return2innocent Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Was wondering how many of us doesn't have sex even if there are changes coming along.. I consider myself quite a nice looking chap but For the past 5 yrs or so I been J.O myself. There are sex invitation, cruiser hunting me but I back off.. I do also search guy for sex but once tgey do accept my offer i will also find excuses to 'run' away.... regretted sometime as they are my kinda guy... But soon I JO myself.. All regrets are gone. And I will said to myself 'Heng Ar, didn't do stupid thing'..Let me know if any feel the same. tiankong, versace69, loacker and 1 other 4 Quote
Closeted_jock Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I haven't had sex for 13 months already. And yes, no regrets.However, there are times when I get really horny and would be tempted to find a (random) special someone just to get my rocks off in the locker/sauna/gym/library/public toilet. But I've no courage to step back into the scene, especially since I've been screened negative even after all those wild fun I had. I just wanna cherish my life more.I would only dare to get intimate with my partner, so since the break up, I'm just DiY.Different people have different takes and I guess once one's mind is decided on his stand, then dun regret. Sitting on the side might not be as bad, but there would come a time whereby one would wish to find his fucker/fuckee, I hope I would find mine before 5 years. jocker 1 Quote
Friendly Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 No sex for 1.5mths Huh..i thought you have a bf.. He went oversea trip is it? Anyway its no sex for me for the pass one week.. and its because of work and tired.. looking forward for this weekend. Quote
onlylonely Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Huh..i thought you have a bf.. He went oversea trip is it? Anyway its no sex for me for the pass one week.. and its because of work and tired.. looking forward for this weekend.I was overseas working then busy w work when I came back sg. So we only met for normal catchup. No sex. Its okay. I planned something on good fri alr. Quote
darkflame Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 Someone told me once that once you have sex, you'd be addicted to it.To be honest, I never got addicted to it.My main form of sexual activity has been JO. Nothing much more than that. Sex to me is more like a...planned activity.Like going out with friends. Tachyons 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
yhtang Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 If jacking off is not counted, I have not had sex for about 2 weeks.  Went to a sauna, had fun and blew my load with someone. So, until my next visit, I am in a dry spell. Quote
gabfreedom Posted May 10, 2014 Posted May 10, 2014 i guess for many, its a choice..whether u have some sort of guilt or u just feel timid even if an opportunity arises..for a few, its inevitable..i somehow pity them... Quote
loacker Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 TS, i am preety in the same situation wit you.got a few occassions in pub, got some guys wanna hook up wit me, and they are certainly my type of guys, but till when matters most, i withdraw myself out of the situation. Somehow, i just dunno y i have such feeling that my heart tells me go for it, but my head says NO.so till now i've tried sex and just JO myself Quote
lux_aeterna Posted May 12, 2014 Posted May 12, 2014 Probably for around half a year. Sometimes, having sex is just too much of an emotional involvement for me - I can't seem to separate sex from my emotions. So for now, it's just my toy and myself. Saves me from unwanted heartbreaks. Quote
riverrobles Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Do you identify yourself as a Christian i.e. Catholic, Protestant, Evangelical, Baptist?I feel the same thing too and when I do the dirty deed , the guilt trip follows next. Quote    I'm really turned-on if both heads (the head above and the head below) are both functioning well  https://linktr.ee/riverrobles     Â
onlylonely Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 If attached: abt once a month shd be healthyIf single: diy is safer Quote
mamaboy Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Once a month enough? Healthy couples have sex 3 times a week. Quote
MikeD Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Single > NeverAttached > NeverNever... For 29 years...Just DIY... Quote
onlylonely Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Once a month enough? Healthy couples have sex 3 times a week.I dont stay w my bf. We dont hv place too. If its my first ex then maybe can rendezvous everyday cos he stays out Quote
mamaboy Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Go sauna lor. Transit hotels. Or toilet if no other options. Quote
onlylonely Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 (edited) Go sauna lor. Transit hotels. Or toilet if no other options.Yup. We tried sauna. Jb hotels or overseas trips. Public toilets -no way! Edited May 13, 2014 by onlylonely Quote
Daniel_88 Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Never sex before....no partner don't know who to sex with. Tried massage before, but dare not to sex with masseur coz i scare. So sad, I want to sex but I scare. Till now I'm still single.... Quote
onlylonely Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Never sex before....no partner don't know who to sex with. Tried massage before, but dare not to sex with masseur coz i scare. So sad, I want to sex but I scare. Till now I'm still single....U need to find someone to unlock your fear Quote
darkflame Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Hardly. I think I'm more receptive to emotional intimacy.Or rather, I'm addicted to it. Tachyons 1 Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me.
Guest hairy40'sIndian Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Me no sex for about 41days...but I need to unload. ... Quote
Butterscotch Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 all these replies are real? I'm shocked Eh? Why? Quote
yhtang Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Not too long. I had penetrative sex last night - and yes, I did put on a condom. Quote
jocker Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 I haven't had sex for 13 months already. And yes, no regrets.However, there are times when I get really horny and would be tempted to find a (random) special someone just to get my rocks off in the locker/sauna/gym/library/public toilet. But I've no courage to step back into the scene, especially since I've been screened negative even after all those wild fun I had. I just wanna cherish my life more.I would only dare to get intimate with my partner, so since the break up, I'm just DiY.Different people have different takes and I guess once one's mind is decided on his stand, then dun regret. Sitting on the side might not be as bad, but there would come a time whereby one would wish to find his fucker/fuckee, I hope I would find mine before 5 years. Somehow think the same as u...after screening was done for 2 yrs...truly treasure life...anyway din have sex since 2010. lolx. the most was kiss n hug. Quote
Daniel_88 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 I need sex. Hopefully with girls. pathseeker 1 Quote
Guest ditto Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Thanks to this thread, I don't feel so alone. Quote
joshTWjosh Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 (edited) Due to exams and now, my injury... a couple of months. Dying (and not from the injury). Edited June 4, 2014 by joshTWjosh Quote
riverrobles Posted August 13, 2018 Posted August 13, 2018 Maybe its because of religion and the mindset that man-to-man sex is considered sinful .  8 hours ago, Dr_BubbleButt said: no sex 28 years... still virgin ^^  Another thing TS @return2innocent probably is the fear of anal sex or the thinking of pain in penetrative sex for supposed bottoms or guys who are curious to be bottoms.   Also we have to limit the definition of sex here as gay sex excluding vaginal or sexual with women, it is any one or a mix of the following: anal or penis-in-butt intercourse oral mouth-to-genital contact fingering or hand jobs (hand-to-genital contact) masturbation (touching yourself) mutual masturbation dry humping or genital rubbing sex toys penetration kissing foreplay Quote    I'm really turned-on if both heads (the head above and the head below) are both functioning well  https://linktr.ee/riverrobles     Â
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