From Bw Archives 33 : 09 Feb - 24 Feb 99

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02/24/99 08:28:45

Name: gentle kisses

Your Fav Sextivity: gentle kisses

Your Nationality: msian

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thank you, wong. but i think AK has given us a few useful tips. it might be sometime before we two are going for it again, and until then, maybe i will just see what other advises that might pop up here.

for your info, i did check out and read up, but unfortunately, the writer was referring more towards those who are circum_d, and I ended up, I believe, slightly hurting my lover. I know AK is going to laugh 'with' us again, over this, huh?

I believe i remember how my lover likes it when I mast. him. And in the next round, i am going to do that technique, orally. thank you, you two.

by the way, when we two spent time together at the beach, i was surprised that he took the initiative to sit close to me, as he is so afraid of the public 'eyes'. we were enjoying the high tide and wind, at night, when no less than 5 minutes later, le s than 3 feet away from us, a coconut feel to the ground and created a heavy bump sound. We were shock and chose to leave the place. Just to remind you all, that although some places are romantic, do look out for the danger... I almost lost my lover the first night I met him... some love life, huh?

02/23/99 14:40:15

Name: wong My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: sg

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Regarding posting by David, a burning sensation when you piss cud be a sign of urinary tract infection or something more serious. You shud see a doctor quickly and not engage in sex in the meantime. Regarding posting by Msian, you can get a lot of helpful info on anal/oral sex (not the xxx variety, but serious educational stuff) by searching specifically for the topics you're interested in. I hv a very informative/helpful book wh you can borrow. Emai me if you're interested.

02/23/99 09:29:06

Name: quickee lover My URL: Visit Me

Your Fav Sextivity: tongue stroking Your Fav Body Type: average && proportionate && tender && smooth

Your Nationality: alien

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Went to the FR gaytopia a few days back and noticed a new sign board inside the bush area that says sumthin like "Government Land, No Trespassing, ...". It kinda adds more excitement to the sex, stranger, abandon, wilderness and danger factors w/c you simply cannot have in the house or any motel. But I'm worried this might be a signal of the impending demise of Singapore's last frontier. Can probably still go there and have fun but then less excuses for police if interrogated. Need the sex atmosphere there once in a while (week), actually prefer it over the boring bed. Is the police spot checking the area more often? Any tips out there for kinky and adventurous sluts like me on other sexcapades?

02/23/99 05:57:02

My URL: Visit Me

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David : U probably have piles...u might wanna c a doc to confirm it...n have some medication for it.

02/23/99 01:22:53

Name: David

My URL: Visit Me

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I need some help. I am worried sick. The area immediately above my anus has a slight bump, which is soft and swollen and when I piss, I have this burning sensation. Could it be any form of STD? However, there is no dis-charge or blood and no other signs o blisters or sores. Please tell me if there is anything wrong with me?

02/22/99 15:55:26

Name: Alex My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Singapore

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Sorry, the link to my email was not correct in the last posting. Hope to hear from u soon.

02/22/99 15:43:54

Name: Alex My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Singapore

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Looking for a guy in light blue shirt, brown pants and brown sling pouch on Sun 21st Feb. We exchange glances on the train and you got off at Buona Vista MRT. Would like to get in touch with you.

02/22/99 15:43:16

Name: Alex My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Singapore

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Looking for a guy in light blue shirt, brown pants and brown sling pouch on Sun 21st Feb. We exchange glances on the train and you got off at Buona Vista MRT. Would like to get in touch with you.

02/22/99 15:02:42

Name: actionkid

Comments:

gk.. you know I wasn't really laughing at you.. rather, I was laughing with you.. Wat you've got there is indeed something quite special. Enjoy the moment and treasure them. The starting of a relationship will always be extremely passionate and you find your mind engulfed by all these uncontrollable emotions.. you simply cannot get him out of your head! Reign in your emotions and tackle the issues.. I'm sure the two of you will do well. Enjoy it!

02/22/99 14:05:43

Name: abx

My Email: Email Me

Your Nationality: Sinagaporean

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I met this guy few months back. His look is normal. He has a warm caring heart, this is why I am touched. And not knowing if he is a gay. He started off emailing me counting to the number of minutes we had met. Calling me just to say hello. I just moved by this, no one done this to me before. Also invited me to a free trip once. And stayed overnight at his place once. Yet nothing happen between us. I had wanted to touch him but dared not to. The sad thing is that why is he been so nice to me. Should I ask him ? Or just stop dreaming ? If this is you reading this psoting. Why not just tell me what you think of me?

02/22/99 13:47:27

Your Fav Sextivity: gentle kisses

Your Nationality: msian

Comments:

I knew it. How could you, AK, laughed at us.. sigh... guess that is the cost that I have to bear for writing in...

anyway, thank you for the advise. For your info, I def agree with you that love is not about having sex. Thank you too, for the other suggestions, and frankly, we have done all those. Our favourite sextivity is hugging each other to sleep, to feel t e warmness of each other and to kiss each other (gentle kiss) when we awake.

We consider long before deciding to give in to one another. This is no one night stand, as we know we have love to strengthen the relationship and not love-making (sex).

In fact, at first I was doubtful, but as we chatted more with one another, as we spend more time together thru hours of gazing at one another, I find myself falling more and more in love, and I do not need lust to know that I am in love with this man o mine... Sigh.. if only we two are meant to be together forever in this life..

thank you anyway, AK and Eric.

02/22/99 13:34:25

Name: Eric

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AK, I share the same thoughts with you, especially on the last paragraph. Kudos!!

02/22/99 10:35:49

Name: actionkid

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HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! I'm sorry, GK.. I just can't help myself..;P But I have to say, I think it is really really sweet and I gotta give you guys for your sincerity in trying.. *actionkid blows gentle kisses at GK&partner*

I know this'll sound quite 'weird' since most of us here are prolly quite experienced and I am only just giving one flip of the page.. Yeah.. I'm opening myself up to criticisms.. But wat the heck.. lemme just give it a shot, and maybe, you might actual y find it useful..

The sensitivity of the cockhead varies for different people. The cut ones are usually quite heavy duty.. hehehe.. you can blow it any way you want and it won't hurt too much. . The uncut ones.. well.. if you've got a problem with the foreskin not being a le to retract, then it might hurt quite a bit when you blow. (some people claim that it'd be wise for you to have a circumcision if you have this condition) It gives a rather stinging sensation. But that doesn't mean you can't blow it. You can still do it . but gently. Heheh.. some tips.. open your mouth wide wide and slowly engulf it. Skip the cockhead and just go for the shaft. Curl your wetted lips inwards so that your teeth won't get in the way. Start it slow until your partner is used to the feeling. nd then, you can start letting your tongue loll around... very much like sucking a lollipop I guess.. It is especially arousing if you are to let your tongue roll just below the cockhead..at the neck of it If the head is not used to being exposed and is ultra sensitive, do take extra measure not to pull back the foreskin too much by not grasping it with your lips too hard. Given time, I'm sure your partner will get used to it and he'll learn to enjoy it. His cock will naturally harden itself.. Ultim tely, it is important that you understand how your partner enjoys having his cock touched. Learn by observing the way he jerk himself and dun be shy to ask him if it is okay for you to do it in a certain way.

As for the anal bit.. hmm.. that one needs an acquired taste. I dunno.. but I dun think you should use vaseline to lubricate.. there are better water-based alternatives like KY from Johnson&Johnson or the flavoured ones that you can find at Condomania (WA !!.. Those are VERY GOOD! Wet with a warm glowing sensation.. BRRRRR!!) as for the penetrating bit.. firstly, you have to get real hard.. . Oh yah.. and DUN FORGET THE CONDOM! Put extra lubricant on the condom.. Our asshole tends to be ultra tight.. Ha haha! Yeah yeah.. you need to loosen up, relax your muscle, do lotsa foreplay like rimming, fingering, etc to 'warm' it up. And dun tense yerself when you're letting it in.. When it's cumming in, relax.. ;} That much I can say.. coz I'm a top and can only give a second hand opinion..

Hehehe.. but you know what? I personally think making love with someone you care about is not about having sex.. ie, there's no need to blow or fxxk.. Making love is about being really close to the person and letting go of all boundaries. I think it is fi e just being nekked together, hugging each other tight, kissing endlessly, exploring our bodies with our tongues and fingers, nibbling at the earlobes and neck, holding hands tightly, or just hugging one another to sleep.. You guys might wanna start off w th that first before indulging into all the hardcore parts.. It's always nice starting out and exploring with a loved one.. Good luck man.. and keep that luvving feeling!

02/22/99 08:52:49

Your Fav Sextivity: gentle kisses

Your Nationality: msian

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guys..er... i know I am going to get a lot laughing here but I need help. Anyone, pls advise, if possible.

my new lover and I tried to make love for the first time but being inexperience, i think we are hurting each other physically more than enjoying each other. Not really that hurtful actually.

we tried oral sex, and could not make each other cum, although we both enjoyed the sessions. However, he turned out to be sensitive around the dick head and my sucking hurted him, eventually. I would like to make him cum. How?

As for anal sex, we found out that to penetrate is not that easy after all. What are the secrets? We did use vaseline, and I did get in, but it was quite difficult. Is there something that we left out?

Pls help. How about some advices, actionkid and friends?

thank you.

02/22/99 08:00:40

Name: Zen

Comments:

D. You don't leave your friend to make him understand you treat him only as a friend. If you two have such a deep friendship worth keeping, he must surely be able to understand your stance in the end. Only he himself can change his feelings towards you fi ally, you can't worry about that. Don't worry, things will turn out well.

02/22/99 05:59:19

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: USA ang mo

Comments:

to all

You might want to check out the site of the San Francisco-based Malaysian Gay and Lesbian Club. It has apparently gotten some press attention in Malaysian newspapers after the Anwar incident. I'll warn you, it is bandwidth-heavy but quite attractive.

to all again

It has been pointed out to me that not only is this the Chinese New Year of the Rabbit, but it is also the Vietnamese New Year of the Cat. So...

HOPPY MEW YEAR!

This is the only time I will use the <BLINK> tag, I swear.

02/22/99 04:00:20

Name: actionkid

Comments:

D.. wow.. that's a tough one. How do we draw the line between friendship and love? And worse, if it is a one-sided affair. I'm quite stumped actually. Most often, things will tend to turn sour and we end up losing a potentially wonderful friend. Well.. at least that is what I usually end up with under such circumstances. It takes two to clap and with one hand, things fall apart.. whether we intend it to happen or not. It'd be great to hear of stories which turn otherwise.. I'm sure that there are good alte natives..

