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Blue Line - BP to Bugis line @ 7.30am: I took the train at Beauty World and chosen the door opening side to lean against the metal bar and you boarded at King's Alber Park. It was packed with passengers and you tried to squeeze in and stood with your back in front of me. I was wearing a pair of white shorts (commando) with a blue T-shirt while you wear a pair of grey sweatpants and white singlet. As the train was moving, your butt tends to touch my bulge and at times i can feel that you tried to rub against it. Since the train was fully packed, i used my palm to touch your butt over the sweatpants and found out that you were in commando too as i didn't feel any other materials except your sweatpants. When the Train stopped at Tan Kah Kee, your hand rubbed my bulge and i gave a throbbing motion over my cock and you inserted your hand into my shorts and grabbed my cock and stroked and you place my hardon cock straight and u pushed yourshelf against my cock, that is, my cock was sandwiched between your butt cheeks. I was fully so horny that my hand went over to your frontal and rubbed your cock which yours already hardon and i can feel some sticky stuff over your sweatpants (leaking precum). When the train stopped at Botanic Garden, you alighted while i alighted at Bugis. If you are reading this, please PM me so that we can arrange some fun and would love to taste your thick cock and balls and your tight ass too

My mind have been getting wild and it's messing me up, been fantasizing of being use by stranger or experience gangbang. And worst of all I have a partner, we have been together for few years but for pass 2 years we have not had proper sex. Even thought of getting dildo but I have no place to hide it. I think I'm sex deprived. Sometimes I wish someone would just grab me in toilet and force me to suck their dick. I know this is wrong but I can't help myself.😭 Is he turning straight sometimes I feel like we are just jerk of buddy nowadays. I need dick in me so badly.

I think it’s important for the young to have what might be construed as illusions of Romance - life will mostly make you jaded eventually anyway. It might also be possible that the failure to find a relationship that works the way you imagine is precisely what makes one jaded in later years. And it might also be possible to enter into the idea of a relationship right from the start without the preconceived notion of possessiveness and worry of one’s own attractiveness dressed up as ‘love’ for the other party - which admittedly is usually the case for many people who say they ‘love’ their partners too much to share him. I often wonder, if they were the ones constantly receiving sexual advances from people they actually found attractive, and their partner received none, if they wouldn’t be the first to ask for the monogamous cord to be cut. It’s why generally I notice Long-term relationships work best when both parties have balanced leverage - either both are equally attractive (or not) or one party makes up for a lack in one area with a particular ability in another. After all, you fall in love with attributes and qualities, shallow or otherwise, but the ability to last Long-term does require one to put a lot of baggage aside as has been mentioned. It’s why I advocate for wider acceptance of homosexuality - not so that it is legal for men to fuck, they’re going to do it anyway, but so that hopefully future generations of gay men grow up with less emotional baggage and thus can form healthier relationships.

U just need a buddy like me go for a walk or hike or jog then surprise u by grabbing u one corner force kneel down on u n let u sniff n choke till u gagged or till my satisfaction haha I did it few times from few requested brahs some love it unexpected adventure I think it so fun haha

