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The Differences Between Lust, Like, Love, & Obsess Aug. 30, 2013 By Christopher Hudspeth It’s easy to confuse what emotion we’re feeling, but sometimes it helps to see them side by side and evaluated. Sometimes we’re none of these, sometimes we’re somewhere in between, other times we’re a combination of them, but here’s your matchup of Lust vs. Like vs. Love vs. Obsess. The Differences Between Lust, Like, Love & Obsess

Happy Near End-Week, folks. Just for the muscles in this vid...enjoy.

I understand your point and where you are coming from but do understand that all those irks you describe happen in all the saunas and not just keybox alone. One shouldn't go to a sauna seeking for etiquette and ambience,places like these are essentially just a potentially disease laden and cheap fuck dens for people on a tight budget. That's why I go to the library nowadays. Lol

for me, i park 12 o'clock, but during times of dormancy, the dick may shift places since it is soft anyway, then in the event of the hardon, it gets uncomfortable because of the position...

am new to here. but would like to suck some sticks (never try b4) or help to jerkoff. anyone?

I got a soft spot for tall guys who put on Eau de Toilette (EDT) Mildly masculine n refreshing XP

"What's Going On" Mother, mother There's too many of you crying Brother, brother, brother There's far too many of you dying You know we've got to find a way To bring some lovin' here today Father, father We don't need to escalate War is not the answer For only love can conquer hate You know you've got to find a way To bring some understanding yeah today Aw, picket lines, picket signs Don't punish me with brutality Talk to me so you can see Oh what's going on, Tell me what's going on Mother, mother Ev'ry body thinks we're wrong Baby who are they to judge us 'Cause our hair is long You know we've got to find a way To bring some understanding here today Good God

Objectively speaking, it is atypical of developed (or supposedly developed) economies' society to be so. And it isn't limited to the LGBT community alone. If you take a good look at the younger strata of the population (aged 15-25), I have a pretty good feeling that you will easily find such apathy that you are referring to in as much as a good half of them, if not a little more. So no, it is NOT JUST the gay community (sure many are more interested in penises and abs and saunas), but the hetero one as well (where just as many are interested in pussy, tits and butts, and other itty bitty parts). Spend some time in the societies of the developed countries, and you will probably find many (of the same age groups) in Japan, US, France, etc, similarly apathetic. So it really isn't just Singapore.

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I give a good blowjob and that makes me feel real good. When I see the expression on his face getting a blowjob from me - now that's priceless. And when he shuts his eyes and moans when he cums in my mouth - that's heavenly!

Haha hello there, I cannot feed your curiosity and describe the workshop in detail because it will spoil the surprise for all the others who are attending but how about a brief review from me. I try.All in all, I think the workshop was excellent. My first time ever to have experienced 4 men in a room exchanging massage seriously will oil, it was fun, it was exciting, it was refreshing. So far I attended twice and will likely go for another round if Mike ask me again. The fees for the follow-up sessions are lesser, you will have to find out about that yourself. Another friend told me he also attended twice so yeah, it is something some of us like to do but you have to experience it yourself and see if you like it. First session though, I was a little nervous but once Mike started talking I calmed down haha. I see everyone felt very natural and comfortable and that was how I felt too. Very pleasant and casual type of activity. As a matter of fact I am thinking why can't we have more of such thing happening, we should encourage more of such healthy activities among this circle. Hope this feedback is helpful.

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I will share based on my own experience for the past 2-3years and something that I learnt recently. I am a endomorph body type. Over the last 2-3years, I have learnt that it is important to know your body type and then apply what works for it. Such as HIIT as what many suggest and proposed that it is good for losing weights. It does. But somehow it does not work well for me or maybe not what I wanted. When I was doing crossfit for met-con and lots of HIIT, I lose a fair bit of weight... I was 81kg...but I noticed something. I was getting smaller in built. After monitoring sometime on my body analysis I realized I was losing fats and muscles but more on muscles. From an initial lean muscle 39kg I was down to 33kg and body fats from 23kg to 22kg only. I did some research and realized both met-con and HIIT training will get your heart rate into anabolic zone (80-90% of your max heart rate) but at that zone, you body will burn your muscle as fuel instead of fats. So I read up more and realized as endomorph, to lose fats we should concentrate more cardio on aerobic heart rate (50-70% of your max heart rate) and diet is very important. So I tried with this principle incorporate HIIT in my cardio workout (always keeping my heart rate @ aerobic heart rate zone and keeping my calories count, I lost 2kg of fats in over 1.5weeks while maintaining my lean muscle mass. 2-3yrs ago I was 105kg with a waistline of 39. Now 87kg with a waistline of 33 (and if I want to I can squeeze into a 32inch jeans or pants) with a body fats % of 21%. The 87kg is made up of 39.9kg of lean muscle mass, 18.5kg of fats and remaining are water, minerals and etc. If to aim for healthy bf% of 15%, I just need to lose another 6.5kg of fats. So even losing that 6.5kg of fats, I will still be about 80kg. Seems heavy for someone with 173cm. But I know I would be in my best shape ever as a 43yo guy with a possible 32inch waistline. As what my PT says, I am like a body builder, who needs to go into cutting phase to see all the muscles that I already have. So don't just look at how heavy you weigh. It does not says everything about what you are made of. Find out more and find the right action plans for your body. What works for others may not necessarily works for you. So read up more, research more and best of all try them out. It is a lot of trial and error but if u are serious enough to be in the best shape or be fit or to lose weight (fats to be exact), you will find THE way that works for you and your body. Hope my little sharing helps and inspired some of you.

Anyone have more stories to share??