Anyway, just a comment.. I think it is great that this page has become a jumping board for you guys to get to know new friends and acquaintances. Take it all with a pinch of salt and savour the good moments, okay? Enjoy man!

02/22/99 02:56:36

Name: Zen

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Dear Adrian, everyone else has exhausted the best of theirs, so I won't add anymore. Don't let those moods get to you. I know you are always cool, stay cheerful. Bye. Peace, everyone.

02/22/99 02:42:58

Name: Eric

Comments:

Hehehehe...i want to keh poh a bit too. Adrian, you do not have to go all out and get yourself a bf just because everyone that you meet is attached. You will be more disappointed if you are attached to someone and later on feel that the 2 of you are not m ant for each other. Trust me, I have been thru that before and this is because you try to rush into things (I mean a relationship). Take it easy. Go out and meet more people. If people say that you have a nice personality, then it proves that you are a nice person and some day, your prince charming will appear before you. Sometimes, it is more important to have a group of good friends as they are the ones who will give you moral support in tough times. No point jumping into a relationship just because everyone says that you have to be in one. Let it flow naturally and love will knock on your doors soon. Well, I've pat kua enuf. Time to go. Cheers!!

02/22/99 02:35:47

Name: Adrian

My Email: Email Me

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Thanks guys!!!!!!!!!! I know that my friends around me are more than enough sometimes, and that I am also currently busy with a lot of things that I love and dun mind being busy with. Hence am living a fulfilling life as it is. I do know that being attach d comes with a lot of repsonsibilities as well and we would be tied down in a way. Am loving my independance but sometimes feelings like that just hit me when it is least expected. ...................... as for coming out to my str8 friends...... I would not do it as well for fear of unknown / unexpected repercussions.... hence, not to worry!!! Am very glad that ppl from this page are so concerned and is willing to help and give advice when they can. Am really touched!!!!! *shed a tear* ........ Cuthbert, will see you around yah???? Thanks a lot again guys!!!!!!! I feel a lot better now.

02/22/99 02:06:01

Name: Jared

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

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Guys...This is my second posting here on the same subject. Does anyone know anything about that GURKHAS cruising area that I mentioned earlier. You could e-mail me directly if you want to keep the info private.

02/21/99 17:47:21

Name: D.

Comments:

Need some opinion, if you guys don't mind. Would you leave a friend who loves you but you don't, to minimize his hurt, or would you hang on to it selfishly no matter what because you treasure the friendship too much?

02/21/99 16:37:20

Name: Jimmy

Comments:

Gee Adrian: AK and Cuthbert have both answered well. I'd just add my 2 cts worth.

You've already got str8 friends who are pretty clearly able to accept gay friends. This should give you the confidence to proceed to do whatever you wish without fear of losing them as friends right ?

Next, you're still young right ? What's wrong with not being attached ? I'll admit to feeling lost at one time or another. But over the last 5 years, I've figured that there is a big difference with being alone and being lonely. There are people who can s and in a crowd and yet yearn companionship. Yep, they feel lonely in a crowd. You can be alone yet not feel lonely. Even Partners, well, need to Part.

Come to love yourself (nah ... not talking about the narcissistic stuff), know yourself. You are the one who will be with urself 24 hours, 365 days a year (ok ok ...366 if leap).

When love comes, so it will. Just make sure you leave that door open. Get ready for disappointment. Keep your friends close for they will be there to catch you when you fall... (hey, what are friends for ?). Perhaps you will be fortunate enough and end up with a fairy tale relationship replete with Prince Charming and Happily-Ever-Afters. Perhaps not. Whatever the case, never feel lonely, for you have you.

02/21/99 16:12:39

Name: actionkid

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hmm.. cuthbert.. i couldn't have said it any better.. Great words of wisdom man.. Yep.. Adrian, firstly, there is NOTHING wrong with you. You're just going through what everyone else is going through.. SEARCHING. Finding a love is not an easy task and hanging out in the gay bars will not necessarily get you your man. IRC and the net is a good way of getting to know people, but it is always better to try out the old and tested way of meeting people in person. I think half your problems can be diluted by the fact that you've got your friends around you. Never underestimate the value of friendship. As for love, well.. it is a lovely feeling to be in love. But you can't rush love. It will come to you when it does. Thus, hang in there, man. I'm sure you'll d well, and we'll all be with you as you journey on, as your friends would.... SMILE!

02/21/99 15:40:25

Name: Cuthbert

My Email: Email Me

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Adrian, the question is not a matter of whether your friends will treat you differently when you tell of your gayness but rather how you yourself would take to the reaction of others. Whether you are able to brace for the (good/bad) reactions from them af er you have disclosed your secret. I, for one, would not be able to stand gossips behind my back nor the deep stress of having to await their reactions. This is akin to waiting for the death roll. I would rather live with this layer of protection.

Who says that being single is not fun? Is there anything 'seriously wrong'? We still young and our lives have just started, we have a long road ahead of us. There are opportunities galore! Being single, we are not bounded my anyone except for ourselves. W can do what we want, whenever we want to with our friends and loved ones. Being in love is not just loving each other, there are lots of responsibilities too. When you fall in love, there are times when you just wish to be single again. Life isn't just a out sex and love, there's still friends right? With friends by your side, there are a lot more better things to do than hanging out at gay bars.

People have their own way of looking at things. If they don't want to do something, we also cannot do anything much about it. To me, I feel that since we are able to meet up with friends, why not have a face to face chat rather than communicate over some evice? Watching a friend's direct expressions during a nice long chat is one of the most enjoyable things in life! Cheers!

02/21/99 14:11:58

Name: Adrian

My Email: Email Me

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Hi there guys, just want to send something out into the open space and to no particular person............. Today I went to a friend's birthday gathering to discover that one of my friends, a guy, is rather openly gay and is happily attached with endorsem nt by my str8 friends as well. Am pretty washed over by their open-mindedness cos I always thought they are rather an up-tight conservative bunch.............. The thing I am gonna say is again the tired and old topic as to why am I not attached as yet? M friends are rather surprised that I am still unattached as even my gay friends are saying that there is something seriosly wrong. Is it my way of getting to know gay ppl? I do admit that I only have a few gay friends and I do not hang out alone at gay ba s or something. But I have met a number of guys from the net who all seemed to stop contacting VERY SOON after they have met me. Maybe I am not their type...... but then I am not ugly nor do I have a terrible personality. In fact, more often than not they continued their e/mails correpondences with me for a long time becos of my persoanlity ( they say one lah )........... so what is wrong with me?????? *sign*

02/21/99 13:53:41

Name: actionkid

Comments:

ahboi!! miss u! Hehehe.. so.. any german sexcapades yet? Drop me a note when you get back okay? I've just came back from a late evening blading session at ECP.. all by myself... wah.. so stressed with some work assignments that I simply had to go out ther and get some sweat out. Its been a long time since I went to that area at nite and I have to say, the activities are still going strong. But, naah.. I was there for the night air..;P There were cars around and it'd be easy to get a lift.. but.. naah.. mu t be a good boi now.. ;} Anyway, I finally got myself a vidcam.. wah.. didn;t think vidconferencing could be so fun..;P You guys have fun!

02/21/99 10:31:11

Name: ahboi

Comments:

greetings from frigid munchen !

the city was blanketed under 1.0m of snow when i arrived 3 days ago. i guess i had brought the tropical rain with me cos' it had been raining since, and now the f..king streets are full of slosh, ruining my ferragamo boots. hee hee. anyhow, i'm so lonely hat i'm beginning to miss u guys, hahahah. so quickly took the sunday morning off to catch up lor. *grin*

mmm, i see ak had been a real busy body, *LOL* wah, steam, sauna, dark rooms, all the whole works ! oi, how cum neber leave some for us lah ? all the _goodies_ flow outwards to the north one only meh ?

also must bitch about the f..king german keyboard. some of the keys are not where my fingers thot they were; screwed up my impeccable typing *grin*. must be deliberate lah, so i've to spend more time and hence pay more for the time usage. ok lo, enuf gibb rish. will tok to u guys when i get back next week. aufwiedersen !

02/20/99 09:39:51

Name: blue blue

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

Comments:

never watch any gay film before (hard p--n), anyone care to share his collection??? please email me..

02/20/99 01:55:14

Name: Anthony

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

Comments:

John, I also share your liking. Please email me in private. Thanks!

02/19/99 11:16:25

Name: john

My URL: Visit Me

Your Fav Body Type: men in 'cop like' pants

Comments:

Hello guys. I do not know why but I just find guys wearing dark blue pants sexy, like those pants our cop wears. I always will take a second look at men who wear these sexy blue pants. Could it be the shiny material or could it be because guys look 'tough in them? It could be because the colour blue represents 'machoness'? I always get wild thoughts and will stare at the bulge of these guys in dark blue pants. I awlays feel like touching their butts straining at the confines of those dark blue pants. Thei cock also bulge out when guys wear those blue pants. Any guys with the same fasination please leave your e-maill. Thank you.

02/19/99 05:01:59

Name: david My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: kissing, hugging, .....!

Your Fav Body Type: lean and mean Your Nationality: s'porean

Comments:

first of all a very happy chinese new year to all of you. hopefully the new year of the rabbit will bring good luck to all of us. had never really participated in your discussions but had been a very loyal follower! anyway, had posted my story sometimes back last year. broke off and blah, blah, blah! but it's really a thing of the past and now i'm just hoping that no one will have to feel that way again. a piece of good news......chatted up someone on the irc last mo th. talked over the phone and then met out. wasn't the type that'll send you drooling but he carries a decent if not humourous conversation and had a certain appeal, well, at least to me! think i'm starting to fall in love all over again. i'm only a bit s y as he appears just 5 months after my breakup. isn't that a bit too fast? anyway, i'm sure that i'm not seeking a replacement and like him the way he is. however, once bitten, twice shy, i'm taking it very slowly this time. actually, the best part is that i'm out to my family. told them about myself when i was down after the breakup. initially, they don't dare to say anything as i was so upset but gradually they started to accept things as they were! what's more, i can actua ly discuss gay relationships with my grandma! isn't that just wonderful? i was a bit impulsive then but i'm real glad it turned out this way. i'd advise all those thinking of getting out of the closet to think of the consequences but i wish that they'll t rn out just fine, like mine. i guess that's enough, and wishes all of you the best in your lovelife. and don't be shy to commit!

02/19/99 04:45:31

Name: david My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: kissing, hugging,.......!