Just thought I'd drop a review of my trip for:- Prime Massage - weekday at about 1.30pm - I managed to get a walk-in 90 minute oil massage. Maybe it was early in the day. Only managed to get one massage this trip as I only needed one! The masseuse was very firm and got all my knots, that I was sore the next day and was in no shape to get tenderised again. Ran out of time on my third day. I tipped 250 THB. The Quarter Silom - I think this will be my go-to hotel in Bangkok now. Book yourself a slightly larger room with balcony. It was clean however the aircond did smell a bit musky - probably from the humidity of Bangkok. Walls are a bit thin, can hear room neighbours having a conversation. It is VERY CRUISY. Everytime I walked into the reception foyer, gym or the breakfast room, I felt like I had walked into a gay sauna and I was the 'fresh meat' with the eyes looking. The breakfast food spread was not bad for a small hotel - but not what some might expect eg. noodle bar or egg station - be realistic for the cost of the hotel. The gym is small and basic-to-OK equipped to maintain major muscle groups, however it is full of young local men that sit at machines and are there for literally hours...you can do the math. I had fun in the steamroom however on 2 days of my stay. Be discreet please as staff do check and there are straight patrons. DJ Station and GOD - Unfortunately I only got to go for one night out of the 3 nights I was here as I went during the Buddhist Lent festival which meant that Saturday and Sunday nights, they were closed. The Friday I went, it was busy - entry to both is 400THB each. DJ required me to show ID which I used a photo of my passport on my phone. I enjoyed DJ more than GOD as I personally got more "eye contact" with guys. GOD was just so busy and dark it was a meat factory, like animals in an abattoir. You can't see much, and you can't meet anyone. Music abruptly ended at 2.51am and the bright lights came on and they closed shop. Maxwell Onsen - close to The Quarter, but a bit of a walk from Sala Daeng station. Entry is 580THB (correction). Crowd is mostly below 40, of Asian descent. Very easy on the eye, but also very competitive as a result. Service is good, except for the front counter ladyboss. Food was karaage chicken or kimchi pork bowl. I had a funny moment when I went, as there were two Caucasian men who were obviously straight and wore their jinbai pants downstairs in the pools and sauna. I asked them what were they doing and advised them that the place is a gay and bisexual venue..they didn't know as they just googled "sauna near me". We all had a good laugh about it, I advised them not to go into the steam room. They left soon after anyway. The action happens in the steamroom and it gets packed. It's a dark steam room, and not illuminated like Zen, so be wary. Other than that, it was mostly just retail therapy at Chatuchak/Platinum Fashion mall and eating street foods. Also, side note, if you're using Grindr - you're not in SG anymore. Don't start with a message/demand of "pic" when you have zero profile photos or one very blur photo and the other person has 3 or 4 clear profile photos. I scolded someone for that, and I knew they were from SG before I even asked and got blocked lol. Grow up and be respectful. I hope this helps to those going in the future.

Hey tmr weather seems good, anyone wanna go suntan together?

In a mood. A lot of pent up energy that's looking for a release.

Will be heading beach tan tmr ( Mon) around 3

If only some gay sauna would do up a full area with good equipments, I sure dun mind paying and going regularly. But for now TMC will do. Talking about TMC, they have a half decent gym, but I really hope they can get rid of the cardio machines which are rarely used and taking up most of the space, and dedicate more area for machines or strength training. Perhaps even convert the entire second floor into a gym, rather than the current sitting/tv/drinking area now. And at least install something to curtain off the gym from prying eyes/cameras.

30 mins ago, at near Expo Hall 2 toilet at the end, was naked doing edging at urinal. Suddenly you come in and saw me,then you ask me and know I'm edging, you help me edge with your strong hand for few time until cant control already and cum all out into the urinal. Finish with im suck ur dick till you cum at urinal and pee and went out. If you here, msg ya.

Those grower wearing polyester, nylon or cotton shorts or jogging pants must be careful as your instant erection will be very obvious to the public naked eyes. I have witnessed one China guy with my own eyes. He was wearing a pair of polyester dark blue jogging pants with another male friend in Clementi on Monday. Initially i was walking behind him admiring his toned ass from the jogging pants as the seam slight snuggly between his ass crack. Then i tried to walk beside him a slight distance away as i would like to see his bulge. I saw his bulge was swaying left and right as he walked and got me horny. Then out of a sudden, he use his right hand to adjust his cock and to my shock, the cock just erected to a 90 degree tentage. He quickly adjust his instant hard cock up and use his T-shirt to cover up. Unfortunately, his T-shirt was abit short and his cock just bounce back to 90deg tentage. He turned to me and saw my eyes was wide and staring at his instant tentage, his face turned red and nodded to me like kinda telling me sorry and quickly cover with his hand.

I was so sad...over life..some one intro me this...

