Group sex/orgy, is it worth to experience once?

[dexting]

I am curious about group sex or orgy, i did have one to one fun before but never in a group setting. 

 

Is it worth to try aleast once? 

 

Recently i got to know a guy online and he has been inviting me to the group fun session he is organising, the participants seem to be mostly in their late 30's, 40's, i am tempted to join but unsure how does it work or would it be worth it.

 

Any people willing to share their experiences so that i might know how does it goes about?

 

 

 

 

 

 

[ToughGuy]

17 minutes ago, dexting said:

I am curious about group sex or orgy, i did have one to one fun before but never in a group setting. 

 

Is it worth to try aleast once? 

 

Recently i got to know a guy online and he has been inviting me to the group fun session he is organising, the participants seem to be mostly in their late 30's, 40's, i am tempted to join but unsure how does it work or would it be worth it.

 

Any people willing to share their experiences so that i might know how does it goes about?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Usually, after some "filtration", the slut bottom will be banged but others.

 

Else fuck and to be fucked by random guys...also DP😂😂😂💦💦💦💦💦

[Afiqster]

No harm trying it once

[dexting]

1 hour ago, ToughGuy said:

Usually, after some "filtration", the slut bottom will be banged but others.

 

Else fuck and to be fucked by random guys...also DP😂😂😂💦💦💦💦💦

Filtration? Lol how does the top filtrate?

 

So the whole session will be somewhat raunchy?

[ToughGuy]

1 hour ago, dexting said:

Filtration? Lol how does the top filtrate?

 

So the whole session will be somewhat raunchy?

 

There will be signs for the sluttiest Bottom.... Usually demands for every orifice to be filled💦💦💦

 

 

Dunno who you poked... And dun care who poke you😂😂😂

[juicyass]

In these days, the amount of bottoms is higher than the amount of tops. Even if you go to group sex as a bottom, you won't have much fun also as most of them are vers, vers-btm., then in the end all be bottoms. The pure tops are rare existence. If you are lucky you would get 1 or 2 in the orgy.

 

This is why the organizer usually filter and select the participants. The ideal scenario would be more tops than bottoms. but like i said, bottom is everywhere. so what is the point having an orgy when more than half of them are bottoms?

 

You can try. But there is always a risk of getting reported then a raid ensued. 

[doncoin]

One of the things when attending your first orgy/group sex event is to shed your inhibitions. What usually gets in the way of a good time is your inner saboteur, i.e. body image issues, etc. As long as you remain sensible and take the necessary protection for yourself and others, it can be a very pleasurable time. Everyone is most likely naked or in their underwear. So go with an open mind, chuck your attitude at the door, and be comfortable with yourself. I haven't really attended any such private parties per se in Singapore, the closest being at Keybox, but it's. sauna, but I have been to several overseas where I am based. 

 

As some pointed out, the guest list is usually screened by the organizer, who wants to ensure there is a good mix of tops and bottoms. Also, some have a screening on body type. I know it is mean and totally unwoke, but that means in-shape, athletic built guys. Not all.

 

Once you are in, usually you are given a bag to put your clothes in and they give you a tag with a number so that you can retrieve later. The largest one which I've been to several times can hold up to like 40-50 men (think Gay pride weekend), otherwise, on average, at any given time, i think there are about 25-30 men at its peak. People cum and go literally. Just mingle around, guys usually congregate into smaller groups, 1-on-1, 3-somes etc. and just move about. You don't have to stick with the same people, have some fun with a few guys, take a break, try a different set of people. 

 

Know your boundaries and respect the boundaries of others. Consent is a must. Focus on your pleasure, and be ready to give and take. 

 

#teamplayer

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Worth if all mutual then passion shiok best passion 

 

If not boring dull turn off haha 

[SGAngmo]

Yes totally worth it but as Doncoin said you have to be confident with yourself enough to just shed your clothes and just enjoy. I used to attend a lot pre-covid but havnt been to any since but had plenty of 3somes in the last year or two. Just dont be an Ahole and respect boundaries etc - once you get your gear off usually this will set the tone. 

[Underwearless]

Yes, it is worth to try. 
Would I have only tried once with 4 other guys.

the other are mainly threesome. 
but given the opportunity, yes I would wanna try again.

What I feel is - one may feel awkward in the initial moments. 
however, once you get over that and unleash the wild beast in you. 
the rest will be pure enjoyment. 
but remember to stay safe and take necessary precautions thought. 

you only live once. 

