Popular Post Btyred91 Posted December 9, 2021 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 9, 2021 I'm a chubby guy (BMI used to be north of 42, and it is now down to 37.1) and I have been for the most of my life. Recently, I turned 30 and started to make conscious changes in my life to become healthier and happier with myself. The desire to be around my loved ones for as long as I can, to care for them and experience new things motivated me even more. This is not to say that you cannot be happy with yourself otherwise, but I know first hand what it is like to feel like you're in a rut that you cannot pull yourself out of. Sometimes we just need to experience a nudge from one person who knows exactly what to say, with no judgement. This post is not a show of vanity, nor is it a plea for public validation. It's one of affirmation, kindness & love. Fitness posters never (at least not that I've seen in Singapore) capture plus-sized individuals struggling to catch their breath while running on a treadmill, or falling over because they can't even hold themselves up. Yet, it isn't said enough how much effort and pain a fat person needs to put in and experience before seeing any result. So I'm taking the first step and reaching out. This isn't a professional personal trainer selling you a training package (not that there's anything wrong with that!) - Fat guy to other fat guys: If anybody feels like you need somebody to speak to, confide in, or work together with to get healthier and happier, feel free to reach out to me via DMs, or leave comments/questions following this post. If things fall in place, we might even consider doing some activity together! Your Friend, B Vinc, FatSucker89, Derren and 2 others 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Btyred91 Posted December 9, 2021 Author Report Share Posted December 9, 2021 *And as a side note to anyone else who is 'regular-sized', please be kind and refrain from fat-shaming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derren Posted December 10, 2021 Report Share Posted December 10, 2021 On 12/9/2021 at 3:53 PM, Btyred91 said: I'm a chubby guy (BMI used to be north of 42, and it is now down to 37.1) and I have been for the most of my life. Recently, I turned 30 and started to make conscious changes in my life to become healthier and happier with myself. The desire to be around my loved ones for as long as I can, to care for them and experience new things motivated me even more. This is not to say that you cannot be happy with yourself otherwise, but I know first hand what it is like to feel like you're in a rut that you cannot pull yourself out of. Sometimes we just need to experience a nudge from one person who knows exactly what to say, with no judgement. This post is not a show of vanity, nor is it a plea for public validation. It's one of affirmation, kindness & love. Fitness posters never (at least not that I've seen in Singapore) capture plus-sized individuals struggling to catch their breath while running on a treadmill, or falling over because they can't even hold themselves up. Yet, it isn't said enough how much effort and pain a fat person needs to put in and experience before seeing any result. So I'm taking the first step and reaching out. This isn't a professional personal trainer selling you a training package (not that there's anything wrong with that!) - Fat guy to other fat guys: If anybody feels like you need somebody to speak to, confide in, or work together with to get healthier and happier, feel free to reach out to me via DMs, or leave comments/questions following this post. If things fall in place, we might even consider doing some activity together! Your Friend, B A wonderful initiative! Hope overweight guys will help each other. The mental aspect is very crucial. Throughout the fitness journey, you will need encouragement and nudging from buddies who will hold you "accountable" and root for you. For good health!!! Btyred91 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted January 1, 2022 Report Share Posted January 1, 2022 I believe a fit guy helping a fat guy to get healthy is much more efficient than a fat guy helping a fat guy to be more healthy. Its best to seek advise from those that have successfully change from fat to fit people as only they know the hardship and pain one need to go through from being fat to fit and healthy. For those with lower metabolism or older age best is to seek those people who had this kind of success at older age to be on par with metabolism problems Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seeseook Posted January 18, 2022 Report Share Posted January 18, 2022 Hi. How do i contact u? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Btyred91 Posted January 26, 2022 Author Report Share Posted January 26, 2022 On 1/19/2022 at 5:41 AM, Guest Seeseook said: Hi. How do i contact u? DM me for telegram details Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest guest Posted February 12, 2022 Report Share Posted February 12, 2022 How do i get ur telegram? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Btyred91 Posted February 18, 2022 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2022 On 2/13/2022 at 6:25 AM, Guest Guest guest said: How do i get ur telegram? PM me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest guest Posted February 26, 2022 Report Share Posted February 26, 2022 On 2/18/2022 at 8:23 AM, Btyred91 said: PM me On 2/18/2022 at 8:23 AM, Btyred91 said: PM me For some reason, i am unable to login to blowing wind. Hence, unable to PM u. Anyother ways to get in touch? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Btyred91 Posted March 1, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 1, 2022 On 2/26/2022 at 8:22 AM, Guest Guest guest said: For some reason, i am unable to login to blowing wind. Hence, unable to PM u. Anyother ways to get in touch? can tele me at btyred91 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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