I am sure many people have known someone from somewhere like regulars in a coffee shop greeting one another silently after some time going to the same place. I have bump into one recently when I am a regular at a sporting goods shop, it's always the usual crowd and there is this one guy that I just notice after some time and we started just smiling at one another nodding to greet one another, then a bit of casual chat like what am I here for today, and he's just looking around picking some accessories, and this was like over 8 years ago I was stopping by a coffee shop along south bridge road late one night and notice a jogger running past into a street and he looks very familiar but just let it go and not try and remember who, but about 20 minutes later he run back towards the coffee shop and he was looking at me running past, then double back then told me I look familiar, and I said the same, then our memory came back when I ask about his hobby that we use to bump into one another and didn't actually talked and that we seem to be friend, but are not friend.. He sat down when I offer to buy him a 100+ and we chatted about our hobby and that we both have aged and is no longer as active.. After a short chat, he ask if I would like to continue our chat at his place, which is just across the street as although it's late at night, it's still stuffy and he is sweating from the run and since I have nothing to do, I accepted his invitation, and we both walked to his place, and we started chatting about relationship which I found out he was never married and never in any serious relationship, and I ask why because he is a decent looking guy.. and the place he is living in seems to suggest he is doing well, and he shrug it off telling me.. Hard to explain lah, then ask me about how's married life after 50's. I told him.. getting less exciting, as I am active while my wife is never interested in any outdoor activities and I hinted by saying.. Let's just say, it's not because of age, but it just less exciting and less frequent if you know what I mean, and he laughed and told me he know what I mean, and in between chat he was subtlely physical, like he will squeeze by arm telling me I am still in good shape (My own opinion is the oppersite).. At his place, he brought out some of the sporting goods blings he bought overseas and told me he will go for a quick change.. His place is a studio apartment and his bedroom is those loft style type and he has a small bar counter and took a seat there to wait for him.. he came out shirtless, wearing a clean dry running shorts, it was those short one with curved slit at the side, we chill by the counter and he offered me some liquor which I declined because I am driving and took a sprite from the fridge, and we chatted about "Those things we do back in the days" laughed about silly things we think we want to achieve but never manage to, and during our conversation, his hand is either squeezing my arm of my thigh and then later he just rested his hand on my thigh and sometime stroking when he laugh, and I notice he actually had an eraction and have been shifting himself to hide it, it's not obvious because he will shift and cross his leg but is noticeable when he uncross his leg and he kept them closed. I will be lying if I say I didn't felt turn on seeing him in just his shorts and after knowing his cock is now hard, and it turn me on even more considering there is really nothing much he can do if I don't react and there is also the fear that I could have sense the wrong signal, as things can go very wrong if anyone of us made the wrong move.. He of course won't straight out suggest or ask if I want to fuck him, and me would risk getting a punch in the face if I reach out and touch his eracted cock.. So, what I did is touch him back a little, my hand got closer to his thigh, then did what he did, I stroke it and eventually rested on his thigh, and he clasped his leg in crossed position likely to hide his eraction, then I move my hand closer to his bud cheek and stroking his thigh more sensually and started to lossen his leg uncross them and this time, he seem to want me to notice his erection and we still continued to chat and the physical touches are still subtle and he is binching on drinks, like pour a bit, down it, pour another one, down it in very short interval. I excuse myself to use the bathroom and my mind have conflicting thoughts.. What's going to happen if he straight out grab my crotch?, and what if he don't, thinking I am a pure straight guy? and I finished peeing, then washed my cock (Just in case), and happen to just wet my jeans a little below the knee.. and when I went back to the bar, I just place my hands on his thigh and this time, without any thoughts slip inside and stroke his cock and quickly retract and rested my hand on his thigh then I guess he got the signal and he reached for my waist stroking it, then move up to my chest, then he uses both hands to stroke my body then push my shirt up to remove it, then he suggest I should remove my jeans since it's wet and I can dry it with a hair dryer (obvious excuse), and he help me remove my belt, unzip and remove my jeans leaving my underwear, and he really went to retrive his hair dryer, and I notice his cock has gone soft, no more eraction, and I thought. OK. That's it.. call it a day after drying that small little wet spot.. but while I was drying, sitting there with just my underwear and he pour another drink and there I saw his shorts started forming but this time he didn't hide it and walked away went up to his bedroom and when he came back down, stand behind me and grab me from behind, kissing my neck, ears, rubbing his face on my cheek, then reached down to stroke my cock until I got an eraction, and he shifted to the front and started kissing me and we frenched kiss for good few minutes with him stroking my cock from outside my underwear, and I reach and grabbed his cock giving him slow hand job and and softly pinching the tip of his cock, and he pulled my hand guided me up to his bedroom.. By his bed, he grab me tightly from behind kissing my back, then pushed my underwear down, and I climbed up his bed and position myself on four and he kissed my back, rolled his tongue down my ass line licking my ass then down licking my balls and slip under between my legs to reach for my cock and suck it, and he shifted himself so we are in a 69 position with his head hanging down the edge of the bed, and I climbed down and he let me mouth fuck him in 69 position and in between he was slurping sucking on my balls when I position myself and moving my hips to let me lick my balls and he did that for a few minutes and he pushed my head down and ask me to suck his cock and I complied, and while we're sucking one another, he pulled my hip hard to make me go deeper into his throat and I got worried at first because he was choking and I notice his face is wet with his own saliver, but he assured me he is ok and ask me to pump harder which turn me on a lot which made me suck his cock more sensually, and he came with loads of cum and I know that was really a long orgasm as his cum just kept flowing which I now estimate enough to overfill an espresso cup, then he reached his drawer took out a condom, filled it up with lot's of lubricant, slip it on for me, then ask me to pump the lubs into him, and I climbed up on top of him, his leg spread wide open and I started pumping him and he pulled my face down kissing me taking in any remaining sperm he have left on my face.. We parted ways after thanking one another for the wonderful and exotic experience, and apologized for messing up his bed but he assured me it's worth it, and we did laughed at ourself when we taked about the initial experience, where we both hesitated but ended up having sex, but we both agreed, it wouldn't have been exciting if either one of us have actually straight out initiated it, and I fully agree with him, because I told him, if he have asked if I want to go to his apartment to have sex, I will straight out reject him, and he told me he will do the same..

