Chub Discussion - Love & Relationship + Why Chub Seeks Chub? + How To Be A Chub? (Compiled)

[EdBird]

And another observation,,I found,the beefy stocky guy like to hangout with their own beefy type or chub type.I am just stocky,so it very difficult to break into their market if u r nt chubby.it very common in Taiwan n japan and even in sin, they only hang out with their kinds n sometimes they can be quite arrogant n proud abt it.I know some guy with post here n say ppl hve their own preference, u like Ppl ,Ppl may nt like u n Ppl like u,u make nt like Ppl.as I say,my point is I just hear view fr chub who into chub,where u a chaser all the time ,even when u were slim n fit when young n when u became chub,,were u rejected and that y u turn to being chaser.I am always hve been a chaser.I do gt alot attention fr slim fit guy nt nt too bad looking too,,but those cute chubby guy always seems to like chub only.so that y ,I post to find out more fr chub only pls,their view, and referably chub reply only.thxs

Hey this lot of chub out there waiting for u. I myself chub also looking for your type. just new the right timing and person to be together.

[Guest jayy]

Skinny types just don't do it for me. I'm chubby but I don't just go for chubs- I like the whole spectrum of guys on the fleshier/meatier side.

[Guest possible82]

skinny is lack of nutritions.

lean is naturally given by god.

fit is how you feel good.

stocky is slight overweight but as long you as healthy.

chub is just overweight but mean no harm.

fat is not healthy and must try to stay healthy.

Being Skinny or Fat is disgusting? That moron is indeed a moron cos he could be born by a fat mama or a fat papa. Think of your surrounding before you criticize human around you are old, fat, ugly short or anything harmful. You mouth should be nuah by now!

[Guest Look4mature]

Well my stats is 175/89. Chub/stocky/meaty? Depends on how you look at it but whatever the case is, definately not slim or beefy or musc.

All these years I like mature looks with moustach. Those typical fatherly looks. Body size, slim fit will be great.

But over the years, I learn to change my preferences towards body size for a simple reason. Those with good body size, most of them tends to be arrogant and have attitude problem (I'm referering to those that I have come across only). Most of the time, I get rejected.

Until some years later, I was approached by a mature uncle, he does look meaty/stocky. After having fun, I feel that meaty / stocky type seems quite comfortable to hug. This is how I started to like those meaty and stocky type. But not really into those chub yet. Coz those meaty stocky type seems quite friendly.

Nowadays, wheather the person are slim / meaty / stocky, I am pretty alrite as long as he looks mature without attitude.

[kumalova]

Just like to start this new discussion about y there so much more chub seeking chub or beefy seeking beefy guy only.this nt something I felt or " some guy will start posting that did I do my statistic survey in the sauna and come with this crazy conclusion". it just that if u take any example with the iPhone apps scruff,85% are seeking chub 4 chub or muscular beefy guy seeking beefy or chub only.I am stocky muscular built but nt very big built type,and most chub that I like seems to like chub only.

I just like to understand especially comment fr chub n beefy guy only on their view on this.I hve this theory and it fr a chub fren.they hve been rejected by slim n tone built guy,they only seek chub now.( again pls dun blast me for how I derive this assumption, I just hear view fr chub or chub couple,especially like chub who were slim n tone built once and they grew fat and they end up being a chaser themselves or were u in the beginning chub and hve always like chub guy only.

I myself love chub,think their cute.I use to hve lean tone built when I was young and a chaser but now stocky built and still a chaser.if u go to chub nite in tenmen,u normally see chub going after chub or the beefy going after them.sometime I wish the sauna operator will hve a theme nite where it only chub or beefy guy seeking slim medium built guy only.(any sauna operator reading this may be can give it a thought so that people like us dun hve to fight with those beefy or chub guy seeking chub.like I say ,just hear the view fr chub couple or chub were u always hve been a chaser fr the begining?and thxs and dun blast me pls

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Your post is a pain to read. Paragraphing it into sentences would help.

