Guest Sigh87 Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Hello fellow blowingwind-ers (: It's me Sigh87 i hope my name rings a bell to some of you all here.Dear All , I have some troubling matters well it's isn't the blonde hair guy thing . 2 months ago i dated this guy and i loved him a lot and he seems to be that kind of " Play hard to get " okay i even cried for him before and now when i think back what i have did i find it so Stupid .Suddenly he texted me and normally in the past i would feel very excited happy BUT now strangely.I don't feel anything at all .Rather i hope that he don't text me anymore. Strange isn't it ? I used to love/like him so much but things/feeling changes so fast Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qez Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 It's normal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Lol sorry I don't remember any sigh87 haha >___<Anyways it's just normal.. You has a crush... You thought it was love... Love is not like energy.. It can be created and destroyed... Sometimes these messed up stuff happens... It shows you have moved on... But apparently you hate him lol. Don't... Don't like the love you once had for him turn to hate... Turn it into friendship instead... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rozaymc Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Thats just a crush I guess. If you truly love someone, the feeling will linger in your heart even if you have broken up/not met years ago. I still have feelings for my ex. Sigh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SuanLum Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 It's just a crush. I understand the feeling. You think about the person 24/7 and it disrupts your daily live. However if you are just an option and not his priority I think you should cut off all connection and move on. You deserve better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 It's just a crush. I understand the feeling. You think about the person 24/7 and it disrupts your daily live. However if you are just an option and not his priority I think you should cut off all connection and move on. You deserve better!I agree...But it's not that easy.. When you at this stage.. You think that just talking to him will hopefully bring him closer and maybe it will blossom into love... It's hard to let go...Trust me I know.. I just had to let this guy go for the very reason you just said... It's sofxxking hard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Move on lo.Reply back with a "Wassup".It's not gonna cost ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 I KNOW I KNOW.I feel the same!!You just like the process of chasing someone. How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SuanLum Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 I agree...But it's not that easy.. When you at this stage.. You think that just talking to him will hopefully bring him closer and maybe it will blossom into love... It's hard to let go...Trust me I know.. I just had to let this guy go for the very reason you just said... It's sofxxking hardSame here but we can't survive on false hopes and empty promises. Close friends helped me during this lousy phase of my life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sigh87 Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Thats just a crush I guess. If you truly love someone, the feeling will linger in your heart even if you have broken up/not met years ago. I still have feelings for my ex. SighI agree with you . Maybe thats not love but crush instead.You're dam right . If you truly love someone, the feeling will linger in your heart even if you have broken up/not met years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sigh87 Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 I KNOW I KNOW.I feel the same!!You just like the process of chasing someone.EXACTLY. The feeling i had for him last time is like the process of chasing someone!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Hello fellow blowingwind-ers (: It's me Sigh87 i hope my name rings a bell to some of you all here.Dear All ,I have some troubling matters well it's isn't the blonde hair guy thing .2 months ago i dated this guy and i loved him a lot and he seems to be that kind of " Play hard to get " okay i even cried for him before and now when i think back what i have did i find it so Stupid .Suddenly he texted me and normally in the past i would feel very excited happy BUT now strangely.I don't feel anything at all .Rather i hope that he don't text me anymore.Strange isn't it ? I used to love/like him so much but things/feeling changes so fastNow you dun love him anymore and so no need to cry for him. Go open a bottle of champagne to celebrate. So, what's your problem here?????? you want to cry over him again? è´± ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 It's a gay going thru a 'woman-in-love' process. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 To #1:I did crazy and stupid stuffs for him. E.g. I tot of coming out to my family for him and I deliberately applied for jobs that are near his house @ Duxton (Somehow, his 'god' gave him so much power over me). He was the one who approached me initially (which I gave him some attitude), dated me for swims and after some months, he gradually gave me cold shoulder and keep reminding me that he is a very busy & stressed teacher. Besides marking, he needs time with his family, church and dog. But it was too late as I had already fall for him and so I believed him. To date, I still believe him.I went through the same pain you had and I took more than a year to recover and regain my true spirit. Fate loves to tease us and made both of us cross paths many times, but I have learnt to isolate this pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silentword Posted August 31, 2012 Report Share Posted August 31, 2012 Thats just a crush I guess. If you truly love someone, the feeling will linger in your heart even if you have broken up/not met years ago. I still have feelings for my ex. SighThis I can empathize with. Strange that we can't set aside people who has long cast us out of their lives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted September 1, 2012 Report Share Posted September 1, 2012 When it is not cultivated, it just fades away on its own. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peace56 Posted September 1, 2012 Report Share Posted September 1, 2012 it's a circle of life. You love, hate and reminisce! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest veteranAJ Posted September 1, 2012 Report Share Posted September 1, 2012 Oooh, this time I'm telling you, I'm telling youWe are never ever ever getting back togetherWe are never ever ever getting back togetherYou go talk to your friends talkTo my friends talk to meBut we are never ever ever ever getting back togetherLike ever... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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