chubblicious Posted April 28, 2009 Report Share Posted April 28, 2009 WELL, i ought to admit that too. Life is bit vicious, but it's alright.Friends is all around, i've found the motivation and won't lose faith.(: smile and the happiness will find its way ! And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uniformfun Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Guess it's my first post here, so here it goes..Very often i could find ppl typing in irc main saying that seeking sincere bf/ltr etc, but when i started the conversation with them, mostly would just ignore or say im not thier type or whatsoever.Strange thing is that they themselves are chub/not-so-goodlooking either and they want someone who's handsome/cute/leanfit etc.Come on, perhaps im wrong bout this, im not too sure either~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
handsomechub Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 well i guess most people who go on irc are looking for sex.next thing is that most people who go on irc for sex are superficial and succumbed to the stereotypical guy that an ons "should be"With a combination of horniness ,delusion and lack of self awareness, they reject anyone that does not meet to their ideal guy , regardless of how they are themselves.This, leads to the phenomenal that you are meeting oh-so-often.A solution for you, may i suggest, is to probably get urself fitter and better looking, or pay a visit to Dr Woffles perhaps? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steak_knife Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 I agree with handsomechub. I dun like superficial guys. I met with some guys before only to find out that all they want is to have sex with me and not to get to know me more. Sadly its very difficult to find a sincere guy nowadays. You really need to work your body hard and look good inorder to be noticed. Your attitude doesnt matter anymore. Luckily i found a good guy 2 years ago. Wer very happy with each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lonely Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 I agree with handsomechub. I dun like superficial guys. I met with some guys before only to find out that all they want is to have sex with me and not to get to know me more. Sadly its very difficult to find a sincere guy nowadays. You really need to work your body hard and look good inorder to be noticed. Your attitude doesnt matter anymore. Luckily i found a good guy 2 years ago. Wer very happy with each other.I'm so happy with you that you can find your happiness. I want to look for my the other part too. But scared and confused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uniformfun Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 I do agree that by training myself to be fitter would attract the attention, however if it's attracting any guy in irc, they would still go for sex afterall.I dont look for someone who mind who i am.Even some chub in bwf here also keep saying seek sincere bf/ltr, in the end after seeing pic, *poof* there he goes, either block or deleted me off msn already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browncow Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 well, it does not mean that the "Fitter" you are the plenty of chance you have in getting yourself a BF.Of course, being fit and healthy is of beneficial to oneself. But, never do it just for a reason "to get a BF".To me, i've this saying that nobody is perfect. God Is Fair. So even in the person you find most desirable, there would be flaws that would hold you back somehow. Anyway, take your time to find the person that is willing to share part of his being with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveedovee Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 well, it does not mean that the "Fitter" you are the plenty of chance you have in getting yourself a BF.Of course, being fit and healthy is of beneficial to oneself. But, never do it just for a reason "to get a BF".To me, i've this saying that nobody is perfect. God Is Fair. So even in the person you find most desirable, there would be flaws that would hold you back somehow. Anyway, take your time to find the person that is willing to share part of his being with you.true.. so very true..being 'fitter' does +1 to ur rating, but in the end you'll feel the hollowness after having sex and nothing else.let ppl see ur true self thru your actions and words, they have a more lasting impact on ppl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uniformfun Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Yup, im still young, still have plenty of time to get the right partner. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke84 Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 (edited) hmm.. even for me, a chub..i also realised that pple who chatted with me.. are only for sex..and they are in the so called 'open' relationship... which I always cannot accept..some of them are really nice when i chatted with them, cute and definitely my cup of tea..but why are they out there seeking for fun when they are attached?sigh.. Edited October 27, 2010 by luke84 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Me too i cant accept open relationship. Why cant they stay faithful to their love ones when they are already attached? may be tats the reason im still single...sigh! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KL Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Me too i cant accept open relationship. Why cant they stay faithful to their love ones when they are already attached? may be tats the reason im still single...sigh!I wld like to share my tot w you... I'm attached for 2.5 years w my bf now... We love each other and hv even bought a house together... But there is a big problem between us... I'm of high sea drive but he is not... We hv spoke abt this problem many times but still can't resolved. Wanted to break w him but can't bear to... Thus the only way out is to hv a regular fb or 2 without him knowing...I know many of u will say that I am wrong and is unfaithful to my bf... But it's either I do this to satisfy my sexual needs and continue to be with him or to break w him just because he can't satisfy my sexual needs??!!At times I'm really at a lost if I shd continue this or just to breakup w him in order to be fair to both... As a whole he is quite a nice guy and I can see that he is trying hard to change for me...I don't really bear to part with him also... But he just can't accept an open relationship! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browncow Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 I wld like to share my tot w you... I'm attached for 2.5 years w my bf now... We love each other and hv even bought a house together... But there is a big problem between us... I'm of high sea drive but he is not... We hv spoke abt this problem many times but still can't resolved. Wanted to break w him but can't bear to... Thus the only way out is to hv a regular fb or 2 without him knowing...I know many of u will say that I am wrong and is unfaithful to my bf... But it's either I do this to satisfy my sexual needs and continue to be with him or to break w him just because he can't satisfy my sexual needs??!!At times I'm really at a lost if I shd continue this or just to breakup w him in order to be fair to both... As a whole he is quite a nice guy and I can see that he is trying hard to change for me...I don't really bear to part with him also... But he just can't accept an open relationship! hey buddy,am not one to judge about your actions and what your BF would say. But whatever it is, to do something behind your other half without them knowing is wrong, no matter what kind of business it is. I can tell the amount of devotion you have in the relationship, i am sure somehow, the sex drive problem can be resolve with sound reasoning with your other half. Okay? If you can't bear to break with him, don't do it. How often do you come across someone that you're willing to live with? Hope you put much thoughts into whatever decision you made, and had it properly weighed out. hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KL Posted October 28, 2010 Report Share Posted October 28, 2010 Hi browncow,thanks for yr advise...hv read yr other comments and am impressed that u r 24yo yet you seem so matured and sensible abt yr tots!!! Just wonder if u r attached? If u r, then yr bf must be v lucky to hv such nice guy like u! hugs! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browncow Posted October 28, 2010 Report Share Posted October 28, 2010 Hi browncow,thanks for yr advise...hv read yr other comments and am impressed that u r 24yo yet you seem so matured and sensible abt yr tots!!! Just wonder if u r attached? If u r, then yr bf must be v lucky to hv such nice guy like u! hugs!Hey thanks, anyway, age is just a number. I've been in a r/s before, so i guess I know how it feels like.I've been single for a couple of years, I should be lucky if i find any. haha..but thanks anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 28, 2010 Report Share Posted October 28, 2010 Sori to say tis. I broke up wif my bf cos i find tat no point dragging on if im the oni party giving in all the time. Im not encouraging u but just share with u. Listen to ur heart closely n u will find a solution. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uniformfun Posted October 29, 2010 Report Share Posted October 29, 2010 oh yes, worst thing is im kind of out of both category such as chub or lean, it's like neither here nor there..chub seeker would say im too lean for them and vice versa. =( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tony_chaser70 Posted January 14, 2011 Report Share Posted January 14, 2011 Just like to start this new discussion about y there so much more chub seeking chub or beefy seeking beefy guy only.this nt something I felt or " some guy will start posting that did I do my statistic survey in the sauna and come with this crazy conclusion". it just that if u take any example with the iPhone apps scruff,85% are seeking chub 4 chub or muscular beefy guy seeking beefy or chub only.I am stocky muscular built but nt very big built type,and most chub that I like seems to like chub only.I just like to understand especially comment fr chub n beefy guy only on their view on this.I hve this theory and it fr a chub fren.they hve been rejected by slim n tone built guy,they only seek chub now.