Gachi

wah you are very selfish leh. thats their preference eh. no need to be chub-like-slim-only nite.

as a chaser you should know that :

1. most of the bears like bears

2. chubs are getting cuter, and everyone loves cuties including chubs themselves, so no wonder there is an increasing of c4c population lols

3. why do you think Taiwan and Japan have a lot of C4C and asian bears? because theyre fcking cute and hot, and who can resist it? lols

yet, there will be always a market for ones kind

i believe that there are lot of chubs who like slims out there

[skylancer]

hmmm so many chubs comment on chasers sure can find the ideal chub...

My 2 cent thought is that: current tend is chub are going for more chub or similar build and the reason is eating preference.

(Sorry to all chub who have read my comment, but somehow it is true to me)

I also been requested by some of the chubs to ask me to beef up since i am fit and nice chest. (Isnt become more beefy or chubby?)

So, chasers, we might have a hard time looking for our ideal chub or bear or cub.. but don give up... As i also one of them who is still looking for the right chub.

[luke84]

hmmm so many chubs comment on chasers sure can find the ideal chub...

My 2 cent thought is that: current tend is chub are going for more chub or similar build and the reason is eating preference.

(Sorry to all chub who have read my comment, but somehow it is true to me)

I also been requested by some of the chubs to ask me to beef up since i am fit and nice chest. (Isnt become more beefy or chubby?)

So, chasers, we might have a hard time looking for our ideal chub or bear or cub.. but don give up... As i also one of them who is still looking for the right chub.

i sure hope your find your right chub.

i'm sure i'm under the category, 27chn 175 105.

To me what i feel is that most chaser likes to go for those bears/beefy type, and bear likes to chase chubs, and chubs like slimmer chaser... vicious cycle

[imchaser]

Generally chubs still prefer chasers. Only bears will prefer bears. Dont mix up chubs and bears please. Chubs who like chubs will label themselves as bears too even though they r not bears but chubs. Cos its a known fact that most bears like bears only.

Chubs are those that dont choose to be one, but bears choose and train themselves very hard to become a bear. Unless u train to become one, u can forget abt the bears. This is what i think.

[kumalova]

imchasers comment is the most accurate.

the common knowledge is bears like bears

so lot of asian c4c identify themselves as bears thou very smooth or no muscle but they are cute nonetheless, i dont mind :3

and those guys are probably the cutest because they know how to dress and present themselves as cuties or hotties

chub like slim on the other hand follow the general fashion not the bear fashion which for some doesnt really suit well reduce cuteness :3

lols

[waterballoon]

Ironically, I feel that... there's a really limited market for chubs seeking chasers. As in, a lot of chasers are already attached or something, and there's practically nothing left.

Also, I agree with imchaser that there is a difference between bears and chubs. Chubs are kinda like the flabby-fats kind.. which imo, is one of the least popular types of bodies around, even in the bear community.

[easy2read]

i am gym-fit stocky guy. i prefer someone who is pleasant to my eyes, so type of body built is not a criteria to me.

[Guest Guest]

What is the difference between a chub, bear and a cub?

[skylancer]

imchasers comment is the most accurate.

the common knowledge is bears like bears

so lot of asian c4c identify themselves as bears thou very smooth or no muscle but they are cute nonetheless, i dont mind :3

and those guys are probably the cutest because they know how to dress and present themselves as cuties or hotties

chub like slim on the other hand follow the general fashion not the bear fashion which for some doesnt really suit well reduce cuteness :3

lols

This part i quite agree with you.

That is also the reason why chasers got hard time.

And in SG market, like waterballoon mentioned, either party (chaser or chub or cub or bear) is attached or .... (do not want to commit due to work?)

But i also notice there is a tend where chaser 'labelled' themselves as chub due to they only have big tummy and thin legs & hand? That happened to me most of the time.

And i spend time explain the terms to them, in the end, they stil think they are chub... (faint)

So sad...

