Why do I feel like peeing why having anal sex?

[Guest Rude?]

Why do I feel like peeing while being fucked? One time ainrealky can't hold on and I peed on my partner. So embarassing.

[Sagui_32]

Lol .. does it happen always? Or you really feel like peeing? 

[Kimochi]

Try to let go and see if you really pee?  

[Bread1997]

too shiok is it ? or too big and thick ?

 

[cutejack]

Must b too big until turn on his pee valve inside.

[Guest CKW]

I think it has to do with the fact that when you are receiving a penis in your rectum, you tend to consciously or unconsciously try to get your anus muscles to "push" the foreign object downwards, a bit like when you are trying to defecate. This is the brain controlling your reflex action to make the penetration less painful by relaxing and widening the rectum. (I've read stories where the top would tell the bottom to pretend that he is trying to pass motion, in order to make penetration easier.)

 

This "pushing" effort will also cause you to empty your bladder. It's like how when you are trying to push out your faeces, your urine will also come out uncontrollably.

 

And yes, it's more likely to happen if the other guy has a larger penis  

 

(Sorry that I'm not a doctor so I might not have explained it that well.)

[Spin]

Feel like going to urine hmmm.....

I think you drank too much water before having sex with your partner.

Next time stop ...go to pee first ...after you have done your peeing. 

Continue second round....

 

[upshot]

10 hours ago, Guest CKW said:

I think it has to do with the fact that when you are receiving a penis in your rectum, you tend to consciously or unconsciously try to get your anus muscles to "push" the foreign object downwards, a bit like when you are trying to defecate. This is the brain controlling your reflex action to make the penetration less painful by relaxing and widening the rectum. (I've read stories where the top would tell the bottom to pretend that he is trying to pass motion, in order to make penetration easier.)

 

This "pushing" effort will also cause you to empty your bladder. It's like how when you are trying to push out your faeces, your urine will also come out uncontrollably.

 

And yes, it's more likely to happen if the other guy has a larger penis  

 

(Sorry that I'm not a doctor so I might not have explained it that well.)

 

 

You are not too far off base there.. It due to the close proximity of the bladder and a relatively longer cock with all the pumping action, it is pushing not only itself but the little air pressure like a bike pump and this is pushing against the bladder constantly causing that natural reaction to want to pee. Thus after sex especially when I am using my anal toys alot.. I can feel like I have to go. It is because I have still a bit of pee inside me so I just go and then continue and the sensation goes away. Or if I can hold it in, after which I really need to go in about a minute or so. It is a natural reaction. And the longer and thicker you get inside you.. depending on your unique body dimension, you get this more or less. thus I never tell or teach people to do it like me... all our bodies have slight differences and sensory perception to things... what feel like a dumb pain can be sexual for another like when you stretch your rectum wider, and for others the rubbing sensation and that feeling like you are about to blast out all the shit but nothing comes out.. some fear it thinking it might ( thus I say clean you ass very cleanly and you fear nothing) but that same sensation for someone else is heavenly... that is why some people go artificial... and use larger toys..

 

And also the stiffer and depending on the angle of attack you plough the dildo inside you and even good size cock.. the rubbing on your prostate can also make you want to pee but it is not pee but... again depending on your physical body you can have lots or little to no precum. It is per-ejaculation which is a bit weak watery white but it also can have a little urine mixed it...so again... when you hear someone say A LOT of PRECUM.. it does not mean if you don't have you are ill... and also as you age, the pre-cum gets less... it is NOT because you did not drink enough water. hehe. 

 

So just a short bit to show you that our bodies is such an amazing thing.. but you need to know what you are doing and do it slowly and try to take the guess work out of it by googling it online and ask around here but always double check the facts against another few other people or article. There are and still are some rather ignorant or misinformation advice and commentary happening here too. The rectum is a tough but still can be bruise or damaged if not careful.

 

Also note, if you love the sensation of hitting your prostate to get yourself to auto ooze the precum... doing it often over a certain period of years can dull the sensation and you might not get there and you start to use more force or more acute angle to stimulate it, that is not good. It is a delicate gland and so is the wall that separate your rectum from your bladder. There are many areas inside your rectum area where there is no muscle ... and more importantly very few nerve sensory mean if you hurt yourself, you might not know it. Some parts in there, even if you cut it, you do not get the same pain sensation like you cut your arm.

 

And penis not well lube and someone jam it in or fuck you hard and fast can also cause abrasion that will leave you sore or tear the wall tissue.

 

SO for the newbies just getting into it and also even those who are already a little further along, you might think you know everything there is to know and then something can catch you out. So take care while having your brains fucked out of you but a great lover or toy. heheh