Guest Pissed Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 Got a useless sibling in 40's, low paid job, wife left him, still staying with parents, everyday just play computer games. How to kick some sense into him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodybuildMLY Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 11:30 AM, Guest Pissed said: Got a useless sibling in 40's, low paid job, wife left him, still staying with parents, everyday just play computer games. How to kick some sense into him? How does this "useless sibling" impact negatively on you and your parents? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Try and see Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 11:30 AM, Guest Pissed said: Got a useless sibling in 40's, low paid job, wife left him, still staying with parents, everyday just play computer games. How to kick some sense into him? At least we can understand why his wife left him 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 11:30 AM, Guest Pissed said: Got a useless sibling in 40's, low paid job, wife left him, still staying with parents, everyday just play computer games. How to kick some sense into him? Don't provide him any food. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Derelict Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 11:30 AM, Guest Pissed said: Got a useless sibling in 40's, low paid job, wife left him, still staying with parents, everyday just play computer games. How to kick some sense into him? Metaphorically, it sounds like you kicked yourself first🤭 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 If he thinks he can survive in such life, so be it. Kick sense into him is no use. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robin Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 If he is not borrowing from you or your parents, learn to let go & let him live his own life. If your parents are of old age & he don’t want to stay with them, are you going to take over that role? Ironrod 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ffffffff Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 The wife is such a fair weathered user. She left as the husband is no longer useful to her? So what happened to till death do us part, go through thick and thin? Marriage vows don't mean anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodybuildMLY Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 12:30 PM, bodybuildMLY said: How does this "useless sibling" impact negatively on you and your parents? That is why I am asking this question: how you define "useless" in terms of negative impact to his parents and siblings. I am still baffled because he is still working albeit low-paying job. Is he sponging on the parents or something? Ask his parents to cook for him? Etc, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted June 12, 2022 Share Posted June 12, 2022 On 6/12/2022 at 10:18 PM, bodybuildMLY said: That is why I am asking this question: how you define "useless" in terms of negative impact to his parents and siblings. I am still baffled because he is still working albeit low-paying job. Is he sponging on the parents or something? Ask his parents to cook for him? Etc, etc. Chinese strongly believe in tradtion value. Family union dinner, mother love cooking, siblings came together to bond regardless of status. One family member stay in the same roof to look after the aged. These are very morally acceptable and getting very rare in Singapore. Who is still complaining? bodybuildMLY 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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