Time to let go and move on when someone doesn't appreciate you

This is a gay forum. If you not into gay, this is not the place for you. Get out and don't come back!

Even when I put can host...Grindr , Jackd and X all super quiet...... Ok im out of here. >_>

But your post is not adding anything to the topic of this thread and simply ranting against a member. It seems that you prefer to listen to the sound of your own rants.

Anyone staying in sengkang west?

Thanks a bunch!

Swim at Safra Tamp this afternoon?

Frotting is nice. sword fights. And using fleshlight, etc to aid in mutual cumming.

Mine was last year and this year. And yes, it's pure luck! It's not a known cruising spot. Which I feel, makes it even more exciting, going in not knowing if/when you'll get lucky hehe. And when you unexpectedly see someone getting a hard on in the urinal is a thrilling feeling

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NO FAP CHALLENGE ... updated 22 July (According to Google Dictionary: NO FAP = no masturbate) Day... ESD: 48 MP: D79:

To be on one common ground, in a relationship, needs two hands to clap. A working relationship needs common goals. Each individual has to openly and honestly share why the goals are important - not only for him but for the relationship too. Many relationships fail because two individuals are taking each other for granted, right from the ‘honeymoon’ period. These individuals forget that they have their own cultivated habits/goals before coming into the relationship. Do not forget that each of us have our past that made us what we are today. Therefore, there will be unspoken baggage. This baggage, should it not be addressed, can be the knife that cuts deep when disagreement starts to surface. To make things work, moving forward, these two individuals need to understand the past. To understand the past, they have to communicate. While communicating, it is important to accept and not to judge. Acceptance is the only way to make these individuals become closer. @juion, the way I see it, you still want this relationship to work. To me, this is good. I believe you know what you want. And, I also believe not to waste what you have started. All problems have solutions, but it depends on your acceptance. Right now is about finding the right time to reach out to each other. Make sure the two of you have calmed down. The two of you need to forgive each other and rekindle the reason(s) why you guys were in love and wanted this relationship. Of course, the big question here, can the two of you forgive each other? Can you, @juion? The next big question, do the two of you still WANT this relationship to work? To know the want is crucial. It is the catalyst for what will come next. Ideally, should you guys have a common friend – who can be neutral – will be good during the mediation. Else, lay down the rules for the heart to heart conversation. One example, rule 1 is to let one person speak while another listens. One should not listen to talk. Have more rules that are agreeable to the two of you before the commencement to talk about the problems. You may want to discuss about the Grindr thing, for your peace of mind moving forward. But remember, it is not important should you have forgiven him. Do know @juion, a gay relationship can work provided two parties understand each other well. May you have to courage to move forward. Wishing you all the best!

Physically exhausted

Hope this is okay 😳

Was at Clementi MRT toilet pee. 2 guy just came between me. Keep looping. Make me hard sia. Suddenly just grab my cock n stroke. Lucky someone came in. If not i cum liao

In all my years as regular swimmer, I think only a handful is this daring and dare risk the consequences. Most would make sure ‘it’s safe’ before going over board and as far as imho it takes some ‘encouraging signs’ to urge them on. So unless someone make the first bold moves, most time it’s just lurking and eye contacts. So don’t reciprocate and I am usually left alone to enjoy my quiet swim. As most of us are observers, so are these ‘horny’ folks, they know when to leave someone alone. Of course in extreme rare cases we do get 1 or 2 who’s head got controlled by the little one. In this instance it’s my choice to finish up my shower and leave.

