I Just Love Sex...

[Guest Guest]

I am a bi who likes to to fuck girls as much as fucking guys and be fucked by guys. The issue I have is that I have not been able to find a guy who likes to fuck and be fucked. I find that most are either top or bottom even if they tell you they are flexible. To satisfy my sexual needs, I am having relationship with three partners at the same time, my gf, a top and a bottom. I split my time among the three of them during the week, some days especially the weekend I could be visiting the gf in the morning and the top or bottom at night. This way I get to make passionate love to the girl friend and when I am horny for someone to fuck me hard, I go to my bf who is a top. Lucky all three of them are pretty independent and that all have their own condo so I can go from one place to another. They don't know I am seeing the other two and they all think that I am only with them. I am a busy career person so are they, so they don't expect to see me all the time and they are happy with having sex with me like 3 times a week. My sex drive is so high that I need it everyday, and sometimes twice a day so this arrangement is perfect for me.

I don't think I am selfish since I can't get satisfaction from just one of them, so I found myself two others. I don't play around with anyone else outside as I don't need to. I am posting not to brag but to find out if there are others like me around.

[The.Intrv.]

I'm no believer, may Lord help you.

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

@Ts

You actually do not need advice.

What you need is TIME.

Because your current lifestyle cannot be sustain on a long term basis. Once your libido drop,partners move on and your body fail you due to ageing you will be force to re-evaluate your life commitments and mindset.

By then a whole new chapter in life will be reveal before you.

Life has different phases,you just haven't reach the next one yet that's all.

[GuyForBuddy&Companion]

You are definitely Not alone.

There are others out there.

[lovehandle]

Yah i felt there are some of such outthere...but i do agree that many flex who said they are "flex" are in fact, btms purely

[abang]

You do have a high sex drive and you ensure you work yourself to the max.

I may be one of the few who CAN live off sex with others for a long period of time (say 2 to 3 months).

Of course, if I feel the urge, I can always rely on my steady right hand....

[junxiang]

I am a bi who likes to to fuck girls as much as fucking guys and be fucked by guys. The issue I have is that I have not been able to find a guy who likes to fuck and be fucked. I find that most are either top or bottom even if they tell you they are flexible. To satisfy my sexual needs, I am having relationship with three partners at the same time, my gf, a top and a bottom. I split my time among the three of them during the week, some days especially the weekend I could be visiting the gf in the morning and the top or bottom at night. This way I get to make passionate love to the girl friend and when I am horny for someone to fuck me hard, I go to my bf who is a top. Lucky all three of them are pretty independent and that all have their own condo so I can go from one place to another. They don't know I am seeing the other two and they all think that I am only with them. I am a busy career person so are they, so they don't expect to see me all the time and they are happy with having sex with me like 3 times a week. My sex drive is so high that I need it everyday, and sometimes twice a day so this arrangement is perfect for me.

I don't think I am selfish since I can't get satisfaction from just one of them, so I found myself two others. I don't play around with anyone else outside as I don't need to. I am posting not to brag but to find out if there are others like me around.

In my own opinion, you simply have too much time on your side.

 

Just as RA mention, this are just temporary, just a passing stage of life. If you or any of your partner got a new project or busy with other stuff, this urge will naturally give way to them.

 

I used to have as many as 3 appointments on the same day, just happens that time, place and opportunity all happens at the correct time. But if every day, I also die. Need to have a life also right.

 

Remember when I was in my food business and really dam busy, dun even have enough time to sleep, not to mention the thought of lust. Can go for more than 6 months without anything. Sometimes, attempt to DIY also ended up falling asleep halfway. Can still recall dating my buddy at the former Queens near Amoy Street at 3am before I start work. This guy was enjoying his time topping me until he realised I fell asleep.lol.

 

Even if u got time on your side, doing it so often with someone with lust and no love, how long it takes before you got bored of each other? 

Edited March 17, 2014 by junxiang

[Guest guest]

Hi,

 

Well, base on how you describe the kind of activities that you do with your 1 GF and 2 BF (Top and bottom). And I am not judging you, this is my personal opinion.

