Confuse on role preference.

[Guest Puzzled]

Have conflicting thoughts on which role I prefer to be with:

 

1) Metup with tops/vers t - all of them are straight acting and quite rough in bed. Most want to anal which I have no interest for ONS, but like the mascular dominating vibes these guys give.

 

2) Metup with versatile/vers b - most are just bottom in disguise except for a few. More submissive and generally friendlier than 1).

 

3) Bottom - majority are feminine and thus have no interest in this group.

[abc_sg]

 

  On 4/8/2023 at 10:08 AM, Guest Puzzled said:

Have conflicting thoughts on which role I prefer to be with:

 

1) Metup with tops/vers t - all of them are straight acting and quite rough in bed. Most want to anal which I have no interest for ONS, but like the mascular dominating vibes these guys give.

 

2) Metup with versatile/vers b - most are just bottom in disguise except for a few. More submissive and generally friendlier than 1).

 

3) Bottom - majority are feminine and thus have no interest in this group.

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Generally your observation is true, with some small amount of exceptions. 

[Steve5380]

I don't quite understand.  You could be confused on role preference if you don't have role preferences.   But most of us have,  and then there is no need for confusion:  follow your role preferences, if you can. 

 

If you can,  because there were times when we gays could not be too picky.  It was already a success to have found gay sex, and compromises could be made on preferences.

 

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

It seem you prefer those who discreet. Then just go with 1. Coz 2 and 3 might embarrassed you or too submissive and feminine.