Elson91 Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 (edited) No idea why he block me when i only just trying to be friend with him... He did really seems like a man that i met before... Is that a fault too? ..just trying to be friend only...but no idea why he end up block me... I do feels sad.. but nvm.. ..feeling lost hope in finding true friends.. Edited May 11, 2016 by Elson91 n/a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 i feel the same way too. ): Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xaviermarccyw Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 4 minutes ago, lonely57 said: i feel the same way too. ): 21 minutes ago, Elson91 said: No idea why he block me when i only just trying to be friend with him... He did really seems like a man that i met before... Is that a fault too? ..just trying to be friend only...but no idea why he end up block me... I do feels sad.. but nvm.. ..feeling lost hope in finding true friends.. Me too. Like no point alr so I deleted the apps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 7 minutes ago, xaviermarccyw said: Me too. Like no point alr so I deleted the apps. i go there to window shop only XiaoMessy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xaviermarccyw Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 Just now, lonely57 said: i go there to window shop only Dont want later got people initiate convo and give false hopes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 5 minutes ago, xaviermarccyw said: Dont want later got people initiate convo and give false hopes well all are looking for fun anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elson91 Posted May 11, 2016 Author Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 (edited) Frankly sometimes i did feels to uninstall Grindr app... But, i need to think +'ve as i do hope to find a like minded Top man to be my boyfriend.. ..i need to be more patients... Cause i still believe... Edited May 11, 2016 by Elson91 N/A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely57 Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 25 minutes ago, Elson91 said: Frankly sometimes i did feels to uninstall Grindr app... But, i need to think +'ve as i do hope to find a like minded Top man to be my boyfriend.. ..i need to be more patients... Cause i still believe... hahaha.. and i find ppl there are very superficial as well. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Younger4Older Posted May 11, 2016 Report Share Posted May 11, 2016 what is grindr , why u guy love and hate the apps ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XiaoMessy Posted May 14, 2016 Report Share Posted May 14, 2016 I always thought Grindr is 99% looking for fun, 1% window shop? IMO, it's not really the app you want to use looking for friends/rs. Quote How to seek revenge 101: Know him. Befriend him. Make him trust you wholeheartedly. Destroy him. Utterly. By typing this I fear no one's gonna friend me. :c Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estarif Posted May 14, 2016 Report Share Posted May 14, 2016 Never used the app, seemed to be more like an app just for fun, you dont look awesome and ripped, people block you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerveau Posted May 14, 2016 Report Share Posted May 14, 2016 10 hours ago, Estarif said: Never used the app, seemed to be more like an app just for fun, you dont look awesome and ripped, people block you If you dig deep enough and use the filters, you'd find some decent people there too tbh. I know I did lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curious22 Posted May 14, 2016 Report Share Posted May 14, 2016 Try the app Tinder! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerveau Posted May 15, 2016 Report Share Posted May 15, 2016 4 hours ago, curious22 said: Try the app Tinder! Long shot tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahp0ng Posted May 15, 2016 Report Share Posted May 15, 2016 Although, many say that the app is full of people looking for fun. But see, you guys who maybe don't, are in the app too! So don't be so down, there are decent people in there. I have chat and made a few decent friends there. And some of my other decent friends are in there too!! Stay positive!! MalayDaddy, angel_dust, Elson91 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelyboy90 Posted May 15, 2016 Report Share Posted May 15, 2016 On 5/11/2016 at 11:33 PM, Elson91 said: Frankly sometimes i did feels to uninstall Grindr app... But, i need to think +'ve as i do hope to find a like minded Top man to be my boyfriend.. ..i need to be more patients... Cause i still believe... change your writing style. and you need to be more patient, not patientS. Quote Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeseme Posted May 15, 2016 Report Share Posted May 15, 2016 I admit i seek fun on the app, but there are times that you just wanna chat and you can find people within the app that you can chat with about anything under the sun as you speak as 2 individuals in the world who don't know each other and no restrains. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted May 15, 2016 Report Share Posted May 15, 2016 Go sauna find. Physical and emotional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transmissionsm Posted May 24, 2016 Report Share Posted May 24, 2016 (edited) I usually install grindr for few days then uninstall when I get bored. Then install it again few months later.. Every time I login , within 1 day there will be this same guy (with macarons profile pic) asking for "Any dick pics" Then people who are near me seemed to be scare about meeting (I only look for people within 200 near my place on grindr) the sentence "Don't shit where you sleep" applies to all of them. I mean what they so afraid of? Not like i'm some crazy guy, i'm more worried about them than they worried about me... Edited May 24, 2016 by transmissionsm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topdownunder Posted May 25, 2016 Report Share Posted May 25, 2016 4 hours ago, transmissionsm said: Then people who are near me seemed to be scare about meeting (I only look for people within 200 near my place on grindr) the sentence "Don't shit where you sleep" applies to all of them. I mean what they so afraid of? Not like i'm some crazy guy, i'm more worried about them than they worried about me... Everyone is afraid of stalkers who cling onto to you esp if they know where you live. I had an unfortunate experience of dating a guy at work. Even though we were in different parts of the building, he started to stalk me when we stopped seeing each other. It became so bad that I got one of my colleagues to nicelytell him to stop bothering me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topdownunder Posted May 25, 2016 Report Share Posted May 25, 2016 Also there has been cases of robbery, sexual assaults and murder in grindr hook ups gone bad in Australia. You can be the nicest guy on the planet but you just don't know much about the other party. Online persona can be very different to real life. KENZ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KENZ Posted May 25, 2016 Report Share Posted May 25, 2016 Geez Thanks Topdownunder for the warning. Sometimes in Singapore we are too complacent because we are living in a pretty safe country. However most of the time we are just waiting for something major to happen before people start to notice and take precaution. Topdownunder and charvo87 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topdownunder Posted May 25, 2016 Report Share Posted May 25, 2016 (edited) 15 minutes ago, KENZ said: Geez Thanks Topdownunder for the warning. Sometimes in Singapore we are too complacent because we are living in a pretty safe country. However most of the time we are just waiting for something major to happen before people start to notice and take precaution. One can NEVER be too safe. Always try to meet unfamiliar guys in a crowded public place first. That way you can be guaranteed that nothing bad can happen. Edited May 25, 2016 by Topdownunder KENZ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECJD Posted July 9, 2016 Report Share Posted July 9, 2016 either we choose who we want to talk to or meet up. it dosent hurt to be careful about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelyboy90 Posted July 10, 2016 Report Share Posted July 10, 2016 you got your own preference, so do others. its hard to match up in this app when there are so many others who fit the bill of any individual. gayboysgx and D Nines 2 Quote Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keyboard Posted July 10, 2016 Report Share Posted July 10, 2016 Dont feel bad about getting blocked. That's the easiest way to see more people and increasing the possibility of finding someone more suitable for yourself. What's the point of seeing the same 100 people on your screen year after year when you will never be interested to see/meet them. Just don't waste people time and expect anyone to be a mind-reader. gayboysgx, ZKT279 and lovehandle 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
30yochinese Posted July 11, 2016 Report Share Posted July 11, 2016 On 5/11/2016 at 10:56 PM, Elson91 said: No idea why he block me when i only just trying to be friend with him... He did really seems like a man that i met before... Is that a fault too? ..just trying to be friend only...but no idea why he end up block me... I do feels sad.. but nvm.. ..feeling lost hope in finding true friends.. Dear @Elson91, the gay community sadly...is 99% VISUAL, so pls don't feel hurt by strangers who block U, everyone on Grindr has their own agenda, i too have been on the receiving end of MULTIPLE BLOCKS, but never be offended by that, never see that as a rejection, be INVIGORATED that someone did not want to take an interest in U...because the more U are able to accept the reality that "This is the way Grindr works"...U will emerge stronger & U will naturally attract "The right one". =) CECJD and kidster 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallboy Posted July 17, 2016 Report Share Posted July 17, 2016 Block better, so ypu can make more informed choices instead of wasting time. Quote I am a 24 years old guy, just wanting to know more friends.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devilry Posted August 15, 2016 Report Share Posted August 15, 2016 Please. I get blocked ALL THE TIME. Which is ok with me, honestly, because if you're not interested then it saves both of us time. I routinely block people who indicate no chubs, because I'm not going to change anyone's mind. Quote __ http://devilrysg.tumblr.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alex15533 Posted September 13, 2016 Report Share Posted September 13, 2016 Everyone can feel the same way haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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