LucasMediantor Posted October 19, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2011 I dont mean top or btm role.I mean position as in eg. doggie position.Ah yeah. Goggie position is the one I can not keep hard. Dun know why. Maybe cos of anxiety, especially when having sex with some strangers. Some of them used to get so high during fxxking session and threw the condom away. You know what happened? I did beat into their faces and then kicked them out of room. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Curiousnazrul Posted October 19, 2011 Report Share Posted October 19, 2011 7 inches is more than enough,I get hard with 6 liao. HAHA. Lemme dom you then (; Imma compressed package of awesum.LOL! Such a slutty reply! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted October 19, 2011 Report Share Posted October 19, 2011 Ya maybe. For example last time I went to sauna with my bf and got fxxked in the room. I still remember the aircons there were operating very weakly and the temperature was so hot. But when I sweat alot and saw my body and my bf's body reflecting the light (tanning) and smelled his breath and his sweat, I was so horny. Ya maybe I like hot sex ( I mean in hot room LOL)..I think it depends on how easy u perspire. Some pple wld sweat a lot during sex even in an air-con rm, and some pple might not. Totally agreed it is very hot and can get very excited and horny when u see ur partner drenched in sweat. Imagine hugging his sweaty bod and lick off his sweat. Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spencer Posted October 23, 2011 Report Share Posted October 23, 2011 same thought about how to keep it rock hard when being fxxk, i think most top who totally get turn on when they see their btm are rock hard. i love to learn how to be rock hard as well, because turning the top on who probably bring out the horniness in them! and better sex! LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CopyDat Posted October 24, 2011 Report Share Posted October 24, 2011 ^as a top i fully agree! hahaha seeing the bottom rock hard is real turn on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lesbrown Posted October 28, 2011 Report Share Posted October 28, 2011 Yeah man.... pumping fit toned bottom with long rock hard dick is such a turn on. I feel like I "own" him and will pump and pump and pump him til the hard dick shoots by itself. Quote http://sghunk31.blogspot.sg/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youngstud Posted October 28, 2011 Report Share Posted October 28, 2011 (edited) not trying to be cocky or offensivebut how do you NOT have a rock hard hard-on when you're getting fxxkedthere is so much sexual energy n horniness and the shiok feeling of constantly getting rammed its pleasurable till the extend that a hard-on is impossible to do withoutthe only reason i can think of why there isn't a hard-on is becos both parties are not turned on by each other and just wanna get it done n over with.or its hurting like hell in which case you should either not be a bottom or try another position. Edited October 28, 2011 by youngstud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitetiger Posted October 28, 2011 Report Share Posted October 28, 2011 not trying to be cocky or offensivebut how do you NOT have a rock hard hard-on when you're getting fxxkedthere is so much sexual energy n horniness and the shiok feeling of constantly getting rammed its pleasurable till the extend that a hard-on is impossible to do withoutthe only reason i can think of why there isn't a hard-on is becos both parties are not turned on by each other and just wanna get it done n over with.or its hurting like hell in which case you should either not be a bottom or try another position.Well, sometimes is that the btm maybe not ready or the top is overwhelm by his own horniness that he shaft his dick in and pump.. lol.. that may ended in pain rather than pleasure.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youngstud Posted October 29, 2011 Report Share Posted October 29, 2011 Well, sometimes is that the btm maybe not ready or the top is overwhelm by his own horniness that he shaft his dick in and pump.. lol.. that may ended in pain rather than pleasure.. erm then the slut in me will go "shiok damn shiok!" hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitetiger Posted October 29, 2011 Report Share Posted October 29, 2011 erm then the slut in me will go "shiok damn shiok!" heheOh my my!!! ahha... That's going to attract alot of notti hotti top Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted November 3, 2011 Report Share Posted November 3, 2011 (edited) not trying to be cocky or offensivebut how do you NOT have a rock hard hard-on when you're getting fxxkedthere is so much sexual energy n horniness and the shiok feeling of constantly getting rammed its pleasurable till the extend that a hard-on is impossible to do withoutthe only reason i can think of why there isn't a hard-on is becos both parties are not turned on by each other and just wanna get it done n over with.or its hurting like hell in which case you should either not be a bottom or try another position.Maybe u r rite, i also think it is somehow impossible not to have a rock hard rod when u r getting fxxked?! Like wht u said, there is so much sexual energy n horniness & the shiok feeling, confirm i will have rock hard! Sometimes even reading this post can make me semi-hard! Cannot imagine if i make out with a guy, my rod is soft!Anyway, i wld say it is very hot to see the btm rock hard while fxxking him! Sometimes when i watch those gay pxxn and those btm was rock hard while being fxxked, it really get me so high! Edited November 3, 2011 by alien Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subbtmchn73 Posted December 30, 2011 Report Share Posted December 30, 2011 i never get hard when fxxked. I am 100% btm as i have no interest to top although i can. It is like i know i am gay and girls is not for me, i know i am btm as well. But when fxxked, physically it just does not do much to me. I just keep feeling i need to pee or need to shit. Even a very hot guy, cute and handsome and young fxxking me, i would still be soft. What i get turn on is the "scene". To have a dominant top using me for his pleasure, fxxking me like a girl. If he is dominant, verbal and firm and in control, i get turn on more. But not too violet or rough. Romantic dominance. Best if he is not concern with me being soft and he can still enjoy himself that will be less pressure for me. Quote _____________________________________________________my geek gay blog at www.formanz.