Startup Posted June 10, 2023 Report Share Posted June 10, 2023 What prompted this thread was someone seeking married guys cos he was sick of the gay dramas. I told him to wake up his idea cos as long as we are humans there will always be dramas. What's so special about married guys that they are free from dramas? The only difference is that they have changed to a different script. Perhaps you can educate this bro on the dramas married guys play on others. Please don't take this as married men bashing. We should also list the dramas by singles, women and other kinds. Let's do it in a light hearted fashion. Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 15, 2023 Report Share Posted June 15, 2023 We cannot avoid it. Everyone is free to have his/her own drama. The best we can do is not to let that dramas from other people become our own drama, or influence in any way our lack of drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted June 15, 2023 Report Share Posted June 15, 2023 Not everyone has a life PlayersGroup 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonathan1456 Posted June 16, 2023 Report Share Posted June 16, 2023 Always good to be grounded and know what you want in life. Different people approach life differently and some are more into dramas. Just take life with a pinch of salt and move on if it does not click with your sense of living. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IkuTube Posted June 16, 2023 Report Share Posted June 16, 2023 Interestingly, this topic reminds me of the book 'The Celestine Prophecy' written by James Redfield. Must say the book is very well written and insightful. He used the term 'control drama' to elaborate on how humans unconsciously seek to control each other by playing out different behaviours (dramas). According to him, humans respond themselves with these conducts : 01. The Poor Me; 02. The Aloof; 03. The Interrogator and 04. The Intimidator. [Google for more info on the four dramas] Basically, in all our daily interactions, either we become dominantly big in one control drama or we play out abit of each. We, including myself, are guilty of such. I guess the only way to be less 'drama' is to become aware of our thought processes and how we act and react to them. The saying 'Be good, do good and feel good' would be a good reminder to live by. It will do humanity good should we learn to be human first without the need to control each other. Thanks for posting this topic, @Startup. Startup 1 Quote Click Here To Visit My Blog @ "The Blessed Life" *Let me live my life to be an instrument of 'Love', in how I speak and in how I see others* - May there be Love and Peace beyond all understanding - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetie Pie Posted June 17, 2023 Report Share Posted June 17, 2023 I expect drama to die out when one gets older. I normally see drama being played out by younger age group of people. Similarly, the topic of coversations also shifted accordingly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted June 17, 2023 Report Share Posted June 17, 2023 12 hours ago, Sweetie Pie said: I expect drama to die out when one gets older. I normally see drama being played out by younger age group of people. Similarly, the topic of coversations also shifted accordingly. Yes it will Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dan Posted September 24, 2023 Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 So many spam posts by fake accounts in this group. Nobody cares about the spam post. What is their objective? What do they want? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AskMeNot Posted September 24, 2023 Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 Ain't you the spam? This is an old thread you revived. 🙂 Kimochi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 26, 2023 Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 4:11 AM, Sweetie Pie said: I expect drama to die out when one gets older. I normally see drama being played out by younger age group of people. Similarly, the topic of coversations also shifted accordingly. I also expect drama to die out completely in me when I am old. Less drama, more peace and happiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest New Guest Posted September 26, 2023 Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 6 hours ago, Steve5380 said: I also expect drama to die out completely in me when I am old. How young are you now? Tell us about your common drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 26, 2023 Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 6 hours ago, Guest New Guest said: How young are you now? Tell us about your common drama. Welcome New Guest. I am now 80 years middle-aged. I expect that by the time I reach 90 I will be old. I still tune some into the World Drama, speculating what it is and what it could / should become. But slowly I am coming to terms with this Drama, and by the time I am old I will end giving it any importance. Drama never ends, but its importance is under my control. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest New Guest Posted September 27, 2023 Report Share Posted September 27, 2023 10 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Welcome New Guest. I am now 80 years middle-aged. So you are an an octogenarian.....hmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 27, 2023 Report Share Posted September 27, 2023 7 hours ago, Guest New Guest said: So you are an an octogenarian.....hmmmm Why hmmm...? Yes, I am starting in my eighties. Hopefully you will too one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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