Guest Single Man Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 What To Do For A Single Man This ChristmasSuggestion please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 1. Be thankful for yourself.2.Go to a nice restaurant or explore a new one for lunch/brunch.3.Go window shopping and list down the things u desire for boxing day (thye nxt day)4.Take a walk in the park, bring some food to feed the fishesLast but not least, look for another single gay man/men to spend the day with you (strictly platonic) I wish you lots of luv, goodness & joy this Christmas to last for another year! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurio_boy Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 Read a good book and curl up in bed. This is especially nice when the weather has been cold and wet... Ahh I miss my bed already... ;P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DefyingMyGravitY Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 This like the same thread for xmas last yr~~for me...i should be enjoying my freedom doing wadever i wan this xmas~~spending alot of my time this 2 weeks on work and buying presents for others....this xmas will be spending on myself.....shopping , reading, movie or massage ~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 i like the 5th suggestion of "Guest"'s , organize something for all the "singles" plsthough 1st suggestion is indeed true, dont be fussy... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest theOthertruth Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4iCPewExEho&feature=related Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 bring your family out for a meal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 Watch "A Single Man". Lol. Gonzo and sum1outhere_03 2 Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 Masturbate until faint. "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 i won't want to be alone on christmas, will be spending time my darling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 i won't want to be alone on christmas, will be spending time my darlingi mean with my darling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamer Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 you can always spend quality time with your family/friends cmon... there's more to life than spending xmas with a partner i should be having dinner with my family... my friends are mostly overseas. as for late night activities... i like to leave that open haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leoven003 Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 (edited) What to do for a single man this christmas? Stay single! Whoever said that christmas cant be spent alone should just go and ..... jump into a well. Theres nothing wrong with strolling around town on christmas alone or curling up in bed all day ordering McDonalds breakfast and pizza for lunch/dinner or watching FRIENDS (the series) and russell peters on christmas alone and theres really nothing wrong with staring at a white wall for ten hours (okay thats a bit retarded). Point is, be happy and grateful for the little things you have in life. Forgive enemies, forget grudges afterall isnt that what christmas is all about. Brooding over being alone only ruins the mood... So cheers, have an awesome time:) Edited December 23, 2011 by leoven003 mike_amk and sum1outhere_03 2 So What's Your Apocalypse Game Plan? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 LeovenNothin wrong w movie/ eating alone etc, its bettr indeed!But pp want a change, wanted somethg new for a lovely xmas, ok? sum1outhere_03 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leoven003 Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) Leoven Nothin wrong w movie/ eating alone etc, its bettr indeed! But pp want a change, wanted somethg new for a lovely xmas, ok? Right, true that, all im saying is that sometimes thinking about being alone too much just makes you less happy. But of course, i understand:) Edited December 23, 2011 by leoven003 So What's Your Apocalypse Game Plan? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) i mean with my darling ... of all the mean-spirited, selfish, imbecilic, supercilious things to say. But I've taken my meds and am in a good mood today, so I'll just pretend it was your incontinent cunt farting. Oh, sorry, I don't have to pretend. Peace, bitch, and my condolences to your darling.On with our regular programming and ignore the smell of fish.Well, Single Guy, spend it with family, spend it with friends or enjoy quality me-time. The close of the year is a time for hope, to finally rest for the year and let go of all the bad vibes from the past months. You know best how to spend it, because you know best what you enjoy doing most. Edited December 23, 2011 by Mercutio gamcubmelb 1 Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Julian Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 On Christmas eve, I will buy home - a bottle of red wine & a Log cake, stay home to watch my latest Blu-ray movie collection -- Harry Potter Part 1 - 8. k999 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BitchyMercutio Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 ... of all the mean-spirited, selfish, imbecilic, supercilious things to say. But I've taken my meds and am in a good mood today, so I'll just pretend it was your incontinent cunt farting. Oh, sorry, I don't have to pretend. Peace, bitch, and my condolences to your darling.On with our regular programming and ignore the smell of fish.You are a real bitch with or without meds! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ironrod Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Play "Star Wars: The Old Republic" by Bioware the latest MMO - if u have no friends to invite u to any Christmas partyIf u are broke and can't play monthly subscriptions then I suggest u1) Go jog, swim and start a routine so maybe u will become hot after a while so next Christmas u won't be alone.2) Organize a party - make it a potluck - so everyone bring food and u just provide a place .....which u can eat for free too and make lots of friends3) If (1) and (2) both not an option - then take the holiday period think abt your life and how you can improve it without a partner. lovehandle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imchaser Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Well, Single Guy, spend it with family, spend it with friends or enjoy quality me-time. The close of the year is a time for hope, to finally rest for the year and let go of all the bad vibes from the past months. You know best how to spend it, because you know best what you enjoy doing most. Obviously if he wants or got family and friends to spend Xmas with, the thread starter wouldnt have created this thread. What a silly suggestions. Volunteering for the underwear association for third world countries. Please donate your used underwear to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blacque Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Bake yourself a Christmas logcake.Decorate your own Christmas tree at home and take a photo with it.Join in a Christmas caroling group at town.Stand under a mistletoe and wait for a miracle to happen Instagram: vodkabaker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Obviously if he wants or got family and friends to spend Xmas with, the thread starter wouldnt have created this thread. What a silly suggestions.LOL yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jayy Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Play "Star Wars: The Old Republic" by Bioware the latest MMO - if u have no friends to invite u to any Christmas partyWow. I'm actually