I’m not gay, but + Lol shit. I just realised, I'm not actually gay..(compiled)

[raind]

Everyone in this forum is straight. Straight gay. 

[Leanmeat]

On 9/13/2018 at 12:12 AM, Guest Fyi said:

Darling oh please you are fucking gay trust me. Checking guys out will lead to sucking their dicks and having fun next. So trust me u are one of us....

 

Not all gays who check guys out suck dick. Many selfish tops check guys out to see if they can get suck, only.

[Guest guest]

If i say i'm not gay but when i see cute topless guys, my dick sometimes would wet with pre-cum. I do not think anyone would believe that i am not gay? Haha.

[justtolookaround]

You are in  denial stage ...... You are just not come out to yourself ... Once you get in or expose to more "gay act" u will never say that again

[Guest guest]

28 minutes ago, justtolookaround said:

You are in  denial stage ...... You are just not come out to yourself ... Once you get in or expose to more "gay act" u will never say that again

I would say accept yourself of being gay than coming out. You need to accept of what you are then you can come out to others.

[Guest Same]

Maybe can say that i am gay who has no interest in dicks. 

[Guest guest]

On 11/5/2019 at 7:52 AM, Guest Same said:

Maybe can say that i am gay who has no interest in dicks. 

Then you have interest in what?

[Enrique]

Is there really a need to be labeled? Can we just let others be happy with their own preferences?

[nickyno1]

Look man, don't worry about it. I'm not going to judge you. Research has shown that more than a third of straight men will have gay sex at some point in their lives, so who is to say right ?(except yourself, that is)

[Guest Masc btm]

5 hours ago, nickyno1 said:

Look man, don't worry about it. I'm not going to judge you. Research has shown that more than a third of straight men will have gay sex at some point in their lives, so who is to say right ?(except yourself, that is)

In Thailand and Korea, they are not considered gay if they are the tops because they still do the male role of insertion and insemination. Only the bottoms are considered gay.

That's why they wouldn't think twice to fuck if you open your legs and expose your bottom invitation. 

[Guest guest]

5 hours ago, nickyno1 said:

Look man, don't worry about it. I'm not going to judge you. Research has shown that more than a third of straight men will have gay sex at some point in their lives, so who is to say right ?(except yourself, that is)

Having gay sex at some point of their lives does not means they are gay. Even a guy who says he is gay but never have any gay sex also does not mean he is not gay. 

[gucici]

I think i am not gay but gay friendly. I am not keen in sex. But if you want to touch me, yes you can cos i am gay friendly.

[fab]

25 minutes ago, gucici said:

I think i am not gay but gay friendly. I am not keen in sex. But if you want to touch me, yes you can cos i am gay friendly.

 

Think?

 

How old are you? 

[Guest five cents and a dime]

 

 

On 9/12/2018 at 12:51 AM, Guest Guest said:

I’m not gay, but I do love checking hot guys out, especially when I’m in the changing room at a gym or swimming pool. I also feel quite turned on when I catch them checking me out and I admit that sometimes, I walk around in the nude or stroke my cock in the shower. However, beyond showing off or checking guys out, I actually have no interest in actually doing anything with a guy. Does anyone else on the forum feel like this?

 

Firstly, Threadstarter did not mention his age.

a) If he is very young, he might be in a "confused" stage and a period to explore.

b) If he is above 20, I would conclude him to be gay. Most probably, negative moral norms from the society (or religious backgrounds) are preventing him to declare himself as gay or to admit that he is gay. He might have a father who utters homophobic words repeatedly and talks bad about gays.

c) If he won't get hard by playing with other guys and he is just having this exhibitionist tendency to walk around naked in front of others, then he is maybe a sexual pervert. In the  last case I would advise him to seek professional psychological help, because his condition could worsen and maybe in a cinema he would pull off his pants and show around his dick to others. He might otherwise not be able to control his exhibitionist urges.

 

He has to respond to himself whether seeing boobs and a girl's pussy makes him hard or whether he gets hard from seeing cocks and asses.

 

Frankly spoken (or written), I would advise the threadstarter to seek some psychological help, because something seems a bit out of the range. He looks to me like having issues to enjoy any "normal" (gay or straight) sexuality.

[gucici]

37 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Think?

 

How old are you? 

Ok, maybe shdn use the word think. I am gay friendly. 

 

I am old enough to take responsibilities, think logically straight. 😊

[fab]

1 hour ago, gucici said:

I think i am not gay but gay friendly. I am not keen in sex. But if you want to touch me, yes you can cos i am gay friendly.

 

Touch you means hand job n blow for you?

[gucici]

3 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Touch you means hand job n blow for you?

Hj. Any form of oral, no way. 

[fab]

2 hours ago, gucici said:

Hj. Any form of oral, no way. 

 

So u are open to any guy?

 

No preference to the type of guys?

[gucici]

1 hour ago, fab said:

 

So u are open to any guy?

 

No preference to the type of guys?

I dun choose guys. for eg, if to massage me. Handsome or ugly does not matter. Just get my massage done and so long the massage is good. If he want to give me a hj, yes i may accept it. But no bj for me. 

[fab]

37 minutes ago, gucici said:

I dun choose guys. for eg, if to massage me. Handsome or ugly does not matter. Just get my massage done and so long the massage is good. If he want to give me a hj, yes i may accept it. But no bj for me. 