NO FAP CHALLENGE ... updated 21 July (According to Google Dictionary: NO FAP = no masturbate) Day... ESD: 47 MP: D79:

Turns out I've been cruising in the wrong toilets at KL sentral... It was super exciting on the way back to take the MRT, I accidentally saw a toilet, went it and check it out and it was the cruisy toilet. OMG, the amount of guys crusing there! So hot!!!

My mind raced with a mix of excitement and nervousness. What if the place was sketchy? What if the photos were misleading? As I finally emerged from the other end of the market, I took a deep breath, relieved to be out in the open again. The familiar sounds of the city gradually returned, pulling me back into the present. Google Maps indicated that I was near, and I could see that the location I was heading to was an apartment building in the distance, its facade blending in with the surrounding buildings. It looked decent enough, but my nerves were still on edge. As I finally reached the apartment building that resembled an office complex, I took a deep breath and glanced around. The building had a sleek glass facade and doors that required card access. I could see the lobby within, modern and well-lit, but I was quite sure I wouldn’t be able to get in on my own. Taking a seat on a nearby bench, I pulled out my phone and messaged through the app, letting them know I was outside and describing my outfit so the masseur could find me easily. The service agent replied almost immediately, acknowledging my message. Even with this prompt response, the seconds felt like hours as I waited for my masseur. Someone walked over, disregarded the "No smoking" sign on the wall and lit up a cigarette. The smell wafted uncomfortably close as I shifted anxiously on the bench, trying to ignore the distraction and focus on the upcoming experience. Despite the delay and the unexpected company, I reminded myself that this was part of the adventure — a story to tell once the nerves settled and the massage began. Would the experience live up to the reviews? I was about to find out.

The schedule for models on the website showed he was available the next evening, and my itinerary was pretty flexible, so I decided to go ahead and book him. This would be my first time using the LINE app business account, which I thought had more features than that of WhatsApp. Booking the appointment was straightforward: a quick chat with the service agent, providing some details, and confirming the time. The business didn’t have a physical storefront, so the massage location was only provided after my appointment was confirmed. The next day flew by with more sightseeing and sampling of local cuisine, soaking in every bit of what Taipei had to offer. But in the back of my mind, I was also anticipating my evening plans. I’d done my homework and pinned the massage location on Google Maps. It was just a few metro stops away from my hotel and a short walk from the station. Forty-five minutes before my appointment, I left my room and made my way over, my heart beating a little faster with each step. After exiting the metro station, as I walked along the main road, I noticed that most of the roads and paths were dimly lit, which added to my apprehension about trying this for the first time. The occasional flickering streetlight didn’t help calm my nerves. "Just my luck," I thought, "I hope I don't end up in some dodgy place." The bustling noises of the city felt oddly distant, and I couldn’t shake the feeling of venturing into the unknown. I cut through a wet market that was already closed for the day, relying on Google Maps to guide me through what appeared to be a shortcut. The market stalls, now empty and silent, cast eerie shadows that seemed to stretch longer as I walked. Once vibrant with activity and the chatter of vendors, the market now lay dormant, its spirit subdued in the twilight. The usual hustle and bustle of the city faded into a muffled background, replaced by the faint rustling of plastic sheets and the distant hum of traffic. It was a stark contrast to the lively streets I had grown accustomed to during the day. I hurried through, the echoing footsteps of my own adding to the surreal atmosphere. "Great, just great," I muttered under my breath.

also I have been Panpuri Onsen cuz I love to have sauna and Jacuzzi I have been there on Monday 2pm but theres a lot of hot guys there more than Yunomori or gay sauna could not do anything in there but really enjoyed eye candies I could feel that they also gays 😝 https://maps.app.goo.gl/f8f7BPxjp83y9XKG7?g_st=com.google.maps.preview.copy

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I used do it everyday. But as age is catching up, considering the low quantity of semen and the shiokness of squirting, I would do it once every 2 - 3 days. But at times, I still do it once daily.

31 chi guy, 174, 77 average build verse top. In the mood for healthy and discrete married guys. Love fucking guys that fucks women, better if they’re submissive and willing to experiment. Im a verse top, who’s into verse guys. Pure top/bottom guys can move along. My dick and ass are too good to be wasted on one sided position. DM for telegram info and take it from there.