[Ridzan]

Orgy/group sex is a heaven for bottom,😋

[Monsterbim]

nowadays even got group sex for married men too

[Hole4use]

I Have Never Ever Tried Joining An Orgy Or Group Sex Before. Well...Am A Pure Btm, But I Am  Only Open To Pure Butthole Usage, Not Into Any Kind Of Foreplay At All...Thus I Believe This Do Turns Off Alot Of Guys...

[doncoin]

1 hour ago, Hole4use said:

I Have Never Ever Tried Joining An Orgy Or Group Sex Before. Well...Am A Pure Btm, But I Am  Only Open To Pure Butthole Usage, Not Into Any Kind Of Foreplay At All...Thus I Believe This Do Turns Off Alot Of Guys...

 

Well, you can believe what you want. I've participated in a group where we took a btm on a sling. No foreplay involved. He just lie there with this legs strapped in the air, and just enjoying being bred. I was no, 5 and I recall there has to be about 10 guys. 

[Hole4use]

5 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

Well, you can believe what you want. I've participated in a group where we took a btm on a sling. No foreplay involved. He just lie there with this legs strapped in the air, and just enjoying being bred. I was no, 5 and I recall there has to be about 10 guys. 

 

Wow !

[Ridzan]

18 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

Well, you can believe what you want. I've participated in a group where we took a btm on a sling. No foreplay involved. He just lie there with this legs strapped in the air, and just enjoying being bred. I was no, 5 and I recall there has to be about 10 guys. 

I can attest to that..just pure orgy fucking..no foreplay and frankly, i enjoyed it

[Hole4use]

21 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

Well, you can believe what you want. I've participated in a group where we took a btm on a sling. No foreplay involved. He just lie there with this legs strapped in the air, and just enjoying being bred. I was no, 5 and I recall there has to be about 10 guys. 

 

So his butthole is flooded with 10 loads in there?

[doncoin]

1 minute ago, Hole4use said:

 

So his butthole is flooded with 10 loads in there?

 

If not more. He is one of those with talent to blossom. Doesn't do much for me, but I recall some of the guys just oooing and aaing, when he did that, with cum dripping out. 

[Hole4use]

13 minutes ago, doncoin said:

 

If not more. He is one of those with talent to blossom. Doesn't do much for me, but I recall some of the guys just oooing and aaing, when he did that, with cum dripping out. 

 

That's so hot...

[fetish69]

On 12/18/2025 at 6:31 PM, juicyass said:

In these days, the amount of bottoms is higher than the amount of tops. Even if you go to group sex as a bottom, you won't have much fun also as most of them are vers, vers-btm., then in the end all be bottoms. The pure tops are rare existence. If you are lucky you would get 1 or 2 in the orgy.

 

This is why the organizer usually filter and select the participants. The ideal scenario would be more tops than bottoms. but like i said, bottom is everywhere. so what is the point having an orgy when more than half of them are bottoms?

 

You can try. But there is always a risk of getting reported then a raid ensued. 

Best if the host select on regular basis without hunting for new group i guess is fine as the begining been filter. I have FB he host every 3month is gonna be a long session. They start on Fri till Sun morning everybody same fetish we like each other and the btm willing to be owned by the top now the bottom is been caged. Nest year the host going to mark the btm by tattoo on their body. The designed is small ones either little pony unicorn or mermaid and their nipple gonna get pierced the cost will be bare by all the tops. The btm so eager to be tatttoo, pierced and owned. Only to finalsed the tattoo amd getting tattoo artist and does the nipple piercing we are getting real pro who does it with a reputable artist and does piercing. The last one all wearing a dog mask and kneeling with dog tail butt plug so cute see them like a puppy.

 

He lived in KL landed property away from neighbours as there gym,pool, jacuzzi and infra red sauna. The food he order by trustee food catering againt food drinks tops foot the bill. What btm need to do douche real clean to let the top full use and the btm got special diet. The best things we all share the cost to fix the 5 leather sling  at the gazebo he just build.

Edited December 22, 2025 by fetish69

[lightsmith32]

Normally the organiser will curate and pick those he wants and the ratio will normally be 2 btms to 1 top. There will be loads of swapping and gang bangs and the star bottom will usually Kenna from all the tops.

 

Also to note normally pills and poppers will be needed to keep up. Kinda exhausting

[mate69]

1 hour ago, lightsmith32 said:

Normally the organiser will curate and pick those he wants and the ratio will normally be 2 btms to 1 top. There will be loads of swapping and gang bangs and the star bottom will usually Kenna from all the tops.

