感同身受 …

[JusteMoi]

“The  saddest love is the love that never materializes, the love that exists  only in dreams and silent hopes.”

- Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

[JusteMoi]

“ 愛自己，不是自戀，不是什麼都只替自己想；更不是放任自己，讓愛自己，最後變成「害」自己。”

- 角子

[SheJinQu]

＂月亮之上，月老之下，我愿不顾一切的爱你很久，而你会不加思索的陪我很久吗？＂

-shejinqu

[JusteMoi]

“Sometimes distance teaches you the value of a person.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 可愛不是可憐得沒人愛。

可愛是被欣賞。

你要先喜歡自己，才會真的被欣賞。

你要先懂得愛自己，才會真的可愛。”

Edited April 11, 2025 by JusteMoi

[JusteMoi]

“A love that lingers in stolen sight, in unspoken words, in the space between what is and what can be. And as time passes, that love becomes a bitter memory, a tender pain that never  fully goes away, a reminder of what was lost even before it had a chance to be discovered. “

- Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

Edited April 11, 2025 by JusteMoi

[JusteMoi]

"Sometimes we lose people , because we overlove them."

[JusteMoi]

“你自己都不喜歡自己，卻希望別人喜歡你，這樣的建立在別人身上的喜歡，是很不牢靠的。”

[SheJinQu]

”讨厌一个人不难，难是难在心里还放不下那个人。”

[JusteMoi]

“ 你是因為懂得「愛自己」，因為能對自己說到做到，於是越來越有自信，越來越喜歡自己。”

[Togsport]

 

Where there is love there is life.

[JusteMoi]

“People will leave no matter how tight we hold them.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 不要糾結那些不值得的人和事。善待自己；用從容淡定的心態過余生。”

[Togsport]

 

Love can be the bridge between people.

[Nickguy]

Agreed

[JusteMoi]

“ 懂得愛自己，懂得自己的價值，就不會勉強與將就。“

- 角子

[JusteMoi]

“ 越不懂得愛自己的人，會越需要愛。因為他們需要別人補充愛。這樣的愛只有「匱乏」，對對方只有無窮盡的渴望與要求。在這種失衡的關係裡，是很難擁有同理心的。“

Edited April 19, 2025 by JusteMoi

[JusteMoi]

“What's truly toxic is keeping your doubts and insecurities to yourself, and avoiding communication out of fear of ruining the relationship.”

[Steve5380]

In my opinion,  love in Mandarin is not real love.

 

Because it leaves out those who don't read Mandarin.

[JusteMoi]

“ 不要讓自己在感情裡因為勉強而卑微；更不要因為寂寞而將就。不要辜負自己，也不要辜負別人。“

[JusteMoi]

"I met you when I was not looking for you and lost you when I love you the most ..."

[JusteMoi]

“Sometimes your value isn’t seen until your absence is felt.”

[Togsport]

 

"Love is with no judgment."

[JusteMoi]

 ” 懂得愛自己，才不會自誤、誤人。“

[JusteMoi]

“ 成年人的不再見有個分水嶺 - 

我心裡有你，但我不再找你；

喜歡是真的，但不再打擾也是真的。”

⁡- 肆

[JusteMoi]

“ 我們要因為愛而先懂得尊重他，而不是希望對方要因為愛，而包容我們的一切。”

[JusteMoi]

“ 真正的愛是「成全」，是我明白你希望在這份愛裡希望得到的，在我能夠做到的範圍裡，去圓滿你。“

- 角子

[JusteMoi]

 

”It didn’t kill me, but something changed,

A piece of me lost, forever estranged.

I walked away, yet not the same,

A shadowed soul, a quiet flame.

That day took part of who I was,

Left me searching, without cause.

I carry on, but feel the void,

A heart once whole, now destroyed.

It didn’t end me, but I’m not whole.

An echo remains, deep in my soul.

I’m here, I breathe, but truth denied—

A part of me, that day, quietly died.“

Edited April 27, 2025 by JusteMoi

[JusteMoi]

“If someone wants to leave your life, let them go. If someone chooses another person over you despite receiving all your love, let them be. Allow them to live their life as they wish.”

[JusteMoi]

“「愛自己」是你的權利，也是義務。

「愛自己」是愛的起點，也是最後能走進幸福的鑰匙。”

[JusteMoi]

“I hide my tears when I say your name, But the pain in my heart is still the same.

Although I smile and seem carefree, there's no one who misses you more than me.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 只有懂得愛自己的人 — 真正具有愛的能力的人，才會擁有這樣的力量。”

[JusteMoi]

“ 喜歡一個人，沒必要低三下四。”

[JusteMoi]

“If someone creates distance in a beautiful relationship without reason, let them go. Prioritizing someone who never considered you a priority is foolishness. Distance in a relationship is also a form of disrespect.”

[JusteMoi]

“At the end of the day, the undeniable truth is: you cannot hold onto anyone forever. Everything in life is temporary.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 對別人我可以大方，但對你我的心很小。”

[Togsport]

 

Love recognises no barriers.

[JusteMoi]

“Holding onto someone who never chose you is self-deception. The past is an illusion—memories are merely experiences and lessons. So, don’t look back. There is nothing left behind. Life is yours alone, and you must walk your path by yourself.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 怕鬼真是太幼稚了，我帶你去看看人心。”

[JusteMoi]

“ 人看書，

一個人旅行，

一個人逛街，

一個人聽歌，

一個人睡覺，

一個人追劇，

一個人開心，

一個人難過，

一個人做夢，

一個人發呆，

一個人無聊，

雖然只有一個人，日子還是可以過的很豐富。

只有一個人有什麼好奇怪的呢？

有一天不也是自己一個人離開這個世界呀。”

[JusteMoi]

“And in the end, I think we don't need to do anything to be loved.

We spend our lives trying to look prettier, smarter. but I realised two things: 

Those who love us see us with their heart and attribute to us qualities beyond what we actually have.

And those who do not want to love us will never be satisfied with all our efforts.

Yes, I really think it's important to leave our imperfections alone.

They are precious to understand those who see us with their heart. ''

- Frida Kahlo artist 

[JusteMoi]

“I felt it in the morning, at lunchtime, in the evening and at night. I felt it as I woke, as I waited, as I worked. I felt it at home, on the road, in the light, in the dark, in the rain.”
- Rumi

[JusteMoi]

“ 有人疼，要懂得珍惜；沒人疼，也要照顧好自己！”

[JusteMoi]

"I watched him treat someone else better than he ever treated me… and in that moment, I lost all interest. Not out of jealousy, but because I finally saw the truth—he was always capable of effort, love, and respect. He just never chose to give it to me. And that realization? That’s what set me free."

[JusteMoi]

“ 想哭就哭吧，

你不需要 那麼懂事。”

[JusteMoi]

“I hope you fall in love with somebody who never

lets you fall asleep thinking you re unloved.”

- Mark Anthony

[JusteMoi]

“ 並不是所有的陪伴，都叫做「愛」。他們也可能是因為寂寞。”

[JusteMoi]

“ 感謝那些分享，謝謝那場際遇。不同路的人，本來就不會一起走太久。”

[JusteMoi]

“A lot of people can like you but not many will value you.”

[JusteMoi]

“ 一些人，交了很久

卻感覺不到真誠，

那就選擇離開。”