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Locked. Nothing more can be add on this topic other than old flames getting mad at each other. Maybe getting together again to re-kindle the passion might help. But if you still need to fight, do it elsewhere. Not here. Not in this forum. Be happy.

Oh that's simple. It's insecurity. We become jealous because we lack self-confidence, we are insecure, we doubt ourselves - we start to think that the reason why our partners are flirting with another party is because we have become unattractive, fat, old etc; so that insecurity manifests itself as jealousy. I'd like to think that it is one's partner's responsibility to reassure us that we're still beautiful, attractive, cute, wonderful etc - even after years in a long term relationship as both parties grow old together. I have seen so many relationships - gay and straight alike - when both parties grow old and insecure in the process and the relationship turns quite toxic when insecurity on both parties poison the relationship. The most common problem is that most people don't even recognize that they are insecure - it takes a lot of honesty with oneself to admit to one's faults, that one is inadequate. The problem with many people is that they have too much pride and would never admit, "I am insecure, I need reassuring" - no, they will tell the world "I'm fine, I'm strong." So really, the problem does boil down to our personal weakness when it comes to being insecure and lacking self-confidence. Even people who look beautiful, have good jobs, are successful in their lives can have bouts of insecurity and need reassuring from time to time. If this is not dealt with properly and in a timely manner, it then manifests itself in the form of jealousy. You wanna talk about natural instinct - well the instinct to feel insecure is pretty darn strong too you know?

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Only a few locals making movie, mostly they make movies to get grants from MDA, imho local movies depict lives of locals, thus its kind of boring n i rather watch other movies instead.

DoingMoar, I know u mean well, but there is more, much more to power play than just that. Allow me to explain: Before indulging in any S&M activity, it will be wise to agree on a "safe word "- one that can be uttered by the bottom when he feels that the top has gone too far. Respect and trust are two very important elements in such play. I do not recommend the taking of any recreational drugs during S&M play cos they can dull the senses and can thus make the body endure more "torture" than what is actually healthy. Drugs have also made some people lose their inhibitions and have caused many to plunge headlong into bareback sex- a huge no-no. Also, play safe and whip all you want but I DONT recommend that you do so until you draw blood. This opens both parties up to infections. Play safe, play smart. PS. If you are dominant one in S&M play, please do not get affected by this condition known as the "top's disease". It's when the top gets so corrupted with power and being dominant that he loses all respect for the bottom. Remember, it's about trust and RESPECT. Have fun!

Feeling so alone. Like everyone found their paths. I found mine long ago, maybe that's the reason.

Why all our locally made movies involving the army must be ghost stories? How about showing a real garang side of our army? Maybe we can make a remake of: Lambo - A reservist goes back for ICT and is ill treated by his sadistic DO who turns out the guards too much during guard duty. He then takes revenge and shoots the DO, BOS, Guard Commander, Guard 2IC and Gate IC. Cannot shoot more than that because his magazine only has 5 rounds !!! So how? should I write to Mark Lee and ask him to make this movie ?

Hi Senior Man, With or without the guilt, you are still the same person. You have the right to have temptations, urges and happiness. Unless you have obligations, you are answerable only to yourself. Don't let social norms dictate your life. Breathe and be free.

Hey senior man, perhaps you should look to religon to fill in that void? it brings meaning to your life. I'm not going to be all evangelistic and enforce my christian beliefs on you, in fact, i would like to encourage you to go deeper in ANY faith that you would choose? it might be able to fill in that void that is burdening you all this while.

I'm juz stating facts from my what I saw, heard and felt. Naturally, most of my experiences are Malaysian-connected since I spent over 20 years there. But if you wanna claim that I often hardsell Malaysian stuff, then I can randomly pick a Singaporean one. I still remember a scene somewhere in Jack Neo's Just Follow Law 我在政府部门的日子 when a non-Muslim character passed out and people were crying for help as to who can provide CPR, a nearby Muslim character actually asked, "Is he halal onot?" I can choose to contest that for being unnecessary, but then since it's humour, I tend to shrug it off. If all of us wanna get uptight over such stuff, people would be protesting against images of breastfeeding women exposing half a breast, the usage of a devil in Manchester United's logo, and not to mention Abercrombie & Fitch Singapore's drooling advertisement board at Knightsbridge. The internet is a virtual realm. The BW forum is not even a full-fledged news website. This is where all of us have full freedom to express ourselves, albeit in a responsible manner, which we may not be able to do always in the real world with all its so-called 'norms'. Why shud I even attempt to seek to fulfil everyone's tastes when I'm clearly aware that I do not conduct myself in a manner that tramples upon others' dignity, be it in terms of skin colour or religion or nationality? A piglet sucking on its mother's teats is purely natural. Which mammal doesn't do that? If it were that distasteful to followers of a certain religion, they can ask Him why He created mammal offspring to feed that way and why He even created that animal in the first place. Then again, no point arguing here. People have differing opinions. The votes shall speak for themselves.

Ya I agree that skill is impt else the top just thrusting in and out but the btm just a dead fish... Know when to go fast short thrust or long deep thrust.. Just that those with length allow them to reach for btm prostate easier

Years back, there was a p*r*o released, of two guys with a girl sleeping in the seat between them. The guys lean over her and go at it. Does anyone know?

I used to copy fxxking style from the pxxn show. I think I was going through motion. Then I met this 40+ yo uncle in a sauna. I was fxxking him when he told me to relax and then corrected my fxxking techniques. It pays to fxxk an experienced uncle bottom and do listen to feedback.

i got the impression is zoe tay instead..... aiyoo, chen liping can meh = i tot his present husband is enough for her, btw i ever saw his hubby swimwear during his early year..okay average size nothing to scream about. anyway, since her demise ...let the pass bygone and also li nan xing and his ex wife also got alot of hidden secrets which should also stop by now. with this incident for the month of feb to mar 10, i got a few friend also demise and i should start to cherish those still around me. Frankly, i can't stand when i m alone in the middle of night shedding tears...for my friend sudden death. well this is life !