Your Fav Body Type: lean and mean Your Nationality: s'porean

Comments:

first of all a very happy chinese new year to everyone out there. time flies and hopefully the new year of the rabbit will bring good luck to all of us. never really participated in your discussions

02/19/99 03:43:32

Name: actionkid

Comments:

okay.. flame me for doing this..;P

It was a restless Thursday last week.. totally tied down with work the entire day and I was in desperate need to let off some steam. Thus, I decided to make a trip up north to that JB joint.. after many months of 'JB abstinence'..;P And well.. the tenuous 170 bus trip turned out to be very much worth it coz lots of stuffs happened..

The moment I stepped in, I realised that they've changed the staff. I was now greeted by two friendly chaps clad in short kimonos, leaving nuthing to the imagination as to wat is underneath it..;P The rest of the place was very much the same. However, I h ve to admit, the crowd was ultra delectable! I had to put in much effort not to salivate too much..;P Though it was still a mixed crowd with the usual ah peks, there was definitely a good percentage of the hunky studly sort and the pretty boys type, plus he roughneck ah beng sort.. *yum yum* I was overwhlemed and a bit intimidated by the crowd. But, heck it.. I'm there for a good relaxing time..

SO.. first stop.. the SAUNA.

It was dark.. and sizzling hot. I went in, took my place at the corner, unwrapped my towel and covered my crotch. I laid there casually whilst adjusting my eyes to the dark. I could see guys.. not bad, from their silhouettes.. nice chest, features, etc. T ere was this guy, A,.. nice lean bod, good frame and nice physique. There were three of us in there. I was at the corner, the other guy nearer the door, and this sexy stud,A, was standing in the middle of the sauna buck nekked before the stove. He casted lovely profile..;P All three of us did the usual routine.. stayed in for 5-10 min, went out to shower and cool off for a few min, and then go back in.. Yeah.. we were there for the health reasons too..;P There were voyeurs.. guys went in and out, touched here and there.. but they didn't interest me. And then, finally, the moment came.. Everyone else left except the two of us,ie A and myself... I didn't really expect much coz this stud looked like the sort who only enjoys teasing. But strangely, he sat d wn next to me.. and started caressing my chest. I heaved excitedly, and he proceeded to knead my nipples. And then he went closer and started to gently nibble and suck on them, releasing some soft moans of pleasure from me. I was already getting quite ste med up and my crotch was screaming to be released. He laid his hands between my legs and started to gently rub it, and I reciprocated by giving him soft kisses all over his body. He was obviously a gentle lover.. someone who knows how to foreplay and give cock-hardening licks and nibbles at all the right places. And I played along. We were getting extremely aroused and were just about to start blowing one another when suddenly, the door opened. Sheesh.. I was kinda caught by surprised and sheepishly grabbe for my towel and walked out..;P Yep.. spontaneous reaction. I left my partner and headed for the showers... sigh.

Next stop.. the STEAMROOM

If the sauna was sizzling hot, the steamroom was HELL! Hahah.. As I made my way there, I could sense many paris of eyes on me.. I felt like a fxxking meat for sale! But I brsuhed those looks and casually sauntered into the steamroom. Hahaha.. 2 other guys immediately followed me Wah.. I tell ya.. my ego was simply bursting! Anyway, it was HOT. Nekked bodies were writhing everywhere and I could here slurps and humps and moans and feel bodies gyrating, etc. I felt around a bit, coz it was dark. Felt a lot of fine muscles and great loins..;P It does seem totally decadent.. but it thrills! I was trying hard to brush aside all the groping hands.. couldn't find a place to sit down... so ended up standing instead.. and well.. the two guys who followed me presse me against the wall and started licking all voer me. One of em gave me a smacking good blow..;P I was ultra aroused as I felt many hands groping around and trying to make out the action that was going on with me as I being sucked. Didn't take me very lon to shoot my load.. and wat a load! Hahah! Thereafter, I made my way out sheepishly and headed for the showers. As I showered, the guys who did me showered next to me. I immediately averted my eyes with shyness..;P But one of the guys.. a longish haired winky ah beng sort (VERY YUMMY!) smiled and struck a casual conversation with me.. I thot that was nice..:)As I made my way out of the showers, he patted my butt mischievously and said that he hoped to meet me again..;P But I wasn't going home just yet..: I sat around for a while, read some magazines, went to have a cup of coffee, watched MTV and then...

Stop 3.. the DARK ROOM... Yeah.. can't leave the place without checking out the action in the darkroom, eh? I went in and could see many guys just leaning against the wall. There was obviously some guys fxxking in there coz I could hear moans and groaning and humping sounds. It wa difficult making my way coz there were bodies all over the floor. In the end, I gave up and headed back for the door. But just as I was about to get out, this guy came in.. and our eyes met.. He had lean athletic bod.. something like mine..;P with the ight amount of muscles.. and he had such a cute boysih smile.. I would say he's around my age.. Anyway, I hesitated going out.. his hands brushed against mine.. and he gently gave it a squeeze.. as a signal that he wanted me back in.. Heheh.. so I wen lor. I guess I was kinda turned on myself. I held his hands and slowly led him to the corner.. we treaded carefully until we found an empty spot. and there we started. I have to admit, I was fortunate to bump into guys who know how to have real sex. Alth ugh I cruise, I never really enjoy the sex that comes with it.. u know.. the slam bang bye bye sort... it thrills but leaves nothing to savour. The guys at Ryu.. depending who you get, are different.. perhaps becoz they're Malaysian.. I dunno..;P They're ore laid back and in less of a hurry. I had wonderful sex in the darkroom.. he hugged me real tight and was gentle at the same time.. And it was very much the kind of sex which I enjoy a lot.. plenty of foreplay and prolonged teasing.. after nearly half a hour, he took out a condom from the hem of his towel and gave it to me. Umm.. actually, I was enjoying myself too much and didn't really feel like fxxking. I delayed it a while.. and later succumbed. I have to say, it was gaysex as I've never had in quit a loooong while..;P I shot.. for the second time around. And as I came, he hugged me even tighter and it was ecstatic.. I then blew him and jerked him off till he shot his bucket load. Thereafter, we both just laid there...for a while..

Hmm.. there's more actually.. but I guess I'll save it for another posting.. damn. Well.. u-noe-who-u-r... THERE!.. I've done it! I've broken my sexual silence.. Hahaha.. hmm.. quite liberating, actually.. You boys take care!

02/19/99 03:27:49

Name: Jared My URL: Visit Me

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Been following this board for a long time but only posted my first ever message now. Have heard some rumours that there is a certain place near the GURKHAS camp along Upper Serrangoon Road that these lean & mean guys hang around waiting for someone to ser ice them. Anyone could confirm these rumours and tell me where exactly is this place?

02/18/99 20:26:41

Name: sg_tiger My URL: Visit Me

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As I have hardly ever post anything in this page. Therefore, I think I would like to share some additional interesting place which I happened to meet GAMs. 1. at the Night Safari Zoo 2. at the Guan Yim Temple near Bugis 3. in a Coffee shop in Jurong East while having Lunch 4. walking outside the Japanese Bookshop at Bugis junction 5. along upper serangoon road while walking Of course, then there are the usual(reported) places where GAM goes to cruise or get cruised. Reporting those place wouldn't make for interesting places, would it?

02/18/99 11:10:26

Name: just-sex

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Sorrie

forgotten to sign off me previous posting on V-day. regards

02/18/99 03:42:48

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Arlow

happy new year to all, " Dragon Horse Sperm God"

today i wanna talk abt

the terrible V-day

when saint valentine decided to host secret wedding for the deprived loving couples, never would he realised that his death anniversary will fall victim to commericalisation. well when will u have to pay hefty amt for a stalk of roses? plus the additional surcharge for a pair of candles to be placed with the usual food? only on V-day.

when u have read till this portion, u prob guess that i am unattached. yeap i am, neither with gay nor gal. this wasnt a proud event to announce but nevertheless it is the truth. part of me wanna go fnd a decent gal to go out with. then again, i know i wo t love her 100% as i like to have "fun". another part of me told me to bow to my fate and accept a gay as me b/f, but most of "friends" are either older married man or has b/f or ONS. not a lot of choice, i must say.

at times, i asked myself am i ready to love? my past encounters are more lust than affections. maybe i havnet meet the right person, be him or her. till then my V-day will spend escaping from Orchard Road where all the loving couples will be.

p/s this year my V-day took a drastic turn, i was invited to a Dinner organised be a group of straight, mostly unattached friends. i had a wonderful time and will like to thanx them for placing silver lining on my V-day (chances are, they wont get to see his)

thanx to u for listening to my rubbish...........

02/17/99 16:19:25

Name: ahboi

Comments:

gosh, the last 2 days of bacchanalian debauchery had set my morality back by 2 decades at least ! hee hee. come to think of it, it ain't that bad since that will put me squarely right back in my youthful innocence *demure grin*.

on the first day of lny, one of the visitors to the house was an obscure uncle (thrice-removed by marriage from the maternal side, i think) whom i don't recall having (no pun intended) but promptly found to be delectable, and ripe for the picking. the hum ngous jade ring that he spotted on his pinkie was strangely, a great turnon. amidst the chaotic melee in the house, i sized him up, and down (this portion velly the crucial one *grin*). i wasn't quite certain at first as he was vague with his responses, t the point of frustration. it was prolly due to just-as-obscure auntie's hovering, with her ever watchful glare, although one had to be observant to catch her at it. but he seems to know exactly when her glare descend upon him. telepathy or years of condi ioning ? hmm, i should remember to get some tips from her to execute it on cc.

where was i ? oh, i finally managed to nail him down at the back of the house and i could see his bemused look when i openly asked if he had ever been to a pub called inner circle, cos' i'd swear he looked familiar. although he replied in the negative, it was apparent he knew what i was referring to; and that was when i concluded i could have this man eating out of my pants, i mean hands. soon, our conversation was peppered with sexual innuendos, albeit delivered under false st8 pretenses. topics we covere range from merits/demerits of the various brands of condoms to the mystery of why the women he meet will not give him blow jobs. boy, was i on heat by then or what ! i would had gone a _step_ further if we were not so rudely interrupted by his wife's hol er to join the rest of the group. and that alas, was that. or so i thought. he later asked me to call him when i get back from outstation ! wah, xin fa nu fang. :-) i guess the _wait_ will make him all the more delectable; nothing quite like anticipation o whet the appetite.

today, i spent the entire day with cc since he won't be accompanying me on my trip commencing tomorrow. we were at the club when we bumped into an acquaintance of his. aiyo, another delicious piece of meat that made me salivate instantaneously. my roving yes this time, was caught by cc whom promptly ticked me off. i retorted that he should be pleased that for once, i had exhibited interest in any of his associates. after all, he was the one who had been complaining that i wrote his frens off without givin them due credit. there ! i had proven him wrong, i declared triumphantly. he gave me the evil eye and promptly ignored me for the rest of the day. *sigh*

at times like these, i do wonder if critics would be correct in saying that i'm making myself _cheap_ with my wanton libido. but act-cher-lee hor, i think i have high standards what; it's just that i have a wide latitude in choice mah ! got meaning or not ? :-)

02/17/99 15:42:48

Name: malbroman

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Robbie Williams won 3 awards at last nights 1999 Brit Awards. He took home the Best Male, Best Single and Best Vedio awards. Remember to watch the Grammy at 9 am on Thrusday. Madonna will open the show this year.