 

But rationally speaking, they are all just your regular Sex buddies. What you have with them is only lust. But if you insist that you love them, then what you are doing to them now, is what we call cheating and unfaithful. Most probably you wont stop having sex with them only. And you enjoying what you are doing now to them.

 

Maybe you can share with us what is your definition of love and do you plan to get married with your current GF ? Of course only if you want to share. 

 

Thanks for sharing... and I find it quite amusing.....

 

 

[junxiang]

Hi,

 

Well, base on how you describe the kind of activities that you do with your 1 GF and 2 BF (Top and bottom). And I am not judging you, this is my personal opinion.

 

But rationally speaking, they are all just your regular Sex buddies. What you have with them is only lust. But if you insist that you love them, then what you are doing to them now, is what we call cheating and unfaithful. Most probably you wont stop having sex with them only. And you enjoying what you are doing now to them.

 

Maybe you can share with us what is your definition of love and do you plan to get married with your current GF ? Of course only if you want to share. 

 

Thanks for sharing... and I find it quite amusing.....

I think all the time, TS never talk about love, just the need for sex and more channel to satisfy his multiple sex needs.

 

btw TS, why the need for a GF and a bottom? both also fuck them right? or to u the difference is really that distinct?

[Guest Guest]

I think all the time, TS never talk about love, just the need for sex and more channel to satisfy his multiple sex needs.

btw TS, why the need for a GF and a bottom? both also fuck them right? or to u the difference is really that distinct?

They are my friends with benefits, so I won't call any of it love. I do like them and they like me too I am sure. As to why a gf and a bottom, isn't it obvious? Gf won't do backside.....and sometimes I do like the tightness of the ass and holding on to a muscled lean toned body than playing with soft tits. And yet other times I love to have my dick in between her boobs to JO....which a guy can't offer. My secret wish is to have 3-some with my gf and one if the guys and with both guys......that may take some time to organize as I don't think my gf is up to the challenge at this stage. Anyway, I love sex, lots of it, in so many different ways and I don't get tired possibly because of the varieties I currently enjoy.

[SeannyShortcake]

Sounds like a good deal.

 

Hope this works out for you.

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

TS basically have hoard mentality.

Like a person who have a htc,Samsung and iphone and still not enough and still hanker for more.

This is the effect of consumerism and materialism taking hold of people in all aspects of their life and they are not aware of it.

Only by knowing the source of the desire can one cut it off.

More doesn't necessarily bring more happiness to people in fact it weigh them down and give them troubles.

Learn to let go and streamline your life/inventory so you can breathe easier.

This is how one treat himself kindly.

-善待自己-

[Guest Raiden Alpha]

They are my friends with benefits, so I won't call any of it love. I do like them and they like me too I am sure. As to why a gf and a bottom, isn't it obvious? Gf won't do backside.....and sometimes I do like the tightness of the ass and holding on to a muscled lean toned body than playing with soft tits. And yet other times I love to have my dick in between her boobs to JO....which a guy can't offer. My secret wish is to have 3-some with my gf and one if the guys and with both guys......that may take some time to organize as I don't think my gf is up to the challenge at this stage. Anyway, I love sex, lots of it, in so many different ways and I don't get tired possibly because of the varieties I currently enjoy.

You enjoy the different life experience in life.

你渴望体验情欲世界的五味人生？

No wrong in that as life is a journey of learning and experiencing and some people are naturally more curious and incline to explore everything that life have to offer.

Just always bear in mind the hidden pitfalls and problems that entail along with it so you can enjoy it but manage to avoid the pitfalls.

[darkiedark]

Well. Technically u can just do it with just 1 girl.

1) You can still f*** the girl in her pussy.

2) You can still do anal sex with her (if that's what you are looking for in gay sex.)

3) She can wear those strap on cock and f*** you like a btm too.

3-in-1

[Guest guest]

They are my friends with benefits, so I won't call any of it love. I do like them and they like me too I am sure. As to why a gf and a bottom, isn't it obvious? Gf won't do backside.....and sometimes I do like the tightness of the ass and holding on to a muscled lean toned body than playing with soft tits. And yet other times I love to have my dick in between her boobs to JO....which a guy can't offer. My secret wish is to have 3-some with my gf and one if the guys and with both guys......that may take some time to organize as I don't think my gf is up to the challenge at this stage. Anyway, I love sex, lots of it, in so many different ways and I don't get tired possibly because of the varieties I currently enjoy.