Just ended my freeballing walk-cum-exercise at the Park ... clad in my newly bought FBT white shorts. Good weather! Good walk! Satisfied!

The short answer is yes. “Massage is a very effective treatment for pain relief for several issues. Muscular neck and shoulder pain is often treated with massage, with very good effects. Deep tissue massage and long-hold, static stretches can ‘relax’ muscles. This relaxation is the reduction of the tone of the muscles. It is a neurophysiological effect of these treatments. Relaxed muscles are more supple and flexible, allowing for freer movement of our neck and shoulder, which may make movement more comfortable.” credits to https://flawlessphysio.co.uk/massage-for-shoulder-pain/

any mature daddies/uncles looking for a kinky younger guy to explore kinks with, hit me up!!

Hello everyone, thanks @IkuTube for the announcement. Have been a member here for a long time and BW has always been my 'getaway' place from work stress, etc. From reading real/fictitious stories/experiences of members in a blog to the current forum format, we've come a long way. Not forgetting when SgBoy/Trevvy died out, quite some members there flocked over and making it more regional. So, I thought why not volunteer to help out in moderating this forum during my spare time. Being new, I would of course need the guidance of the more experienced moderators. Having said that, I probably would be stepping on some people's toes here to get the job done. I know it is likely going to be a thankless & tireless work moving forward, but let's all work together for a better community we are in yeah. Personally, my believe is such that we should all be able to coexist together, with all our differences. Like one moderator said to me, which I truly agree, that BW existed for our benefits so that we could all connect/mingle/interact with one another, let's not take it for granted that this is our entitlement, and misused it yeah. Everyone's support is definitely appreciated, cheers! P/S: do avoid asking me my member profile, so that I could help without giving anyone prejudice/preferential treatment yeah. Thank you. 🙏

Hey Guys, Just saw this thread come back to life again...hehe Actually, if you're looking to buy some sounds, check out the websites: 1) shopee, 2) Qoo10 and 3) aliexpress. Right now there is the GSS sale, and I've seen some inexpensive sounds on shopee and Qoo10. I've actually bought some sounds. Start off by measuring your peehole... then you will know the diameter of the sound you need to buy. If you want to splurge and buy a whole set then go ahead and do that... but just know that the smaller diameter sounds in the set are going to be wasted, as you'll not bother to use it. The median peehole of an adult is generally 8mm in diameter, so you could start with a 6 or 7mm just to have a initial smooth insertion and painless.... There must be NO PAIN !!! STOP Otherwise!! The general sensation as you slide the sound in and out in short strokes initially will be intense... soon you will get accustomed you to the limits you have. You will generally feel a slight stinging sensation when you pee after sounding... as your urethra has never been manipulated like this!! Over a week or more of alternate day insertion... you may decide to insert the 8mm (or whatever your peehole size is) this is where you will be dilating and feeling the Full contact of the sound ... and you will discover the kink just around the back of the glans... and you may not get past it. Needs patience to slowly stretch that narrow part... this is where the mirror smooth finish of the sound will safely dilate... and not tear the skin if it were rough.. and bleed. You may need a couple of days just slowly stretching... and then with the right pressure, you will get past that kink... and it will be intense and a sharp sensation as you move past the kink and go deeper slowly. This happens with each increase in sound diameter..... 8mm, 9mm, 10mm, 11mm.....!! It is NOT A RACE.... take your time over the months before you go bigger or just stay at the size that feels nice for you... and not what someone tells you. I read of guys using Korean chopsticks... yikes!! stop that!! you'd get an infection... seriously...!!!! Chopsticks are rough to provide enough friction to pick up food and aren't made with a good surface mirror finish that you need on a good quality sound. The mirror polished finish of a sound is part of the spec that makes it a Medical Grade Device, and has to, so as to enable it to be well sterilised before use! You don't want any bad bugs on your sound ... especially if you are thinking of going deep... and as you've seen in those porn videos, the guys wear gloves and know how to keep things sterile, you do not want to end up with an infection that can kill you... and drinking cranberry juice will not help ! Know what you are doing and SAFETY FIRST... you MUST keep things Sterile even swabbing your cok head and peehole before you begin. Sounding is a very personal self play. If you want to do it with someone... be very sure he is serious about this level of hygiene and keeping things sterile. Only Play Safe and enjoy... there isn't any sensation like sounding... It's not for everyone ... especially those with a blinkered mindset... you'd know them by their comments...hehe!! Cheers, Mike 😎