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orca888
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Personality and character to me are more important... Looks or hot bod only serves to open the door - no point entering into an empty room and all I do is play with myself

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btw, I hope everyone realize that at the end of the day everyone will lose their "handsome-ness", will get illnesses, diseases etc. When we all lose that "greatness" of physical appeal etc, that's the

eric6363
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Bodies pants down! I mean hands down!

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A combination of both physique and looks seems to be the current trend. :oops:

(if he is well endowed, that would be a plus plus)

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I'll go for looks. If u dont have a nice physique, you can always train to bulk up and tone up

But for looks, you cant really change much unless u go plastic i guess.

On the other note, I'll go for body over looks when i look at guys. :D

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Don"t be jealous le. You think you"re so hot meh?

If he photographs for a shoot/cover then everyone has a right to give their opinion. You don't have to be a supermodel to pass your opinion.. it ain't rocket science

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If he photographs for a shoot/cover then everyone has a right to give their opinion. You don't have to be a supermodel to pass your opinion.. it ain't rocket science

Very funny. NOT. I"m taught not to be mean unlike some people. Entitle to their mean and hurtful opinion you mean? Saying ugly to a person is certainly rude. You don"t have to be a doctor to know that saying people ugly is offensive and rude. Oh well, everyone entitle to their opinions right? This is mine for you. Whoopsie, I almost sound like you. Peace out, honey.

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I dun quite understand why guys go for look when they are actually just looking for fun ..

some guys look sexy but the look is below average, the other party will feel disappointed ... dunno why so????

unless you are telling me that you are looking for LTR, then maybe look is important..

anyone here can explain to me why ?

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Blacque Newbie

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I dun quite understand why guys go for look when they are actually just looking for fun ..

some guys look sexy but the look is below average, the other party will feel disappointed ... dunno why so????

unless you are telling me that you are looking for LTR, then maybe look is important..

anyone here can explain to me why ?

And why is looks important when it comes to LTR? You're not living with just a 'face' for the rest of your life ya know.

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alien Newbie

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Maybe whether going for fun only or LTR, look still impt for guys lor. Seems like no look no tok. Unless if u no look but still have nice bod, perhaps still can neg. Haha.

对自己好是一种幸福，

对别人好是一种积福。

 

Spend time counting your blessings,

not airing your complaints.

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i don't follow your train of thought lol~

I mean if i wanna just have a ONS, i'll choose someone hot and attractive but not someone i'll wanna date lol..

someone sexy or a good dick.. thats pretty much it lol

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SEPTIE1234 Newbie

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you need help in your sentence structure. i don't get your point lol

whatever it is, looks still matter whether it's LTR or ONS. Everyone forms the first impression by judging your appearance. Before you even start talking, what do people see first? Your face. You. Not trying to be a wet blanket, but who will wanna talk to you if you don't look appealing in the first place? Even if you have a really beautiful personality/character , people have to be willing to know you better in order to see the beauty that lies underneath your skin.

So just understand this. Reality explains it all. -_-

It's better than I ever even knew.

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MinWoo Newbie

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you need help in your sentence structure. i don't get your point lol

whatever it is, looks still matter whether it's LTR or ONS. Everyone forms the first impression by judging your appearance. Before you even start talking, what do people see first? Your face. You. Not trying to be a wet blanket, but who will wanna talk to you if you don't look appealing in the first place? Even if you have a really beautiful personality/character , people have to be willing to know you better in order to see the beauty that lies underneath your skin.

So just understand this. Reality explains it all. -_-

looks are important sadly..totally agree with septie.

Too fast to live, too young to die.

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Undies69 Newbie

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Yup. Men are somehow configured to consider looks first whether straight or AJ. Lol.

Yes... Fully agreed !!

I Love staring at guys' bulges & ass cracks in their undies or nylon shorts or biz pants or jeans... Will start to fantasise I am caressing them with my hardon rite inside my undies... Do you ?

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Threadstarter, u are a little mixed up. You think when someone wants sex, he searches for a good looking person.

Actually it is the other way round. Those who is appealing to us (A good looking person) will stimulate the sexual desires in us.

If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.

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While I say I do not have fun often, looks can be important if it's a turning on factor. Like I prefer seeing a cute guy jerking off than an average one.

I prefer a cute face with a meaty (not buff) body than a nicely sculpted body but a normal face. Well that's just me :D

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berrymore84 Newbie

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i won't deny sometimes we are shallow and in most cases look is a major turn on but that's just a pleasure for the eyes. however, "look" here doesn't necessarily have to be good looking, good physique or big tool, it depends on your affection towards that guy. even an average person can also be a big turn on if you feel comfortable and know how to appreciate him in sex.

look is like adding herbs and spices to wake up your taste buds, how much the spices should be added that depends on your own preferences.

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iamziz Grand Master

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Unfortunately, we are easily blinded by looks and often we can't wait to see the other person naked and have sex immediately.

As I have mentioned in one of my postings before, we need to consider the factors when sex dies off and when looks no longer appealing, what do we do? Kick the person out of our life? What if we are the person not appealing to our partner?

I reckon we are just not mature enough to factor look as the fundamental as much as it is a contributing factor but it shouldn't been the fundamental.

Just remember, we could be the one losing it sooner than our partner.

Life is too short. Have fun but don't start writing a thesis for relationship.

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善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no

right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind,

changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up."

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I agree. Even ugly people go for looks.

My friend is ugly & I thot that he would be more understanding & accepting of others who are not goodlooking.

But he would use mean words like 'suay, pork sour(cantonese), what that(dirty in cantonese) on ppl he did not think highly of.

He used those words when he saw Korean actor Ji Jin Hee(the officer in Da Chang Jin).

He would envy his goodlooking friends but deep in his heart he would hope bad things happen to them like accident, divorce, bankrupt,etc. He would feel much better inside that way.

He's alos good at blackmailing people emtionally by lamenting that goodlooking ppl are heartless & superficial.

There's also a chinese saying 'The Face is Born of The Heart'

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