 

I sense a tone of Bragging from you here to show all of us how great is your sex life and how boring most of our sex life is.

 

So you trying to organize the Orgies of your sexual fantasy. Does the mean you will try to manipulate and convince them to participate in your game of sex but at the same you don't want them to know you are cheating all of them at the same time ? And also at the same time you want all of them to love you the same way even after you satisfy your lust ?

 

I suggest you try to test water. Tell one of them the truth what you have been doing behind their back and see how they react. So just in case is a negative reaction, you only lose one of your "Lover" instead of all 3 of them.

[Guest Guest]

the GF is to justify and validate that he is straight and mainstream.

the bottom is to pretend that some men are actually women - like a 'halfway house'

the top is truly what he likes.

It's the coffee 3-in-1 mix, you have everything at your convenience and life is great!

I pity the GF and the Btm for they dun know his rocket is being 'recycled'.

Actually you are wrong - I didn't have Gf to show people that I am straight and mainstream. I really do enjoy the sex with her in all aspects...believe it or not I actually love to lick the pussy and feel the clitoris grow. Insert your finger into the pussy and you can feel the rough patch/g-spot actually swell with intense licking. Of course it drives her absolutely crazy. The main difference with a guy is we don't have multiple orgasm unlike the females.....and there is a lot of satisfaction to bring a girl to multiple orgasm.

Top isn't what I like most either as I much prefer to fuck. Of my three sex buddies, I think my Top is probably the least happy with me as he said I don't moan and wriggle like what he expects from a bottom. Lucky he is not as highly sex as I am and he is quite happy with cuddling, kissing, 69 and a quick penetration session with me.

[thorzguy]

Good that you found what interest you (all possible usage of your frontal and back. Lol).

 

I do think you have lots of time. At times, I do not even have time for proper lunch and have to eat while on the roads (except for these few days or so when I am off work for something else).

 

If you feel you are way too much sex, then you may wish to consult a doctor. Else, just continue, be safe and enjoy!

Edited March 17, 2014 by thorzguy

[Guest Guest]

How long have you had these three relationships?

I cheated on my gf for 3 years with a guy,kind of similar to your arrangement where I alternate between their places. Only difference is he knew and she did not. She knew of him as my friend that I hang out with but not the relationship.

Everything was fine until he wanted more of me after three years. When I was forced to choose between the two, I chose the girl. I have now been married for 10 years. My sex drive has subsided over the years too so I am fine with sex with wife or DIY. Have to say that I do miss sex with guys but have so far been able to stay faithful to the marriage.

[FirsTimer]

wah so true! ^.^

[Guest Guest]

wah so true! ^.^

What is so true?

[trevorcantona]

How long have you had these three relationships?

I cheated on my gf for 3 years with a guy,kind of similar to your arrangement where I alternate between their places. Only difference is he knew and she did not. She knew of him as my friend that I hang out with but not the relationship.

Everything was fine until he wanted more of me after three years. When I was forced to choose between the two, I chose the girl. I have now been married for 10 years. My sex drive has subsided over the years too so I am fine with sex with wife or DIY. Have to say that I do miss sex with guys but have so far been able to stay faithful to the marriage.

 

that is why, gay guys should NEVER EVER date a bi guy. enough said.

[asian777]

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Edited March 10, 2015 by asian777

[Guest guest]

that is why, gay guys should NEVER EVER date a bi guy. enough said.

 

I cannot agreed more. Most of the Bi or Married guy they would not be serious with another man for relationship. They are just out to have fun. Therefore no need to be too honest to them as they always has something to hide from you. They expect you to be honest and sincere to them but they would not do the same to you. Just enjoy the sex with them and no need to share too much of your life with them as in the end they will not be there for you when you need them. 

[Blacque]

What is so true?

 

Yah lor what's so true?

[guestvisitor]

" that is why, gay guys should NEVER EVER date a bi guy. enough said."

