Help! I Suspect My Son Is Gay, What Should I Do? (Beware! Possible Troll Post)

[straightpapa]

i have every reason to belief he is gay. he is my only child.

this year he is 17 year old, study poly. i always suspect he is gay. sorry if my english no good, i m only got primary school, i m work as hawker.

that day i saw him surf this website. actually i dunno a lot internet, but i m still learn. so now i m come here post. please belief me, i m not try to play fool.

becos he is always go gym with friend, everytime train until muscle big big.

then always come back late. sometimes bring friend home do project, but only guy friend. also like him muscle big big one.

then he like to read men health magazine.

n he is always wear singlet go out. one time i look at his computer when he dont know, n click a bit, got many muscle guy photo come out.

now i m worry. so please help me. i got ask him before, how come no girl friend, how come only like boy, u gay is it? he said no lah no lah. but i dont belief.

so now how ah? i dont want gay son. now i old, i want grandchidren next time.

now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids.

Edited April 18, 2011 by straightpapa

[tic-toc]

First of all, compliments to you. You know how to google internet, found this forum, registered yourself as a member, sent a post and edit it on the same day. Maybe you are not that straight after all.

Anyway, if your son is gay, there is nothing much you can do. Oops my error: There is NOTHING you can do.

well if you are desperate, maybe you can give him some Chinese medicine. U know, out of 5000 years of practise, maybe there is some miracle herbs that can do wonders.

[Guest shoeman]

he is born gay, there is no way u can make him straight again. anyway, if you really love him, you have no choice but to accept him.

put yourself in his shoes, what if you were HIM? how would u feel?

furthermore, nobody wants to be born gay as it's not really accepted here..

[dorko]

umm, a bit late for April Fool's right? Anyway there's nothing wrong with your son.

He's on the right track baby he was born this way.

[Guest spirit]

1. congratz on using the com & internet...

2. there is nothing much you can do...

3. you came to the wrong place to ask for help as well... if we could help, we would help ourselves and wouldn't be here... =)

"so now how ah? i dont want gay son. now i old, i want grandchidren next time." <-- this sentence is very selfish... you only care about your happiness? what about your son's? if you force your son to be with a girl, do you think he will be happy? you may even LOSE your only son!

i know you are worried but you need to spare a thought for your son's feelings too... i don't think it is easy for your child to open up to you as well...

"now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids." <-- if your son is discipline enough, he will take precautions and wouldn't get AIDs...

[browncow]

Another Stereotyping case.

Just because he's muscular/aspire to have a muscular body, does not define himself as a homosexual.

Neither does pictures of "muscle guy photo" proves that he is one too. Have you ever thought that those might be his idols? Of which he aspire to be like one someday?

And perhaps even if he is one, as a parent, what do you think you can do? Afterall, you are all he have as family.

Think about it.

[Inspire]

Sad to say, you have to accept the fact that your son is gay if he really is one.

[Guest Euouae90]

I understand that you really worry about your son, especially he's the only person who can give your family successors. It's very normal to worry. In fact, it's abnormal if you don't care about this issue.

However, please do consider the followings.

1. Being gay is very natural. We are born this way. Some people mentioned that the gay nature is mainly shaped during the upbringing process and some said it has something to do with the person's genetic. The real truth is still elusive. Either way, it's not your son's choice to be gay. Even perhaps he has been struggling facing the truth that he's gay. In that case, it's in fact his parents' responsibility to support him mentally, at least by accepting him as he is.

2. Gays have the same opportunities to succeed in life as their straight peers. Gay is about sexual orientation, is not about mental illness or other kind of disorders. Gay persons are able to function normally to carry out their life. I myself have met a gay lecturer in the place where I'm studying now. He's an admirable person. He's good looking, rich, successful one. Such a role model for his students. It implies that everything depends on the basic core of the person, rather than his sexual orientation.

3. Gay does not equal to a person who like to f**k around. Gay simply means a person who sexually attracted to the same gender. Nothing else. And talking about sexually transmitted disease (STD), such as AIDS as what you mentioned, everyone (whether straight or gay) has the same probability to get infected if they do not practice safe sex guideline.

