Aiyyah! I'm 25 But Looks Like 35

[Shaukee]

how to overcome?

[briax]

how to overcome?

I think you need to tell us more. Noone could guess what do you mean by looking 35 when 25? Does that mean you look hotter or older? I am nearer 35 and I do not think I am less hot. lol.

[Guest I'm 55]

how to overcome?

I am 55, but look 40 (!), and feel 35!!!

[Guest BEAUTY]

Stay at home and wait for others to catch up? Go out after midnite?

Seriously, there are ugly 20s and gorgeous 30s. But i guess if you have to ask for suggestions to "overcome" your concern.....erm....

But seriously seriously, there are worse problems like losing your hair at 20 or having eyes that crossed? A little perspective please.

[Guest Heartseer]

aiyah why so sad?

there will always be someone who sees your heart and not your face, and will like it more than anything else.

but - and a BIG BUT - you only have to be patient, for you cannot make the blind see.

but if you are impatient, then you have to "sell" something else lor

maybe you got bubble butts or big cock. so walk walk on those dark nude nights in the sauna surely you catch something lor; but, of course, it will most likely be cum and go ...

so the choice is yours ... :twisted: :whistle:

[qedcwc]

I think he means that he looked older for his age.

Easy, stay cheerful, eat the right stuff, use the right stuff for your face.

Behave like an innocent kid whenever possible.

Some ppl say I looked like an undergrad when I have oledi grad for 3 years.

Some even tot me to be a sec school student! (maybe cos of my relatively shorter height)

[darkflame]

What's wrong with looking older than you are?

You are you, others are others.

I don't care if people say I look old or young. I'm myself and a unique individual, not to be classified into 'looking older/younger'.

[Guest 40yo Daddy boy]

I am 40 but still got people called me Ah Boy. I think because the thing I do, the way I talked and behaved like a child. If you always think you are young regardless of look, you are still a daddy boy when you reached 60. I still like people to call me Di Di, Ah Ti, Xiao Lian (translated in Hokkien as youngster)...or something to that effect. I know I sound vain, if not now than when?

[Guest cynical me]

I think you need to tell us more. Noone could guess what do you mean by looking 35 when 25? Does that mean you look hotter or older? I am nearer 35 and I do not think I am less hot. lol.

if that's you in your avatar, you have nothing to worry about at all....

[waterballoon]

I'm only 19 and someone said I look 30+. Wtf seriously and most people think I'm 25 or around there... :swear:

[Blacque]

I'm only 19 and someone said I look 30+. Wtf seriously and most people think I'm 25 or around there... :swear:

I think those idiots who say you look like 30+ are blind. Seriously.

[Guest cynical me]

I'm only 19 and someone said I look 30+. Wtf seriously and most people think I'm 25 or around there... :swear:

they should say you look like ayumi, who has heavy make up

[Guest Guest]

I am 40 but still got people called me Ah Boy. I think because the thing I do, the way I talked and behaved like a child. If you always think you are young regardless of look, you are still a daddy boy when you reached 60. I still like people to call me Di Di, Ah Ti, Xiao Lian (translated in Hokkien as youngster)...or something to that effect. I know I sound vain, if not now than when?

They must be blind. They could have called you Ah Girl, Mei Mei, Ah Moi, Xiao(1) Ah(1) Lian(2) (instead of Xiao(4) Lian(2)).

[Guest Simon]

I'm only 19 and someone said I look 30+. Wtf seriously and most people think I'm 25 or around there... :swear:

Better go laser or injection.

[gaycurious85]

I'm only 19 and someone said I look 30+. Wtf seriously and most people think I'm 25 or around there... :swear:

you're 19? hmmm.. pinch me

[gaycurious85]

I think you need to tell us more. Noone could guess what do you mean by looking 35 when 25? Does that mean you look hotter or older? I am nearer 35 and I do not think I am less hot. lol.

:thumb:

[waterballoon]

you're 19? hmmm.. pinch me

do i really.. not look 19 =/

[oralb]

woo... how i love the minimalist way of asking question... so that we can all guess what exactly do you meant.

In a nutshell

- Looks = ops sorry... that's fate if your features look old. Accept the fact that there will be someone that digs the mature look or invest in plastic surgery

- Skin condition = you can start by getting professional advices on how to improve on your skin tone and conditions. Apply sun block, a fairer skin will make you look younger

- Attire = Some deparmental shops hire consultant to help change you image, usually the service is free as they expected you to purchase the colthes and accessories they recommend.

Lastly, confidence, even if you looked 35, with the positive outlook and confidence appearance, you will still attract others.

p/s you should really look at abang's turning 50 thread

[briax]

Actually you will be surprised that apart from physical appearance, it is the vibe that you give that makes people misinterpret your actual age. I have met men from 40s and I can feel that their positive energy like anyone in their early 30s. If you are always feeling down, grumpy and negative, no matter how gorgeous you are, people will only date you once. People can sense negative energy and most people do not like to have their good mood suck out of their lives.