 

 

I am bi , I am fine with both

Edited March 19, 2014 by guestvisitor

[snowball]

I cannot agreed more. Most of the Bi or Married guy they would not be serious with another man for relationship. They are just out to have fun. Therefore no need to be too honest to them as they always has something to hide from you. They expect you to be honest and sincere to them but they would not do the same to you. Just enjoy the sex with them and no need to share too much of your life with them as in the end they will not be there for you when you need them.

yes , most bi are , but think again , most gay are not sincere , faithful , and honest too ,

is all about fate , there are some surely having sweet and happy relationship with bi or married guys ,

we can't deny this fact , look around us , gay relationship , how many can last for long ?

[trevorcantona]

" that is why, gay guys should NEVER EVER date a bi guy. enough said."

 

 

I am bi , I am fine with both

 

but you cant guarantee that when you decide to have a family or wanna have a kid, you will not tell your gay lover to fuck off and leave him for a bitch to bear you some si ginna! 

 

yes , most bi are , but think again , most gay are not sincere , faithful , and honest too ,

is all about fate , there are some surely having sweet and happy relationship with bi or married guys ,

we can't deny this fact , look around us , gay relationship , how many can last for long ?

 

how bi guys turn str8 or remain gay? that is the problem. if they turn str8 and have kids/family, that is when they screw their gay lovers twice over. 

of cos anybody can be honest or dishonest but ONLY bi guys have the capability to dump their gay lovers cos they wanna have a "normal" family or kids...

that is the crux of the problem.

[Guest milehiboi]

I guess objectively speaking if the bi guy is up front with what they want. I.e. NOT a long term relationship, and wants to be with a girl, I don't see why that should be a problem no?

[trevorcantona]

if the bi guys can be honest and up front bout it (i dun think tat is the case most of the time), then obviously the gay guy must be aware that he is only in it as a STR. but bi guys are usually damn scared bout revealing themselves, cos they will get married next time and they wan ppl to gossip bout which other guys, they have slept with, which means they are definitely, most likely, not gonna either 1) be honest or 2)let the other party know what they are up to.

 

so if you are aj, and you are dating a bi, you need to be mindful of this most likely scenario. that you could be the 3rd party of a happy str8 family.

[Guest Guest]

gay can dump his gay lover when he found someone better too

[trevorcantona]

at least the reason is not something fucking lame like i wanna have a family, a kid or i have a sudden craving for vaginas.

[Guest guest]

gay can dump his gay lover when he found someone better too

 

 That's true. But we are saying that Bi guy tend to be dishonest when he is with another Gay guy or even Straight girl. Just like the Bi guy who started this post. He cheated his so call GF, 2 BF and later say that they are just "Friends with Benefit".

[Guest]

Well I envy your 3 people deal. It would at best remain a fantasy for me

[abang]

It used to be that Versatile gets the best of both worlds...

Now, we know that bisexual is the last man standing and laughing.

TS can have all the sex he wants and only has one (official) moral obligations..

The other two are simply wham-bang-thank you-sir..

Always be SAFE..

[EasleyLim]

 That's true. But we are saying that Bi guy tend to be dishonest when he is with another Gay guy or even Straight girl. Just like the Bi guy who started this post. He cheated his so call GF, 2 BF and later say that they are just "Friends with Benefit".

 

Given the context, I think he used the term "bf" pretty loosely. It could be said that what he really meant was Fuck Buddy.

[Guest Guest]

Unless you are a monk or nun, I think everyone's weakest point is sex, so everyone cheats their partner in one way or another. Watching porn and DIY is a form of cheating because you are fantasizing someone else when you seek sexual pleasure. How many of you JO thinking of your wife or bf or gf or partner?

TS is just one lucky guy and he is smart enough to know what he wants and how to get it. I envy him too!