02/15/99 20:00:59

Name: Jimmy

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Hi all:

It's been such a long time since I've posted anything to this page.

Was caught up in a plethora of activities including overseas work, holidays, army duties and of late, the IRC. Darn, it can get a little addictive can't it ?

Anyway, not sure how many here were at Venom on V-day. It was my inaugural visit there (and, come to think of it, my first visit to any PLU pub for that matter). It has convinced me that there are a hel uva lot of good-looking PLU guys. The exposed bods, model-faces and almost collegial atmosphere were a sight for sore eyes (which can be blamed completely on the hours spent in front of the screen on the IRC). Last count ? 1,200 bods were there I think. Yeah ... so there are a helluva lot of PLUs in Singapore.

Story:

On Chee Kin's story of feeling good after getting cruised... I must admit to feeling the same one fateful Sunday.

'Twas my usual ritual of going to one of Singapore's quieter pools to do my laps. After finishing, I went to the showers to wash up... preparing to leave rather quickly. Unfortunately (or was it fortunately), it poured rather heavily. A guy walks in and plonks himself down on the bench 20 ft in front of me. I was towelling myself off when I noticed the dude on the bench move to just some 7 feet from me and perform stretching exercises (more like preening, but then, I couldn't really tell without my glasses). It steadily became obvious that I was being cruised. He was indeed good looking ... nice bod, nice face, probably early 30s. The last straw was when he followed me all the way to a quiet cubicle and masturbated himself .. right in front of me.

Question: What would you have done in this situation ?

I must admit the temptation was there but due to some personal principles, I chose not to act.

I changed, went out, put down my stuff .... AND WENT BACK IN to check out the guy. Managed to convince him to go out and have a coffee and chat. Finally figured out that his act was a total tease with the prospect of the whole event ending up with fulf lling sex near to zilch. No, I don't blame him 'coz I think he had some psychological baggage due to a bad childhood experience of being at the raw end of a paedophiliac uncle's desires.

Suffice it to say, I'm glad I didn't go for it (boy was I tempted).

Like Chee Kin, I certainly felt good that day.. The fact is, being cruised so thoroughly by a good looking dude. And yeah... it helped when he actually said he chose to tease me coz he thought I looked OK... (Fine, so I don't have that high an opinion f myself)

Oh well. As much as I profess to be comfortable with myself, it really feels good to have the ego stroked now and then... And one of these days ....

02/15/99 16:51:28

Name: Steve

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AK, were you the guy we met at Burkes? I remember the once heart-shaped, now-round balloon

Things are moving even faster between me and my Vday date than expected. We met for lunch again today ... and had a looong phone conversation at night; I think its pretty official. Give us another week and we'll be picking out wallpaper patterns for th bedroom

02/15/99 16:39:26

Name: neil

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Ahboi yah! Dun scare me leh, my knees oleady weak lah.... but.....perhaps not entirely out of fear.... ! Actually, I'm full of admiration for you , you know. Not only your england is very powerful, your singrish also quite velly the no fight! I think onl my secondary school chemistry teacher who holds a PHD in singlish can put up some fight man! But seriously, I 'm really more than glad to share the prize with you guys.Afterall, you guys are the ones who attracted me to this page wat otherwise where got so lucky one! I feel much more at home now, lots of thanks to my hosts BW and AK for your warm hospitality and all my fellow guests in this page who have made this page so exciting!! On the Vday, there was a pleasant surprise for me. I had originally intended to stay home to work on my project which i never seemed to be able to complete , but it turned out to be a rather sexciting night at a place where I have a lot of fond memories Guess wat! My friend and i had a ...hmmm.. great session at a JC i used to study in. Doing in a place where i had spent the happiest days of my life studying and playing hard has some special meaning to me. Now i not only have left behind fond memories f the school, but may be also... millions of miniature of me......... .....! Really sorry for not being able to be more detailed as it may cause a lot of inconvenience for him. In the meantime, enjoy your life to the fullest and BE HAPPY!

02/15/99 15:53:50

Name: actionkid

Comments:

okay.. you guys are prolly gambling the nite away, eh? Anyway, just thot I'd drop by here and write some stuffs.. was planning on sending out some emails but discovered that there're some problems with my Hotmail account.. Still, it is always a pleasure coming here somehow. Krap.. nice to see you back... we missed u. I hope you're in good health.. And Steve.. I dun think I saw you on V-Day.. I'd know if I did...;P Okay.. to be fair to you.. we have met in person.. though I doubt you knew then. You can sk ahboi about that:P Anyway, glad to know that you had a cool V-Day. Found a guy in a day? wow.. fast worker.. Enjoy the moment man! To the rest of you guys.. hope you guys didn't have a hangover! And share the winnings, k? Peace!

02/15/99 06:51:57

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: USA ang mo

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Well, nobody else said it, so I guess I will:

Gung hei faat choih

Lai see da loih

Yat man mh oi

Sahp man doi lohk doi

(Happy new year/hand over the laisee/I don't wan't a dollar/ten dollars, I'll put in my pocket)

(Traditional children's rhyme?)

02/15/99 06:49:55

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: USA ang mo

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Well, nobody else said it, so I guess I will:

Gung hei faat choih Lai see da loih Yat man mh oi Sahp man doi lohk doi

(Happy new year/hand over the laisee/I don't wan't a dollar/ten dollars, I'll put in my pocket)

(Traditional children's rhyme?)

02/15/99 05:51:18

Name: krap

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Hello guys ....gong xi fa cai ..... and a very happy and prosperous Year of the Rabbit. I have been very busy lately, lots of travelling including to my second home, BKK. Bye ...

02/15/99 04:58:26

Name: ahboi

Comments:

hahahah, ak and steve dearies, i'm eternally grateful for your ill disguised commsiserations. i did had a good time inspite of the dreadful company. anyhow, guess _where_ i got my rose from ? hee hee.

and zen, i wish to echo ak's point. you are and will always be part of the BB group (at least the group i think i'm part of), for whatever it's worth. and u are right in that we are here to care and share. let there be no difference that is too great that a little distance cannot bridge. i sincerely wish you would find your niche soonest, ie if u had not already found it.

02/15/99 04:10:56

Name: Steve

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Ahboi, sorry to hear about the disastrous Vday with CC's cohorts. Hope both of you at least had some quiet time together.

AK, you ought to wash your mind with soap *hehe*... the thought of a bear and a dog doing it never crossed my mind. Thanks for the compliment. You were in Orchard too last night? Maybe you saw me and my date (whom I met the night before ... ok, so we ork fast *hehe*)

Charles, if you thought that was oblivious ... I was in DC and walking down Dupont circle to meet a friend. I was young and ignorant and I really enjoyed my stroll down the street because everyone was so friendly and smiled and made eye contact; some e en said hello. When I told my friend about DC being such a place of nice friendly people, he slapped his forehead and exclaimed, "You dummy! You were cruised by a whole street of men and you didn't even know?!"

Like I said, I was young and ignorant then

02/15/99 01:34:04

Name: Zen

Comments:

I remain hopeful.

Morality is a struggle. It's main purpose is not to control one's base impulses for the benefit of society, but to achieve what one regards as the good life. Failure may come from not being able to achieve the good life or from achieving what one took o be the good life, finding that it is not so. The moral life is full of risks. But there is no serious alternative to taking them, for it is the pocess whereby life can be made good. ------------- John Kekes

02/14/99 23:58:21

Name: actionkid

Comments:

Zen.. just wanna say that what you think and feel IS important. Its your opinion and it counts.. I think this page can accept any form of perspective as long as it is presented in a sane manner..

ahboi.. heheh.. I'm sure you enjoyed the dinner nonetheless.. in the company of cc.. otherwise shoulda just given me a call or sumthing.. I had a decent V-Day dinner at this usual hangout of ours and was surprised when the waiters/waitresses actually ga e each of us a rose.. Hahah.. so paiseh.. we eat there so often that they practically know us by name and thus the flowers.. Anyway, the rest of the night was spent lounging around Orchard Road, soaking in the atmosphere and bumping and meeting up wit other friends for coffee and chats.. Wow.. it WAS a busy nite in Orchard!.. I didn;t really notice many gay couples.. but I did see this dyke couple who were being publicly affectionate.. ie holding hands and kissing at Pacific Plaza.. how come noone sez anything about that? :} And of course, the night was rounded of with some.. err.. ahem..

Well.. you guys have a good Reunion Dinner and have a great New Year as well!

02/14/99 18:10:48

Name: ahboi

Comments:

aiyoh, so envious ! who is this neil guy huh ? summore can take away the coveted 100K prize.. wait i make u _kneel_ then u know ah.... hahahah, just kidding :-) btw, neil dearie, your "one step behind" brings to mind a royal protocol of the same stance. g t class leh ! hee hee.

and my, my, hadn't we been busy ? from seeing purple over teletubbies to multi-hue bus routes. hahaha, what's next ? pink bordellos manned by a bluesy sotong ?

and speaking of blues, zen dearie, don't let my _wail_ of a poser gets to u. what happened with mr intruder was a glitch, no other. i had committed the error of entertaining the possibility of _more_ when there was nothing that would augur for the same. a for casual sex abstinence, it will work for some and then again, not for some. and if happiness can be assured by abstaining from casual sex, then there must be some really cheerful pple out there. keep it up !

my premise in sex is quite uncomplicated. mostly, i see it as an end itself. i enjoy having sex, period. to me, recurring sex with a mono partner or a one-off with multiple partners (one at a time lah) is the same. when i sex, i give my all. if i happen t like that person more than i thought (ie before sex) then it is likely i will pursue for _more_. if not, *shrug* next, please. naturally, this "warped" advocacy of mine pales in comparison with the physiological one that charles appended, and comes with caveat emptor.

we can plan for all we want, but sometimes, the cards dealt to us are beyond our control. take this valentine evening for example. at the onset, i was destined to have a CNY reunion dinner with the family which eradicated any hope of a valentine dinner wi h cc. however, a phone call this morning, postponed the reunion dinner till tomorrow. with glee, i called cc to fix a valentine outing. but alas, he had already gathered his cohorts for a boy's night out. in the end, i had to share my valentine with a gro p of thugs whom i detest. is life fair or what ? hahahahaha. anyway, if we choose to be lonely in company, can we really blame others ?

