Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Initially I couldn't cum while fucking my bf and I would usually penetrate for a while, jerk myself closer than cum in him. Also, I couldn't cum when he jerked me off. After some time, perhaps with practice, I could cum in him without jerking myself off and he would be able to stroke me until I cum. Then we got into a busy period and we did not meet up at all for about 2 months. Then now, we are back to square one again. The only way I can cum is when I jerk myself until I am close enough before he finishes me off. Any solution? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 bf never meet up for two months, interesting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkiedark Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 hmm... at first I thought might be ur penis is not very sensitive. My ex also not sensitive one, I never successfully jerk him off. He needs to jerkoff himself, and I can see that he will need quite some effort to get off.For you, if it gets better with practice issit because you too nervous? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Let your bf f u till u cum. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 You're not turned on by him are you? If not it wouldn't be as hard. Or you could simply re-evaluate what turns you on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethhost Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Mean you can fxxk long without jerk off? I suppose this is something good? So you both can have a long session. Glasses guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Compulsivexhibitionist Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 You have retarded ejaculation. Srs. Check it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest 123 Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 It may be purely physical, physiological, psychological, a combination of them, or all of them. It really is hard to determine without complete information. Did you ever have any physical blows to your nether region?Is this the first intimate (sexual) relationship you ever had? If not, how was your sexual intercourse with your previous partners?Do you feel anxious while performing sexual acts with your partner or did you have any fleeting thoughts that may had invoked some anxiety or fear?Are you on any medication or drugs that has side effects? Just a guess from my end:For you to be posting such a post, it seems evident that you care for this relationship and has deep concerns on the sexual performance you have with your partner. In addition, you mentioned after a period of time together, sexual interactions were successful in that your partner was able to bring you to ejaculation without your interference. All in all, you seem to have placed undue pressure on yourself during the act itself through the fear of not being to be brought to ejaculation by your partner. If this is true, then it may be possible that you've thoughts along the lines of "I want to cum" or "I must cum" while penetrating or being jerked by your partner. However, the above is definitely speculative and it might be as Compulsivexhibitionist mentioned, a physical condition. In any case, if it bothers you a lot, you can seek professional assistance or guidance. All the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest oo Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 The only way I can cum is when I jerk myself until I am close enough before he finishes me off. Any solution?This is sign that you love and find your hands sexier more than your bf. lolxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kinkygym Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 time to find a new bf ,,, maybe .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 You may be inside him but you are not into him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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