gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 is there a link to feeling more btm when one gets more muscular? do you find that many really muscular guys tend to be more btm? EthC and qedcwc 2
overture Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 do u think so? i thought it was inverse: the more muscular a dude gets the more he would want to top
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 do u think so? i thought it was inverse: the more muscular a dude gets the more he would want to topi used to think like u do....until......
NielKlient Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 is there a link to feeling more btm when one gets more muscular? do you find that many really muscular guys tend to be more btm? I guess that's because last time not much btms gym.But now every guy is gymming. Top, Btm, Flex, Str8 etc. So I wouldn't say that muscular guys tend to be more btm.They just happen to be btm who became muscular.
overture Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 i'm assuming from ur profile picture that u've definitely grown to be the more muscular type. are u having those reverse sentiments?
darkflame Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Depends on the reason why guys get muscular. If he wants to get guys to worship him and let them do all the work, getting muscular will make him stand out as a btm.If he just wants to be able to do better positions, getting muscular is important too. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 i'm assuming from ur profile picture that u've definitely grown to be the more muscular type. are u having those reverse sentiments? kinda..Depends on the reason why guys get muscular. If he wants to get guys to worship him and let them do all the work, getting muscular will make him stand out as a btm.If he just wants to be able to do better positions, getting muscular is important too.wha do u mean by ''able to do better ositions?''
Guest toshi Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 It is strange that you bring this up.I often think the same too. But as a gymmer, I tend to want to be a btm. It is almost the same theory as a big arrogant boss want to be submissive to a dominatrix.And I guess there's also the pleasure we get from pain.
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 It is strange that you bring this up.I often think the same too. But as a gymmer, I tend to want to be a btm. It is almost the same theory as a big arrogant boss want to be submissive to a dominatrix.And I guess there's also the pleasure we get from pain. reversal of power?
Guest yaan Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I got to know of quite a number of JC / poly super muscular dragon boat guys who are happy to btm. It has got nothing with the szie of their dicks either. Some are big while others are small.
Sporty81 Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I guess it's subjective. I've seen tops just averagely build. Whereas bottoms are muscular types. trumpboyer86 1
darkflame Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Reversal of power is one good concept.Well, to reference from BDSM, some subs are actually men of power and some doms are just ordinary laymen.If we relate it back to this topic, having muscles can be interpreted as a sign of power in real life so a fantasy to be just fucked can develop as a result. kinda..wha do u mean by ''able to do better ositions?'' Sex positions. Some positions are not easy to do without use of strong muscles. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 i know a few bodybuilders who can btm some people think that because one is muscular, he should be dominant and thus should always be a top. this may be further away from the truth. while a muscular guy can still top, he may now derive more thrills from being btm. imagine being aggressive training with heavy weights and pushing to his physical limits for endless hours in the gym, is'n't it relaxing now to take a back seat and just relax being a btm? if the next time you approach a muscled guy with proposal for him to fuck you and you get a lukewarm response from him, it could be because he is yearning to be btm and dominated. so try the opposite strategy. dom him! it may just works.
darkflame Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I met some muscular guys who insisted they were top, but indeed sometimes they do want to take a backseat.So even if the muscular guy was a top, he could be looking for a power bottom to dom him! I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 I met some muscular guys who insisted they were top, but indeed sometimes they do want to take a backseat.So even if the muscular guy was a top, he could be looking for a power bottom to dom him!i absolutely agree.if you know some bodybuilders, you will realise most of them are rather soft spoken, gentle and quiet in nature. whereas smaller sized peope may tend to be louder and agressive to assert themselves and compensate for what they dont have in physical stature compared to a bodybuilder. muscled guys can get a bit tired of playing the dominant role and needs a break. ditto for the scene in bed
Guest Theprince Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Nothing is hotter than a muscular bottom. I have had quite a few and it is amazing.
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Nothing is hotter than a muscular bottom. I have had quite a few and it is amazing.why is it amazing?
Guest Theprince Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I am not sure how to describe it actually. The experience of having a tight hard muscular body under your control is a different feeling.
Respell19 Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 is there a link to feeling more btm when one gets more muscular? do you find that many really muscular guys tend to be more btm? are you?
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 I am not sure how to describe it actually. The experience of having a tight hard muscular body under your control is a different feeling.so you feel powerfulare you?at times
zwei Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I thinm top btm flex all wants to be muscular now Fattie bom bom walk down the street
Angelix Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I am not sure how to describe it actually. The experience of having a tight hard muscular body under your control is a different feeling. I agree. I love it more if my partner is both muscular and mature. I always like the idea of topping this group of people because it gives me a sense of empowerment. liam 1 http://instagram.com/franciscwh90/
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Angelix, i will empower you then Angelix 1
studdyboy Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Angelix, i will empower you thenHehe~ I wanna join in too damn kinky toFuck a muscular btm
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Hmmm I think I need to buy insurance for my ass first
Angelix Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 Hmmm I think I need to buy insurance for my ass first No worries, I'll try to treat it with care but no promises. http://instagram.com/franciscwh90/
grimreaper Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 I personally don't see any correlation. Bottoms can come in any shape or size (at least from the ones I know), it's just the fitter ones get laid more (and even that is a generalisation). At the end of the day, just do (or fuck) whatever makes you happy.
TheVisitors Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 TS, please speak for yourself please don't generalize for the rest that when people become more muscular, they tend to become more bottom you are giving the wrong signals Its you who wants to be more bottom as you become more muscular
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Thevisitors, i am not asserting not generalising that this is true. I am just asking as I seem to feel and notice myself. Members here are matured enough to decide for themselves and form their own opinions.
