Guest hot gay Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 i know many gay friends started out as ons or f buddies before becoming close friends. those in a clique, they also have sexual experiences with each other before. some also have the thoughts but never ask cos their friends are attached. and then there are NSA fun secretly behind doors. some friends never become close friends at all though they can get along well. cos one party is sexually interested but the other party is not. i myself have alot of such cases - want to develop sincere 'brotherhood' friendship but they wanted something more. those that are not sexually interested in each other, they are just normal friends. so is it possible? no make up stories pls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melvinlam90 Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 yes, it is possible. First hand experience:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterscotch Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I get along very well with a few gay friends as well, considered close. No sexual agendas or tension or unrequited feelings whatsoever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slayen Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I think it's very possible. Here's to us, Here's to love, All the times that we messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gpfun Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Same here. I have some very close gay friends (with some that I have known them for decade). We will meet up for chat, dinner and exchange points of views. Nothing sexual on these dates, though they do appeal to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Lol you should change your title to 'are we able to be close friends with HOT guys w/o any sexual thought or sex' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pokemonrulz Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I do have a few people in my life whom I believe are genuine friends, and who have no sexual intentions. As for myself, though I might feel attraction in that certain way, I would prefer to respect these people and not see them as a 'fun possibility'. I think I would find greater pleasure in that kind of friendly relationship. merlinkun 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Not easy if you are sexually attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gongtang Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 yes for me, my childhood friends for 7 years. and I also do have a bunch of "sisters" mixture of girls and guys. actually being with "sisters" is way more fun. we can laugh like crazy until our cheek muscles all tired Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Anything is possible. When you have your sexual needs fulfilled somewhere else or said person is not attractive,bonds/friendships are formed without the temptation factor. Another silly question answered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 When you have your sexual needs fulfilled somewhere else or said person is not attractive,bonds/friendships are formed without the temptation factor.Another silly question answered.Not silly at all....Like the TS said, if not attractive theres friendship but not necessarily will be closeThere a reason why in some gay cliques u see all of them are quite attractive, no offence but some shameless will be like oh i just wanna be frenz with you but have thoughts of wanting to get into your pants.Anw i have some close gay bros whom we hv sex last time but not anymore....think we are even closer than others....i think its ok as long as you dun be a bitch and sleep with others bfs behind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mareshka Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Possible...I have one for a lil over a decade already...he's a Godsent...appreciate his presence and love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwei Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I dont think any close friends should be used this way ... awkward much schmuckisms 1 Fattie bom bom walk down the street Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumaNova Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 can, if you really treat them as close buddy, sex won't come into ur mind. .......Inner Peace....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 I believe it is possible to be friends with anyone regardless of sexual orientation or desire. I dunno, I just find it weird to think about having sex with a close friend. Like what illuma said, treasure your friends and treat them as such and other thoughts won't come. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 It is possible but they don't come along very often. I have a BFF who I got to know from another friend. He's one of my lecture mate for a particular lecture. Both of us are attached and not sexually interested in one another whatsoever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 28, 2013 Report Share Posted May 28, 2013 Know what the TS is trying to say....theres a diff between acquaintances, friends and bro-like gd friends.Normally bro-like gd friends develop only if they get to know each other well. Prob is, some gays look at ur face first before wanting to get to know you better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 I have some really close gay friends and always there for me when i needed them. Most importantly, its from the heart and nothing sexual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 For me, if you i know a person too well (no matter how handsome cute hunk he is), I will not have the desire to have sex with him. You will not sex with your own brother, right?! I know of someone who have done that before ...... errrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mijsdlog Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 Yes. I have at least 2 gay bros with whom I can talk about almost anything, and we haven't slept with each other nor do we plan to. I would consider them attractive but, no, never felt the urge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samdiggin Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 i think it is..its all in the friendzone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Closeted_jock Posted May 29, 2013 Report Share Posted May 29, 2013 Never think of having sex with your godbro. The dynamics will change after that.There's no way to have NSA sex unless it's an ONS (which I do not advocate). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AyeMHappi Posted May 30, 2013 Report Share Posted May 30, 2013 Definitely possible. Sex is not the only thing that binds friends together, you know. So just be free , just be yourself. Nobody can be the way you are.Not ready for another relationship. Just live life and be happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nissan123 Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 Well I think its possible. I have a close friend in poly where we share a bond even though our interests and hobbies differ. We often get together and I would say more than a friend, less than a lover. Nothing sexual Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowRay Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 There is nothing sexual involved between you and your straight close friends/bros isn't it? Definitely possible with gay friends too. You don't have to have sex with every gay guy you come across. thickpecs 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 I have a few friends in the community where we are purely platonic. It's the same thing for how some boys and girls can be best friends. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bombermanner2 Posted June 2, 2013 Report Share Posted June 2, 2013 I have a few friends in the community where we are purely platonic.It's the same thing for how some boys and girls can be best friends.No way for a boy n a girl to be best friend without having either of the extreme ends. Either become together or parted in a bad end.My case was the second..and its proven at 3 separate occasions. SianzzzIts easier to be good friend/buddy with a guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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