( again pls dun blast me for how I derive this assumption, I just hear view fr chub or chub couple,especially like chub who were slim n tone built once and they grew fat and they end up being a chaser themselves or were u in the beginning chub and hve always like chub guy only.I myself love chub,think their cute.I use to hve lean tone built when I was young and a chaser but now stocky built and still a chaser.if u go to chub nite in tenmen,u normally see chub going after chub or the beefy going after them.sometime I wish the sauna operator will hve a theme nite where it only chub or beefy guy seeking slim medium built guy only.(any sauna operator reading this may be can give it a thought so that people like us dun hve to fight with those beefy or chub guy seeking chub.like I say ,just hear the view fr chub couple or chub were u always hve been a chaser fr the begining?and thxs and dun blast me pls=========================Your post is a pain to read. Paragraphing it into sentences would help. Gachi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waterballoon Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 I'm a chub who prefers slim to muscular dudes, so that's an exception? Haha   "The two of us are living in the same era, believing in the same future Yesterday’s tears and today’s smiles will stay true We’ve experienced the same pain, we’ve gathered the same kindness And we’ll turn them into the strength to live on tomorrow"   progress - ayumi hamasaki  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
briax Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 Hmmm, there are different types of men who like other types of men. I suppose there are preferences for everything in life so why do we need to crack our brains to reason everything le? Sometimes when you find someone you like, all the rules and preference get thrown out too. Facebook.com/Bryan Choong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Because there is just that many fat disgusting men around which no one else wants but only their kind. Hence they search their own kind. Face it, you can call it any fanciful name but chub, beefy, very stocky are all just a more flattering description than FAT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Happened only in the Disney movie Lion King, do you really see an Elephant dancing with a Monkey? Elephant will only mixed with Elephants. :whistle: :whistle: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest surelyugessian Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 i love chubs - especially those smooth skin ones.cuddling a smooth skin chub in an air-con room is so shiok!been rejected by more than a few chubs - themselves seeking other chubs.but, hey, if you like them, you should also give them due respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddy Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 I like stocky men.Actually i like anything but a skinny monkey. Hope you find a chub soon if that's what you're looking for. As a chub, i don't prefer slim and slight tone looking guys because the look too high maintenance. Also, if they cannot even bother to look you in the face you know they have an attitude problem and you already feel like you don't want to be around them. In general, they are just too plain rude. It's just like being an interviewer, if the candidate cannot maintain any eye to eye contact, you don't want him and he's probably not interested anyway. There are more people out there in the world to waste each others time. "Kinsey says everyone has homosexual tendencies in various degree. YOU'RE ALL GAY!!!" ~ from some kid I overheard in a KFC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest -gG- Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Because there is just that many fat disgusting men around which no one else wants but only their kind. Hence they search their own kind. Face it, you can call it any fanciful name but chub, beefy, very stocky are all just a more flattering description than FAT.this guy is a moron Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddy Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 this guy is a moronI once mentioned in another thread that these kinds of people always come in to crap on other size group threads.And they have proven me right. Point is, we should not give them the power to make us feel lousy.They are just here to fart and disappear with no one to remember or miss them. "Kinsey says everyone has homosexual tendencies in various degree. YOU'RE ALL GAY!!!" ~ from some kid I overheard in a KFC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jayy Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Well, not looking you in the eye doesn't necessarily mean an attitude problem. Some may just be shy or introverted. I am pretty much that way around strangers or people I don't really know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest elephant Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 I once mentioned in another thread that these kinds of people always come in to crap on other size group threads.And they have proven me right. Point is, we should not give them the power to make us feel lousy.They are just here to fart and disappear with no one to remember or miss them.But the fact u mentioned the other thread means u remember him leh...Just passing through Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest faynic Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 I am fat looking for non-fat too... anyway, all of us have preferences... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YoungChub Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 I like muscular .. but not chub ... im unique too ? haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flandr3 Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 i'm chub but i dun seek chub..i prefer slim/fit... and everybody have their own taste...so it doesnt really matter... and for chub seek chub...wats wrg wif that...i can say that majority of slim/fit ppl dislike chub pple and look down on them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddy Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Well, not looking you in the eye doesn't necessarily mean an attitude problem. Some may just be shy or introverted. I am pretty much that way around strangers or people I don't really know.If only people can be shy and introvert about calling others disgusting or elephants. I wonder if you'll be the same as the rest once you get more bold and confident. "Kinsey says everyone has homosexual tendencies in various degree. YOU'RE ALL GAY!!!" ~ from some kid I overheard in a KFC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
briax Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 i think most people will be less upfront about their thoughts if they are given the anonymity of the forum id. ;-) try calling an elephant in person, the elephant will sit on you. Chubbieboi 1 Facebook.com/Bryan Choong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homelyman Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 I myself love chub,think their cute.I use to hve lean tone built when I was young and a chaser but now stocky built and still a chaser.if u go to chub nite in tenmen,u normally see chub going after chub or the beefy going after them.sometime I wish the sauna operator will hve a theme nite where it only chub or beefy guy seeking slim medium built guy only.(any sauna operator reading this may be can give it a thought so that people like us dun hve to fight with those beefy or chub guy seeking chub.like I say ,just hear the view fr chub couple or chub were u always hve been a chaser fr the begining?and thxs and dun blast me plsI'm sure u hv rejected someone not your type before. U want to choose, others also want to choose mah. If there is a theme nite where only chub seek slim, u will still get some rejections wat. Just move on and look for the next target lor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chubby Posted January 16, 2011 Report Share Posted January 16, 2011 Some chubs smell... Major turn off for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autowil Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 I guess everyone have their own perference I myself a chub but perfer slim or fit guys.. :thumb: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iluvsuperchub Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well I agree, its hard for me as a chaser to find a chub, especially superchub. Even those on social website i.e. biggercity, etc most chubs prefered chubs.. Looking at this trend made me wonder whether I should become chub myself in order to attract a superchub. Well I used to be a slim chaser but now since working in office & been having much appetite than before, I've turn to minor cub.. so not sure whether its a good or bad thing. But if majority chubs seeking other chubs, then I would work my way to be a chub myself. Jus my 2 cents worth.Just like to start this new discussion about y there so much more chub seeking chub or beefy seeking beefy guy only.this nt something I felt or " some guy will start posting that did I do my statistic survey in the sauna and come with this crazy conclusion". it just that if u take any example with the iPhone apps scruff,85% are seeking chub 4 chub or muscular beefy guy seeking beefy or chub only.I am stocky muscular built but nt very big built type,and most chub that I like seems to like chub only.I just like to understand especially comment fr chub n beefy guy only on their view on this.I hve this theory and it fr a chub fren.they hve been rejected by slim n tone built guy,they only seek chub now.( again pls dun blast me for how I derive this assumption, I just hear view fr chub or chub couple,especially like chub who were slim n tone built once and they grew fat and they end up being a chaser themselves or were u in the beginning chub and hve always like chub guy only.I myself love chub,think their cute.I use to hve lean tone built when I was young and a chaser but now stocky built and still a chaser.if u go to chub nite in tenmen,u normally see chub going after chub or the beefy going after them.sometime I wish the sauna operator will hve a theme nite where it only chub or beefy guy seeking slim medium built guy only.