SeannyShortcake Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 The stronger and more muscular I become,the more dominating I wanna be. So I guess it doesn't apply to me I agree with the statements that btms come in all shapes and sizes.Perhaps you thought that training up would make you not wanna be btm but paper can't cover fire you know?
TheVisitors Posted January 30, 2014 Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) Thevisitors, i am not asserting not generalising that this is true. I am just asking as I seem to feel and notice myself. Members here are matured enough to decide for themselves and form their own opinions.Notice from yourself, or feeling about yourself?Tops and btms comes from all age, shapes and sizes. Not really on how they look like. You don't really need a change of lifestyle based and decided by your physical look. You are what you are. You need what you already need That's a very mature question you are asking Edited January 30, 2014 by TheVisitors
gymrat Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Notice from yourself, or feeling about yourself?Tops and btms comes from all age, shapes and sizes. Not really on how they look like. You don't really need a change of lifestyle based and decided by your physical look. You are what you are. You need what you already need That's a very mature question you are askingi feel about myself and notice others plus feedbacks from muscle btms themsevles
Guest Theprince Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 So gym rat, when can I have you "under" me? Lol
TheVisitors Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 i feel about myself and notice others plus feedbacks from muscle btms themsevlesHeemm... interesting. And I too notice you and the others, as you become more muscular, you feel more btm. Then may I frankly ask....then have you guys being taking too much stuff for your body building, that it aromatising ? Now that maybe with excess testosterone aromatising to estrogen,,,,you feel and behave differently about yourself
bombermanner2 Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 from the chat room or grindr or jackd, the more fit he is, the more btm he tends to be.not complaining, always good...hahahha
navyblue Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 from the chat room or grindr or jackd, the more fit he is, the more btm he tends to be.not complaining, always good...hahahhaNo wonder I am still a top
alien Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Muscular means likely to be btm? Then how abt non muscular guys n skinny guys? Wht r they? 对自己好是一种幸福， 对别人好是一种积福。 Spend time counting your blessings, not airing your complaints.
Jimmy Lee Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 hmm i don't think there's any correlation between one's body type and what they like in bed.a person's muscularity only shows their lifestyle? whether they choose to or like to exercise?
Guest Raiden Alpha Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 (edited) @TsLooking at the present circumstance/phenomena to draw a conclusion on what it was suppose to be is a flawed observation.From the very start when one start to do something he/she is already taking the first step toward the destination/outcome they want subconsciously/consciously.It is already too late when the journey or action is already form up and then pass the outcome to a specific current condition one is seeing or experiencing.It go way earlier than that. Edited February 3, 2014 by Raiden Alpha
shannon_emmanuel Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 I think muscular btms r hot! Dun tink there's a correlation... Buffing up is just a trend these days haha.
HydroNaut Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Heemm... interesting. And I too notice you and the others, as you become more muscular, you feel more btm. Then may I frankly ask....then have you guys being taking too much stuff for your body building, that it aromatising ? Now that maybe with excess testosterone aromatising to estrogen,,,,you feel and behave differently about yourself Interesting, we shared the same sentiments. I was going to say maybe those that went through intensive training to bulk up and taking too much supplements might just cause some reactions to your hormonal genetics. That might explain why many muscled guys are turning btms, whereas not all muscled guys are bottoms.
bluerunner Posted February 4, 2014 Posted February 4, 2014 Interesting, we shared the same sentiments. I was going to say maybe those that went through intensive training to bulk up and taking too much supplements might just cause some reactions to your hormonal genetics. That might explain why many muscled guys are turning btms, whereas not all muscled guys are bottoms. Personally, I m unsure if this behaviour is due to supplement intake or not. I have the same thinking and observation that there seems to have more bottoms with a muscular/nice body. Perhaps I m wrong.
HydroNaut Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 (edited) Personally, I m unsure if this behaviour is due to supplement intake or not. I have the same thinking and observation that there seems to have more bottoms with a muscular/nice body. Perhaps I m wrong. Well, the same logic goes to the young guys born in the late 80s and 90s....I noticed that they are more endowed (bigger dicks), then my friends always commented that maybe the milk powder they taking in nowadays are too much vitamins enriched so naturally grown more blessed. Edited February 5, 2014 by HydroNaut
swimtoned Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 is there a link to feeling more btm when one gets more muscular? do you find that many really muscular guys tend to be more btm?I think it depends on individuals. But I do know of a few tops, muscular ones who turned btm or flex after some time. They tried being a bottom to experience new pleasure. Some like it some do not. I always believed being a btm enjoy more physically than a top.
swimtoned Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 Well, the same logic goes to the young guys born in the late 80s and 90s....I noticed that they are more endowed (bigger dicks), then my friends always commented that maybe the milk powder they taking in nowadays are too much vitamins enriched so naturally grown more blessed. I think the young guys eat too much chicken rice. Too much injected hormones. Lol.
HydroNaut Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 I think the young guys eat too much chicken rice. Too much injected hormones. Lol. So it proves to say one thing.... "We are what we eat", maybe this might ease TS queries why more muscle guys are turning bottoms.
bluerunner Posted February 5, 2014 Posted February 5, 2014 So it proves to say one thing.... "We are what we eat", maybe this might ease TS queries why more muscle guys are turning bottoms.Thumbs up!!
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