[isainho]

im a chaser seeking young flabby chubs, the bigger the better. its sad to hear that many chubs are attached and those singles are only after sex and not interested in ltr. it gives me a big headache.

[Guest Guest]

This topic is marketing talk ;p

[kumalova]

This part i quite agree with you.

That is also the reason why chasers got hard time.

And in SG market, like waterballoon mentioned, either party (chaser or chub or cub or bear) is attached or .... (do not want to commit due to work?)

But i also notice there is a tend where chaser 'labelled' themselves as chub due to they only have big tummy and thin legs & hand? That happened to me most of the time.

And i spend time explain the terms to them, in the end, they stil think they are chub... (faint)

So sad...

ah thats true those few good one are attached liao

This topic is marketing talk ;p

Guest win, this is actually about marketing talk

if got no market then move on

[GachiMuchi]

What is the difference between a chub, bear and a cub?

Here it is. http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=20808&st=0&p=207032&hl=+chub%20+gmen&fromsearch=1entry207032

[derryfawne]

I don't know. Why is there so many guy seeking guy. Do they get rejected by girls or something?

[chubblion]

i've realised that i'm gay like 7 years back, but i've never got into a relationship, let me say, i'm afraid.

I'm afraid of not going the right direction, i don't want to end up heartbroken or getting one gives in more than de other,

or vice versa.

Who doesn't want an ideal dude to be a boyfriend, yes, i'm petty at times. and i love lot of doting, i know for sure there will be some negative remarks against that,

but maybe it's all those idol drama show, that's the reason why i wanted to be treated like a "princess" and yes, im very contradicting most of the times,

i like my guy to dote on me, and i want our relationship to be exclusive, just like any teenage straight couple? So first question - is gay relationship very different from straight relationship?

i doesn't come from a very good family and i hearsay that many gay are either rich or middle class and above, well, so i doesn't want to be contradicted and to take as if i'm into money not relationship?

i don't fancy big rides or lush date, i want someone to be by my side watching movie and holding his arms, that's warmth - that's what i want. - is there any guys out there, that feel the same, we want the warmth not just the leisure?

well, i've met up guys who is only into sex, which is the least thing i want.

Let me be frank, many PLUs is into sex right? can't we just date like straight couples and sex is a latter mutual things? Is that even possible?

last thing, i'm a chub and sorry if i don't fall into the PLU mainstream, but is there anyone willing to give me a chance? much appreciated <3

[waterballoon]

I think the most important thing is that we have to know what "Reality" is. And the reality is that, chubs are in a lower class than the mainstream gays in the community. I think it's fair to even label us chubs as "abnormal".

All these talk about how relationships are about feel and not really about looks... sorry, I can't help but to laugh. Not that I'm disagreeing with it, but don't u think it's such a naive/idealistic thought? In this world, physical appearance IS important. If u happen to be someone who is physically undesirable (chub, ugly, both, etc), then forget it. No matter how "nice" u are, or how much u may click with someone else... it's not like he would know cos he wouldn't be bothered to approach u/reply to u.

And never mentioned in this thread, but I think it's disgusting how some people expect chubs to "settle down" for anyone who is interested in them; giving off the vibe that as a chub, u have 0 rights so u should be thankful that someone is interested in u and just go for him. What utter rubbish, it's not like we don't have our own preferences... my God.

Anyway, the only thing I can say is that being a chub ultimately leads to loneliness and u will never get a happy ending. The best thing to do is to slim down so ur more appealing. of course being slim/fit doesn't MEAN ur life will be happy forever or that u would get a bf, but we all know that ur chances of those increase by a 100000000x.

[mgb2144]

I think the most important thing is that we have to know what "Reality" is. And the reality is that, chubs are in a lower class than the mainstream gays in the community. I think it's fair to even label us chubs as "abnormal".

All these talk about how relationships are about feel and not really about looks... sorry, I can't help but to laugh. Not that I'm disagreeing with it, but don't u think it's such a naive/idealistic thought? In this world, physical appearance IS important. If u happen to be someone who is physically undesirable (chub, ugly, both, etc), then forget it. No matter how "nice" u are, or how much u may click with someone else... it's not like he would know cos he wouldn't be bothered to approach u/reply to u.

