Guest imtbh Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 Hello, I'm planning to tell my mother today that I'm gay. Do you think it is a good idea? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pubic01 Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 (edited) This kind of thing, no rush la .. focus on a happy get together or dine out instead of trivia such as sexual orientation lol .. just my view la. (Anyone can flame me la 🔥 haha)  Due to some circumstance, I’ve to come clean with my mum at one point. She kind of knew all along, but for her to confront the matter face on is still really quite a trauma. (I remembered that I had to sit down and put my arms around her to keep assuring her that my future self will be just fine, and that I’ll be safe and nothing bad will happen to me. All that while, she was trembling a bit with so much guilt in her eyes. I suppose she was worrying about my future. I remembered till this day. And honestly I still feel bad putting her through that.) Edited May 8, 2022 by Pubic01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 Suppose to be a happy occasion but If u tell u are gay during mother's day .I bet her heart will sink and a happy outing become moody and sad.Bet she will have no appetite but only wanted to go home and be isolated in her room. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 I personally think bring your secret and bury in yr grave is better than hurting someone heart who have to suffer till her last day worry about yr sexuality and lonely lifestyle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 Don't tell her plz. Just keep it to the closet forever...it is her big moment or day..you just destroy everything...pls don't be selfish...yours is not important. Her is.  She is the one who give birth to you etc....no matter what she do or you like or don't like she come first.   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mundane Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 On 5/8/2022 at 8:19 AM, Guest imtbh said: Hello, I'm planning to tell my mother today that I'm gay. Do you think it is a good idea? It is mother's day, not gay's day. You have no sense of priority. Besides, my birthday fell on Mother's day too. Neither of us celebrate nor say anything. It is just another ordinary day for the family. Still need to return to work after that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simply_me Posted May 8, 2022 Share Posted May 8, 2022 For me I think its okay. Coz the perfect moment/timing to say or admit to your parents that youre a gay is "when you feel youre ready"  When I say ready. Means that youre ready to be: - Rejected - Judged - Hit ( some fathers do that) - Kena dis-owned - independent to live on your own incase u kena kick out the house. - And be humiliated.  Trust your instinct. ( just my opinion) And then 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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