Why hot guys go sauna for hookup?

[jolterxtreme]

I was back from Sydney and there is 2-3 good looking guys in the sauna for sex. I am surprised since they could easy get sex over gay apps and needless to pay for entry fee. But most are old or asian in sauna which are not my preference. I do think that swiss has more European.

 

also aside from the topic, i fell in love with a tipsy guy crossing path with me in Sydney.i wish i could kept his contact but as a closer guy i kept my boundaries and only get to held his hand like a buddy on several times. A good thumb gesture that he offered me.

[cbm]

Does anyone understand what the topic starter wrote?

[jolterxtreme]

2 hours ago, cbm said:

Does anyone understand what the topic starter wrote?

break it down for you.. i came back from sydney and visited saunaX. 

There are 3 deemed hot white men when I was there.

The hot white men could easily get sex over gay dating apps like Grindr. Why would they choose to waste 40 AUD to enter the sauna.

I also met a number of old and/or Asians that are not to my preference.

 

I do think Switzerland gay sauna has more European comparing to Australia gay sauna.

 

Aside from the topic

 

I met a white man.. but he was somewhat tipsy... we had strike a few conversation and I regretted not coming out of my closet to have sex with him and probably remain in contact. We did some exchange on hand gesture like buddy shaking hands.

[pthc]

6 hours ago, cbm said:

Does anyone understand what the topic starter wrote?

The only sentence that makes sense to me is "swiss has more European"

[mijsdlog]

9 hours ago, jolterxtreme said:

I was back from Sydney and there is 2-3 good looking guys in the sauna for sex. I am surprised since they could easy get sex over gay apps and needless to pay for entry fee. But most are old or asian in sauna which are not my preference. I do think that swiss has more European.

 

also aside from the topic, i fell in love with a tipsy guy crossing path with me in Sydney.i wish i could kept his contact but as a closer guy i kept my boundaries and only get to held his hand like a buddy on several times. A good thumb gesture that he offered me.

Why would you assume that only guys you deem unattractive will go to gay saunas?

[cbm]

I guess I understand somewhat what you are trying to say, although the sentences can be worded better.

 

-You are into Caucasians

 

-You visited a sauna in a country where Caucasians are the majority population hoping to find lots of attractive Caucasian men

 

-but the particular sauna you visited at that particular time did not have as many attractive Caucasian men as you'd hope

 

-you did come across 3 Caucasian men whom you found attractive

 

-you did not get any serious action with Caucasian men. Just shaking hands

 

-in your opinion, in the saunas in some country in Europe, there is a higher proportion of Caucasian men vs non-caucasian men

 

-your encounter made you wonder why attractive men visit sauna (since visitors need to pay for entry) instead of going on apps

 

Is this what you are trying to say?

 

[cbm]

Alright, here is my humble opinion on your question:

 

- if you don't have place, sauna is a decent choice to meet. 

 

- when you are hungry for group fun and you want it now, sauna is convenient as there is already a ready pool of players.

Have you tried arranging group fun through guys you got to know from apps? Not everyone is available at a common time.

 

- going through apps can be alot of work sifting through the rubbish. There are scammers, bo liao time wasters, cat fishes. Their photos may not be how they look like in person. At the sauna you see the person in the flesh and can talk directly. Fast game.

 

- maybe some attractive guys enjoy the attention that they get from sauna patrons. They like to be seen and watched. Can be a great ego booster.

 

- maybe some attractive guys "eat high class restaurant food" everyday and sometimes they just want to "eat caifan" instead

 

- maybe they are in a committed relationship and stays with the partner but want to have some fun with other guy(s) and have no place

 

- maybe the sauna is known for catering to a particular type of crowd and the attractive guy just so happens to be into that particular type

 

- maybe they're just curious and there to check it out

 

Side note: if you are into Caucasian guys, improving your English might help alot. Maybe you didn't get any serious action because they had difficulty understanding what you were trying to say.

Edited Saturday at 02:33 AM by cbm

[youdoyou]

Reading that first post felt like watching an avant garde film

[repressednerd]

The white guys you find attractive might be ordinary looking in their society. It's just like how you see some white guys with Asians who look very ordinary.

 

Some might prefer the sauna since you don't need to maintain any form of contact with hookups than if you hooked up with someone over the apps where you would remain connected unless you block. Or sometimes don't want to meet catfishes.

[Topper]

Australia, especially Sydney, has a huge number of Asian immigrants hence why you see many Asians at the sauna. It is not the same with Switzerland. 

 

The sauna you're talking about is popular with Asian guys seeking Caucasians ever since the iconic 357 sauna closed down.

 

Also, as many of us have experienced, apps can be a bloody waste of time to meet guys - when you go to the sauna, you're there for a singular purpose snd that is to get in and get off.

[GachiMuchi]

23 hours ago, jolterxtreme said:

I was back from Sydney and there is 2-3 good looking guys in the sauna for sex. I am surprised since they could easy get sex over gay apps and needless to pay for entry fee. But most are old or asian in sauna which are not my preference. I do think that swiss has more European.

 

also aside from the topic, i fell in love with a tipsy guy crossing path with me in Sydney.i wish i could kept his contact but as a closer guy i kept my boundaries and only get to held his hand like a buddy on several times. A good thumb gesture that he offered me.

Isn't it obvious, why hot guys goes sauna.

1. Too many fake profile, money boys, and people that can catfish or ghost you. In Sauna, you see people in their actuality. No fakes.

2. Takes too long to chat to get a fuck. Instead inside a sauna, instant gratification if someone catches one's eyes, the room are readily available

3. Sauna have many facilities and can chill and relax and some sauna even have nice meals and maybe even gym, etc.

 

I prefers sauna over apps

[Strange Fruit]

11 hours ago, youdoyou said:

Reading that first post felt like watching an avant garde film

I think more like a sexploitation b-movie

[Expired Btm Uncle]

Just based on topic i guess the assumption is that hot guys do not need to pay to go sauna for fun since guys will be pouring themselves freely on them outside the sauna environment. My opinion is that  they want attention, be in the limelight, be everyone's envy and slap the living daylight out of old ugly fat for fun. 

[Steve5380]

On 5/2/2025 at 6:47 PM, pthc said:

The only sentence that makes sense to me is "swiss has more European"

 

If you are not a human with a brain,  perhaps some AI programs can help you understand the other sentences.  Or let me see if I can help:

- The TS should realize that gay saunas are set up to facilitate immediate gay sex without ceremonies.  So the good-looking and ugly benefit equally.

- The TS has this unfortunate limitation of being in the closet, therefore he could not pursue the will of his heart.