02/14/99 17:57:59

Name: Billy

Comments:

Charles,

For your info, those cute guys whom you met in light brown uniforms are probably students from a well-known junior college at Dunearn Road.

02/14/99 17:47:48

Name: Billy

Comments:

Wow! I'm the first person to this page after the counter was reset

Best Wishes for the New Year!

02/14/99 16:01:30

Name: Eric

Comments:

Hello to all readers and contributors of this BB and to BW himself, wishing you guys "Keong Hee Huat Chai", "Kong Hei Fatt Choy" and "Gong Xi Fa Cai". Have a great year ahead!

02/14/99 15:57:50

Name: Zen

Comments:

Dear Charles, AK,

Rest assured I'm not agitated or anything... can't be. Apart from all, the common understanding is that this should be a place to air our views freely. This should be observed always. Variety or not, interesting or not, it helps to have alternative per pectives explored. Naaay, what I think or feel personally should ultimately be unimportant. Happiness is from within, what you experience and feel for yourself to be true...inside, the concern is about what you feel and think, not so much about me or my v ew of things. Rational thinking and communication with words, like physical sex in and of itself, however great, becomes inadequate beyond a certain point. We hope for something more, to feel more human.

Peace. All of you have a fruitful new year!

02/14/99 08:41:32

Name: actionkid

Comments:

neil.. good for ya! Although I do not encourage OUTing in general, I do think it is important that we all feel comfortable with the person that we are. It is not a matter of right or wrong, or succumbing to religion and social norms.. It is about living. hus, just do not be so self conscious about it. I think most of the misery is brought upon by our ownselves. I used to have that problem myself, coz I did hang out with guys older than me.. and it is kinda hard explaining to my mom that I have friends who are bankers and traders and even 40+yo ang moh tourist types who send me regular postcards and letters.. while I was still 18... Fortunately, once we get into the working world, age no longer becomes a problem. You can give many reasons.. business assoc ate, gym buddy, tutor, internet friend with common interest, or even that long lost brother thingy..;P You'll be surprised to know that people in general can be quite receptive to man-man friendship.. (it DOES exist) and it helps that we do not be so upti ht and worry needlessly. Thus, I hope you and your partner DO get to have a splendid V-Day together, side-by-side, in the heart of Orchard Road or any other place where you guys feel most comfortable with. Who knows, maybe we'll all meet up someday and ge to chat like old friends, with no fear of being OUTed. Take care man..

02/14/99 06:28:05

Name: neil

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when too many good things happened to you in one day, you sorta wonder if it's real? But i guess life has been pretty kind to me so far and i'm very grateful for that.. Thanks a lot BW, for the fabulous prize, I feel honoured and a little overwhelmed! T anks a lot too AK for the encouragement! I think I'm more ready to go public now! Hello everybody, hope you have a wonderful St Valentine's day with whoever you wish to be with! I haven't been forthcoming with the sharing of my persnal experience even though i've been with the BB for over 2 months! I was hesitant because mine was so co mon and outdated. Plus the fact that i was kinda afraid to share this unknown part of my life that i have hidden so well because of the remote possibility that i may be 'identified or even worse exposed' by someone( st8 or gay) who knows me but doesn't k ow about this other side of me! While the reason for this fear is obvious for the st8 case( I believe most of us would share this sentiment) but why also the PLUs since I’m easily one myself? Sound kinda contradictory? May be i'm still in denial of my sexuality? I really don think so! I think I’m way past that stage of confrontations and confusions! And though I’m still not exactly at peace with myself, I have live with it and my life hasn’t really been overturned by this difference! So, what’s the bi deal? After bumping into this page , my perspective has changed somewat. There is really no need to guard my the other side with my whole life! It’s a wearisome thing to do and it has very much restricted the kind of things we can do. You know what, my artner and I never walk side by side with each other in a crowded shopping centre or a busy street. It is either he is in front or vice versa, separated by about 3m. We are both afraid that we might bump into our friends and dunno wat to say! The reaso is that he is considerable older than and how should we introduce each other to our friends? So when we do bump into either of our friends, the other would continue to walk as if nothing has happened and stop only some distance away to wait for the othe to finish off his biz! This may sound bizzare to you but this is really the case for us! We have to chose the places to go carefully, avoiding going town in the weekends and choose less-frequented places and all these just seemed so tiring! Hopefully th s is all going to change! No doubt we can never be open about our relationship in the public, not

[HendryTan]

02/14/99 00:12:57

Name: Charles Your Fav Sextivity: HREF

Your Fav Body Type: BOLD Your Nationality: USA ang mo

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Farang

Ah, we now have an example. Here's the code BW used to put the lion dancer on the page:

<img src="lion.jpg" width="125" height="200" alt="lion.jpg (14659 bytes)">

He didn't need the "http://" because the picture was in the same site (and directory) as the HTML page. Any picture you would include on his site would have to be a fully-qualified URL. For example, suppose BW wanted to put the lion dancer on AK's BB (if AK had one). Then BW would code the following:

<img src="http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Village/3652/lion.jpg" width="125" height="200" alt="lion.jpg (14659 bytes)">

Again, you will have to substitute your own site's path for the http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Village/3652/ part, since that is BW's property, not yours. And of course, change the file name to your file name. Be sure not to put any spaces in the file name, and make sure capitalization is identical between your file and what you put in the HTML.

Zen

Not mad. But there is a whole spectrum of cruising. I've become friends with some guys I've cruised, and I do require a friendly attitude and respect for my feelings to allow a cruise to complete (and of course I hope they will expect me to respect them). (In particular, I expect a smile, and am unlikely to respond positively to being groped by a stranger, no matter how attractive I think they are.)

Yes, I am lonely sometimes. I have good friends that I do not have sex with, and guys I have sex with but only the most casual of But the choice is not between waiting for the right person (and physically denying myself in the meantime) and being wild. Moderation in all things.

Sex has a powerful physiological effect on the body, at least for me, which I do not get from masturbating on my own and getting massages from others (although each of these has its own good effects). I regularly do cardiovascular exercise at the gym. If you know cardio, you know there is a target heart rate you try to get within range of. Because I have a high resting heart rate, it doesn't take a very high rate of exercise to get to my target rate.

Having sex lowers my resting rate for a week or more (I don't usually have sex that often, so I'm able to be aware of this.) In December, I had sex 4 times in 3 weeks. My resting rate stayed down for a month! So I was able to exercise at a higher rate and reduce body fat. (Disclaimer: I don't care about fat on others but I don't like it on me.)

So I would say it would be good for people like me to cruise in the absence of a permanent sexual relationship and not deny myself.

I am open to discussion on this.

02/13/99 12:33:57

Name: Zen

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Have been thinking for a long long long while. It came quite clear with Ahboi's 'a good wail' posting. Rather than dismissing it as an emotional hiccup, I am the type who stubbornly believes everything happens for a reason and it is in the divine scheme of things. Something special did happen and there's something to learn. I know there was once a heated argument about religion and I'm not about to spark off another one. Suffice to say this: Despite all philosophical arguments, the fact remains that either God exist or he doesn't. My bet, from what I've come to know, is that he does. Now, whether or not he condemns homosexuality I have absolutely no idea. It is not relevant at least to what I'm saying. I'm saying he exist and everything in life has a meaning as he intended it to be. That's all. Like in Ahboi's case, I would like to think something touched him although we couldn't make much sense out of it yet. Perhaps Ahboi you will come to understand it yourself?

Here's my own feelings. Guess to placate some readers, I should at least concede that sex as an end in itself no doubt will satisfy our animal instincts. I can't discount that. Yet, may we all remember it can be a means to greater fulfillment for others and ourselves.

Not appealing to church dogma or homophobic social morality, may we ask: 'is it possible we can be happier if we exercise restraint in sex?' When we restrict ourselves to having sex with people whom we truly love or feel intimate with, is there greater joy? My personal opinion is that it is. Those who can convince me otherwise please do mail me.

I've been following this board, at first to let go of my own repressing thoughts and then to think them through. I've never been really comfortable with all the 'cruising stories' because they are examples of sex without restraint. No one needs to subscribe to this if they choose not to. I believe there are many who do and hopefully many who will after reading this. It's Valentine's Day eve, and I am talking about sex as an expression of love. I wish for all who cruise to cease it. No coercion. It's a concious choice. Follow our hearts to do what we ourselves consider to be right. Just like when we first courageously be honest with ourselves that we are capable of loving men.

I'm aware what I wish for is directly at odds with BW's aim of sharing cruising tips and it is possible for this posting and my future postings to be removed. I can only pray hard that this will not happen because mine is not an irrational posting and everyone will at least understand I am sincere and never intended to be a menace.

Take care, happy Valentines' Day. Peace to all.

02/13/99 12:07:10

Name: Charles Your Fav Sextivity: proofreading

Your Fav Body Type: proofread Your Nationality: proofreader

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And don't forget the http:// like I did!

02/13/99 12:04:24

Name: Charles Your Fav Sextivity: 81

Your Fav Body Type: 81 Your Nationality: 81

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Thanks, Farang, actually I just copied the code from the SIT site. (I did make a goof in copying, though. Ignore the trips with the white headings. I guess I can't proofread if my butt depends on it. Get out that spanking hand, AK!)

As for a picture, you need a place to put it, as there is no way to store the picture on the bulletin board. You could get a free Geocities home page and store it there.

Once you have the URL, just code the tag for it into your message for the BB:

<IMG SRC="http://completeURLhere" ALT="description for folks who surf with images off">

and there you have it.

02/13/99 11:47:12

Name: Charles Your Fav Sextivity: 81

Your Fav Body Type: 81 Your Nationality: transit-aware ang mo

Comments:

Okay, so that's a pretty silly fantasy, to fantasize about cute guys at bus stops in Sg when I'm in SF. After all, there's plenty of cute guys at Castro & 18th St. or Castro & Market right here! But as a pubic, I mean public, service, to BW'ers, here is the optimal transit path for visiting the various bus stops, as supplied by the SIT site.

Optimal is defined as involving the 81, or if not involving the 81 then having the fewest stops.