(any sauna operator reading this may be can give it a thought so that people like us dun hve to fight with those beefy or chub guy seeking chub.like I say ,just hear the view fr chub couple or chub were u always hve been a chaser fr the begining?and thxs and dun blast me pls=========================Your post is a pain to read. Paragraphing it into sentences would help. Gachi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totoro69 Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 me 178/98 n i consider a chub myself (i guess) but i love guys who are lean fit / muscular/ or stocky... but definitely no chubs... so i guess i am an odd out off as far as this thread is concern? heehee! cheers! :thumb: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CuteChub Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Where got so many chubs love chubs..only a small portion i think, most chubs still prefer lean tone to hunk guys :whistle: personally i also prefer lean tone to hunk build stocky guys, 2 chubs together...no thanks too oily liao :yuk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Where got so many chubs love chubs..only a small portion i think...no thanks too oily liao :yuk:why need to be so serious about " so many "? you can't stop what people like to say, write & belief, so? don't always use own ruler to judge & look at thing, else only see what on surface only & not the fact, just go to the right crowd, the right person will appreciate what you are Chubbieboi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waterballoon Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well I agree, its hard for me as a chaser to find a chub, especially superchub. Even those on social website i.e. biggercity, etc most chubs prefered chubs.. Looking at this trend made me wonder whether I should become chub myself in order to attract a superchub. Well I used to be a slim chaser but now since working in office & been having much appetite than before, I've turn to minor cub.. so not sure whether its a good or bad thing. But if majority chubs seeking other chubs, then I would work my way to be a chub myself. Jus my 2 cents worth.ai yo so sad u became a minor cub.. lol if not i'd have talked to u!   "The two of us are living in the same era, believing in the same future Yesterday’s tears and today’s smiles will stay true We’ve experienced the same pain, we’ve gathered the same kindness And we’ll turn them into the strength to live on tomorrow"   progress - ayumi hamasaki  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iluvsuperchub Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well, from normal pple perspective.. they will still think i'm a chaser.. like i said, jus minor one.. btw are u superchub yrself?ai yo so sad u became a minor cub.. lol if not i'd have talked to u! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waterballoon Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 Well, from normal pple perspective.. they will still think i'm a chaser.. like i said, jus minor one.. btw are u superchub yrself?it depends on what superchub is to u   "The two of us are living in the same era, believing in the same future Yesterday’s tears and today’s smiles will stay true We’ve experienced the same pain, we’ve gathered the same kindness And we’ll turn them into the strength to live on tomorrow"   progress - ayumi hamasaki  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatguy Posted January 17, 2011 Report Share Posted January 17, 2011 form my personal experience...it's easy to find a long lasting relation if it's chub and chub... chub with slim fit hard lei.but it's my experience of being hurt. that's life. check me out and my interest... =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dimpboy Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 im average...i love chub... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kh87 Posted January 19, 2011 Report Share Posted January 19, 2011 lean and slim ppl no market rjgbt now ahhaaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IamChaser Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 where to find this guy?Wondering if 173 cm in height/93kg can be consider stocky/Baby Chub or what shud be classified in?From the looks of things, even when he is lying down, his stomach is still so big. It's definitely a super chub, without doubt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tony_chaser70 Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 And another observation,,I found,the beefy stocky guy like to hangout with their own beefy type or chub type.I am just stocky,so it very difficult to break into their market if u r nt chubby.it very common in Taiwan n japan and even in sin, they only hang out with their kinds n sometimes they can be quite arrogant n proud abt it.I know some guy with post here n say ppl hve their own preference, u like Ppl ,Ppl may nt like u n Ppl like u,u make nt like Ppl.as I say,my point is I just hear view fr chub who into chub,where u a chaser all the time ,even when u were slim n fit when young n when u became chub,,were u rejected and that y u turn to being chaser.I am always hve been a chaser.I do gt alot attention fr slim fit guy nt nt too bad looking too,,but those cute chubby guy always seems to like chub only.so that y ,I post to find out more fr chub only pls,their view, and referably chub reply only.thxs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wind Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 I am the opposite chub seeking non chub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EdBird Posted February 28, 2011 Report Share Posted February 28, 2011 ai yo so sad u became a minor cub.. lol if not i'd have talked to u!Ya i agreed to Waterballloon, if u are fit and nice i would be the chubby (chaser in Disguise) to come after u. Wahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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