Guest V Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 I'm in late 20s, but I've only done mutual masturbation and blowjobs, no anal.On the one hand I want to consider anal sex only with someone i think would be my life partner, on the other hand I'm afraid that my sexual inexperience would be a turn off. Or would it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 Late 20s and old? Dude, you will get old one day - if you live longer. And at your age you already saying you are inexperienced? Then explore further. Some people learn from fuck buddies. Some people learn during a relationship. Late 20 and old? Oh my george..... XiaoMessy and puppyfart 2 ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puppyfart Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 Au contraire, I wld think there are many dudes who may be happy to guide u for yr first time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) Dear V,You don't have to do anal, you know. But if you wish, you can always visit a sauna for your virgin anal experience, if you haven't already stepped into one. What really shocked me in your post though was not the fact that you have not had anal sex, but rather the statement that you equate late 20s to old.Wait till you are truly old. Edited November 22, 2014 by mate69 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leo yok loo Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 Maybe his heart is 80 years old. Body is 20s. XiaoMessy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 Youngvery youngshould go out explore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 Why although slutting is great experience, nobody remind him must play SAFE ? PS: Who says the ultimate goal of every gay man is anal fucking? Some kind of str8 woman's mind-set? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 u remind la..play safe ok...first of all quick start playing.lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oralb Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 take your time.... there is no rule that you have to do something by certain age. it is better to be happy with your decision or regret heading into something not mentally prepared. i know of a friend who is over 40s but still a virgin both giving and receiving, he doesnt feel there is anything wrong and is happy with his status When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 take your time.... there is no rule that you have to do something by certain age.it is better to be happy with your decision or regret heading into something not mentally prepared.i know of a friend who is over 40s but still a virgin both giving and receiving, he doesnt feel there is anything wrong and is happy with his statusI disagree with you la. Unless he is really thinking of a life of celibacy or joining the monk hood sooner rather than later.After all, he better start enjoying himself when he still has the youth, looks and energy. I came out and had my first time at age 27, regretted to these days that I missed out all those early years, haha.Then again I do know of many straights and gay guys who have really low sex drive, yes really really low sex drive, that we initially thot the straight guy is gay. Till I also met some gays, tho not many, who can go no sex for years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 I'm in late 20s, but I've only done mutual masturbation and blowjobs, no anal.On the one hand I want to consider anal sex only with someone i think would be my life partner, on the other hand I'm afraid that my sexual inexperience would be a turn off. Or would it? Sexual inexperience being a turn off? Perhaps with some people who like to be served. But if someone likes you and wants to do things with you, to you, inexperience is not such a turn off. Maybe the opposite can be a turn off, when a person acts quite slutty. Maybe when you are 40 you will be glad that your sexual life didn't peak too early. Because if so, sex for the rest of you life can only go downwards. I was over 20 when I had my first gay experience, and anal sex never crossed my mind. Maybe this is why for me anal sex is still low on the list and only to please a bottom. (I probably leave full practice of anal sex for my next reincarnation). But all other sex has been in steady improvement over the years. With a healthy lifestyle I hope to keep it going into old age. straight8ing and AnchorBear 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 If you're hot,no one is gonna find you a turn off. With or without sexual experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GUEST Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 @ Steve5380 We need a "Like" button here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 @ Steve5380 We need a "Like" button here! We do have a like button ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flexhunk Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Never keen to have fun with inexperienced guys. Such a turn off.Makes me feel like having a virgin girl(sissy guy) on bed. You want to kiss him, he turn his face away. Want to enter him, try to act and scream like a virgin girl.Errrhh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sport-coholic Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Never keen to have fun with inexperienced guys. Such a turn off.Makes me feel like having a virgin girl(sissy guy) on bed. You want to kiss him, he turn his face away. Want to enter him, try to act and scream like a virgin girl.ErrrhhErm....everyone has a first time mah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Erm....everyone has a first time mah. I usually try to ''guide'' these ''newbies'' or ''learners'' but after a few times if they don't put an effort, I rather not give myself unnecessary stress. It is different if they put an effort and still not getting it. They will not be ''abandoned''. More guidance given. Often confidence plays a very important role in trying out things people have not tried before. And we the ''experienced'' can help in that. I reckon most of us once inexperienced, too. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 To each their own la.Some people prefer experienced, while some other gets more turned on if he's doing it with a virgin boy. I'm sure when your life-long partner knows you're inexperienced, he'll guide you through, won't he?(If not, just toss him! :yuk: ) How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topUgood Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 (edited) I like inexperience one. Pm me let me teach you. Edited November 25, 2014 by topUgood iamziz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kee_hsiao Posted November 26, 2014 Report Share Posted November 26, 2014 TS is experiencing HUNGER GAMES... may the odds be at your side (all the way till you are REALLY old) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grimreaper Posted November 26, 2014 Report Share Posted November 26, 2014 You can always read online so you're not completely clueless about what to expect when it actually does happen. Don't be one of those tops who has no idea what a prostate is, or one of those bottoms who don't know how to prep properly. jackomaki 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 omgosh same here. Don't rush! It's good that you're waiting for that special someone! If he loves you then I guess that's all that matters, as cliche as it sounds... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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