4. Until now the fact is still half-truth. You don't really know whether your son is really gay or not. Perhaps what you can do for now is by reading some articles about homosexuality, trying to really understand what it is and appreciate the "beauty" of human nature. May be you can also read some stories about families with gay sons and how well they live their life like other family. Or perhaps you need to share this with your wife. Ask her about her opinion of what to do. Even better if you have any friend whose son is also gay and ask inputs. And lastly, "pray" to "god" hoping that your son is a bisexual, at least he's able to give you grandchildrens.

Basically don't worry. Worry only makes us confuse and do nothing. Try to gather more information before you make any decision. Hope everything good for you and your family =)

Edited April 18, 2011 by Euouae90

[Guest amidst_the_stars]

Remember EX-WIFE? This is number 2.

Who are you kiddin straightpapa?

[Guest AMK Uncle]

Your muscle muscle son gay har? You want grand children u better act fast or else u hong gan leow loh.

why must have grand children leh? u hawker only right? nonit worry about your hou dai lar... u go u go.

if u no like he bring men home hor, next time you intro yourself to them in your de kor to scare them off. dunone forget small talk. talk about the cb kang.

oh, act fast means go make another son now before u cannot malikita.

i dun know write well. if u leave telephone i blanja kopi we talk face to face.

my son oso gay one. my daughter oso. me bothways oso can.

I guess it runs in the famili?

u gay too right? dun shy. it's ok gay. everyone here gay gay oso,

[Guest Blaidd_Drwg]

i have every reason to belief he is gay. he is my only child.

this year he is 17 year old, study poly. i always suspect he is gay. sorry if my english no good, i m only got primary school, i m work as hawker.

that day i saw him surf this website. actually i dunno a lot internet, but i m still learn. so now i m come here post. please belief me, i m not try to play fool.

becos he is always go gym with friend, everytime train until muscle big big.

then always come back late. sometimes bring friend home do project, but only guy friend. also like him muscle big big one.

then he like to read men health magazine.

n he is always wear singlet go out. one time i look at his computer when he dont know, n click a bit, got many muscle guy photo come out.

now i m worry. so please help me. i got ask him before, how come no girl friend, how come only like boy, u gay is it? he said no lah no lah. but i dont belief.

so now how ah? i dont want gay son. now i old, i want grandchidren next time.

now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids.

I understand how you are feeling. The worries that go on in the minds of very creative and imaginative loving parents.

But even if your worries materialise, if he is not gay, why worry in the first place? and if he is gay, why waste time thinking so much when you can actually spend the same time to support him and help him to be open and sharing with you.

It may seem unreasonable for me to answer you like this but take time to think about it. By not accepting and supporting him, he will continue to hide things from you. He will continuously bring back men who may potentially carry diseases behind your back and you cannot say anything. Gays who are not supported by the family have a high chance of building unhealthy relationships, assuming that they are the emotionally unstable types.

At least if you are open with him, you still can consult him and advise him to truly invest lovingly in a healthy relationship and pick a son-in-law who is stable, caring and with the same good values you cherish. Suddenly, your fears of him being so 'underground' and getting AIDS potentially, disappear.

and this is the domino effect. If you encourage your son to find a loving husband, who knows, they two might actually settle down and adopt kids. Voila! Grandchildren!

But just to make a complex idea simple:

If government ban gambling, we will have all the problems but no information to tackle it. It is very underground and secretive. got gangster clan somemore.

If government approve gamlbing, we will still have the same problems but the government will have information to seek a mutual solution and everybody is happier off. Gangster also no more income and they disappear.

[GachiMuchi]

I personally think it's another asshole who is trying to fxxk the brains of BW members.

Hawker my ass. Dun u hv nothing better to do then to come up with such stories.

[Guest Prank]

Your' muscle big big' son is reading this if is a real story.

So just ask him again the the next time he is on this website again ........

Can't imagine the fellow Bwers believed this is a true story.

