls post ur queries here, take care & stay safe! https://www.catholic.sg/directory/singapore_catholic_church/go-for-confession https://catholicreview.org/what-to-say-in-confession-reverence-needed-in-church 1983rophi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curious Panda Posted August 7, 2021 Report Share Posted August 7, 2021 I hope you still continue this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glyph Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 (edited) So many years have passed but still the same old poison. smh Edited March 21, 2022 by Glyph aedirn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 21, 2022 Report Share Posted April 21, 2022 Why aren't more members taking advantage of your service of therapeutic confessions? I remember when I was young-er having so many issues that I would not share with God in any confessional, but could have gotten answered very well in an anonymous gay website. The problem is that gay websites didn't exist when I was young ( or I never knew about them? ), while now being old-er I have most of my issues resolved. But if I ever have a secret issue now, I surely will confess it here in your confessions corner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just Curious Posted April 23, 2022 Report Share Posted April 23, 2022 On 4/21/2022 at 9:40 PM, Steve5380 said: Why aren't more members taking advantage of your service of therapeutic confessions? I remember when I was young-er having so many issues that I would not share with God in any confessional, but could have gotten answered very well in an anonymous gay website. The problem is that gay websites didn't exist when I was young ( or I never knew about them? ), while now being old-er I have most of my issues resolved. But if I ever have a secret issue now, I surely will confess it here in your confessions corner. I applaud @BlinkOnce for his service to the membership and to others who choose to post as guests. As far as @Steve5380 is concerned, he answered his own question. There were few if any ways of young gay guys finding answers to questions about sexuality and being or feeling gay when he was young. Now our world is filled with so many ways of obtaining advice. The problem is that it is not always clear who is giving the advice and if he/she has any agenda behind it. End result is that merely checking websites can be incredibly confusing. Even BW illustrates that there can be a variety of views on any single subject. And discussion can be heated when one poster is queried about questionable advice he may have posted. The key to @BlinkOnce's post is that he seeks to assist younger gay/bi guys. The best advice for younger guys comes from those who are roughly the same age and have been through roughly the same experiences at roughly the same time. For example, advice given to gay guys in the early 1980s at the start of the AIDS crisis will be quite different now. Similarly advice given to guys in Singapore and Malaysia with Article 377 still on the statute books will be different to that given by those living in countries which have accepted gay relationships and gay sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted April 23, 2022 Report Share Posted April 23, 2022 On 4/23/2022 at 12:55 AM, Guest Just Curious said: The key to @BlinkOnce's post is that he seeks to assist younger gay/bi guys. The best advice for younger guys comes from those who are roughly the same age and have been through roughly the same experiences at roughly the same time. For example, advice given to gay guys in the early 1980s at the start of the AIDS crisis will be quite different now. Similarly advice given to guys in Singapore and Malaysia with Article 377 still on the statute books will be different to that given by those living in countries which have accepted gay relationships and gay sex. In reality we are the result of millions of years of evolution, not some decades of technological improvements. Our place of residence, our age, don't change much the fundamental circumstances of our lives as human beings. Good advice can come from anyone, and the more experienced he is, the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Just Curious Posted April 24, 2022 Report Share Posted April 24, 2022 Naturally good advice can come from anyone. But that depends on the nature of the advice and the age of those requesting and those giving. A late teens or early 20s Singaporean boy seeking advice on home issues or on how to pursue a first relationship with a fellow Singaporean in 2022 has little to learn from older posters in their 70s who have spent all their lives in western countries with their totally different life styles and grew up in a completely different times and communities. Similarly, older posters living many thousands of kms from Asia probably have little to learn from younger Asians in that age group. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topverstop Posted May 6, 2023 Report Share Posted May 6, 2023 i had a confession. I used to secretly film my roommate jerking off. Back in those days, 10 years ago, i was staying with a roommate at uni. He was totally straight. Tried to invite him to JO with me while watching straight porn but he die die refused. And I found out that he had this habit of jerking off when i was away (went out to buy food/go to shower/out for a run). I would notice there will be a clump of tissue (with cum) wrapped in paper in his bin. So I decided to spycam him. Our tables are positioned next to each other. So i would place my tablet in my book and adjust the light to the minimum (almost dark) and on the video recording and position the camera in a way that it would record him from the sideway. And yes, I managed to record a few of his session beating off his junk. He would usually jerk off to some straight porn on twitter and cum on his belly (he did this 2-3x/week) and wiped it off using tissue and throw it in his bin. One time when i back from running I saw this clump of tissue again in his bin and he was away (for shower i think), i would pick it up and lick the cum off and jerk on it. Sometimes I also noticed that he got wet dream (he only started to learn to JO when in second year uni time). I would pick his wet cum-stained undies off and sniffed and jerk myself off when he