[Guest : )]

do i really.. not look 19 =/

You look like 21. Anyway, like Briax said, it's the confidence and your attitude about life, about yourself that makes you young or old.

Think positively. Gradually it will change you (both looks and personality).

Again like Briax said, hot guys with bad attitude are not popular either. But normal looking guy who is charming at heart and as he talks, wins it big : )

[waterballoon]

Actually you will be surprised that apart from physical appearance, it is the vibe that you give that makes people misinterpret your actual age. I have met men from 40s and I can feel that their positive energy like anyone in their early 30s. If you are always feeling down, grumpy and negative, no matter how gorgeous you are, people will only date you once. People can sense negative energy and most people do not like to have their good mood suck out of their lives.

Thank you for saying this. I shall be honest... most people said they think I'm 20-30+ because of the way I talk & the things I say..

but thanks to everyone for being so nice ^^

[gstc82]

i am 36 but look 26. wash your face the proper way with right products, moisturise! exercise!! if u are on the heavy side, loose some weight! if u smoke, dont smoke! i smoked for almost 20 years till i quit 2 years ago and skin really improved!. wear the right clothes that fits u, dun have to be flashy ones but clothes that fits u well exp after u lost weight and put on some muscles!.

[BeYourself]

Okie, this is my own story.

I'm 1m85, quite tall for Asian. It may be the reason why I always look older than my real age. When I was 20, people started guessing that I'm 26 or so. It has been getting worse since. Now I'm 26, and guess what, some of my close friends say that I look like a 30 yo man. Well... For your info, my skin is good, no pimples, but it's dark, cos I used nothing for my face. No sunblock, no emulsion, no toner.

Then, 1 month ago, at my bday, I decided that it was time to take care of myself. I started using skincare products from KIEHL's. Well, for a man who never used anything, applying 6 different products on his face at night and 3 steps before go out during daytime is something ridiculous... But well, I'm still doing it, even when I have to OT and come back home really late and am deadly tired and just want to sleep right away.

After 1 month, my skin looks really better.

So friend, even if you are not really a pleasant-looking man, knowing how to take care of yourself can really improve your appearance. If you are already a good-looking guy, why don't make your face look better?

Edited June 24, 2011 by BeYourself

[PastryStudent18]

Is KEIHL's product good? Wanted to try but unsure of it it good..

[Shaukee]

frankly, im not a good looking one and don't have anything except ma boring life. maybe i just need confidence.

Okie, this is my own story.

I'm 1m85, quite tall for Asian. It may be the reason why I always look older than my real age. When I was 20, people started guessing that I'm 26 or so. It has been getting worse since. Now I'm 26, and guess what, some of my close friends say that I look like a 30 yo man. Well... For your info, my skin is good, no pimples, but it's dark, cos I used nothing for my face. No sunblock, no emulsion, no toner.

Then, 1 month ago, at my bday, I decided that it was time to take care of myself. I started using skincare products from KIEHL's. Well, for a man who never used anything, applying 6 different products on his face at night and 3 steps before go out during daytime is something ridiculous... But well, I'm still doing it, even when I have to OT and come back home really late and am deadly tired and just want to sleep right away.

After 1 month, my skin looks really better.

So friend, even if you are not really a pleasant-looking man, knowing how to take care of yourself can really improve your appearance. If you are already a good-looking guy, why don't make your face look better?

Sounds like you are Kiehl's's ambassador.

[abang]

25 and you worried about looking older...

There are plenty of things you can do.. /start to do..

Start a gym routine

Get a hobby ... photography etc.

Read widely.. not just pop magazines but an assortment of books to boost your knowledge

Start a beauty regime.... cleanse your body, detox your body every now and then..

Have good relationship with your family members and friends

One final evil advice:

Dont trust your colleagues... after all, they are fighting for the same promotion..

[Guest Puzzled]

do i really.. not look 19 =/

U joined as BW memeber in Feb 2009. That's about 2 and half years ago which means you were then only 17 years old. Don't you need to be at least 18 years old to joined as per regulation?

[Guest Musclebtmbear]

Well... I am 45 and I look younger than my age. But I hate it!!! Once I went to buy lunch, stall lady called me xiao di and I told her off!!! Honestly, I love to look older and mature. That is why I do not color my hair to cover the grey.

[qsefthu78]

Is KEIHL's product good? Wanted to try but unsure of it it good..

Sorry if this is out of the topic but their night covery complex and accai series are excellent. Back to topic...

How you dress is very important. I work in an environmet where we have to dress professionally ie shirt n pants, but my boss is really very nice to not restrict me in wearing tshirts or fanciful casual shirts and jeans. And because of this, i do look younger than my colleagues.

A lot of teenagers still do not know how to dress up, and they dress sloppily which make them look chao lao and many years over their actual age.

[Shaukee]

25 and you worried about looking older...