Step one: Changi Village to Park Mall

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

29 Changi Village Rd, bef Meridien Changi Tampines Central 1, Tampines Int 23 $1.10

81 Tampines Central 1, Tampines Int Bendemeer Rd, os Civil Defence HQ 42 $1.40

64 Bendemeer Rd, os Civil Defence HQ Orchard Rd, opp Dhoby Ghaut Stn 51 $1.30 116 $3.80

Walk from Dhoby Ghaut MRT to Park Mall. You could do Changi Village directly to Park Mall in 2 buses, but it would not involve the 81. I also expect Civil Defence guys are cute, no?

Now, from Park Mall to Far East Shopping Center:

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

171 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 4 $0.60 4 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

190 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 4 $0.60 4 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

124 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 4 $0.60 4 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

167 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 4 $0.60 4 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

MRT Dhoby Ghaut MRT Raffles Place MRT 2 $0.60

167 Fullerton Rd, Fullerton Sq Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 8 $0.80 10 $1.40

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

171 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse 1 $0.60

167 Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 3 $0.60 4 $1.20

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

171 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse 1 $0.60

190 Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 3 $0.60 4 $1.20

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

171 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse 1 $0.60

143 Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 3 $0.60 4 $1.20

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

171 Penang Rd, os Pk Mall Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse 1 $0.60

124 Penang Rd, os Winsland Hse Orchard Boulevard, os Orchard Stn 3 $0.60 4 $1.20

These routes allow you to actually wait at the hallowed bus stop.

Far East Shopping Center to NIE:

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

111 Orchard Rd, os Thai Embassy Orchard Rd, os Lucky Plaza 1 $0.60 1 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

106 Orchard Rd, os Thai Embassy Orchard Rd, os Lucky Plaza 1 $0.60 1 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

7 Orchard Rd, os Thai Embassy Orchard Rd, os Lucky Plaza 1 $0.60 1 $0.60

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

123 Orchard Rd, os Thai Embassy Orchard Rd, os Lucky Plaza 1 $0.60 1 $0.60

I am not being lazy, lah! The idea is to wait at the bus stop! Now, continue:

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

MRT Orchard MRT Newton MRT 1 $0.60

171 Scotts Rd, os Newton Stn Bt Timah Rd, os Inst Of Education 7 $0.60 8 $1.20

NIE to MacRitchie Reservior:

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

156 Dunearn Rd, opp Inst Of Education Thomson Rd, os Macritchie Reservoir 9 $0.80 9 $0.80

And finally, MacRitchie Reservoir to Boon Lay Interchange:

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

93 Thomson Rd, opp Macritchie Reservoir Queensway, os Mujahidin Mosque 16 $1.00

MRT Commonwealth MRT Boon Lay 6 $1.15 22 $2.15

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

855 Thomson Rd, opp Macritchie Reservoir Queensway, os Mujahidin Mosque 16 $1.00

MRT Commonwealth MRT Boon Lay 6 $1.15 22 $2.15

And there you have it! End of tour of BW BB-approved bus stops. Enjoy your ride, as well as your wait. Unfortunately, Singapore has an excellent transit system, so you won't have to wait nearly long enough as you might wish.

02/13/99 11:22:37

Name: farang My URL: Visit Me

Your Fav Sextivity: looking Your Fav Body Type: young

Your Nationality: farang

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Charles…your tabulated SBS data was quite remarkable as a presentation on this board. Dunno how u did it. Not seen anything so sophisticated here before. Now I wonder if a) u can teach us how to do it so we can brighten up the page a bit, and b) is it pos ible to post a pic? Of course nothing naughty, just one of the types one might see at busstops.

Btw, NIE is the Inst of Education on Dunearn Rd and the stop has heaps of chunks there. Park Mall is on Penang Road and collects pretty refugees from the newly opened Plaza Singapura. Luv yer! Farang.

02/13/99 10:15:59

Name: malbroman

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

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Among Twinky Winky, Poo, Dipsy and Laa Laa, Laa Laa is the teletubby I love best. Is there a fan club for Laa Laa?

Since we are on the topic about TCS 'stars', which TCS so-called stars do you guys absolutly hate? The one I totally dislike is Gurmit Singh. I do not find him funny, have you guys seen Gurmit's World and Tonight With Gurmit? Do you guys find it funny? I o not. He copies Jim Carrey too much, from his expression to his manner of speaking to his body language is 100% a photocopied version of Jim. If I do watch Tonight With Gurmit, the audience will laugh their heads off at every action/joke that gurmit mak s but I will just stare at the TV wondering is there something wrong with me? Is his jokes really that funny? Maybe I have a low sense of humour. But the reason I dislike him was when he declared that he was a virgin to New Paper that turned me off. That aper made it front page news. Who cares if Gurmit is a Virgin b4 he was married or not?

02/13/99 09:34:22

Name: Danyon My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Nationality: Angmoh from Germany

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Hello, all you BW-guys out there in SG !!! Great to see that this BB is still alive & kicking. I still regularly drop by to see what's cookin' in town. Anyone joining me for a cuppa when I'm in town in March ?? ) Happy Valentine's Day ! Best wishes for CNY ! Dun be too notti lah.....Cheers !

02/13/99 08:33:49

Name: etc

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Gosh, reading some of the "toilet" stories here give me the yibbee jibbees when I visit public toilets from now on.

Personally, I've never met or seen anything too strange happening in the toilets in my 20 years or more life.

But after reading this column, I suddenly develop a phobia of visiting public toilets. So are you guys exaggerating or what? Now see what you did to an innocent guy like me *blink* *blink*

Guess now I have to pee b4 I leave my house from now on.

02/13/99 07:49:52

Name: Steve

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

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Dear all,

Just want to wish all of you a happy valentine's day. Obviously I can't send my homemade Valentine's day card to all of you, so I've scanned it in instead. You can access it by clicking the URL above (below my name).

best,

02/13/99 07:01:29

Name: malbroman

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

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Am I the one who said those things about Fann?

02/13/99 06:17:40

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02/13/99 05:49:01

Name: Peter

My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me

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Notice to Singaporean guy I chatted to last Saturday midnite(6th)at Taboo -or his friends-to email me(English)as I lost his contact number...I'll come to S'pore to start over... Thanks, Peter

02/13/99 05:39:20

Name: actionkid

Comments:

hmm.. spunky, I have dropped out of that toilet scene years ago. You make me out to be like some toilet denizen.. chey! But when it happens, I have to admit, I never really deny it either.. depending on my mood. and yep, guys are getting bolder nowadays.. I've personally experienced guys who gently touched my ankles from under the partition.. quite erotic..;P to over enthusiastic guys who actually swung OVER the partition and guys who slid UNDER the partition.. Hahahah.. talk about being bold, eh? I gues when the lust cums, nothing can get in the way..

And marlboro.. you'll be surprised, Fann Wong is actually one of the more fluent English speaking TCS actresses around. She is effectively bilingual and can carry a pretty decent conversation. But, I have to agree... her answers did seem as though they ca e right out of the standard TCS "How to appear smart and learned without having to BE smart" book for Dummies. Ridiculous, huh? The sad thing about some of our local celebrities is that they try so hard to be IN, at the expense of going back in age and ac ing like some juvenile coffee-clubbers or act hoity toity to the point of tripping over their versahchey high heels and getting entangled with their prada slings.. aah.. such is the life of a celebrity.

I'm pretty much contented just being ME..

02/13/99 05:29:07

Name: Stephen My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: oral and phone sex

Your Fav Body Type: slim and smooth Your Nationality: S'porean

Comments:

I,m a 20 yr old gay boy who is tired of living a lie with his straight friends. I would like to make new friends of similiar nature and interests. Pls write in . thanks.

02/13/99 04:09:11

Name: malbroman

My URL: Visit Me

Comments:

In this week's 8Days, there is an interview with TCS star Fann Wong on her fav. things. This girl must be real 'high class' or trying to 'act class'. Below is an except of the interview

Favourite Movie

'Baz Luhrmann's Romeo + Juliet. Even though the actors speak in Shakespearean English, the feel of the show is very contemporary'.

I wonder does this girl know the meaning of 'contemporary' and this girl knows Baz Luhrmann(who?).

CD

'At the moment it's an Ella Fitzgerald album (I can't remember what it's called). Her singing is so soulful, it simply consumes me'.

My God! Fann Wong listens to Ms Fitzgerald!And she cannot remember the album title! By the way, Ms Wong, Ella Fitzgerald sings this form of music called jazz. If her taste in music is so refine, why make a silly album entitled shopping?

FOOD

'Oooh, but I have so many! I like the foie gras at Les Amis, the Aglio olio at Saulut, plus ma la hua guo and sashimi. I love to eat'.

Not only does she listens to Fitzgerald, she loves french food too, aglio olio and Foie gras!!! I bet she could not even say Les Amis correctly!

SUPERMARKET

'Japanese ones because they offer more variety. I usually go just before it's about to close- its less crowded than'.

May I ask Ms Wong more of what variety does the jap supermarket offer that others don't? Or could it be because jap supermarkets are much more expensive therefore more 'high class'.

BOOKS

'History Of Humanity(which I haven't finished reading yet) and Memoirs Of A Geisha'.

Maybe Ms Wong has more brain cells in that big head of hers than I think. But this is from someone who can barely speak english. Ask your Pri 6 brother to read Memoirs Of A Geisha, you get the message?

ACTOR

'I admire European actors, they have a distinctive presence'.

Sorry Ms Wong, I really do not know what are you trying to say. All TCS actors (especially big headed ones )will have a 'distinctive presence' if they in a land of european actors cos they are chinese!

PERSON

'My Parents -especially my mother. She's my anchor and role model.'

You mean besides having a man as a father and a woman as a mother, Ms Wong has creatures from outer space as parents? My parents - Especially my mother??????????

Dear Ms Wong please do not try to show us how refined and sophisicated you are. I know you are lying through your teeth, I know a fake when I see one.

02/13/99 03:21:12

Name: Spunky

My URL: Visit Me

Comments:

Correction, Just-Sex...A teletubby 'hello' is "eh-oh" ...Tinky Winky carries a magic bag and not a handbag you silly old geezer, Falwell! Beware, Barney. You r next! But, I've seen Albright wore a purple dress once....gesh,,,why read between the lines whe things are just as it is?

02/13/99 03:13:41

Name: Spunky

My URL: Visit Me

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Wah...What's the 16th prize ah?

Anyway, AK..thought you might like to know this. I went by some mall yesterday during lunchtime to get a pair of shoes repaired. Due to morning mad rush at work, my breakfast did not seem to have gone down well with my delicate tummy. Much to my reluctan e, I visited the public toilet at the mall. AK and those who may have read my previous postings would understand my natural aversion to public toilets. I think it has become a phobia. But, still, nature beckons ... gotta go means gotta go lah.

