Guest WOLF Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 Just wonder if your close friend's bf want to have sex with you w/o your close frd notice,will you do so if he is your type? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 Are you ready to lose the close/good friend? If you are, go ahead and do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TopChinese Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 No, because I value my friendship with my close friend. Even if they are in an open relationship, I don't want to do anything to jeopadise that relationship or hurt my friend in any way. Any other answer will suggest that you are not a honourable man. In which case, you probably deserve to be with that slut bf who cannot keep his c**b** shut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WOLF Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 OK, get what you guys mean, but make it this way, if you attach, is it right or will you guys still flirt behind your bf sometimes? so is that consider honourable man? what different between hurting your close friend & your Lover? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest by stander Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 hi wolfwhen a person is attached and still wan to flirt, he usually do it low key to avoid being discovered. To flirt with bf's close friend simply make it easier to be detected. If he wants to take risk and u prepared to forgo yr friendship, then go ahead. U guys can decide for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelvingarinkz Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 you can find ONS anywhere but not good friendsfriendship is the most precious and valuable thing u can have ... treasure it at ALL COST Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oralb Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 consider the follow scenarios:1. you slept with him, sex was good, continue the sex, gd fren finds out = lose a gd fren2. you slept with him, sex was bad, you couldnt bear to see him again, aviod gd fren = lose a gd fren3. you slept with him, sex was good, he break off with your gd fren to be with you = lose a gd fren4. you slept with him, sex was bad, he told your gd fren not to go out with you = lose a gd frenget the point? When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evianguy Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 Just wonder if your close friend's bf want to have sex with you w/o your close frd notice,will you do so if he is your type? you said 'close friend'? i think you've got your answer there already. Grab a free 2GB cloud storage https://www.dropbox.com/referrals/AAAJnehBHgoOOjc5L-VZWsZTCvvaieR0P2c?src=global9 Â Play DC Heroes & Villains! https://dcheroesandvillains.page.link/V9ZwnTv7So74AFGEA Â Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest_loner Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 a close friend is hard to come by.till the end you only got yourself to blame.you will have guilt conscious .my advise is STAY AWAY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mature40s Posted October 3, 2006 Report Share Posted October 3, 2006 There are many grey areas in life where it may not be easy to differentiate what is right and what is wrong, However, there are certain principles that we cannot escape. One of these is "cause and effect". Our actions are like ripples that have ramifying effects. If you are prepared to face whatever consequences that resulted from your behaviour, by all means go ahead. But if you don't like what others do onto you, then you should not do the same onto others. What goes around comes around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rino_sg Posted October 4, 2006 Report Share Posted October 4, 2006 Wolf.. I'm disturbed that you're actually questioning the notion twice. I think the answers from the guys here are reasonable. There's no black or white. And I grudgingly admit that sometimes, even though we are attached, we may still fool around. But it is always with extreme discretion because regardless whatever the situation may be, we NEVER want to hurt the people we care about. I think that should be the basic tenet.If you consciously sleep with your best fren's bf, I think you can dump discretion aside.. things WILL unfold sooner or later. And someone will be VERY hurt. If I'm that fren of yours, I don't think you're worth my while.And I say it with personal experience. Put yourself in the shoes of your fren and stop thinking with your dick. Guys who consciously do that are SCUM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asura Posted October 4, 2006 Report Share Posted October 4, 2006 Just wonder if your close friend's bf want to have sex with you w/o your close frd notice,will you do so if he is your type? NEVER !!!! It's just me.... Asura... don't fear, but be very afraid.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiboyz Posted October 4, 2006 Report Share Posted October 4, 2006 Dont even consider but i will hint to my close friend that his other half is trying to be "fishy", serve as a warning. :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andi69 Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 Why not all 3 jump into bed together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 Why not all 3 jump into bed together? andi69, I don't think is funny, unless you can share your lover with orthers & do the same thing as what you say, else don't make such statement Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frogprince Posted October 26, 2006 Report Share Posted October 26, 2006 OK, get what you guys mean, but make it this way, if you attach, is it right or will you guys still flirt behind your bf sometimes? so is that consider honourable man? what different between hurting your close friend & your Lover? I guess none of us would want to hurt our lover or close friends in any ways. That is if u love them. The important thing is not about who u are hurting, but more of do you want to hurt them. If you choose to hurt either ur bf or close friend, that's ur choice, cos you are the one losing them not us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
travelite Posted October 28, 2006 Report Share Posted October 28, 2006 temptation always therejust weigh consequence, just be prepared to lose this friendmy date been sleeping with my good friend. Only thing i am angry with is not my date but my friend.we are just friends now, no more prefrix "good"i have not kept in touch with my date anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylancer Posted October 28, 2006 Report Share Posted October 28, 2006 Why not all 3 jump into bed together? andi69, I don't think is funny, unless you can share your lover with orthers & do the same thing as what you say, else don't make such statement not funny at all.. but i can say is frds are frds.. lovers are lovers.. dont mess together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kerbee10 Posted October 28, 2006 Report Share Posted October 28, 2006 close frend 's bf.....So whats the objective in getting yourself involved......The answer to this question is subjective....unless that bf is also fond of you, as in he start to shift his love towards you....in anycase...there is no reason to jepardise a frend especially in the emotional way...cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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