Guest Jira Posted July 16, 2022 Report Share Posted July 16, 2022 Have you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mith Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 Of cos not, i love myself more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 Lover or stranger. No friend. Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest A victim Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 After going through a lot in life, I will not settle for anything less. Either lover or no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 Nope...it take 2 hands 2 clap. Don't expect me be the one who keep give in and intiating....who keep planning outings etc....then you do what? Just enjoy the ride is it? That is why I am so sick and tired of going thru the process of dating I might as well be friends we go out etc...if you like enjoy my company etc...then we can pursue it slowly eventually not rushing.... And for now I rather have those fit ones coz I been given fair chances to those from skinny to bodyfats..all the same...thought I saw something different but same... I guess life need to move on and your soulmate or that someone whom you been searching for is somewhere out there....just leave it to cupid 💘 or fate....not in sauna or not in cage or not in someone place... Shamz85 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 This happens when your social circle is not wide enough and you spend too much time on one person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sg89ailikesi Posted July 17, 2022 Report Share Posted July 17, 2022 I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever. anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice. Enci 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nwzw Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 Me too. It also didn’t help that I fell for my best friend. Always tried to convince myself that I have given up but he is always the person I think of when drunk. sighh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notd Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 I have. Currently going through a similar experience, though my friend has the added point of being straight. One in KL, the other in SG. It's pretty much never going to happen. One night, while gaming together, some misunderstanding happened and it caused him to throw a fit. With no other way to salvage the friendship, I had to reveal my feelings to him to help him understand the root of the misunderstanding. Needless to say... I don't enjoy reveal such private feelings like that, but it is what it is and I would rather keep him in my life than have him cut me off. Another one, S, whom I meet on this server is someone I still long for deeply. He realized I had feelings for him, cut me off. I tried to remain friends, but he no longer replies me. Hopefully we'll be able to meet again some day. mith 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 On 7/18/2022 at 1:58 PM, notd said: Another one, S, whom I meet on this server is someone I still long for deeply. He realized I had feelings for him, cut me off. I tried to remain friends, but he no longer replies me. Hopefully we'll be able to meet again some day. dude, you need to move on. i read your long post previously. clearly, S is not interested to develop further. do yourself a favour, close this chapter and bury it deep inside your heart. life is short, youth is short, love yourself more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 (edited) Its the worst. I had this experience when i was in my 20s. He will tell you who he likes when you are both out socialising and u will be sick with jealousy but yet have to listen and feign interest. Edited July 18, 2022 by lean n mean sg89ailikesi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enci Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 On 7/18/2022 at 12:33 AM, sg89ailikesi said: I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever. anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice. Before I was married, I had a crush on one guy who told me the same thing, the pain is forever. sg89ailikesi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enci Posted July 18, 2022 Report Share Posted July 18, 2022 On 7/18/2022 at 2:11 PM, Guest Guest said: dude, you need to move on. i read your long post previously. clearly, S is not interested to develop further. do yourself a favour, close this chapter and bury it deep inside your heart. life is short, youth is short, love yourself more. Easier said then to be done, but that is the reality of life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sg89ailikesi Posted July 19, 2022 Report Share Posted July 19, 2022 On 7/18/2022 at 11:06 PM, Enci said: Before I was married, I had a crush on one guy who told me the same thing, the pain is forever. What to do. Somethings cannot be forced. At least u are married now. Enci 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enci Posted July 19, 2022 Report Share Posted July 19, 2022 On 7/19/2022 at 9:48 AM, sg89ailikesi said: What to do. Somethings cannot be forced. At least u are married now. But my heart remains painful for the past decade or so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enci Posted July 19, 2022 Report Share Posted July 19, 2022 On 7/18/2022 at 12:33 AM, sg89ailikesi said: I love someone, but he don’t like me, also suggested to be friends as friends can be forever. lover also can be forever is just whether will be successful a not. Friends also may not be forever. anyway I am those will try to win his heart. If one day, he is being touched then at least I can be with him. If not then no choice. Encountered the same words Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enci Posted July 19, 2022 Report Share Posted July 19, 2022 On 7/19/2022 at 12:50 PM, Enci said: But my heart remains painful for the past decade or so Infact I think the same way you need, I tell u don't waste yr time, let it be, otherwise u will end up with nothing like me after a decade. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Why? Posted July 20, 2022 Report Share Posted July 20, 2022 The best method to keep that person in your life may well be through this. Throughout the day, I remained my friend's friend. As night falls, we let our options run wild. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deg143 Posted August 10, 2022 Report Share Posted August 10, 2022 (edited) Yes I did. I think it's better to end up as friends if you still want to keep him and if he also wants to keep you as well. Atleast you still get to see and bond with him. Eventually, you will learn to accept it la. I still tease him that I like him many times but he got used to hearing it already. haha. I can feel that he cares for me though so that alone is enough for me to keep him. 🙂 Edited August 10, 2022 by deg143 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryuki Posted January 28, 2023 Report Share Posted January 28, 2023 Friend, companion, platonic relationship.. many people have many own ways to manage this.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMassage Posted January 28, 2023 Report Share Posted January 28, 2023 On 7/17/2022 at 7:42 AM, Guest Jira said: Have you? yes. Quote D'BodyWorkz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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