And never mentioned in this thread, but I think it's disgusting how some people expect chubs to "settle down" for anyone who is interested in them; giving off the vibe that as a chub, u have 0 rights so u should be thankful that someone is interested in u and just go for him. What utter rubbish, it's not like we don't have our own preferences... my God.

Anyway, the only thing I can say is that being a chub ultimately leads to loneliness and u will never get a happy ending. The best thing to do is to slim down so ur more appealing. of course being slim/fit doesn't MEAN ur life will be happy forever or that u would get a bf, but we all know that ur chances of those increase by a 100000000x.

Couldn't agree more save for the first sentence in the last paragraph. You want proof that chubs are outcasts? Plenty of them in BWF. Just take some time to read the main stream topics e.g. social nudity, Mac Ritchie Reservoir, cruisy pools or toilets, etc. Some fellow chubs just request to join in the fun but were totally ignored. Just reminded me of a scene where a small little girl was rejected by her classmates during a game.

Anyway, while we can't lose hope, we need to keep reality at check.

[look]

Just remember that, "The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment".

Agree. I might just add:

"The stronger the attachment to all things transient, the greater the suffering".

[analogous]

Here it is. http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=20808&st=0&p=207032&hl=+chub%20+gmen&fromsearch=1entry207032

I've never heard of yaro until now

[MisterPotter]

I like yaro, gmen, bear and chub.....A LOT

[MarriedTop]

I am bear, but i always dream of fit/muscular submit to me.

[boybelow]

Here it is. http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=20808&st=0&p=207032&hl=+chub%20+gmen&fromsearch=1entry207032

Thanks for this. Now I know I'm in between Yaro and Cub.

[Guest IamPineapple]

Thanks for this. Now I know I'm in between Yaro and Cub.

I guess i'm like you... between Yaro and Cub ? maybe a Hybrid ?

or maybe a Bear and Cub Hybrid... Hahahaha...

Anyway, prefer more to stock guy, as he will train with me to be fit like him dislike boney guys D:

Did some gym tho... but i am hairy

Edited August 13, 2011 by IamPineapple

[k999]

I'm superchub!

[Kei]

To all the chubs/bear out there, how do u gain weight ? do you go to the gym and huge intake at the same time ? can some of the chub/bear pls advise.

Edited September 9, 2011 by Kei

[Aspire]

Seriously... GET A LIFE! :yuk: Why become a chub? Enjoy what you have now lah bro.

Being a chub : -Fat and ugly.

-Sweat freaking lot, very discomfort(only to towards some)

-No matter how nice the shirt can be, you(chub) are just making it worst

-No one will ever ever look at you(unless in C&C places lah)

-No one will like to talk to you(same as the above)

-You cant really run, cant really move as fast

-Worst come to worst, your health is affected

Above example are just my example and my own opinion, not applied to all chubs. As for ur bear part, its just due to genes bah? you cant really train in gym for growth of hair wat? Except for ur muscles lor.

I really scare i insulted someone else out there, Sorry for being so rude and str8-forward

[Kei]

i am looking into training muscle and getting fat @ the same time. anyone got any suggestion on gaining weight/training portion, how they do it ?

Edited September 9, 2011 by Kei

[suckling_pig]

I really scare i insulted someone else out there,

The only person you insulted is yourself. From the way you write, do you really want people to think you are bigoted, uneducated and undiscerning?

Kei is only asking HOW to get chub. He is not asking your opinion on how demeaning being chub is to you.

Understand more, judge less.

Edited September 9, 2011 by suckling_pig

[Kei]

hey relax u 2, just trying to gain some info, chill guys :thumb:

[Guest Guest]

wtf, people are cutting down weight not only for looks (magazines dun have fat people as their models GROSS) and also for health reasons , and u wanting to be fat? GET A LIFE

[juggy]

some people say skinny fat is gross

some people say lean/toned is gross

some people say big muscular is gross

some people say chub is gross

so which one need to get a life?