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted January 7, 2012 Report Share Posted January 7, 2012 Maybe it really depends on individually, doesnt mean pure btm will get rock hard when get fxxked, and not pure btm wld not. Quote 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spencer Posted January 7, 2012 Report Share Posted January 7, 2012 you will definitely go hard when it hit your chestnut size prostate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 7, 2012 Report Share Posted January 7, 2012 you will definitely go hard when it hit your chestnut size prostate.speaking from personal experience? I have seen those that won't get hard one... weird or something else? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted January 7, 2012 Report Share Posted January 7, 2012 (edited) I notice everyone's speaking from their own ahem very personal experience. But simply put, everyone's hardwired differently. I know pure btms who can't get hard 99% of the time1 and reported tops who ooze precum like it's on tap when fxxked. Much of it is in the brain probably, being your biggest sex organ, but I suspect some of it in the physio. Just like some people like teeth with their blowjobs (receiving) while most people are like 'yikes' about such.Personally, I think "top" and "bottom" are as much labels as anything else, as "fem", "butch", "gay", "bisexual" etc. Just do what you like doing and if your partner doesn't have an issue with it (e.g. with you being soft), whose business is it anyway.But if you can't get hard while being fxxked, and would like to be so, position is a culprit much of the time, as many have already indicated. Or ask your top to go a bit slower and gentler - it could be excess of sensation. The next suggestion is a bit of a limp biscuit, but are you hard when you start out getting fxxked? If not, try more foreplay or something. If all else fails, get someone to suck you while you're being fxxked.1Yes, they were turned on. They still call me. Edited January 7, 2012 by Mercutio Quote Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boybelow Posted January 7, 2012 Report Share Posted January 7, 2012 I don't know. It comes to me naturally I guess, even if the top is not my type. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Urizenzen Posted January 8, 2012 Report Share Posted January 8, 2012 How to keep hard? Get really turned on! If you're not hard there's probably something going on in your head that causes you to be soft. Poppers might make you high and more receptive but they also tend to make some people soft as they relax the muscles. When topping, it is more of a turn on for me when the bottom is hard, but it is also up to me to make sure the bottom is really turned on by foreplay and by fxxking with still to try to stimulate the P-Spot. If your top is not doing it for you, find another. When I'm bottoming, I'm more often than not hard because I would only bottom for someone whom I find really hot. But the moment my mind wanders, I go soft whether I'm topping or bottoming. Quote All fear is the ego's fear of death - being wrong is a form of ego defeat and deathWhether you are right or wrong is irrelevent to your egoThe forcefully compulsive and deeply unconscious need to be right is a form of violenceSo friends let us argue in peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted January 8, 2012 Report Share Posted January 8, 2012 The best part about getting your bottom hard is the chance of getting flip-flop fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted January 8, 2012 Report Share Posted January 8, 2012 When I'm bottoming, I'm more often than not hard because I would only bottom for someone whom I find really hot. But the moment my mind wanders, I go soft whether I'm topping or bottoming.You really ought to meet Chelseasian ... you two must have so much to talk about it....http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=24626 Quote Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Urizenzen Posted January 10, 2012 Report Share Posted January 10, 2012 @Mercutio: Thanks for the referral to Chelseasian but after reading a few of his posts I shall politely decline the introduction. Except for the similarity of being distracted, a trait I believe most people can be subjected to if the partner is not pushing the right buttons, I don't think I have anything else in common with him. When topping he seems to be going after the "fxxking the brains out domination of btm approach" while I would like to think that mine is more like "fxxking the brains out while stimulating the btm's p-spot approach". Subtle but nevertheless crucial difference...Going back to the main topic, I find it quite thrilling to have a smaller sized btm with a rock hard large dick - like a sexy convertible car with a large stick shift you can push hard around the bends and highly responsive to the driver's initiatives. So for a btm who has difficulty staying hard I would suggest either get very turned on before the main event or half a tab of V (the sort you get from a doctor rather than the street versions with unknown provenance and active ingredient concentrations). Quote All fear is the ego's fear of death - being wrong is a form of ego defeat and deathWhether you are right or wrong is irrelevent to your egoThe forcefully compulsive and deeply unconscious need to be right is a form of violenceSo friends let us argue in peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spencer Posted January 13, 2012 Report Share Posted January 13, 2012 @Mercutio: Thanks for the referral to Chelseasian but after reading a few of his posts I shall politely decline the introduction. Except for the similarity of being distracted, a trait I believe most people can be subjected to if the partner is not pushing the right buttons, I don't think I have anything else in common with him. When topping he seems to be going after the "fxxking the brains out domination of btm approach" while I would like to think that mine is more like "fxxking the brains out while stimulating the btm's p-spot approach". Subtle but nevertheless crucial difference... Going back to the main topic, I find it quite thrilling to have a smaller sized btm with a rock hard large dick - like a sexy convertible car with a large stick shift you can push hard around the bends and highly responsive to the driver's initiatives. So for a btm who has difficulty staying hard I would suggest either get very turned on before the main event or half a tab of V (the sort you get from a doctor rather than the street versions with unknown provenance and active ingredient concentrations). i like the sound of your approach hahaha yeh getting the street version of V can be very dangerous, i seen the tv and a guy ended up dead a week later. so sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cereal Posted December 26, 2012 Report Share Posted December 26, 2012 How to maintain hardness while getting fxxked by top guys? Most of the time I bottom for my bf, he likes me to maintain my erection while he's fxxking me. Last time when I was younger I could do that easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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