Guest Gg Posted July 20, 2011 Report Share Posted July 20, 2011 Anyone here in a 3 way ltr? Or the 'mistress' ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Uncle Posted July 21, 2011 Report Share Posted July 21, 2011 I have to confess that I have always had fantasy of being in a 3-person relationship, NOT like one person having an affair but ALL 3 guys loving/fxxking one another and sharing the bed and their lives together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Options Posted July 21, 2011 Report Share Posted July 21, 2011 The next questions are, you prefer?1. 2 top vs 1 bottom2. 2 bottom vs 1 Top3. All flexi4. All top5. All bottomWhich choice you guys preferred. I like No.1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest =DD Posted July 21, 2011 Report Share Posted July 21, 2011 The next questions are, you prefer?1. 2 top vs 1 bottom2. 2 bottom vs 1 Top3. All flexi4. All top5. All bottomWhich choice you guys preferred. I like No.1Wah, how can u forget 1 top, 1 flex and 1 bottom... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyboy88 Posted July 21, 2011 Report Share Posted July 21, 2011 I would love to be in this kind of relationship its fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JJMel Posted August 2, 2011 Report Share Posted August 2, 2011 Wah, how can u forget 1 top, 1 flex and 1 bottom...oh god i'd love that relationship haha i'd be either top/flexi. prefer top to bottom but bottom's just so fun :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crisis Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 After a while it's just not fun anymore. Its only the initial thrill.The relationship is messy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Thaiboyz Posted August 4, 2011 Report Share Posted August 4, 2011 With such an idea of having such relationship and afraid of boredom after sometime, better suggestion is to have regular changing batches of so called ' lovers ' to keep the thrills and excitement. All tops option can be fun as each of them trying to challenge the other to be his bottom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest i am Posted August 4, 2011 Report Share Posted August 4, 2011 Anyone here in a 3 way ltr? Or the 'mistress' ?I'm the "mistress", a happy one : ), cos he cares and likes me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up2xgd Posted September 21, 2012 Report Share Posted September 21, 2012 (edited) This is an interesting thread. I am doing some research on a three way gay relationship and would love to hear from anyone who was in one, or is currently in a 3 way ltr, or thinking of one. Aside from the benefits of sex and preferences in terms of positions, I am speaking of:(1) Why would a couple want a 3 way relationship to begin with? (Boredom? Too much love to give? Just so that at least 2 bfs can be together should one of them be busy?)(2) How and where did you find a 3rd person for a 3 way ltr?(3) What are the practical day-to-day issues involved? (e.g. dealing with jealousy? )(4) How did you resolve the issues in (3)?(5) If you are currently in a 3way ltr, how long has it been already? (i.e, the # of years the primary couple have been together, followed by the # of years for the 3 way ltr)(6) How do you keep the love alive in a 3way?Thanks! Edited September 22, 2012 by up2xgd I see good in people, until they show me otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyboy88 Posted September 21, 2012 Report Share Posted September 21, 2012 did u jus dig up a one year old ago post? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cereal Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 The next questions are, you prefer?1. 2 top vs 1 bottom2. 2 bottom vs 1 Top3. All flexi4. All top5. All bottomWhich choice you guys preferred. I like No.1i like 1 top 2 flexi lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up2xgd Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 did u jus dig up a one year old ago post?yea. was researching this n since there is already thread, y not! I see good in people, until they show me otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Been there done that. Lost every1. Think thoroughly for the benefits of everyone in the long term. Once the honeymoon period is over, it gets very messy. If anyone is lucky to sustain it, happy for u. Those not started yet, do think for everyone you like to get involved with. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Been there done that. Lost every1. Think thoroughly for the benefits of everyone in the long term. Once the honeymoon period is over, it gets very messy. If anyone is lucky to sustain it, happy for u. Those not started yet, do think for everyone you like to get involved with.so u lost the other 2 and they got together? i think i can truly understand the mess once honeymoon period is over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Nope. Everyone lost everyone. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up2xgd Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 (edited) Nope. Everyone lost everyone.Could you share more details. I am very interested to know how it all happened, and what went well and what went wrong, in your opinion? And what do you think could be handled better. I also want to find out more about the dynamics....sexual positions, are you the third or the primary partners to begin with.I hope I am not raking a sad past for you, but If you are comfortable responding that is. I am sure everyone can learn a lesson or two from your experience. Edited September 22, 2012 by up2xgd I see good in people, until they show me otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Could you share more details. I am very interested to know how it all happened, and what went well and what went wrong, in your opinion? And what do you think could be handled better. I also want to find out more about the dynamics....sexual positions, are you the third or the primary partners to begin with.I hope I am not raking a sad past for you, but If you are comfortable responding that is. I am sure everyone can learn a lesson or two from your experience.I read you are doing a research on this subject. I am not comfortable to share my life story in detail here but if you like, send me a pm message, meet up over coffee and I will make an effort to answer your questions in helping you with your work. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lookingaround Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 hais. caught in between. " 也许我们当时年纪真的太小, 从那懵懵懂懂 走进各自天空. 该怎么说 让彼此选择, 但思念还转动 "" 爱不是时间能所衡量的。" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Sounds like the honeymoon period is the only good time of any relationship??I think not. Yes the honeymoon period is when u feel like u are head over heels.. But if u don't feel the same after... U are just leading the other on.. It's unfair to both sides.... That's not love in my books. But each relationship is different... So maybe it works for some it doesnt for others... Not right to impose our believes, yes?U do what u feel comfortable doing.Anyways regarding the 3LTR. Hmm... Tricky... Ain't too sure myself.. But honestly, my personal opinion, I don't think I can love 2 people at one time. When I'm with my guy. I want all of him, not the part that wants to show me off to his friends, the part that likes sex with me, or just te happy times we spent together. I want to share his burdens and doscomforts and try to help him, of course going space too. So I won't give any less than that. If I'm with him, I'm all his and no one else's. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 For a polyamorous relationship to work, in this case with 3 people, known as a polyamorous triad, it has to be based on a foundation of openness, honesty and communication. We are all raised to think that mono-amoury is the only way to have a happy and satisfying relationship, time and again the divorce rates have demonstrated that it is not the only solution. History have also demonstrated that polyamoury is more common than we would like to think. It is common for emperors or any man to have more than one wife, mistress or lover.Everyone involved in the triad or more just have to honest about what they want, what they are comfortable with and manage expectations. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 3 way LTR do exist more often than u imagine. A is my friend and was in a 1-year relationship with his bf B. When A went into a new job, he met a guy C which he can hit off pretty well. A introduced C to B after awhile and B could sense that A has a liking for C but B did not say much as he loved A alot. And then it happened, A asked B whether C can come into their relationship. B did not reject as he loved A and is okay with C. So B and C practically shared A together. Ironically, the relationship between B and C developed and it came to a point when they were spending more time together without A. A was shocked when B and C decided to call off the 3 way LTR and B and C went into a mono relationship. My friend A is still single whereas B and C are still together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 Lols.I know we were taught that monogamy works really well.But it's kinda true ain't it?Sustaining such a relationship doesn't seem at all realistic in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 22, 2012 Report Share Posted September 22, 2012 3 way LTR do exist more often than u imagine. A is my friend and was in a 1-year relationship with his bf B. When A went into a new job, he met a guy C which he can hit off pretty well. A introduced C to B after awhile and B could sense that A has a liking for C but B did not say much as he loved A alot. And then it happened, A asked B whether C can come into their relationship. B did not reject as he loved A and is okay with C. So B and C practically shared A together. Ironically, the relationship between B and C developed and it came to a point when they were spending more time together without A. A was shocked when B and C decided to call off the 3 way LTR and B and C went into a mono relationship. My friend A is still single whereas B and C are still together.A's bed karma Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GUEST Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 is a open market. we can love the person we want as long as he is still single, regardless if he is yr best friend or strangers . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 4 ways Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 3 ways? How about 4? there is a prominent gay figure in the community rumored to have 3 other guys in his life. i wonder how can one share his love this way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 3 ways? How about 4? there is a prominent gay figure in the community rumored to have 3 other guys in his life. i wonder how can one share his love this way.4??might as well have group sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up2xgd Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 Thanks all for the responses. I respect all views and thank you all for sharing. keep'em coming (although I see the thread turning to sexual gratification once in a while which is inevitable.) happy Sunday! I see good in people, until they show me otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 2 top 1 btm Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NielKlient Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 a 3 way ltr may sounds fun and intriging. but i doubt it would go a very long way... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curious_boi Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 Our ancestors fxxked around but there was no problems. Many ancient tribes practiced polygamy but everybody were all happy with each other. Its JEALOUSY that causes one to exert authority and possession of his lover's heart in the name of wanting him to "be faithful". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steppenwolf Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 Thanks all for the responses. I respect all views and thank you all for sharing. keep'em coming (although I see the thread turning to sexual gratification once in a while which is inevitable.) happy Sunday!If you could, try to get hold of this documentary (not the coffee table book) by Howard Roffman... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WightTonguehlk Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 (edited) Our ancestors fxxked around but there was no problems. Many ancient tribes practiced polygamy but everybody were all happy with each other. Its JEALOUSY that causes one to exert authority and possession of his lover's heart in the name of wanting him to "be faithful".Yet another excuse for a cheater You:" hey boyfriend stop being so fxxkING JEALOUS and let me fxxk around with whoever I want. But know that I love you "*kisses boyfriend and go sauna have a fivesome*Innocent bf: *cries and commits suicide* his parting words:" I really loved him..." Edited September 23, 2012 by WightTonguehlk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 23, 2012 Report Share Posted September 23, 2012 After a while it's just not fun anymore. Its only the initial thrill.The relationship is messy.What has been your experience? Are the problems really any worse than in a dual relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up2xgd Posted September 24, 2012 Report Share Posted September 24, 2012 If you could, try to get hold of this documentary (not the coffee table book) by Howard Roffman...Thanks. Have read the reviews and it is definitely a three way gone right. Will try and get hold of the docu. I see good in people, until they show me otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tblee Posted September 24, 2012 Report Share Posted September 24, 2012 Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor/love) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Many contend that it is distinct from both swinging (which often emphasizes sex with others as merely recreational) [2] or with polysexuality (which is attraction towards multiple genders and/or sexes).http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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