 

Also to note normally pills and poppers will be needed to keep up. Kinda exhausting

 

Yes this ^

[Sexyass]

On 12/22/2025 at 1:40 AM, doncoin said:

 

Well, you can believe what you want. I've participated in a group where we took a btm on a sling. No foreplay involved. He just lie there with this legs strapped in the air, and just enjoying being bred. I was no, 5 and I recall there has to be about 10 guys. 

Wow…shudder at the thought….both out of fear of the risk, but also out of sheer excitement at the pleasure,….i hope the bum prepared well to protect himself while having this type pleasure…

[mate69]

28 minutes ago, Sexyass said:

Wow…shudder at the thought….both out of fear of the risk, but also out of sheer excitement at the pleasure,….i hope the bum prepared well to protect himself while having this type pleasure…

 

Attendees at such events will almost invariably be on PrEP and Doxy

[Sexyass]

7 minutes ago, mate69 said:

 

Attendees at such events will almost invariably be on PrEP and Doxy

I am on both…but still….many other issues to be vaxx against….

 

but, it is also one of my deep fantasy….just how to do it safely, and with whom…

[doncoin]

1 hour ago, Sexyass said:

I am on both…but still….many other issues to be vaxx against….

 

but, it is also one of my deep fantasy….just how to do it safely, and with whom…

 

 

Well, as long as you remain sensible and safe to the whole approach, you can reduce the risk.

 

HIV transmission requires an HIV+ source. So if everyone participating in the orgy is on PreP and HIV-, chances of infection is zero. Keep in mind that to be on PreP, you have to be HIV- as well. 

 

 

Edited December 24, 2025 by doncoin

[cbm]

Wear condoms. Sexually transmitted infections can be in the form of viruses, bacteria and parasites.

 

Doxycycline is useful for bacterial infections.

 

PrEP only protects against one virus, HIV. There are other viruses.

 

For herpes virus, there's no vaccine nor prophylaxis. If infected, it can be treated, but not cured.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_infection

 

 

[camus]

Yes. It’s really eye and hole opening. 

[juicyass]

9 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

 

Well, as long as you remain sensible and safe to the whole approach, you can reduce the risk.

 

HIV transmission requires an HIV+ source. So if everyone participating in the orgy is on PreP and HIV-, chances of infection is zero. Keep in mind that to be on PreP, you have to be HIV- as well. 

 

 

 

My friend went to an orgy and, to his surprise, in order to ensure the participants are taking PREP as what they claim, they are required to send a photo proof of the prescription or the bottle with his name on it. Upon entering, those with PREP are required to wear specific colored wrist band. Those who are not on PREP wear a different color so that they can be distinguished.

 

This is a sensible approach in filtering out who is serious in taking care of themselves while having sex. So you don't have to be second-guessing that guy if one is not on PREP.

 

The turn out was quite good according to my friend. The organizer works in health and medicine field, and most of the participants are professional. Therefore, it makes so much sense about the approach. 

[camus]

1 hour ago, juicyass said:

 

My friend went to an orgy and, to his surprise, in order to ensure the participants are taking PREP as what they claim, they are required to send a photo proof of the prescription or the bottle with his name on it. Upon entering, those with PREP are required to wear specific colored wrist band. Those who are not on PREP wear a different color so that they can be distinguished.

 

This is a sensible approach in filtering out who is serious in taking care of themselves while having sex. So you don't have to be second-guessing that guy if one is not on PREP.

 

The turn out was quite good according to my friend. The organizer works in health and medicine field, and most of the participants are professional. Therefore, it makes so much sense about the approach. 

haha was the organizer j***n c***h? Lol

[doncoin]

18 hours ago, cbm said:

Wear condoms. Sexually transmitted infections can be in the form of viruses, bacteria and parasites.

 

Doxycycline is useful for bacterial infections.

 

PrEP only protects against one virus, HIV. There are other viruses.

 

For herpes virus, there's no vaccine nor prophylaxis. If infected, it can be treated, but not cured.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_infection

 

 

 

 

Yes, there is always the risk of being infected by n STI, but they are easily treated with antibiotics. 

 

 

[StockBottom]

On 12/25/2025 at 1:35 AM, Sexyass said:

I am on both…

 

How do you take doxy pep by the way?

Do you always take it after any kind of sex? Or do you sometimes tell yourself, oh it's just oral sex with 1 guy, so maybe no need to take this time lah ...

[StockBottom]

Gangbang is one of my ultimate fantasy (goal?) ... but til now no chance/guts to try. The most I had is threesome/foursome only.

[Sexyass]

23 hours ago, juicyass said:

 

My friend went to an orgy and, to his surprise, in order to ensure the participants are taking PREP as what they claim, they are required to send a photo proof of the prescription or the bottle with his name on it. Upon entering, those with PREP are required to wear specific colored wrist band. Those who are not on PREP wear a different color so that they can be distinguished.

 

This is a sensible approach in filtering out who is serious in taking care of themselves while having sex. So you don't have to be second-guessing that guy if one is not on PREP.

 

The turn out was quite good according to my friend. The organizer works in health and medicine field, and most of the participants are professional. Therefore, it makes so much sense about the approach. 

this is a very sensible approach and as CBM mentioned, PreP and Doxy PEP are quite specific in their protection

 

but there are other virus/parasites to which it does not give any protection towards

 

hence, before engaging, got to have a more complete vaccination schedule, say include HPV, Hep A/B, and also MPox

 

i would prob be much more willing to be a btm in a gangbang if participants could show they have safe sex in mind

[Sexyass]

5 minutes ago, StockBottom said:

 

How do you take doxy pep by the way?

Do you always take it after any kind of sex? Or do you sometimes tell yourself, oh it's just oral sex with 1 guy, so maybe no need to take this time lah ...

you take 200mg Doxycycline within 72 hrs after any exposed sex with no protection. (oral, anal)

 

do note however, my previous post. it is good against syp, quite good against gonorrhea, average against chamlydia, but nothing against viruses (herpes, HpV, MPox)

 

and: no protection against trich… which is the tricky one…

 

[StockBottom]

55 minutes ago, Sexyass said:

you take 200mg Doxycycline within 72 hrs after any exposed sex with no protection. (oral, anal)

 

do note however, my previous post. it is good against syp, quite good against gonorrhea, average against chamlydia, but nothing against viruses (herpes, HpV, MPox)

 

and: no protection against trich… which is the tricky one…

 

 

But do you, personally, take it consistently every single time? I have a strip of doxy, but somehow I have not tried it. I always had condom anal, but condomless oral. I heard there are side effects like sun sensitivity.

 

Sigh, so many diseases, but it's a risk one has to take, unless one goes celibate, but what's the point of living then. 

 

Orgy/group sex/gangbang here I cum 😁

[Sexyass]

i feel 

1 hour ago, StockBottom said:

 

But do you, personally, take it consistently every single time? I have a strip of doxy, but somehow I have not tried it. I always had condom anal, but condomless oral. I heard there are side effects like sun sensitivity.

 

Sigh, so many diseases, but it's a risk one has to take, unless one goes celibate, but what's the point of living then. 

 

Orgy/group sex/gangbang here I cum 😁

yeah sigh… i feel you…

 

i have been using full condom each and every time.. even in a group. i have been annoyingly diligent about it.. the Tops have been patient and gentle with me in terms of respecting my boundaries

 

Doxy PEP is only if the condom breaks. but yes, makes you sensitive to sunlight. can sun burn more easily after usage.

 

but like you.. been thinking and dreaming of being bred.. so have done additional vaxx in preparation for it

 

but unless the other party has also tested for STI on regular basis, there is always a risk.

 

so you must yourself go regular testing afterwards.

 

its a risk-reward balance that only the Bottom can make for yourself. No one can tell you what is right or wrong, or allow a Top to force you before you are mentally and physically ready.

 

Remember, we must respect ourselves, to have others respect us.

 

i sometimes respond to a Top by saying: while i am capable of slutty behavior, it doesnt mean i am a slut…..

[cbm]

Haiyah.... PrEP need money. DoxyPep need money. Vaccines need money. Regular testing need money.

 

If you want to do it responsibly with properly managed risk... so mafaan!

[StockBottom]

49 minutes ago, Sexyass said:

i sometimes respond to a Top by saying: while i am capable of slutty behavior, it doesnt mean i am a slut…..

 

Ahem 🙄

[Sexyass]

31 minutes ago, cbm said:

Haiyah.... PrEP need money. DoxyPep need money. Vaccines need money. Regular testing need money.

 

If you want to do it responsibly with properly managed risk... so mafaan!

precisely so…🤣

[Sexyass]

8 minutes ago, StockBottom said:

 

Ahem 🙄

hehehe… i like to think thats true…😬🧐

[Hole4use]

8 hours ago, StockBottom said:

Gangbang is one of my ultimate fantasy (goal?) ... but til now no chance/guts to try. The most I had is threesome/foursome only.