playing this too, lol. But currently locked out, waiting for my collectors' ed box to ship over.On-topic: If you're not seeing anyone, why not hook up with someone and get laid? ;p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercutio Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) Obviously if he wants or got family and friends to spend Xmas with, the thread starter wouldnt have created this thread. What a silly suggestions.Thank you, I was wondering how long before a member would say something. To all good folk, apologies for the outburst at a time of goodwill. I had a point to make, which differs from the obvious but secondary point of the subject of the outburst..My point is, that if I as a member am ill tempered or ill behaved, I bear the consequences and others thereafter know me to be of such character and treat me accordingly.Not so for our "dear" guests, who in three consecutive days, have to my knowledge begged for housing, sneaked adverts for sex into the Main, uttered insults, displayed pomposity, jumped to conclusions and, as usual, when unable to carry a debate resorted to character assassination. This is not to say members won't do the same, but there is I believe in general more restraint they exercise or else they face consequences from the rest of the community (QED, though imchaser, could you not have been more cutting, disappointing).Mods: I understand BW's original objective in allowing guest postings, but that concession is clearly more abused than used. Consider that the married guests sneaking personals into the Main have no compunction against publishing their personal emails. How is allowing them to sign on as guests affording them safe harbour any more?TS: my apologies for borrowing your thread as my soapbox. Not knowing you from Adam, I feel any suggestion i make will sound as lame as a tourist guidebook blurb. But as I have disabused your thread, I hope that i'll be forgiven by this offer to come by my place for i guess tea, cake and company of the sort that's not funny business, if you're so inclined and have naught else to do (damn now I have to buy tea - I only have the long island iced sort). I haven't plans yet other than lunch, but do let me know in advance by PM or email (it's on my profile). Be careful though - it is not necessarily a kindness that I'm offering...P.S. To BitchyMercutio: Your name is an exercise in redundancy. I did not choose "Mercutio" as my name in BW because "Friar Lawrence" and "Juliet" had been taken. In fact, I hope to cultivate a reputation for being irascible, so as to deter irritants from trying to stab with the intellectual equivalent of nail clippers. Edited December 23, 2011 by Mercutio Mercurio sacris fertur Boebeidos Undis virgineum Brimo composuisse latus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fe5000 Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 this year i go around taking pictures of christmas trees everywhere and upload to my collection.sounds like old hag company her cats 只不过只是... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 laze at home with a cuppa hot chocolate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schmuckisms Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 Here's a handful I can list out for Christmas/New Years'/Festive Holiday When Your Friends Can't Be Bothered To Save Your Ass :- chatroulette with booze, preferably topless but masked and dancing to Numa Numa- read 1Q84 or equally convoluted literature- listen to sad music and loathe self-existence- troll BW as a guest (I think someone did that a few posts above)- take up complex origami and knitting- Little Britain- reinstall Windows and clean your PC- do the same for the house (especially since you're ahem, single and probably messy)- weights (empty gym if it's open lololol)- Tumblr, Twitter, and if these 2 run out, Listgeeks- pills (there's absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping off a horrid day amirite)But here's my take: you can't really save Christmas by having good/full/fun use of your time. It's one of that darned festivities where family comes before friends, and you'll likely have no one-but family to celebrate with and that shit certainly sucks hard. Speaking personally, the only acceptable way I found to celebrate Christmas/NYE alone (after these few years) without being in thick-skinned pretense was to really recount the people who've been really significant to me through the year, and try to remember them as they are, a certain sort of closure before the years change. Also because we don't celebrate Thanksgiving, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 think about 2012! Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 attend a orgy. lovehandle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blissfull Posted December 23, 2011 Report Share Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) Go to a club to pick up someone for Christmas sex. Edited December 23, 2011 by Impere "Well, I didn't know it would come to this but that's what happens when you're on your own." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marad44 Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 Get a gift that suits your zodiac: http://www.pier1.com/TopMenu/GetInspired/ZodiacGifts/tabid/891/Default.aspx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest one suggestion Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 reach out to help other lonely folks (e.g. other gays, other straight or gay elderly persons at old folks' home or their homes) lovehandle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 That s a gd one, pls do it... Single man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 Just treat it like any other normal day lor. Nothing wrong of being single and alone on christmas lah. 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolkai Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 Christmas is just another day. It is good for the commercial sectors to make more money from the people. So there is no need to feel depress or sorry to be alone on Christmas. If you have money, you can have Christmas everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuzzy Posted December 24, 2011 Report Share Posted December 24, 2011 Watch Miracle on 34th Street and then read "The Night before Christmas"before going to bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evianguy Posted December 27, 2011 Report Share Posted December 27, 2011 Eve - Bought myself a gift or two (something extravagant which I would not normally have indulged) and drew an nice bath and watched downloaded episodes of my favorite sitcom whilst enjoying my bath. Xmas - visited parents house and went out to lunch with them. Spent the afternoon at a local sauna and the evening playing mmorpg.Boxing - woke at noon, gummed and lunch near the gym, shopped at sales, came home to rest up for today. Grab a free 2GB cloud storage https://www.dropbox.com/referrals/AAAJnehBHgoOOjc5L-VZWsZTCvvaieR0P2c?src=global9 Play DC Heroes & Villains! https://dcheroesandvillains.page.link/V9ZwnTv7So74AFGEA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 28, 2011 Report Share Posted December 28, 2011 was it crowded at the sauna?Evian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evianguy Posted December 28, 2011 Report Share Posted December 28, 2011 was it crowded at the sauna?EvianNormal weekend afternoon crowd, maybe a few more ppl Grab a free 2GB cloud storage https://www.dropbox.com/referrals/AAAJnehBHgoOOjc5L-VZWsZTCvvaieR0P2c?src=global9 Play DC Heroes & Villains! https://dcheroesandvillains.page.link/V9ZwnTv7So74AFGEA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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