Guest GUEST Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 The past was which come first chicken or the eggs? This time was Home first or BF first? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jon Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Home. They remain with you and with cost. BF unable to confirm for a long time but with a running cost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 my friend think likewise ,say he is already attached to a guy , Home can built together at a later stage. Mean while still renting room.So is Bf first Home later, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sg gay Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Home first. I'm not the type that will complain having no bf. I prefer to play around and have gay friends before settling down with a guy I like. At the same time,in the process, I work hard to earn money to buy my home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wesley Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Once again it depends on what your defenition of a bf is. If you are waiting past the age of 35 yrs to get into a reationship with a significant other than you might find it difficult.Hopefully you have done all you experimenting, ONS and learned form your mistakes by 35. Oh well, to each his own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 By the time you're 35 and own a HDB, all you can get is a sugarboy who's eyeing your will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 By the time you're 35 and own a HDB, all you can get is a sugarboy who's eyeing your will.find someone around your own age lor, sugarboy only meant to have sex with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 im watching the ch8 show now and the myanmar national (acted by lina ng) said 'i just need to slog hard for 2 years in sg and i can go back to myanmar and buy a house.' the sporean (acted by kym ng) said 'i slog hard my whole life and i wont even be able to afford a toilet !' :wacko: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 find someone around your own age lor, sugarboy only meant to have sex with. When 35, other 35s will have their own apartment also.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 When 35, other 35s will have their own apartment also.. thats good what, both dun have to depend on each other, can do alot more things together with their money, no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allyremen Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Why must decide which comes first? Surely can multitask! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Both may not arrive if you don't let your brain come first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 A house first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GUEST Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 wow Raiden Alpha u eyeing for a house. (sentosa cove) u must be earning 5 figure to buy a house in Singapore. are u the humble guy that drive a japanese car that stay at sentosa cove with yr parents? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 wow Raiden Alpha u eyeing for a house. (sentosa cove) u must be earning 5 figure to buy a house in Singapore. are u the humble guy that drive a japanese car that stay at sentosa cove with yr parents?Ok a flat then u happy now? Have a nice evening bye bye. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Home first, then BF. After I got a home, then I can built a nice home with my BF. :oops: Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 I have a bf before and frankly speaking its more bcos of pressure then cos everyone ard me were attached or were getting attached then, not tt i truly love him. Yes i know its stupid, its not fair for him and we couldnt really get along after awhile. Furthermore i was still having identity issues of being gay and relationship was becoming a hassle in addition to other issues. Im also the type that like to do things myself and dun have to be dependent so i broke up with him. I focus much more on my own goals so i feel that i will only want to get a bf when im ready and relationship does not have to be rushed at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Both can own own flat. Me bf n I own our own flat. Wkend I stay w him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiSquare Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Errr I do not see the relation between 2. Can't we handle it concurrently? SoSonni 1 ~Say also Never Listen, Listen also Never Understand, Never Understand also Never Ask, Ask also Never Do, Do also Do Wrongly, Do Wrongly also Never Admit, Admit also Never Correct, Correct also Not Happy, Not Happy also Never Say~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Errr I do not see the relation between 2. Can't we handle it concurrently? yes we should. It's always fd to have a property of your own Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 Errr I do not see the relation between 2. Can't we handle it concurrently? different folks, different strokes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 House first if u can afford to buy one. Owning a house of ur own is so much more secure than other things. 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 They are not mutually exclusive. U can have both at the same time. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 (edited) My own flat. Then I can house some cats. :3 Edited May 27, 2013 by darkflame I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 I guess for me....a bf first. Cause right now, I can afford to buy a flat but I rather stay with my parents now to save up with the cost of living rather than to use my $$$ to buy a flat now. If I have a steady bf then, I would consider buying it so that both of us can have our own privacy and the comfort of staying together under one roof. I dun really mean just having a mere bf to make me set my decision in buying the flat but it really must be coming from a real steady partner that I think can go much further together in time to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 I guess for me....a bf first. Cause right now, I can afford to buy a flat but I rather stay with my parents now to save up with the cost of living rather than to use my $$$ to buy a flat now. how old are you? you look like 20 plus only, can afford a flat already? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted May 27, 2013 Report Share Posted May 27, 2013 how old are you? you look like 20 plus only, can afford a flat already? Thanks.....but I have posted on "Single Gay Men Becoming Grouchy Spinster Uncle", for a reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoSonni Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I was so confused scrolling down this page until finally I saw a few posting what I thought was obvious from the start. A flat and a boyfriend are not mutually exclusive. Instagram | @sodamnsonniTwitter | @sosonni Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 no need to be confused or what.circumstances are different for everyone so some people will not understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstc82 Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I guess for me....a bf first. Cause right now, I can afford to buy a flat but I rather stay with my parents now to save up with the cost of living rather than to use my $$$ to buy a flat now.If I have a steady bf then, I would consider buying it so that both of us can have our own privacy and the comfort of staying together under one roof.I dun really mean just having a mere bf to make me set my decision in buying the flat but it really must be coming from a real steady partner that I think can go much further together in time to come. if u r abv 35, advice u to get the flat for singles. Or buy resale. Prices of Hdb will not fall. It's always a gd choice to buy your own property. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GUEST Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Hydronaut i thought u already reach 40, How come u still staying with yr parents?wat happen to yr last boy boy BF? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 Hydronaut i thought u already reach 40, How come u still staying with yr parents?wat happen to yr last boy boy BF? I have been single for more than 2years liao lah.... Staying with parents is good, it save you a lot of chores and expenditure lah, not that I dun want to stay on my own but I dun see the need until I am attached lor. Happily single right now. Hmmm.... do I know you by the way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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