There are plenty of things you can do.. /start to do..

Start a gym routine

Get a hobby ... photography etc.

Read widely.. not just pop magazines but an assortment of books to boost your knowledge

Start a beauty regime.... cleanse your body, detox your body every now and then..

Have good relationship with your family members and friends

One final evil advice:

Dont trust your colleagues... after all, they are fighting for the same promotion..

I don't fear getting older. gym? not affordable one for me. hobby? reading magazines; that's my hobby. Read widely? oredy started. The fourth thing? just started, sort of. Relationship - family to friends? i am now way social and as for family i just live alone.

the evil things - would suit much to me because rarely make interactions with other people unless it is work related and some important matters.

That is. How boring i felt about myself.

Sorry if this is out of the topic but their night covery complex and accai series are excellent. Back to topic...

How you dress is very important. I work in an environmet where we have to dress professionally ie shirt n pants, but my boss is really very nice to not restrict me in wearing tshirts or fanciful casual shirts and jeans. And because of this, i do look younger than my colleagues.

A lot of teenagers still do not know how to dress up, and they dress sloppily which make them look chao lao and many years over their actual age.

i quite agree with these. some style looks smart on other people doesn't mean it would look smart on us.

[Pepperroom]

learn to smile more.. you look younger and more beautiful when you make genuine smile..

[Torrent]

I have an AJ friend who's 26+ but he looks like he just hit puberty (think 15~17) lol.

[Guest Guest]

U joined as BW memeber in Feb 2009. That's about 2 and half years ago which means you were then only 17 years old. Don't you need to be at least 18 years old to joined as per regulation?

Duration calculation results

From and including: Monday, 30 March 1992

To, but not including : Monday, 9 February 2009

It is 6160 days from the start date to the end date, but not including the end date

Or 16 years, 10 months, 10 days excluding the end date.

[Guest HotAirBalloon]

orh!!!! waterballoon u die liao!!! ban ban ban!

but then neh mind lah, you look like 35 anyway. :whistle:

[Guest burstballon]

orh!!!! waterballoon u die liao!!! ban ban ban!

but then neh mind lah, you look like 35 anyway. :whistle:

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Lying makes you aged faster. By then you reach 35, u would look like a Kong Kong

"Judas, Judas, Judas........."

[Guest Guest]

orh!!!! waterballoon u die liao!!! ban ban ban!

but then neh mind lah, you look like 35 anyway. :whistle:

he is not the only & won't be the last to do that, so?

there are more & more such " teens " in BW since few years back,

most regular readers can easily tell by their posts,

the way they wrote & react already reveal their true identity, even they want to hide it.

nothing new, is just their true characters & personality

[Guest Guest]

he is not the only & won't be the last to do that, so?

there are more & more such " teens " in BW since few years back,

most regular readers can easily tell by their posts,

the way they wrote & react already reveal their true identity, even they want to hide it.

nothing new, is just their true characters & personality

Aiyoh, I have seen teens as young as 13 yrs old smoking in a public park and petting in their school uniform at my staircase.

They need to be caned :twisted:

[BeYourself]

frankly, im not a good looking one and don't have anything except ma boring life. maybe i just need confidence.

Sounds like you are Kiehl's's ambassador.

I wish!

[BeYourself]

gym? not affordable one for me.

It is not so hard to find an affordable gym in Singapore. You don't have to go to Fitness First or California Fitness to work out!

Two friends of mine are using a gym next to Golden Mile, near Lavender MRT. It is less than 200$ for 6 months. Of couse there is no steam bath or sauna, but it is good enough. I took a look at the gym when I was there for prawn noodle ^^

[smallboy]

Better then 21 but you look like 16? I want to look like 20..

[qedcwc]

Better then 21 but you look like 16? I want to look like 20..

I'm 26, but i've often been mistaken as a secondary school student.

[Guest imseeker]

I'm 26, but i've often been mistaken as a secondary school student.

LOL, you remind me of Fann Wong.

"我是你的高中老师!!"

[Guest alien]

Some pple no matter wht they do, their face might born to look mature. I think maybe u cannot do much. But if u look older than your actual age due to poor maintainance, then maybe can try to improve by staying cheerful, drink more water, sleep well, go for facial, eat balance meals and exercise regularly.

[abang]

I think you can change your looks through your confidence.

Yes, not everyone looks like Viviane aka Jolin's current beau.

But with the self-assurance that you are good-looking in a different way, you will be attractive.

I went for a haircut recently and the hairsytlist was definitely cruising me.

Ask me where I stay, what I do on weekends... what lotions I used on my face (not what gel on my hair).

At the end of the session, he scribbled his mobile number on a piece of paper and asked me to call him.

So it is not how old, how ugly you are but how confident and smart you look that matters.

Start using BB cream or now, it is CC cream (those Koreans!)

[Guest IamPineapple]

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Edited July 31, 2011 by IamPineapple