Went MM again yesterday. (My second time! I have to admit this is getting addictive ) Stann, were you there on Sunday? I think I saw you. haha If you have seen my previous posts; No, I didn't get to bump into Alvin Alright, time for field report! Is there crowd during CNY? Yea, there's still quite some crowd, but there weren't as many eye-catching ones as I saw last time. Guess most of them either balik kampung already or were busy attending gatherings. You know how handsome guys tend to be invited to more gatherings than we do lol. Oh yea, compared to last time, there were slightly more indians. But well, majority is still chinese. And my experience? My patience paid off Waited for quite a long while till I met this sweet handsome guy working out at the gym. Tall and hot. ps. we are still dating now. That's all folks! xD

Can you pm his contact number, please.

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It happened many years ago in the sauna room of a 5-star hotel in Hong Kong........... The hotel guests are mainly business travellers and the sauna is usually quiet on Saturday and Sunday afternoons with only local members of the hotel gym using it. I was naked in the sauna enjoying the privacy all to myself. Then this young dude in his mid twenties walked in starked naked and sat directly opposite me. As I was supposedly str8 at that time, I did not give him too much attention besides acknowledging his good looks and impressive physique. However I noticed him staring at my tool and his dick grew bigger and harder and eventually pointed 180 degree up. I must admit that I got excited (as it was my first time seeing a real man's hardon because I only saw those in the str8 pxxns). Out of embarassement, I covered my tool with the towel but the towel was moving up and down uncontrollably. He then started stroking his own dick and moaned softly. I could not take my eyes off his dick and began to feel confused. He then asked if he could sit next to me and I gave him a smile and a nod (with my heart pumpimg as fast as his, I presumed). When he was next to me, he started putting his hand below my towel and felt me already rod-hard dick, I did not resist as it was both exciting and scarry (doing it in a public sauna with someone of the same sex for the first time). He then removed my towel and bent down to suck it. It was the best suck I ever experienced. As he was sucking mine, he pulled my hand to touch his hard dick. I cummed in his mouth while he ejaculated in my hand . Then we went to take our showers and he asked if he could come to my room. I brought him up to my room and he started kissing me passionately and ripped my pants off the minute I closed the room door. It was such a passionate and wild one and we both cummed a second time without even reaching the bed. We exchanged phone numbers and it was always the highlight of my HK business trip till his bf returned from his studies in the USA. It was after this that I turned bi......................and never regretted a single day

First of all, ask yourself if you have tried making friends and hooking up with people you consider "not-so-good-looking" or "not good-looking enough" and have you only been trying to hook up with men whom you consider sufficiently "up to standard"? Sorry but I find it hard to believe that in this day and age, you haven't dated anyone because "they think you are not good-looking enough" for them. In my experience, the opposite is usually the actual case. But most people find it hard to admit to themselves that they are searching for an "ideal man" and simply turning down everyone else who doesn't fit that particular set of standards in many ways. It's much easier to complain that "Nobody wants me" and lay the blame on everyone else. So, don't even think of blaming Singapore or Singaporeans. Secondly, ask yourself if you have actually made the effort to make a date with someone and then actually turned up and tried to be nice to him. I know too many people who make a date, turn up but hide somewhere to check out the other guy, decide he is not good enough just by looking at him, go home without even the courtesy of saying "Hi", laugh at him for being "like that also brave enough to dating wan" - and then moan about other people not wanting to be their boyfriend or something like that. And then, there are those who make excuses like "I am discrete because of my parents/job/friends etc. etc" and expect others to take them at their word that "I am average looks, average build" and form an instant relationship with a faceless person who probably doesn't even tell the truth about many of the other things in his life. Are you one of these? Let me tell you a personal story. I used to complain about people not liking me or wanting to have a relationship with me, too. Until one day, I took a good, long, hard look at myself and discovered that I wouldn't have wanted a date - let alone a relationship - with the person I was. It really was a painful pill to swallow but it made me decide that - 1. I would never ever turn down the chance to meet anyone just because of the way he looked. I might stil say "No" straight away if I think the other person hasn't taken the trouble to read my profile and know a bit more about me, or if he starts calling me "dear" and "darling" with the second email or chat message - but that's because I find the first behaviour insultingly shallow and the second extremely creepy. 2. I had to make myself the kind of person I really would like to date and have a relationship with first, before I started looking for one. Of course, i have to confess that having filled my life with lots of good friends, good company and interesting things to do, I really don't want to spend any time working on a relationship because that would put a limit to all the other things I can do to make my life and myself that much more interesting. But that's beside the point I guess. Sorry for the hard words but sometimes, all we need is a wake-up call to change our lives for the better.

just treat it as a fiction, what to argue about? about human right or moral? relax

:thumb: :clap: :clap: I LOVE THIS! :clap: :clap: :clap: ESPECIALLY the last bit! Finally, someone recognizes sluts' kindly contributions towards maintaining peace, harmony and satisfaction.

I live in a condo in the east. Yesterday, after a swim, I went to the changing room/shower. The sauna is also in there, and the lights were on (it usually is not in use). So I walked in, and there was a mature China man (50?) standing in the nude. I was surprised, said hi, and also took off my towel. We sat opposite one another in the small sauna, with cocks/balls in full view. He was about 3inches uncut, with low-hanging balls and lots of straight pubes. I was thinking "OK, if he makes the first move - like a 'come-here' smile - I would be brave and move closer to him and see what happens". But too bad, we just sat there with out legs wide open and nothing happened. He went out for a quick shower and came back in, but he never said a word. Then he went out for good. I followed shortly to see him showering with the cubicle door open. And while I was showering (with the door open of course), he sat on the wooden bench naked while drying himself, all in full view of me. It may be nothing at all but it was such a torn-on to know two naked men were so comfortable with nudity. After he left, I actually JO in the shower. Anyone has similar experience in your condo sauna?