oxfordy Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 just broke up with my ex, a 16 months relationship.i tweeted indirectly,"maybe to you, i'm just another boy who walked by."he indirectly replied,"If you are just another boy who passed by, we won't have lasted this long."How should i reply? Ideas please :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RelaxZen Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Best is control your own feeling and leave the tweet as it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 I do concur with RelaxZen, but nobody can tell you what to do - or not to. It's only natural to feel the lingering sense to belong after a break up.I've actually read your other thread, and it seems to me that neither of you are willing to land the axe. Although I am not a fan of such a breakup method, maybe leaving things as it is and drifting apart isn't such a bad idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lyra Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 yeah, no replies on social media, please.Relationship matters should be kept between the two of you. Don't air it cos friends may get involved or dragged into the drama - it can get unnecessarily messy, and also make you appear bitter and emotionally immature.Having said that, his reply is thoughtful. If my ex said that to me, I would be so f..king happy to have had the relationship with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel_dust Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 yeah, no replies on social media, please.Relationship matters should be kept between the two of you. Don't air it cos friends may get involved or dragged into the drama - it can get unnecessarily messy, and also make you appear bitter and emotionally immature.Well said. Coincidentally, i received a whatsapp message from him just two hours ago, got me thinking and reminiscing a bit. Just stay level-headed and move on, remember, no expectation means no disappointment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gongtang Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 If he replies, means the relationship havent end yet. Try salvaging it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Lols... This is nothing compared to what me and Alexandre did the past few weeks LOLS... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Glyph Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Lols... This is nothing compared to what me and Alexandre did the past few weeks LOLS...Honestly, how much more insensitive can you get? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Honestly, how much more insensitive can you get?Lol way more just FYI...Honestly it's pretty obvious both of you arent over each other... Maybe just trying talking things through... Maybe the relationship is worth salvaging.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanxian1990 Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Gosh... A 16 month relationship...From what I'm reading here, I feel that there is still room to salvage your relationship. Both of you must have put in a lot, mentally, emotionally, physically into this relationship and (I believe) cant bear to let it part. Calm yourself down, go through all the reasoning rationally and decide if being single is what you really want. If being single is the way to go, make a promise to yourself to not think about him as a bf anymore, curb your raging emotions when it flares up, divert those negative energy away and let time perform it's magic. If you guys want to patch up, ask him out for a talk over dinner, talk things out, sound him out to know what he feels. If there is a fault line, this is a good chance to mend it and move on, learning your past lesson by hard. From then, decide your next move if he's really the right one for you.The above is what I'm thinking when I went through your post. I hope the best for you and you will not regret the decision that you have made / already made. 50shades 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malcolmmalcolm Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Woah, that's really long but I'm curious to know why you break up with him. 'm definitely not in the position to know why unless you're willing to share your story.If you still have feelings, salvage the relationship. If you don't. Just leave it as it is. If he doesn't want you back, there's plenty of guys waiting for you out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 Depend on what is the reason...... Quote Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Flyby Posted September 20, 2012 Report Share Posted September 20, 2012 If there's first time, there will have second time... Move on. Even if you guys are back together again, the feeling would be different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted September 21, 2012 Report Share Posted September 21, 2012 Still a friend?Forgive.Not a friend?Unfollow. Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest region Posted September 21, 2012 Report Share Posted September 21, 2012 Still a friend?Forgive.Not a friend?Unfollow.I should forgive right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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