 

Same Here....I hv not even done threesome or foursome too

[juicyass]

7 hours ago, StockBottom said:

 

But do you, personally, take it consistently every single time? I have a strip of doxy, but somehow I have not tried it. I always had condom anal, but condomless oral. I heard there are side effects like sun sensitivity.

 

Sigh, so many diseases, but it's a risk one has to take, unless one goes celibate, but what's the point of living then. 

 

Orgy/group sex/gangbang here I cum 😁

 

Take note that Deoxycycline is an antibiotic to treat microbial infection such STD/STI. It is not recommended to be taken for long term (as in daily basis) as the STD may gain resistant to the antibiotic and will become a superbug. It is to be taken only when you have sex. According to my doc, you may take it in 2:2 demand method - 2 tablets within 24 hours after sex, then 2 tablets again for the next 24 hours. Meaning I have sex on Friday 8pm, I take the 2 tabs at 9pm, then I take 2 tabs again on Saturday at 9pm.

The side effects are mild. For me, I always have diarrhea after taking it - to counteract the side effect, I've always taken it with probiotic after meal. 

 

Same goes prep. You can take it daily or on demand method which 2:1:1. same method as abovementioned.

 

I usually practice this method when I can host and have plenty of cum load inside of me from different men in a few nights. Otherwise, when I have sex with 1 partner, either with condom or just prep.      

[mate69]

PrEP (Daily)
Doxy (as required)

Mpox (2 doses)

HPV (3 doses)
Hep A and B vaccinations

 

This ^ is the gold standard for those of us sexually active gay men

[Sexyass]

44 minutes ago, mate69 said:

PrEP (Daily)
Doxy (as required)

Mpox (2 doses)

HPV (3 doses)
Hep A and B vaccinations

 

This ^ is the gold standard for those of us sexually active gay men

Couldn’t agree more

 

In addition, research has shown effectiveness in MenB vaccination, can cut down risk of gonorrhea further by maybe 40%. Debating whether to take it

 

the NHS in UK has decided to offer to high risk MSM people

 

however, the gold standard has an issue: no one has figured out a way to prevent trich ( a parasite) . There is no vaccine no Prep type medication for it

 

for a btm, to get rectal trich is sometime hard to diagnose too. Top also frequently has little symptoms or mistaken for some UTI

[StockBottom]

1 hour ago, juicyass said:

 

According to my doc, you may take it in 2:2 demand method - 2 tablets within 24 hours after sex, then 2 tablets again for the next 24 hours. Meaning I have sex on Friday 8pm, I take the 2 tabs at 9pm, then I take 2 tabs again on Saturday at 9pm.

 

Ummm ... this doesn't seem to be the recommended way for doxy pep.

 

From CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/sti/hcp/doxy-pep/index.html

Quote

If offering doxy PEP, write a prescription for patients to self-administer 200 mg of doxycycline as soon as possible within 72 hours after sex

 

 

[juicyass]

13 hours ago, StockBottom said:

 

Ummm ... this doesn't seem to be the recommended way for doxy pep.

 

From CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/sti/hcp/doxy-pep/index.html

 

 

 

Well, we shouldn't believe anything you read on the internet. So yeahh .. it is up to you though. If you are in doubt, go ask a doctor. Simple as that. 

[PlayersGroup]

On 12/18/2025 at 9:05 AM, dexting said:

I am curious about group sex or orgy, i did have one to one fun before but never in a group setting. 

 

Is it worth to try aleast once? 

 

I try everything once, as long as no drugs, no scat and no one is harmed. Group is kind of my turn on, safe & protected except for ppl I trust. 

 

Been to orgies large and small. Organized some now and then. I think it's fun to collectively stimulate each other everywhere on each other's bodies. Usually very free flow which I love. Some guys who I like I'd keep in touch for more, 1-1, 3s or more. For safety Im mostly side or top, I bottom only once in a very long while with the right guy(s).

 

I would suggest if u want to try, do it with protection, take prep. Do only things you want to do, only with people you want. Don't be afraid to politely reject advances if feeling not mutual. But I do try to at least give some attention to all unless reallyvnot my type.

 

Because there is still risk, keep a lookout for any signs of ppl unwell or unhygienic. Check regularly, and if anything off, seek treatment early resolve it quick is the best option, don't delay. 

 

Edited December 27, 2025 by PlayersGroup

[cbm]

@juicyass you didn't mention what's the dosage of each doxy pill that your doctor gave you. Is it 50mg? If yours is 50mg each, then 2:2 is 200mg, which is within the general guidelines.

[kidster]

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Edited December 28, 2025 by kidster