@Kei: easiest way to gain weight (and fat, if you want) is to eat a lot more beef

[waterballoon]

just eat a lot of nice food. cos nice food = fattening food. stack up on ur junk food like potato chips... have fast food for ur 3 meals. hahaa sharing my "personal experience" here

[Kei]

hi jugg, i cant take beef... so i guess thats out...

hi balloon, yea i tried x1 fastfood a day, it did help me, do i work out at the same time ?

[Guest Anoy]

Agree with the guy who thinks chubs are gross -ps you're not the only normal one here. Please don't intentionally gain weight in terms of fat. Its really just gross.

[waterballoon]

hi balloon, yea i tried x1 fastfood a day, it did help me, do i work out at the same time ?

work out? lol. do u even know what a chub is?

in accordance to society's perception, a chub is an overweight guy who's just fat. more often not, he doesn't have the habit of working out.

i dunno what is it that u want to be exactly cos u obviously aren't very clear. do u wanna be fat, or to be bigger/bulkier? there's a humongous (pun unintended) difference between the two ya.

[Kei]

muscular bear

does age really matters in gaining weight ? metabolism tends to slow down as u grow older, hence ur intake without exercising will make you grow fat?

Edited September 9, 2011 by Kei

[PaterTenebrarum]

JUst eat a lot, really. And dont exercise.

But your blood pressure, cholesterol level and blood sugar level may take a toll.

[imchaser]

If u want to gain weight, maybe u can try weight gainer powder drink sold in gnc. Its expensive and no i have not tried it so i cant tell u how effective it is.

Seriously... GET A LIFE! :yuk: Why become a chub? Being a chub :

-Fat and ugly.

-No one will ever ever look at you(unless in C&C places lah)

-No one will like to talk to you(same as the above)

As for ur bear part, its just due to genes bah? you cant really train in gym for growth of hair wat? Except for ur muscles lor.

Its not the chub factor its the face. I mean with a face like yours, chub or slim u will still be gross and no one will pay attention to u.

And also please establish the fact that in asia, bears doesnt necessary mean hairs, most of the time it meant the body size.

[suckling_pig]

muscular bear

does age really matters in gaining weight ? metabolism tends to slow down as u grow older, hence ur intake without exercising will make you grow fat?

Yes, from observation metabolism changes more about 35 to 40. Do you notice how middle age men tend to be a little broader than a younger age group? Personally the link between bulk and age is the reasons why uncle chasers can sometimes go for a younger man, but only if he is meaty.

[justgymguy]

Hi Kei, I'm just curious. why do you want to be a chub? or stocky for that matter, Any particular reasons? You like a guy who is into chub/stocky and you are not?

Seriously, my advise is not to get chub if you can. cos it is very damaging to your health. problems will arise by the time you hit 40... and if you want to cut back by then, you need to work triply hard.

I just find it strange that is all. cos here I am trying to lose weight/fat and there you are trying to gain them. I wish we can just push a few buttons and have my fats transfers over to you in a matter of seconds. haha.

[juggy]

hi jugg, i cant take beef... so i guess thats out...

hi balloon, yea i tried x1 fastfood a day, it did help me, do i work out at the same time ?

shoot... eat a lot of chicken and carbs then like rice, potato, pasta, bread, etc

to gain weight you just have to eat A LOT and eat many times like 5 meals per day

workout at the same time will make you look better coz you'll gain muscle too

if you're thinking of taking supplements, please don't buy at GNC, it's Guaranteed Never Cheap

[GachiMuchi]

The perception for chubs in the local gay circle, which I have come to know are never positive. Unless the group you are with likes chubs and you enjoy hanging around them and are comfortable with them, then by all means, build yourself to be a chub.

Before you go down that route, I think you should ask those chubs why they like to be chub and let them tells you the benefits of being a chub and you see for yourself which sides do you intend to go after gathering more info.