Hahaha

[briax]

i have every reason to belief he is gay. he is my only child.

this year he is 17 year old, study poly. i always suspect he is gay. sorry if my english no good, i m only got primary school, i m work as hawker.

that day i saw him surf this website. actually i dunno a lot internet, but i m still learn. so now i m come here post. please belief me, i m not try to play fool.

(to be able to navigate through an online forum required a specific know-how, so you must have gotten your friend to help you with this message.)

becos he is always go gym with friend, everytime train until muscle big big.

(muscle big big don't equal to gay, a lot of straight men have big big muscle. And a lot of gay men have no muscle)

then always come back late. sometimes bring friend home do project, but only guy friend. also like him muscle big big one.

(muscle big big also don't equal his friend to gay, see above)

then he like to read men health magazine.

(I do, my straight friends dp, my straight friends gf also do, all for different reasons)

n he is always wear singlet go out. one time i look at his computer when he dont know, n click a bit, got many muscle guy photo come out.

(the ah pek under my block also wear singlet go out cos it is hot. For muscle photos, see all above)

now i m worry. so please help me. i got ask him before, how come no girl friend, how come only like boy, u gay is it? he said no lah no lah. but i dont belief.

(I am worried because you sounded more exciting about the muscle big big than your son)

so now how ah? i dont want gay son. now i old, i want grandchidren next time.

(You still can have your grandchildren. He can adopt one. He can find a surrogate mother. There are plenty of ways to have a grandchild without your son getting married if he is gay. Even if he is straight, what makes you think you will get a grandchild. What would be your intention of having a grandchild?)

now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids.

(there are more than one type of sex than backside sex, go ask your son what other types of sex he do. He might surprise or maybe scared you further. It is the same type of sex he can do with a girl too. People are very adventurous these days.

And as long as your son use condoms and lubricants, he wont kenna AIDS (noted the capital words, it is not aids but AIDS (it is abbreviation for Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome.) And also it is HIV not AIDS, AIDS and HIV are different stuff. Beside even if he is having sex with a woman without condom, he will also get HIV if the woman is a carrier. HIV affects all sex orientations, gay, straight and bi. It is not who you sleep with that counts, it is what type of protection you use that makes the difference.)

Now if you are reading this reply because you bookmarked the thread or you have set notification, which is another high level Internet function which you probably wont know, please differentiate sex behaviours and sexuality. Not all gay men do male-to-male sex, not all men who do male-to-male sex are gay. If you are genuinely concerned, do this:

a. Ask your son and stop stereotyping.

b. PM me and I will pass you the links to useful understanding of sexuality.

Edited April 18, 2011 by briax

[imchaser]

Or even better maybe u can adopt me as your son... I promise ill go the extra length to take good care of my step daddy's every need and satisfaction...

[Guest true true]

HELP ! i SMELL A RAT !! a BIG and FAT and DEAD RAT !!

[Clickclock]

Hey uncle, I understand your need for grandchildren in the future, but you really have to accept him the way it is. You should not have such a selfish attitude to have grandchildren to please YOURSELF, you will need to accept your son and respect his lifestyle, as a father, it is your job and duty to ensure that your children has a happy life. Please dont be so selfish and acknowledge the fact. You just cant turn a person straight if he is gay.

[fab]

Do u want to have a happy gay son or an unhappy straight son?

If u insist, u might even lose your son.

[gummibear]

i have every reason to belief he is gay. he is my only child.

this year he is 17 year old, study poly. i always suspect he is gay. sorry if my english no good, i m only got primary school, i m work as hawker.

that day i saw him surf this website. actually i dunno a lot internet, but i m still learn. so now i m come here post. please belief me, i m not try to play fool.

becos he is always go gym with friend, everytime train until muscle big big.

then always come back late. sometimes bring friend home do project, but only guy friend. also like him muscle big big one.

then he like to read men health magazine.

n he is always wear singlet go out. one time i look at his computer when he dont know, n click a bit, got many muscle guy photo come out.

now i m worry. so please help me. i got ask him before, how come no girl friend, how come only like boy, u gay is it? he said no lah no lah. but i dont belief.

so now how ah? i dont want gay son. now i old, i want grandchidren next time.

now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids.