[Guest Guest]

Wow...can't believe I find someone like TS! I was like him when I was younger. Also 3 relationships with a gf and two bfs for similar reason. This arrangement lasted almost 10 years until the gf moved on to migrate overseas. We still keep in touch via FB. She is now married with kids. I couldn't find another gf like her for many years as most were clingy and wanted security after sex. So I ended up having many ONSs with girls for many years while continuing the relationship with the two guys, who never ever asked for more. My sex drive is still high and I now seek satisfaction from mainly ONSs with guys and women. I do feel lonely at times as now I don't have someone to hug in bed till the next morning. So, TS, the time will come when you find yourself alone, so enjoy while you can.

[abeagle]

It used to be that Versatile gets the best of both worlds...

Now, we know that bisexual is the last man standing and laughing.

TS can have all the sex he wants and only has one (official) moral obligations..

The other two are simply wham-bang-thank you-sir..

Always be SAFE..

Quite an update on common knowledge indeed..

TS, while I can understand your sexual appetite but what about the emotional front?

Surely it must be frustrating to know that you are ultimately using 3 others to fulfill your own primal needs while staying non-committal and untruthful to all? Before considering how unreasonable it is to them, don't you find doing this a base, sad way to live?

Well, I suppose at least you're sticking w them and not indulging in rampant ONS WHILE attached like some people I know.

[joshTWjosh]

I am a bi who likes to to fuck girls as much as fucking guys and be fucked by guys. The issue I have is that I have not been able to find a guy who likes to fuck and be fucked. I find that most are either top or bottom even if they tell you they are flexible. To satisfy my sexual needs, I am having relationship with three partners at the same time, my gf, a top and a bottom. I split my time among the three of them during the week, some days especially the weekend I could be visiting the gf in the morning and the top or bottom at night. This way I get to make passionate love to the girl friend and when I am horny for someone to fuck me hard, I go to my bf who is a top. Lucky all three of them are pretty independent and that all have their own condo so I can go from one place to another. They don't know I am seeing the other two and they all think that I am only with them. I am a busy career person so are they, so they don't expect to see me all the time and they are happy with having sex with me like 3 times a week. My sex drive is so high that I need it everyday, and sometimes twice a day so this arrangement is perfect for me.

I don't think I am selfish since I can't get satisfaction from just one of them, so I found myself two others. I don't play around with anyone else outside as I don't need to. I am posting not to brag but to find out if there are others like me around.

I *used* to have a top and a bottom but it got very tiring eventually I slowly stopped seeing one of them altogether. I don't know how you manage to handle all 3 lol. Clap clap clap.

[snowball]

i know many who have very high sex drive, beside meeting sex buddies outside and having sex with bf, they still go sauna at least 3X a week, i think is ok as long it wont affect your life and health

[+Allen]

For me, I am married but like to fuck guys too. I am upfront in letting guys know that we are fuck buddies and can only be buddies.

If they are looking for a serious relationship, then it's something which I am not prepared to give.

So it is important to get this clear from the beginning, else it may get complicated later.

As for TS handling a girl, a top AND a bottom on a weekly basis..  wow.
I can't even manage work and other social obligations, let alone trying to fit in 3 other sexual obligations.

More powe to u, man.

[HydroNaut]

Sound to me, you are truly versatile.

 

Can imagine you....sitting on the toilet bowl biting on a big charsiew bao in one hand, urinating and shitting at the same time. Kowtow...

[razz669]

@Ts

You actually do not need advice.

What you need is TIME.

Because your current lifestyle cannot be sustain on a long term basis. Once your libido drop,partners move on and your body fail you due to ageing you will be force to re-evaluate your life commitments and mindset.

By then a whole new chapter in life will be reveal before you.

Life has different phases,you just haven't reach the next one yet that's all.

I don't read anywhere that TS needs an advise. He is happy with his time management scooting from one hole to another.

He just wanna know if anyone else is in a similar relationship as his.

[riverrobles]

I am a bi who likes to to fuck girls as much as fucking guys and be fucked by guys. The issue I have is that I have not been able to find a guy who likes to fuck and be fucked. I find that most are either top or bottom even if they tell you they are flexible. To satisfy my sexual needs, I am having relationship

I don't think I am selfish since I can't get satisfaction from just one of them, so I found myself two others. I don't play around with anyone else outside as I don't need to. I am posting not to brag but to find out if heere like me around.

Play safe and just make them your fuck buddies if you just want the sex