The toilet typically had this familiar cleaning/disinfectant detergent frangrance. It think it's pine. I dunno. I'm no connoisseur of toilet detergent.Memories came flooding back of days in my youth when I had frequent these places for little moments of e phoria. Yup yup, grope grope .. it was quite fun and exciting then. Now I feel kinda bastardized. But, point to note, this is a personal sentiment.

Anyway, the story goes....

There I was in my little cubicle minding my own business being intirgued with the writtings on the wall (ironic), and wondering if any of those numbers actually belonged to the writer or some vindictive person who were denied by the owners of those number . At the same time, I was too trying ignore the scratching noises that was coming from the next cubicle. I knew what that noise was. I knew what was the impending truth. My heart raced.

Hold and behold! *sigh* there came the tapping of the foot at the edge of our cubicles. Initially, it was a slow rythmic tap. I suppose due to my lack of response, the tap became a little more frantic... I think he was agitated by my nonchalance. Now, wou dn't that tell him I was not interested, and the sole purpose of using the bog was, well, genuine?

Then, came the pen and paper. He could at least used proper writing paper instead of toilet roll.

"Can I watch u wank?" He wrote. I was a little stunned because I did not notice any holes in the partition....not untill I had bent down to return a written negative note that I noticed a gapping hole below the toilet roll which gave a pretty good view o areas below my waist! Hm.

I stuffed the hole with some paper, hoping he would get the point. Unfortunately, this man appeared to have difficulties in processing those information. As I was having my pants up, a hand reached from under the partition! *Swipe!*..a rushed attempt to g ab my feet!!! Now, I was absolutely stunned by his boldness! in fact, I was so stunned I actually fell back against the other partition, and my mouth wide opened! Have I stumble upon a pyscho?? I was out there like a bat out of hell.

Pray tell, all you experience cruisers. It seems time has not changed the manners of cruising. But, have they become so bold and reckless? I think that sort of reinforced my sentiments against cruising of such.

02/13/99 02:18:32

Name: Just-sex

My Email: Email Me

Your Nationality: Sg

Comments:

Arlow!!

this is how teletubbies say hello!

to all pple in BW!

a happy CNyear to u.

Gong Xi Fai Cai!!! more encounters!! more true love!! more experience!!

it has been year since i cruise into this site and had locked on since then. though i may not have contribute much (well nothing great to say and my "england berry the powderful") but i can proudly say that i have read all the posting, gone through some o the experience and even attended one of the gathering. congrates to BW for hiting the 100K mark, kudos!!!

02/13/99 01:08:12

Name: actionkid

Comments:

hahahah... good for ya, Neil.. I am the 100002nd visitor.. I guess still can rejoice a bit lah.. Congrats BW for hitting 100000! I'm sure the page will keep on going strong..

02/13/99 00:58:51

Name: neil

My URL: Visit Me

Comments:

Wah so lucky one! Cannot believe it! I just log into this page and the counter appears to be 100000! Just wondering, any PRIZE for being the 100000th visitor to this page.........!

( **** From BW - lion.jpg (14659 bytes) LION DANCE to welcome the 100000 visitor !!

thank you for your support !! You forgot to keep the winning ticket ?? Anyway, I can believe you lah. So your winning prize is :- I am going to name this page after you; even in the archives :-)

02/12/99 16:09:10

Name: sloth Your Fav Sextivity: biting biceps

Your Fav Body Type: chunky arms Your Nationality: sometimes wonder

Comments:

To farang. u check out boon lay interchange, and outside far east shop center, lots of looking.

Maybe touchy-feely too if making eyes leads to visit to near facilities. Happy travelling-- remember SBS is 'moving Singapore'.

02/12/99 09:57:19

My URL: Visit Me

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What a funny place is this land called America. First, the want to get rid of Bill just because he had oral, and next Twinky Winky is gay. I wonder whats next. All these from the world's biggest producer of p--n. Isn't it ironic?

02/12/99 08:11:20

Name: Charles Your Fav Sextivity: 81

Your Fav Body Type: bus commuter Your Nationality: transit-aware SF ang mo

Comments:

Farang, I don't have to feel left out. I just visited the Singaport Integrated Transit Site. So I can fantacize about going to each one of the bus stops you mention.

Bus #/MRT From... To... Stops Fare Total Stops Total Fare

29 Changi Village Rd, Changi Village Ter Tampines Central 1, Tampines Int 24 $1.10

MRT Tampines MRT Jurong East MRT 21 --

MRT Jurong East MRT Novena MRT 17 $1.50 62 $2.60

Actually, they give several routes, so I chose the one that went by way of Tampenis, since that has the cruisy reputation (see old postings on this BB).

I couldn't find Park Mall or NIE on that site, so those trips (and fantasies) will have to wait until I get more information. And, unfortunately, despite the route going through Tampenis, neither it no any other of the routes found involve the infamous 81. Also, note that the fares assume you are using a farecard.

02/12/99 07:25:34

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: SF ang min

Comments:

ahboi

Demure? You? Sori, can't picture one. Have fun in Sydney. Say Hi to Tony for me in SD.

AK

I don't know if I should dare code an HTML tag on this page again but code I must. If I must get spanked do you promise to administer it personally? ;-P

to all

Gung hei faat choi/Gong xi fa cai. And to visitor number 999999, no cheating by hitting the reload button.

02/12/99 02:49:05

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02/12/99 02:22:31

Name: Peter My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: ...

Your Fav Body Type: mesomorph Your Nationality: English

Comments:

$$ Reward $$ Desperately Seeking ?, You: young-looking, attractive Singaporean. Me: tall, English, based in Hong Kong. Went to Taboo last Saturday night (6th Feb) around midnight-first time in Singapore- and met great guy but I was completely drunk (...apologies)and lost his contact number. Still can't get him out of my head nearly a week later. I was sitting at a table w th a couple of friends (one Chinese, one Indian) when noticed this guy near the "water-wall" that backs onto the courtyard. I was wearing a mostly white (and blue)check shirt and him an open shirt (with gold chain?)and I think shorts.He doesn't have a com uter(so won't be reading this); my hope is that someone he was with, a friend of his will pass on my email address. Any information will be rewarded! Thanks. Peter

02/12/99 02:20:39

Name: Peter My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: ...

Your Fav Body Type: mesomorph Your Nationality: English

Comments:

$$ Reward $$ Desperately Seeking ?, You: young-looking, attractive Singaporean. Me: tall, English, based in Hong Kong. Went to Taboo last Saturday night (6th Feb) around midnight-first time in Singapore- and met great guy but I was completely drunk (...apologies)and lost his contact number. Still can't get him out of my head nearly a week later. I was sitting at a table w th a couple of friends (one Chinese, one Indian) when noticed this guy near the "water-wall" that backs onto the courtyard. I was wearing a mostly white (and blue)check shirt and him an open shirt (with gold chain?)and I think shorts.He doesn't have a com uter(so won't be reading this); my hope is that someone he was with, a friend of his will pass on my email address. Any information will be rewarded! Thanks. Peter

02/11/99 17:52:27

Name: ahboi

Comments:

ah charles ah, um sai sorry lah. neber mind san F or san D leh, as long as not sans C(harles), is ok loh. ~_^

the san D lyc link will definitely cum in hand-y. when i was there last, neber hear got lyc one ! so happy to learn of this facility *demure grin*. btw, lyc had also just took off in sydney. just as well, my good fortune to have two birds to kill with one journey. hup sai ngor loh. raise the red lantern please

i see sotong is desperately seeking takers for his jb bordello. will someone kindly take him out of his misery, please. otherwise, he may just _kill_ us with another devastating story of his, *LOL* the last story had what, one body count ?

next week will be busy busy busy. and less i lapse, here's wishing one and all a gong xi fa cai, yes those living in san F included. *wink*

02/11/99 16:09:27

Name: actionkid

Comments:

charles charles charles... wat are we gonna do about you, eh? maybe give ya a good spanking?..;P Hehe.. I'm sure BW will rectify your error.. btw, looks like we're gonna hit 100000 very soon.. I wonder who'll be the one who's gonna hit it..

Anyway, I just wanna take this opportunity to wish all those in love, in lust and in friendship, a very happy St Valentine's Day! Cherish the past, enjoy the moment and relish the future..

... and GONG XI FA CAI in advance too..

02/11/99 16:07:52

Name: Farang My URL: Visit Me

Your Fav Sextivity: Looking Your Fav Body Type: Young

Your Nationality: Farang

Comments:

Anyone care to share with me their favourite bus stops? For me, the most attractive men are to be found at 1) Changi Village near the terminus, 2) By McRitchie Reservoir, 3) Outside Park Mall, 4) Opposite the NIE on Dunearn Road. Any other hotspots? Apologies to readers of this bulletin living in San Francisco. I refer to Singapore and you'll have to skip this entry. Sorry, dears.

02/11/99 08:52:04

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: SF ang min

Comments:

Aiya! I broke the page. Now the entire page is a link to the Long Yang Club. Only BW can fix it.

( ***** From BW - the wild HTML link is fixed. It's okay, everybody slips up sometimes; even our HTML guru Charles :-) He helped to solve the HTML title mystery aka. the Sotong Bug. Thanks, Charles ***** )

Mh hou yisi bo!

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02/11/99 08:47:02

Name: Charles

Your Nationality: SF ang mo

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Sorry, ahboi, I'm in SF not SD. You might check out the San Diego chapter of the Long Yang Club.

02/11/99 04:27:20

Name: meaty My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: anything

Your Fav Body Type: mid built Your Nationality: SG

Comments:

Anyone know any crusing place in NTU ???

02/10/99 09:13:54

Name: kiSSer My URL: Visit Me

My Email: Email Me Your Fav Sextivity: k-i-s-s-i-n-g

Your Nationality: french

Comments:

In preparation for St. Valentine's Day, SEVEN Very GOOD reasons to KISS. Start smooching!!!!

Why kissing is good for you...

1) ...it helps prevent tooth decay Dr Peter Gorden, Dental Advisor at the British Dental Association, explains. "After eating, your mouth is full of sugar solution and acidic saliva, which cause plaque build up. Kissing is nature's own cleaning process" e adds. "It stimulates saliva flow and brings plaque levels down to normal."

2) ..it relieves tension. A passionate kiss is a great relaxation technique, says stress consultant, Michelle Kay Mcnabb. "When your mouth is in a kissing position,you're almost smiling and, as our emotions and body language are so closely linked, it's a most impossible to smile and feel tense at the same time" she explains. "Also, your breathing becomes deeper and your eyes close when u kiss - that's what u do when u relax. It's a perfect way to shut out the world."