TIME TO BRING OUT THE CHAMPAGNE AND POP SOME COCK !! ahem...CORK!!!!

[Guest who?]

This is such a stupid Posting ever.

If hawker uncle can register himself as a member and post a stories about his son - how innocent this uncle could be?

Please don't try to con BW members (registered or unregistered). Get help from no one, but yourself as the closer family member whom he could trust.

If you are genuine, you should just need talk to your son. Accept whom is he. Not try to change things that could bring harm or hurting your son.

[Ordinary]

If this posting is real, it is okay to have a gay son. A gay father has a gay son. It is in the DNA. Congratulations, you contributed to our community :thumb:

[Guest Ironrod]

From the post, I don't think the son is GAY at all!

Uncle, U think too much lar

[Guest kanlilaobu]

now i reading everybody post gay thing here, i feel scared. i worry my son get gay backside sex n kenna aids.

actually now very danger thing to be in singapore.

in 1 year's time, your son will be qualified to go sauna.

inside sauna, people fxxk backside after secretly taking off condom - very easy get aids.

from the way you describe your son watching photos of big musle men - probably your son will want his arsehole fxxked by someone like gachimuchi

now you have to make painful decision - how to save your son.

if you remain hostile to him being gay you are driving him out to seek for love/sex without guidance.

better if you educate him yourself how to enjoy anal sex and stay safe.

the best way to stay safe is to have only 1 partner. but gays are so fickle.

did you read yesterday news - about older gay lover murder his younger sex partner because he having other lovers?

so the best way is for you to have sex with your son. when father and son make love, that kind of love is more lasting.

try it out - you have enjoy the way your son's wet arsehole wrap around your cock.

maybe you may also enjoy letting him fxxk your arsehole too.

[oralb]

wow... coming to a gay forum to ask how to get your son to stop being gay is like going to a animal loving site and start a thread to discuss which animal makes the best fur coats...

The whole thread looked very engineered to the dot, pretending to write in broken english, know how to seperate into paragraphs and yet didnt capitalized the letter of each sentences. The flow of the story gave it away as well, "sorry if my english no good, i m only got primary school, i m work as hawker." was conveniently placed at the very beginning to create the illusion that we are talking to a lower educated person.

Why? Are we more lenient to a hawker? PLEASE! So if telling us you are PhD holder and holding a high ranking job, we would question your motives more?

[waterballoon]

seriously, people believe this really lame story?

[Guest possible82]

I personally think it's another asshole who is trying to fxxk the brains of BW members.

Hawker my ass. Dun u hv nothing better to do then to come up with such stories.

Precisely, its a spam for topic.

[Guest Gm]

Remember EX-WIFE? This is number 2.

Who are you kiddin straightpapa?

Lol

Answer to ur questions: did u see the replies from our fellow sisters up there?

He did manage to fool some of us...... Lol

[Guest hawker_Grad]

PLease hor.. we are in 2011, there are some hawkers who are graduates OK... Don't look down on hawkers. Also coming here to sxxxw around..etc

[MobyDick]

I think the mods should change the post title to "Help! I Suspect My Son's Father Is Gay, What Should I Do?"

[Guest Guest]

This is most probably a troll post.

Clue 1: You claim to be an uneducated hawker, yet you're smart enough to

- track your son's surfing history on Internet Explorer?

- register an account with Blowing Wind (at 5.59 pm) AND shoot off your long first post WITHIN 8 MINUTES OF REGISTERING?

Clue 2: For all your 'concern' about your son, you're surprisingly unconcerned with whether he may actually read the post from his hawker father, here in BW?

[edisonlim84]

since this post creates so many negative emotions, why not just close it hahas! Anyway, even if it is true, if the son is a gay all the parents can do is to support him and show him more love and care! Being a gay is not easy, so the parents should show more concern and udnerstanding so that the son feels the warmth and love and will lead an easier life!

[Guest BermuteLover]

since this post creates so many negative emotions, why not just close it hahas! Anyway, even if it is true, if the son is a gay all the parents can do is to support him and show him more love and care! Being a gay is not easy, so the parents should show more concern and udnerstanding so that the son feels the warmth and love and will lead an easier life!

Is a pity to close this post...... the post written by Kanlilaubu is so funni and wicker, i like it!!

[mamemo]

Edited April 19, 2011 by mamemo

[Guest guest]

watch naked girl also wrong, watch big big muscle man also wrong.. then what should he do

[darkdevil]

let him know of the few cruising places & let me know if he's going. i'll advice you if i get to anal him.............. hahahaaaah......... just kidding ya. ..............

[loveseeker]

i have every reason to belief he is gay. he is my only child.

he like to read men health magazine.

I also read a lot of Men Health magazines and I'm gay

[asianboi11]

omg.. i m still laughing after reading the post..... kudos to the starter.... please make a logic story... urs is so fake.

even if its real story, being gay is not a choice and also not a disease either ... u CANT DO anything about it... take it or leave it...

[icy_ter]

lolx... what a funny topic.

Be it a real or fake topic, seriously i think we should still respect the TS. else u can just ignore their post here.

anyway, i think i will not come to this forum to ask pple in BW for help.

As in normal straight families, the common things they normally will do is to discuss with their partner (i mean wife and husband)

The mother of the son should speak to him as in the family, the children usually prefer to talk truly with their mother instead of their father. (Reason is because, the father usually bo chap showing too little concern on their children, else is too fierce)

orelse, bring him to see 心理医生. But what will be the outcome, I would rather the parents should accept the facts and respect their decision. If not they might do funny action ie. commit suicide. This may ended up 白发人送黑发人. 你也没儿子送宗 哪来的孙子传宗接代??? We human will leave the world one day. Just a matter of time. Maybe the next second or minutes. Nobody will know. I rather than u appreciate ur son now instead of finding out the true if you really love ur son.

Even ur son and his friends muscle big big, so what? Along the road outside, most of the guys want to keep fit and muscle big big. It is so common for guys to keep fit now adays as encourage by the government. lolx... Maybe he want to get himself prepared for his NS. who knows? Buying mens magazine i think is quite common these days. As it is all about health, fashion and other stuff. But do u ever ask yourself why all the women always buy HERWORLD magazine? Are you trying to say all these women they are lesbian too? ofcos not right?

Sometime it is good to get mentally prepared first and wait for your son to tell u the truth instead of finding out the truth by yourself. A positive thinking will lead you a better life than a negative thinking. If you still think ur son is a gay.

Edited April 21, 2011 by icy_ter

[Guest u r gay]

You are gay, dont fool around. Based on your writing & shortform, i am sure you are creating a story. Those with poor english wont use shortform like becos, n, r, dunno.. I am sure you use MSN or SMS frequently. You mentioned "mucle big big" few times, intend to show us how bad your english are. Well, my english is not good.. I try hard to use proper spelling and not shortform. Guess you had fun with the comments above & jerk off in front of this screen with windows of pxxn site behind. I would like to think this way, your son are straight and he want muscle.. want bigger meat below, he visited here to search for answer. Tell him that it will grow big big after suck by men. Have fun.

[derryfawne]

This is most probably a troll post.

Clue 1: You claim to be an uneducated hawker, yet you're smart enough to

- track your son's surfing history on Internet Explorer?

- register an account with Blowing Wind (at 5.59 pm) AND shoot off your long first post WITHIN 8 MINUTES OF REGISTERING?

Clue 2: For all your 'concern' about your son, you're surprisingly unconcerned with whether he may actually read the post from his hawker father, here in BW?

I guess the only logical explanation is that everyone knows how to copy-paste nowadays, then. Even hawker uncles.

PS. That's a very tantalizing username btw. Come here, straightpapa... lemme help you 'release' your 'pressures' inside. :twisted:

Edited April 22, 2011 by derryfawne