Personally, I've come across friends who wished they were not chub and they told me that they gets lots of nick names and were being criticised for just being chubby / fat, etc. Moreover, the health issues they have, like hypertension, high cholesterol, etc. are rather perplexing for them. Not forgetting the disappearing cock syndrome they suffer because with every inch they gain, the fat at the groin will cover their dick. Personally, I've seen it in the sauna, while showering with a chub, that his dick was almost buried by a layer of fats.

Well, to each his own and everyone will have their own market, slim, hunks, chubs, etc. At the end of the day, you have to live with the choices you make.

Oh, to be a bear you have to have the fur factor. Without it, you are a chub.

[Chub71]

Seriously... GET A LIFE! :yuk: Why become a chub? Enjoy what you have now lah bro.

Being a chub : -Fat and ugly.

-Sweat freaking lot, very discomfort(only to towards some)

-No matter how nice the shirt can be, you(chub) are just making it worst

-No one will ever ever look at you(unless in C&C places lah)

-No one will like to talk to you(same as the above)

-You cant really run, cant really move as fast

-Worst come to worst, your health is affected

Above example are just my example and my own opinion, not applied to all chubs. As for ur bear part, its just due to genes bah? you cant really train in gym for growth of hair wat? Except for ur muscles lor.

I really scare i insulted someone else out there, Sorry for being so rude and str8-forward

Aspire, would you like to challenge me in some sports? I'll like show you if I can move faster than you or you can move faster than me. I'm not insulted by you but just want to prove to you that you have lots of misconception about chubby persons. I'll take you on in swimming, tennis, cycling and badminton if you like. Take your pick. You prefer sprinting 100m? Choose your strongest sport please.

Just want to know where you got your misconception that chubby people are outcast of the society from? Many people talk to me everyday from hunks to normal people. Yes i may perspire alot but i keep myself fresh and smelling good better than many people. There are nice clothing and if you combine it with your skin tone you can still look nice even if you are chub.

You are 19 and you have such bias perceptions of people whom you think are not within your mainstream interest. I seriously wonder what you'll become after you reached 30. So i await your reply for that challenge and please don't chicken out and apologize that you are wrong. I am 40 but i will not even ask for any handicap. I will invite many chubs and hunks to witness this event to support your above claims. Awaiting your prompt reply.

[jzlookin]

im gaining weight, and mass cos i like bears :>

not the hairy part, but the big cuddly part.. and yeah imchaser is right, most impt is the face. the build's more of a bonus.

[Kei]

Hi Kei, I'm just curious. why do you want to be a chub? or stocky for that matter, Any particular reasons? You like a guy who is into chub/stocky and you are not?

Seriously, my advise is not to get chub if you can. cos it is very damaging to your health. problems will arise by the time you hit 40... and if you want to cut back by then, you need to work triply hard.

I just find it strange that is all. cos here I am trying to lose weight/fat and there you are trying to gain them. I wish we can just push a few buttons and have my fats transfers over to you in a matter of seconds. haha.

Thats what my friends told me also, if only fats could be transferred...ha !

shoot... eat a lot of chicken and carbs then like rice, potato, pasta, bread, etc

to gain weight you just have to eat A LOT and eat many times like 5 meals per day

workout at the same time will make you look better coz you'll gain muscle too

if you're thinking of taking supplements, please don't buy at GNC, it's Guaranteed Never Cheap

hi juggy, i dont think i'm hitting 5-6 meals a day, i just intake a lot of carbo per meal and drink protein shakes(from nutrifirst) when i work out.

anyone would like to share their bulking diet ?

[suckling_pig]

Kei,

Its not just amount of carbo, it is also the timing of the carbo intake in relation to sleep. The closer you eat your meals to your bed time, the easier the food is converted to fat. Sumo wrestlers use this fact quite alot; they eat heavy meals then take a nap. You might also want to eat your dinners earlier or have earlier bed time too.