was away for shower. He never know that i was doing it. Now that i have deleted the recordings from my tablet out of guilt, but sometimes i would still miss seeing him beating his cock vigorously and jerk myself off watching it. (haha anyway that i can restore deleted videos on iPad?) He is now married and expecting a baby soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yas1950 Posted May 6, 2023 Report Share Posted May 6, 2023 (edited) 5 hours ago, topverstop said: i had a confession. I used to secretly film my roommate jerking off. Back in those days, 10 years ago, i was staying with a roommate at uni. He was totally straight. Tried to invite him to JO with me while watching straight porn but he die die refused. And I found out that he had this habit of jerking off when i was away (went out to buy food/go to shower/out for a run). I would notice there will be a clump of tissue (with cum) wrapped in paper in his bin. So I decided to spycam him. Our tables are positioned next to each other. So i would place my tablet in my book and adjust the light to the minimum (almost dark) and on the video recording and position the camera in a way that it would record him from the sideway. And yes, I managed to record a few of his session beating off his junk. He would usually jerk off to some straight porn on twitter and cum on his belly (he did this 2-3x/week) and wiped it off using tissue and throw it in his bin. One time when i back from running I saw this clump of tissue again in his bin and he was away (for shower i think), i would pick it up and lick the cum off and jerk on it. Sometimes I also noticed that he got wet dream (he only started to learn to JO when in second year uni time). I would pick his wet cum-stained undies off and sniffed and jerk myself off when he was away for shower. He never know that i was doing it. Now that i have deleted the recordings from my tablet out of guilt, but sometimes i would still miss seeing him beating his cock vigorously and jerk myself off watching it. (haha anyway that i can restore deleted videos on iPad?) He is now married and expecting a baby soon. You're a really sneaky fella. Hahaha... But anyways you did not hurt each other so I guess its all in fun - privately. So its ok. Now that he's married and with a family, just leave him alone and file this memory away in your memory bank. No need to ever bring it up with him again. Edited May 6, 2023 by Yas1950 Grammar yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy Reaves Posted May 27, 2023 Report Share Posted May 27, 2023 On 5/6/2023 at 7:30 AM, topverstop said: i had a confession. I used to secretly film my roommate jerking off. Back in those days, 10 years ago, i was staying with a roommate at uni. He was totally straight. Tried to invite him to JO with me while watching straight porn but he die die refused. And I found out that he had this habit of jerking off when i was away (went out to buy food/go to shower/out for a run). I would notice there will be a clump of tissue (with cum) wrapped in paper in his bin. So I decided to spycam him. Our tables are positioned next to each other. So i would place my tablet in my book and adjust the light to the minimum (almost dark) and on the video recording and position the camera in a way that it would record him from the sideway. And yes, I managed to record a few of his session beating off his junk. He would usually jerk off to some straight porn on twitter and cum on his belly (he did this 2-3x/week) and wiped it off using tissue and throw it in his bin. One time when i back from running I saw this clump of tissue again in his bin and he was away (for shower i think), i would pick it up and lick the cum off and jerk on it. Sometimes I also noticed that he got wet dream (he only started to learn to JO when in second year uni time). I would pick his wet cum-stained undies off and sniffed and jerk myself off when he was away for shower. He never know that i was doing it. Now that i have deleted the recordings from my tablet out of guilt, but sometimes i would still miss seeing him beating his cock vigorously and jerk myself off watching it. (haha anyway that i can restore deleted videos on iPad?) He is now married and expecting a baby soon. Sounds like a fan fiction lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KenzoKenzo Posted July 26, 2023 Report Share Posted July 26, 2023 I have a habit of Jerking off in public toilet. I enjoy stroking and showing my shadow. Sometimes when the person next to me did the same makes me super excited. I guess i’m crazy but my hard P controls me well. Just hard for me to break the habit. The thought of not knowing who the person in next cubicle excites me. When i see the guy doing the same and our both hard P shadow crosses each other i get so aroused. And sometimes we moan to each other action. It was a fantastic feeling which i can’t resist. Do u guys have the same weird behaviour like me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Comrade Posted July 26, 2023 Report Share Posted July 26, 2023 3 hours ago, KenzoKenzo said: I have a habit of Jerking off in public toilet. I enjoy stroking and showing my shadow. Sometimes when the person next to me did the same makes me super excited. I guess i’m crazy but my hard P controls me well. Just hard for me to break the habit. The thought of not knowing who the person in next cubicle excites me. When i see the guy doing the same and our both hard P shadow crosses each other i get so aroused. And sometimes we moan to each other action. It was a fantastic feeling which i can’t resist. Do u guys have the same weird behaviour like me? I share exactly your same "highs" in the toilet. Used to have my fix at N Point 2nd Lvl (old wing, above Macs'). Then at OTP. But my best experiences are still at pool shower rooms. The water reflection from the floor gives a clear view of similar seekers. Many instances when we take turn slipping half the body under if partition is high enough. Some even ride my super hard tool. The water, the soapiness, the nakedness all add to a heightened experience way beyond a understal in norma cubicle toilets. Got my fix at TPY, Hougang, OTH, SAFRA Tampines swimming pool shower rooms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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