3) ..it helps you lose weight. "A long kiss makes the metabolism burn up sugar faster than usual" says Claire Potter. "The calories burned depend on the intensity, but u can rely on 10 calories for every 10 minutes."

4) ..it slows the ageing process. "Kissing helps to tone ur cheek and jaw muscles, so they're less likely to sag" says Cosmo's Fitness Consultant, Claire Potter.

5) ..it increases fitness levels. Your heart is pumping, your pulse is racing... "If kissing is exciting, you release adrenaline into the bloodstream and your heart pumps more blood around your body," says Dr Susan Hotchkies. "It's a great cardiovascular workout."

6) ..it is a good indication of what's to come. Kissing a new man gives you the perfect opportunity to check out His pheromones - the chemical messengers that signal sexual attraction. The first kiss is always a good way to work out if there's any chemistry between you" says Paul Brown, a sexual and marital therapist." In humans, it's thought that smells plays a vital part in subconscious attraction, and if your pheromones aren't 'in tu e', you're unlikely to hit off in other areas." And finally,

7) ..it boosts self - esteem ! There's nothing better than a passionate kiss for a major dose of feel good factor. "In theory, when u're kissing, you're happy. And when you're happy, you feel good about yourself," says psychotherapist Paul Zeal.

So...what are u waiting for? Go KISS someone!

02/10/99 05:05:59

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By the way, Malboroman...Hope the doc made you feel better. = )

02/10/99 05:00:07

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My new perspective, and I pray: -

Grant me the serenity

to accept the things

I cannot change,

the courage to change

the things I cannot accpet,

and the wisdom to hide

the bodies of those people

I had to kill today

because they pissed me off and

also, help me to be careful

of the toes I step on today as they

may be connected to the ass

that i might have to kiss tomorrow.

02/10/99 03:25:12

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Hi guys, sorry I did not post the Oscars results last night due to a very sudden and serious attack of the flu virus. I got 2 days Mc from my Doc who Is quite CUTE. Dr. Goh is his name, located in Comme.....

Any way, Spunky thats really funny, do such songs exsist? Maybe thats country before Shiania.

OK Oscar time. 'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE' received a historic 13 nominations! Followed b 'Saving Private Ryan'(no surprise)which got 11 nominations.

BEST PICTURE :

'LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL'

'ELIZABETH'

'SAVING PRIVATE RYAN'

'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE'

'THIN RED LINE'

BEST DIRECTOR :

PETER WEIR - 'THE TRUMAN SHOW'

STEVEN SPIELBERG - 'SAVING PRIVATE RYAN'

JOHN MADDEN - 'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE'

ROBERTO BENIGNI - 'LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL'

TERRENCE MALICK - 'THIN RED LINE'

BEST ACTOR :

TOM HANKS - 'SAVING PVT. RYAN'

ROBERTO BENIGNI - 'LIFE IS BEAUTIFL'

IAN MCKELLEN - 'GODS AND MONSTERS'

NICK NOLTE - 'AFFLICTION'

EDWARD NORTON - 'AMERICAN HISTORY X'

BEST ACTRESS :

MERYL STREEP - 'ONE TRUE THING'

CATE BLANCHETT - 'ELIZABETH'

GWYNETH PALTROW - 'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE'

FERNANDA MONTEAEGRO - 'CENTRAL STATION'

EMIL WATSON - 'HILARY AND JACKIE'

BEST SUPPORTING ACTOR :

JAMES CORBURN - 'AFFLICATION'

ROBERT DUVAL - ' A CIVIL ACTION'

GEOFFRE RUSH - 'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE'

BILLY BOB THORTON - 'A SIMPLE TRUTH'

BEST SUPPORTTING ACTRESS :

KHTHY BATES - 'PRIMARY COLORS'

BRENDA BLETHYN - 'LITTLE VOICES'

JUDI DENCH - 'SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE'

RACHEAL GRIFFITH - 'HILARY AND JACKIE'

LYNN REDGRAVE - 'GODS AND MONSTERS'

BEST ORIGINAL SONG(BORING, THE USUAL CELINE, WHITNEY, MARIAH, AEROTHSMITH) :

'I DON'T WANT TO MISS A THING'

'THE PRAYER'(CELINE) - QUEST FOR CAMELOT

'A SOFT PLACE TO FALL' - HORSE WHISPERER

'THAT'LL DO' - BABE:PIG IN THE CITY 'WHEN U BELIVE' - PRINCE OF EGYPT.

THERES THE LIST OF THE MORE IMPORTANT NOMINATIONS. THE FUNNY THING IS THAT 'ELIZABETH' DID NOT GET THE BEST DIRECTOR NOMINATION. HOW CAN ONE MAKE A BEST MOVIE AND NOT BE THE BEST DIRECTOR? IS IT BECAUSE HOLLYWOOD STILL HAVE NOT ACCEPT HIM COS HE IS ASIAN (INDIAN)? ANOTHER SHOCKER, ROBERT REDFORD'S 'THE HORSE WHISPERER' WAS NOT EVEN INCLUDED IN ANY MAJOR NIMINATIONS.

02/10/99 01:28:44

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Looking forward to readin your story, Sotong. Hey Malboroman...Here are my charted songs. hehe. These are NOT made up. These are the actual titles of....The Worst (or Best) Country-Western Song Titles of All-Time: 1.Get Your Biscuits In The Oven And Your Buns In Bed

2.Get Your Tongue Otta My Mouth 'Cause I'm Kissing You Goodbye

3.Her Teeth Was Stained, But Her Heart Was Pure

4.How Can I Miss You If You Won't Go Away?

5.I Can't Get Over You, So Why Don't You Get Under Me?

6.I Don't Know Whether To Kill Myself Or Go Bowling

7.I Got In At 2 With a 10, And Woke Up At 10 With a 2.

8.I Hate Every Bone In Your Body Except For Mine

9.I Just Bought A Car From A Guy That Stole My Girl, But The Car Don't Run, So I Figure We Got An Even Deal

10.I Keep Forgettin' I Forgot About You

11.I Liked You Better Before I Knew You So Well

12.I Still Miss You Baby, But My Aim's Gettin' Better

13.I Wouldn't Take Her To A Dog Fight, Cause I'm Afraid She'd Win

14.I'll Marry You Tomorrow But Let's Honeymoon Tonite

15.I'm So miserable Without You, It's Like Having You Here

16. I've Got Tears in My Ears From Lying On My Back While I Cry OverYou

17. If I Can't Be Number One In Your Life, Then Number Two On You

18. If I Had Shot You When I Wanted To, I'd Be Out By Now

19. Mama Get A Hammer (There's A Fly On Papa's Head)

20. My Head Hurts, My Feet Stink, And I Don't Love Jesus

21. My Wife Ran Off With My Best Friend, and I Sure Do Miss Him

22. Please Bypass this Heart

23. She Got The Ring and I Got The Finger

24. You're the Reason Our Kids Are So Ugly

02/10/99 01:12:11

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Looks like I’ll have to babysit my own place this CNY. Sigh... Au pairs are scarce these days, even with perks thrown in.

Yo Spunky, that was a nice story. Quite poignant. Hope you’ll keep it up. Funny thing is, the theme of the one I’m working on is also quite similar. Hehehe.

This goes out to all the Boyzone fans out there : I’m thinking of incorporating either the song “No Matter What” or “Where We Belong” into my story. The lyrics seemed so appropriate. The thing is I’m no Boyzone fan and only happen to stumbled upon the lyr cs. Would like to know what “Where We Belong” sounds like (E.g. slow or fast, beautiful or mediocre melody etc) Contact me if you have the CD? Thanks.

02/10/99 00:57:02

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ArLow

earlier, i raised interest in

Sotong's

JB house, unfortunately all my friends took ages to decide. Thus in order to be fair to Sotong and others in BW who may be interested in having the house during new year, i will opt out of the borrowing hi place.

Therefore Sotong's place should be free for lending from this Sat till next Sun. All enquires please post to this BW. Thanx and sorry for the inconvenience caused, Happy New YEar! regards

02/10/99 00:08:41

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Hi guys. Yesterday I took half day off from work. Surfed the net for a while then decided to go to the pool. Went in to get changed. There were a few kids around who had their school swimming session. They spoke with such cute British accent. I took one o them and ... just kidding. They all left because they were late for the bus. I saw this guy head in the showers with a decent body. I followed him in to check out the goods. He was soaping himself up. When he saw me he got a hard-on. I was still in my sw mming trunks. His cock was cut and it had a huge head. I went over to touch it and feel it in my hands. We kissed in the showers and jerked each other off. Our bodies were slippery with soap. He came within five minutes. It was quite exciting. I did not w nt to come. I washed up and left. A nice quicky!

02/09/99 10:33:43

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hello! it has been a long time.....how's everybody?..... hmm.. nj! never tell me about your indonesian affair har.... and how's evryone else? any stories? ok lah... back to your normal programs.....

02/09/99 08:37:36

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Hi, if you guys like to peoms by Pablo Neruda as posted by Spunky, you should get the soundtrack to the movie,'The Postman'. It contains peoms by Neruda read by Glen Close, Ethan Hawk, Julia Roberts etc, 'If You Forget Me' was read by Madonna, however my av. was the peom read by Andy Garcia,'Tonight I Can Write The Saddest Lines'. Very good music too. Won the Oscar for best soundtrack.

02/09/99 07:13:25

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wow. this place is dragging out the melancholia in me again. sheesh. Spunky.. that was... umm.. actually, I'm quite speechless coz u sure as hell picked a rather thorny topic for me. Anyway, thanx for that wonderful story, and do know i appreciate it a lo , as I'm sure all the others would too. And yes.. I DO owe you a treat..

NETJUMPER!! Welcum back!! Hmm... no wonder you've been missing.. heheh.. well, I personally think that being watched and appreciated can be a real turn on. and to be the object of a dare.. wah.. even better! It is all a matter of perception, man.. You k ep them bucket loads cumming..

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02/09/99 03:03:57

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Inspired by these 12 pointers ... they really reflects how life is!

>> 1. don't go for looks' it can deceive; don't go for wealth for even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile coz' only a smile make a dark day seem bright.

>> 2. its' true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it,but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

>> 3. always put yourself in other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person, too.

>> 4. a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life;a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

>> 5. the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

>> 6. maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift.

>> 7. it takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone ( true !!!! )

>> 8. love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find that you still care for that person.

>> 9. a sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go

>> 10. love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.

>> 11. never say goodbye when you still want to try - never give up when you still feel you can take it - never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go.

>> 12. there are things you love to hear but you would never hear it from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart.