HIV+ Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 Dear frds, My bf loves to go fxxkrace to chat and has even put his big dick pic for ppl to see and exchange numbers too.I have told him that by doing this really stress me out and soon the TRUST will be gone.He scolded me and say this is his private life and i cannot interfere.He don't like ppl to control what he did.But what's the purpose of going there when we are not open relatioship?I am always stress about did he cheat on me cus he likes to lies alot lately.What will you do if you are in my shoes?
erection day Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 If I am in your shoes, I will walk away. That is the hardest step to take. But once you take this giant step, everything will fall to place and you will be a free man. Free from the insecurity, jealousy, bitterness and sadness that this relationship has chained you. From the brief synopsis I have read, it seems to me that you care about this relationship more than him. The first step to breaking up is always the hardest and most painful. The only other way to keep this relationship alive is you can set your mind frame and treat this as a open relationship. Meaning he can fool around with others while he's with you. So can you. Many gay couples do stay together based on this understanding.
cock brand Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 Dear frds, My bf loves to go fxxkrace to chat and has even put his big dick pic for ppl to see and exchange numbers too.I have told him that by doing this really stress me out and soon the TRUST will be gone.He scolded me and say this is his private life and i cannot interfere.He don't like ppl to control what he did.But what's the purpose of going there when we are not open relatioship?I am always stress about did he cheat on me cus he likes to lies alot lately.What will you do if you are in my shoes? Yes, he is right; its his life and he can do what he want.Thats no way you can change that.If you can tolerate his lifestyle, then don't complain and stick with him.If you can't, leave him for goodness sake.
Guest Merlion Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 Dear frds, My bf loves to go fxxkrace to chat and has even put his big dick pic for ppl to see and exchange numbers too.I have told him that by doing this really stress me out and soon the TRUST will be gone.He scolded me and say this is his private life and i cannot interfere.He don't like ppl to control what he did.But what's the purpose of going there when we are not open relatioship?I am always stress about did he cheat on me cus he likes to lies alot lately.What will you do if you are in my shoes? Aiya! since you are already HIV+, just give and take in relationship lah. How much longer can gay live even when the word "sincerity" is carved in stone. If he is also HIV+, than he ought to be thundered for fooling around and not sticking to one partner for the rest of his life.
GachiMuchi Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 I think you stay because emotionally you want to belong. I think your +ve status may have made you more needy emotionally, but is emotional attachment your only need or are there more to it when you stick with this bf? As I am not in your position, I can't comment, but I do feel that in your state, what you need is support, care and no stress. If your r/ship is giving you stress and you are not getting anywhere with this r/ship. I rather you give up the r/ship. But if you insist to stick to this r/ship, then you will have to change your mindset to accept that, this is the type of bf you are getting and he is not going to change no matter what. Only then will you find peace of mind, otherwise, it will only eat u up. Right and Wrong is dependent on which angle you look at. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com
harylok Posted March 18, 2009 Posted March 18, 2009 Dear frds, My bf loves to go fxxkrace to chat and has even put his big dick pic for ppl to see and exchange numbers too.I have told him that by doing this really stress me out and soon the TRUST will be gone.He scolded me and say this is his private life and i cannot interfere.He don't like ppl to control what he did.But what's the purpose of going there when we are not open relatioship?I am always stress about did he cheat on me cus he likes to lies alot lately.What will you do if you are in my shoes? Were you the same guy who started the "Will He Forgive Me And Love Me Again?" thread on Nov 29 2008?If yes, just curious what happen 2 u & yr bf thereafter after much "advices" given? Is this the same bf who u "felt" sorry for?!Hary
HIV+ Posted March 18, 2009 Author Posted March 18, 2009 Were you the same guy who started the "Will He Forgive Me And Love Me Again?" thread on Nov 29 2008?If yes, just curious what happen 2 u & yr bf thereafter after much "advices" given? Is this the same bf who u "felt" sorry for?!Haryyes..i am the guy...since he accepted me...he really change alot...i already did my best liao.I do love him alot.But I am always the stupid guy always wanted to find true love.
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