windrunner Posted July 21, 2011 Report Share Posted July 21, 2011 Is it true that most stocky men don't really go for guys who are slim/average?I love stocky guys but when I tell them I'm on the average side of the fence, they'd usually reject me or leave me hanging. I understand it's all down to personal preferences but I just wanna know whether it's true or not. It's so hard for me to find a stocky bf.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hazilyhasty Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 As much as I want to say this is merely a blanket statement, keeping in mind the hard truth is also as unpalatable as it seems.The truth is, people prefer good looking, gym-toned bodies, regardless of their own body type. That pretty much sums up the problem. leeryan87 1 Quote If the world don't suck we'd all fall off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotpers Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Is it true that most stocky men don't really go for guys who are slim/average?I love stocky guys but when I tell them I'm on the average side of the fence, they'd usually reject me or leave me hanging. I understand it's all down to personal preferences but I just wanna know whether it's true or not. It's so hard for me to find a stocky bf.. 26 178 79chn here, keen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 The truth is, people prefer good looking, gym-toned bodies, regardless of their own body type. That pretty much sums up the problem.U r wrong. We r not talking abt the mainstream crowds here. We r talking abt another breed of guys, the gmen stocky muscles rugby bear kind of crowds. And yes, 95% do prefer their own kind. Quote Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 U r wrong. We r not talking abt the mainstream crowds here. We r talking abt another breed of guys, the gmen stocky muscles rugby bear kind of crowds. And yes, 95% do prefer their own kind.I strictly have no idea of the right percentage, but I'm sure it's not 100%; I must belong to the minority... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 they reject you may not just of the built, but the look too, chemistry is important & they need to comfortable with your look too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 they reject you may not just of the built, but the look too, chemistry is important & they need to comfortable with your look tooQuite true!Difficult to scientifically define "chemistry", but it seems much more important to me than all the other parameters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 they reject you may not just of the built, but the look too, chemistry is important & they need to comfortable with your look tooBut if we r talking on gmen bear crowd, ive to insist most of them still go for built and not look... this is true! Quote Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 But if we r talking on gmen bear crowd, ive to insist most of them still go for built and not look... this is true! yes, mostly are like that, both are big in size maybe most real Gmen type are cute & manly too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaterTenebrarum Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 (edited) As much as I want to say this is merely a blanket statement, keeping in mind the hard truth is also as unpalatable as it seems.The truth is, people prefer good looking, gym-toned bodies, regardless of their own body type. That pretty much sums up the problem.Why doesn want a good looking partner. But looks are very subjective.Not everyone like a partner with a chiselled body. There are guys who like tem skinny, there a chubby chasers who like them Rubenesque, etc.For me, Im most attracted to guys who arent fat BUT are bigger and have a bit more flesh to their bones.WAS a big boy just about a year ago - weighed a bit more than 90 kgs and Im like only 1.71m tall. I think I would have a made a pretty cute bear. Was very happy until I went for a medical checkup and the doctor told me that my cholesterol level had gone "through the roof" (his words not mine) and my blood pressure was high. Eekkkk!!!!Managed to lost nearly 20 kgs since then and everything is now normal. Edited July 23, 2011 by PaterTenebrarum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cw30 Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 just be yourself, things will change after a decade Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iChaser Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 take me take me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evianwater Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 just be yourself, things will change after a decadeI don't wanna just be myself wait a decade... I wanna do whatever i can now, to appear more attractive and cater to a wider range of ppl when i still have my youth. I think If i have to wait long, it means im not doing enough.But ya.. This thread is interesting cz i'm also pretty curious to find out.... Do slim guys have a market? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy.99 Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 (edited) if you think you are fat or slim then do something about it.do what it takes to make you confident. Edited August 3, 2011 by happy.99 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evianwater Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 if you think you are fat or slim then do something about it.do what it takes to make you confident.Yes. That is absolutely right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happy.99 Posted August 3, 2011 Report Share Posted August 3, 2011 Yes. That is absolutely right.dun waste your youth like some of us who came out late. but also be sensible hor? play safe and dun get cheated!if you are in your 20s, you got 20 over years before you start growing out of proportion unless u maintain well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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