 

Mind to share your insights on y u r receptive to guys?

[gucici]

3 hours ago, fab said:

 

Mind to share your insights on y u r receptive to guys?

Maybe i have tried to have fun, but after so long, i still have no interest.  But do enjoy getting hj. 

[fab]

29 minutes ago, gucici said:

Maybe i have tried to have fun, but after so long, i still have no interest.  But do enjoy getting hj. 

 

Y not just do it with women?

[gucici]

17 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Y not just do it with women?

Yes i do that. Also tried men massage. They are damn good

[fab]

18 minutes ago, gucici said:

Yes i do that. Also tried men massage. They are damn good

 

Really?  Most male masseurs I tried r lousy.

 

 

[gucici]

Tried at overseas one. 

9 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Really?  Most male masseurs I tried r lousy.

 

 

 

[fab]

7 hours ago, gucici said:

Tried at overseas one. 

 

 

Do you need to pay them?

[nerrad]

Everything is a spectrum. Be it top or bottom, straight or gay. These are simple binary labels that do not necessarily work correctly for everyone. Just like how the Taiwanese gays are moving away from labelling themselves top or bottom, there is no need to attempt in labelling yourself gay or not gay. Do what you love and enjoy being who you are

[gucici]

48 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Do you need to pay them?

Yes. In a mall. Just wanted a normal massage. End up given a free hj. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, gucici said:

Yes. In a mall. Just wanted a normal massage. End up given a free hj. 

 

Do u mean men give better hj than women?

[gucici]

4 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Do u mean men give better hj than women?

Thats not wad i meant. Depends on individual. Men probably arouse you with no intention, but. Makr u feel good. Women arouse u so that can earn yr money. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, gucici said:

Thats not wad i meant. Depends on individual. Men probably arouse you with no intention, but. Makr u feel good. Women arouse u so that can earn yr money. 

 

Are those male masseurs mostly gay?

[gucici]

11 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Are those male masseurs mostly gay?

Not sure. Been there twice. 1st one is really good. Although is nude, but no hanky panky. 2nd visit is another guy. Guessed he aroused my weak spot, made me auto stand. So he insist that he can help me. I resisted a few times, but he is really persistant. Overall still professional

[fab]

Lol at at auto stand.

 

The masseur is naked?

[gucici]

23 hours ago, fab said:

Lol at at auto stand.

 

The masseur is naked?

No. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, gucici said:

No. 

 

As a straight,  by default,  don't you choose a female masseur?

[Guest question]

once upon a time in the gayland, there is a young man who has always known to be GAY all his life and only have sex with man.

 

one day, he found out he's interested in girls and boys, and secretly having sex with girls......

 

what makes him?

 

The girl land strongly disagree for him to be ever labelled as GAY again

but the gayland strongly believe he is still GAY and cannot be labelled as anything else

 

 

[gucici]

16 minutes ago, fab said:

 

As a straight,  by default,  don't you choose a female masseur?

Yes, if at jb. Just happened that time there are only male

[fab]

4 minutes ago, gucici said:

Yes, if at jb. Just happened that time there are only male

 

Straight parlour? 

[gucici]

4 hours ago, fab said:

 

Straight parlour? 

Supposed so. 

[fab]

2 hours ago, gucici said:

Supposed so. 

 

Strange.

 

Most straight masseurs won't hanky panky.

[gucici]

3 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Strange.

 

Most straight masseurs won't hanky panky.

Maybe he turned gay upon seeing me

[fab]

32 minutes ago, gucici said:

Maybe he turned gay upon seeing me

 

Must be.

 

Do you have to pay him extra?

[gucici]

7 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Must be.

 

Do you have to pay him extra?

No. Think he is from Philippines. He say is normal to do for clients 

[Think Of Others]

6 minutes ago, fab said:

 

39 minutes ago, gucici said:

Maybe he turned gay upon seeing me

 

6 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Must be.

 

So funny to read...

He must be like a clownfish which can switch from male to female. For him, it is from straight to gay. Lol

[gucici]

14 minutes ago, Think Of Others said:

So funny to read...

He must be like a clownfish which can switch from male to female. For him, it is from straight to gay. Lol

Maybe he turn from straight to curious. Thanks. 

[Think Of Others]

Statement 1

If you have sex with men, then you are gay.

 

Statement 2

If you are gay, then you have sex with men.

 

Statement 3

If you don't have sex with men, then you are not gay.

 

Statement 4

If you are not gay, then you don't have sex with men.

 

Any statement is always true? Hahaha

[fab]

10 hours ago, gucici said:

No. Think he is from Philippines. He say is normal to do for clients 

 

Most professional male masseurs will be offended if the client asked them to provide hj.

 

 

[gucici]

4 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Most professional male masseurs will be offended if the client asked them to provide hj.

 

 

He saw me hardon, insisted to give me

[fab]

Just now, gucici said:

He saw me hardon, insisted to give me

 

Most professional self respectable masseurs will ignore hard-on. 

 

They will cover it with a tower.

[Guest falang]

43 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Most professional self respectable masseurs will ignore hard-on. 

 

They will cover it with a tower.

It's already a " tower", how to cover with another tower?

 

Are you falang or Thai?